So a guy here recently published a piece claiming no sex before marriage is a scam..

At first, I was thinking he's just one of those loose guys who only justify sexual immorality because they can't be human enough to gain mastery over their bodies, and who can't control themselves and are slaves to their urges.. But I was shocked that this guy was attempting to justify an unholy act like premarital sex, with the Holy Scriptures..

I was like, JESUS, this guy must be stopped!

First of all, if you check the guy's profile, you will discover he is selling sex tools and products. Therefore, he is only trying to pervert people's mind so they could comfortably patronise him. He is aware that the Holy Words of God is a threat to the sales of his immoral sex tools, hence, he is trying to twist the scriptures for his own dirty motives.. If only he knew the danger of what he just did! Don't forget that the devil too is a master at twisting the Bible!

Nevertheless, please discard his claims.. The Word of God stands sure.. Premarital sex is a sin, because it is contrary to God's Will. God's Will is that all sexual experiences should be shared between a married man and his female wife only, in the safe circle of their marriage.

The Bible says in Hebrews 13:4: "Marriage is honorable among all, and (let) the marriage bed (be) undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge"

It means, those that indulged in premarital sex will not only hurt themselves (STDs, unwanted pregnancies, etc), but will attract punishments to themselves (and even the devil will have a chance to afflict them).

God Himself said: "...the sexually immoral...shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death" Revelation 21:8

The guy even claimed that during the time of Mary and Joseph, virginity wasn't highly regarded. That's a lie from the pit of hell! Their society was a very conservative one, and women caught indulging in sexual immorality are usually stoned to death!

The guy also claimed that you can sleep around because "God only sees a clean and a pure heart". Can you imagine! If you wear a clean white dress, won't you avoid anything that can get it stained?

In conclusion, although the world is currently vehemently corrupt (as we are in the last days), I want you to know that there are still many of us (Sons and Daughters of YAHWEH) still obeying Him and living lives of total purity. And guess what? We are happy and blessed. We are enjoying our marriages, and raising godly and responsible children.

"For this is the will of God, your sanctification; that is, that you abstain from sexual immorality;" 1 Thessalonians 4:3

For those asking "What if I discovered after our wedding that my partner do not have a functional sexual organ?"

Number one, if you are a genuine child of God, and He is the one that asked you to marry a particular person, you can be sure He won't give you a spouse you won't enjoy.

Two, If you are not sure that God is the one that asked you to marry that partner of yours, simply demand a medical check up/test. Before the wedding, in many churches, both parties must submit a medical report of things like their blood group, etc. With such, it will be easy for both parties to know the other person's body state if they are so concerned about it...

So, you see, sin can't be justified!

1 Thessalonians 4:7

For God has not called us for the purpose of impurity, but in sanctification.

Thank you op, they select the law they prefer, and ignore the ones that condemn there favorite sin, God will judge all sins.

I saw that stùpid thread too.
He said something about other people around when Mary and Joseph were having Jesus being loose. It was just pure speculation mixed with the names of notable biblical characters to confuse people on Sunday morning it is a christian thread.

Bro the last paragraph wasn't necessary because you are not and cannot leave a life of total purity.
No one is above sexual sins whether physically or otherwise.


Lust is a sin........ don't think it's a sin only when you practice your visuals.

You feel me?

isoright....

meanwhile check MA sig..
and grabbed the opportunity before it's too late...
withdrawal is next month

Una never still settle this matter

I knew it. I knew ladies will come up with there counter thread

This is true, but we are hypocrite!
How many men will genuinely date a lady without asking for sex?
Men feels entitled to a woman's body, especially if you happen to be their girlfriend. It wont be hard hearing words like "you're punishing me" "you dont love me" how am I punishing you oga?
Worse off for a lady that has been involved with a guy before, men feel ladies like this do not have a right over their bodies anymore. It doesnt matter to them whether she wants to really get it right this time.

