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Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by Nobody: 5:53pm On May 31, 2020 |
Fisher007: Lol... If a fat person is not losing weight , despite exercising, and ostensibly following a diet...and health challenges like thyroid issues have been ruled out...then there is a possibility the fat person is cheating on his diet. The fact that a holy holy copule have ended up with STI means that either one or both of them are not being faithful to their vows. It does not mean that all of a sudden , sleeping around is ok...because someone has been hypocritical. Stop looking to hypocrites to set your examples. Plus, there are copules who don't struggle with STI because they don't sleep around. 2 Likes |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by MajorOvakporaye(f): 5:59pm On May 31, 2020 |
no sex before marriage is a scam Argue with your private part!!! |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by Chatflick(m): 6:02pm On May 31, 2020 |
rockstarB:I'm one of the few men |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by SpicyMimi(f): 6:06pm On May 31, 2020 |
I concur....... I'm happy God saw me through with this, feels good to be married now By the way, we sell cars based on your budget. Tell us your budget and get the car you so desire |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by Amhappy(f): 6:06pm On May 31, 2020 |
Thank you. The truth sets you free. No sex before marriage is tough. However it remains a commandment not a recommendation from our Creator. It's not meant to be easy that's why it is a law in the first place. Do not be deceived. Strive for sexual purity. Do not let anyone guilty trip or blind fold you away from God's word. 1 Like |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by efficiencie(m): 6:12pm On May 31, 2020 |
Indeed the law of the LORD stipulates that intercourse must only happen among married couples. The question that needs to be answered is; what is marriage? When GOD brought Eve to Adam, Moses, who saw this revelation, stated the golden dictum that underlies marriage: therefore shall a man leave his mother and father and shall cleave unto his wife and they shall be one flesh Genesis 2:24. The word to watch out for is cleave. The word has been used in the same context in such verses as: Deuteronomy 10:20, 11:22 and 13:4 and in essence it means to be to cling to, to be joined to and we know that in the case of an intimate relationship between a man and a woman this is reflected in sexual intercourse. Many believe marriage starts at the point where they are joined by a priest or when a man pays his bride's dowry but this isn't true. These traditions did not happen between Adam and Eve yet their union was the first marriage to have happened. Their marriage was attested to by Adams statement: "this is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called woman, because she was taken out of man" Genesis2:23. Adam recognized the oneness he had with Eve by virtue of been taken out of Adam but in the case of all other men this oneness is reflected in the bond that exists between a man and a woman that brings both of them into a perfect synchronization. Hence marriage commences when there is a mutual bonding or cleaving of souls between a man and woman in alignment with GOD's will and this bonding or cleaving reflects in the man making a proposal for a lifelong relationship and the woman accepts. At this point, a covenant is reached between the man and the woman. All the other traditions of the payment of a bride price, the blessings of parents, the witness of friends and family and the wedding ceremony and secondary activities built upon the covenant that started the union between the man and the woman. Given this definition we can conclude that there are many who are wedded but not married and are married but not wedded. There are couples living together as husband and wife but they are just deceiving the world as they are just room mates living together in a single apartment. Also there are couples who have pledged their undying love and loyalty to themselves but are limited by the high cost of weddings! We must realize that what many refer to as "sex before marriage" is actually "sex before wedding" and sex before wedding is wrong only when it occurs as a means of pleasure and not as a reflection of a bond between two people committed to each other for all times. The Bible itself makes provision for such an act. If a man happens upon a maiden that is not betrothed to any man and sleeps with her and this act is revealed, the man in question is required to pay 50 shekels of silver (the bride price obviously) and is made to be a husband to that lady for all times Exodus22:16; Deuteronomy22:28-29. Given this verdict, men are made to realize that the cost of desiring a woman not betrothed to anyone else woman is the life long commitment of marriage. The rule hence is quite simple. If a man who has a mutual bond with a woman has intercourse with the same woman she is to be his wife and vice versa. 1 Like |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by oyinlekan1: 6:21pm On May 31, 2020 |
May God bless you This is true, but we are hypocrite! How many men will genuinely date a lady without asking for sex? Men feels entitled to a woman's body, especially if you happen to be their girlfriend. It wont be hard hearing words like "you're punishing me" "you dont love me" how am I punishing you oga? Worse off for a lady that has been involved with a guy before, men feel ladies like this do not have a right over their bodies anymore. It doesnt matter to them whether she wants to really get it right this time. People talk about sexual compatibility, "what if we are not compatible", how many ladies or men will you sleep with before you find the sexually compatible one? What if he is sexually compatible but stingy? Emotionally manipulative, a beater and so on. Will you settle for someone like that has long as "sexually compatible" Will you even be in your right mind to have sex with a sexually compatible patner that treats you like trash. Sometimes we need to do a self evaluation, think about all the guys and ladies you have had sex with. Especially men, think about the ladies you intentionally lured to bed in the name of marriage, girls you broke their heart by getting them to be yours through sex; what has it profited you? Okay maybe a little boost of self esteem, but at the detriment of someone's emotional wellbeing. You can do better guys. I am of the opinion that men and women that are genuinely looking out for partners to get married to do not put sex first, because they are aware that sex doesnt keep a marriage. It takes more than that. With all the premarital sex and sexual compatibility going on, see the rate of divorce all over the world. Lastly, peoples view about marriage are different, there are men and women that do no want to get married, should they deny themselves sex because of this? Abstinence is for our own good as long as both patner comes out clean, no lies.[/quote] |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by oyinlekan1: 6:27pm On May 31, 2020 |