People talk about sexual compatibility, "what if we are not compatible", how many ladies or men will you sleep with before you find the sexually compatible one? What if he is sexually compatible but stingy? Emotionally manipulative, a beater and so on. Will you settle for someone like that has long as "sexually compatible"
Will you even be in your right mind to have sex with a sexually compatible patner that treats you like trash.

Sometimes we need to do a self evaluation, think about all the guys and ladies you have had sex with. Especially men, think about the ladies you intentionally lured to bed in the name of marriage, girls you broke their heart by getting them to be yours through sex; what has it profited you? Okay maybe a little boost of self esteem, but at the detriment of someone's emotional wellbeing. You can do better guys.

I am of the opinion that men and women that are genuinely looking out for partners to get married to do not put sex first, because they are aware that sex doesnt keep a marriage. It takes more than that. With all the premarital sex and sexual compatibility going on, see the rate of divorce all over the world.

Lastly, peoples view about marriage are different, there are men and women that do no want to get married, should they deny themselves sex because of this?
Abstinence is for our own good as long as both patner comes out clean, no lies.

This 3-letter word has gotten to the brain of all; old and youth regardless of gender or social status.

Interesting15:
For those asking "What if I discovered after our wedding that my partner do not have a functional sexual organ?"

Number one, if you are a genuine child of God, and He is the one that asked you to marry a particular person, you can be sure He won't give you a spouse you won't enjoy.

Two, If you are not sure that God is the one that asked you to marry that partner of yours, simply demand a medical check up/test. Before the wedding, in many churches, both parties must submit a medical report of things like their blood group, etc. With such, it will be easy for both parties to know the other person's body state if they are so concerned about it...

So, you see, sin can't be justified!

lol

OK...issues with sex before marriage

1.If you and your other half were doing it with others, and the person you married can't do it like your ex....there is going to be issues with your marriage.

2.A relationship is more than just having sex...it is about firendship and knowing each other well.

3.If you are having issues with sex after marriage...there are a lot of materials online....a lot of books, a lot of stuff...seriously, the internet has a lot of information on everything.

4.Let's not even talk about the risk of sexual infections that comes with promiscious behaviour. Infections, infections, infections....

5.If you were playing around before marriage, chances are you will play around after marriage well well. Old habits die hard.

The op is right! I was ashamed to see many Christians supporting the previous post and encouraging pre-marital sex. Many of these guys claiming there must be sex before marriage are those that will use and dump ladies. They will come here and say ladies are boreholes! So, who will marry those you have sex and dump? Hypocrites! Choose your partner rightly and enjoy everything you want without demoralizing your virtues.

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Its a scam!

Logically, Its insane to marry someone you have not fvcked before.

How do you buy a multi-million car without test driving it.

We talking about what you intend spending the rest of your life with and you telling me not to test run it? Fvck!

Even Suya, You taste before buying.

This is a baseless notion. Its fiction and law is only for fools!

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Good

Following

Let the Virgins marry the Virgins. Simple as ABC.

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Okay

premarital sex is wrong but proving it with Bible is the issue, Solomon the wise 700 wives and 300 concubine,Jesus never had sex

If your right eye causes you to stumble, gouge it out and throw it away. And if your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away...Mathew5:29-30..if its ur private part, u also cut it??!!
and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery..vs 32

how come??

When I read what the guy wrote yesterday night i know d guy No well

my future wife na go dey suck one guy dick on a daily basis for one side and later she go come end up with a good guy like me use the same mouth kiss me on my wedding chai

Lemme..

Lol, This just makes me laugh.

Op claims that pregnancy and STD are consequences people can acquired through premarital sex . Lmao

So married people don't acquire STD's or Pregnancy abi cause they are holy and filled with the spirit.

At times you read some stuff on nairaland and you just laugh cause it makes ones day.

Everything na scam. Sex, both before and after marriage is a scam. There is no return on investment.

But since most people think marriage is all about sex. Please continue. Time will tell. Hmmm hmmm