Well done OP May God bless you. Kudos to rockstarB you are wonderful |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by DIVINEEVIDENCE: 6:27pm On May 31, 2020 |
efficiencie: In Genesis 2:24, the word to watch out for is 'wife', not 'cleave'. For the fact that a man cleaves to 'his wife' and not another, it then goes to show that before cleaving can occur, requisite cultural or traditional requirements must have been fulfilled and the couple are now husband and wife, legally. Cleaving is permitted only in marriage. Outside it, it's an error. Spiritually and culturally. |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by MrNipplesLover(m): 6:30pm On May 31, 2020 |
funny people. the Holy Books' messages are old and were meant for the old times, old humans and old world. the mistake we are making is that we are trying to force the old messages into our current lives, that's why things are not in the same line and are contradictory. that's why you see some people of faith and people of others never agree on one fact, cos there are obvious lapses, contradictions and irrelevances. if the books were to be rewritten for the sake of the present times we are today, there would be a lot of editing and modification. cos things are not as they were in the old times. the above is for those who are making references to the book verses. pls, no take this personal. it still stands that no sex before marriage is not adviceable and probably, a scam. na olosho go dey support that notion cos she knows that the coochie has already lost its taste na micropenis man go support the notion cos he's afraid of his pencil, make the woman no run leave am. preach all you want, people won't risk it with no sex before marriage. we are seeing things. we don see plenty. marriages are breaking because of this. no time. 1 Like |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by MrNipplesLover(m): 6:37pm On May 31, 2020 |
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Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by Jamesbiodun(m): 6:40pm On May 31, 2020 |
everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion, no sex before marriage is scam, sex before marriage material scam too, all of you quoting bible scriptures like you practice what you preach. did bible tell you to always fight who does not take your own opinion? radarada elo ọ̀ka |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by yYot: 6:47pm On May 31, 2020 |
psyco: It obvious you don't have home training. Why would you insult someone's parents because of opinion that is not originally yours! Sex is very sweet when you are young. As you become older, you find some other interests! If you miss the sex in your youth you can never get it back! Stop listening to dead men's opinion (religion) |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by UgoFly: 6:52pm On May 31, 2020 |
Troydeenney: I like this. How does it work? how much! |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by heniford2: 6:53pm On May 31, 2020 |
Interesting15:stop slipping trash here okey God told you to marry a none functional person or a low libido person to me sex its necessary before marriage to avoid had i know full stop |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by psyco: 6:55pm On May 31, 2020 |
yYot:You know something is disgraceful yet you encourage it. What the fvxk is wrong with you? |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by Nobody: 6:56pm On May 31, 2020 |
kenzysmith: Take my advice bro. Remain single |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by efficiencie(m): 6:58pm On May 31, 2020 |
DIVINEEVIDENCE: What is marriage then? Can you define marriage clearly? |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by Nobody: 7:10pm On May 31, 2020 |
Interesting15: Thank you |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by Nobody: 7:14pm On May 31, 2020 |
Interesting15: Thanks so much op for this counter post to the earlier devilish one posted. Today I thank God that the only woman I ever have sex with is my wife. I married my wife as a virgin. I got married at 29 and my wife at 26. Both of us learnt sex together as novices and till today I cherish that moments. Even as a single and a genuine Christian, I never imagined having sex with a lady not married to me. I told myself I won't waste my holy seeds on harlots because I consider any Lady not married to me but wants sex from me a fool and a prostitute. I thank God everyday for my wife who I married as a virgin. I trust her and I salute her purity and dignity. Sex before marriage is foolishness. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by RTSC: 7:44pm On May 31, 2020 |
These days when most boyfriends and girlfriends are having more sex among themselves than even married couples. You would see a young girl that have been sexed to madness by her young boyfriend , either aborting like a goat or altering her hormones due to the number of pregnancy prevention pills she has swallowed. 1 Like |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by RTSC: 7:53pm On May 31, 2020 |
Was it not on twitter we saw a Benin lady bitterly threatening to murder one Yoruba ex boyfriend of hers for making her to abort 24 times and then throwing her away.? The guy's family rejected her even after all the sexual compatiblity. if you had told that unfortunate lady to close her legs before the very first sex with that her yeye boyfriend, she would claim you don't anything. 2 Likes |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by murphyibiam15(m): 7:53pm On May 31, 2020 |
rockstarB:You wrote well even though you seem to fault the men for been responsible.. everyone should take responsibility for their actions..even your gender who're mainly prostitutes won't be patronised if they refuse to sell their body 2 Likes |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by vivilafrosh(f): 8:01pm On May 31, 2020 |
You are just taking the religious angle out of these. Its a scam. Its better to make a mistake before marriage being single than to observe your mistake being married. |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by Oromwos: 8:03pm On May 31, 2020 |
Na big scam ohh! |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by RTSC: 8:05pm On May 31, 2020 |
vivilafrosh:Do you know this your point of view puts women at a disadvantage? A man can never be satisfied. There will always be something better out there and he would keep tasting. 1 Like |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by Etuagievin(m): 8:08pm On May 31, 2020 |
Thanks for visiting this topic. |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by simeotexy: 8:10pm On May 31, 2020 |
Antibettings:bro..the pain was too much..I swore Neva to bliv dat shit again...I can't do relationship without sex |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by Sososo(f): 8:17pm On May 31, 2020 |
I hear you sir |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by Antibettings: 8:37pm On May 31, 2020 |
simeotexy:Same here bro. Imagine, I believed that shit to the extend I almost bought a car for the lady.. |
Re: Please, No Sex Before Marriage Is NEVER A Scam by Fijobaba(m): 8:41pm On May 31, 2020 |
OP you have spoken well. More oil on your head |
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