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Interesting15:
So a guy here recently published a piece claiming no sex before marriage is a scam..

At first, I was thinking he's just one of those loose guys who only justify sexual immorality because they can't be human enough to gain mastery over their bodies, and who can't control themselves and are slaves to their urges.. But I was shocked that this guy was attempting to justify an unholy act like premarital sex, with the Holy Scriptures..

I was like, JESUS, this guy must be stopped!

First of all, if you check the guy's profile, you will discover he is selling sex tools and products. Therefore, he is only trying to pervert people's mind so they could comfortably patronise him. He is aware that the Holy Words of God is a threat to the sales of his immoral sex tools, hence, he is trying to twist the scriptures for his own dirty motives.. If only he knew the danger of what he just did! Don't forget that the devil too is a master at twisting the Bible!

Nevertheless, please discard his claims.. The Word of God stands sure.. Premarital sex is a sin, because it is contrary to God's Will. God's Will is that all sexual experiences should be shared between a married man and his female wife only, in the safe circle of their marriage.

The Bible says in Hebrews 13:4: "Marriage is honorable among all, and (let) the marriage bed (be) undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge"

It means, those that indulged in premarital sex will not only hurt themselves (STDs, unwanted pregnancies, etc), but will attract punishments to themselves (and even the devil will have a chance to afflict them).

God Himself said: "...the sexually immoral...shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death" Revelation 21:8

The guy even claimed that during the time of Mary and Joseph, virginity wasn't highly regarded. That's a lie from the pit of hell! Their society was a very conservative one, and women caught indulging in sexual immorality are usually stoned to death!

The guy also claimed that you can sleep around because "God only sees a clean and a pure heart". Can you imagine! If you wear a clean white dress, won't you avoid anything that can get it stained?

In conclusion, although the world is currently vehemently corrupt (as we are in the last days), I want you to know that there are still many of us (Sons and Daughters of YAHWEH) still obeying Him and living lives of total purity. And guess what? We are happy and blessed. We are enjoying our marriages, and raising godly and responsible children.

I said it here that the guy write up is senseless and encouraging fornication, very good that you created a topic to counter such a demonic fellow

kikero:
If we followed your logic to its logical conclusion, some guys and gurls would end up with over ten spouses of both sex.

Plus, let's be frank, the person you have sex with today, may not be the person you will marry tomorrow...even if you are 'sure'.

Finally, if you can't control yourself before marriage, you won't be able to control yourself after. Temptation dey after marriage well well. Being a virgin is a way of teaching onself self control when married.

Its not logical and feasible.

Marry someone have not fvcked? Who does that?

We talking about a life decision here and you canvassing it should not be test runned.

What if I find a fault after marriage? I divorce and repeat same mistake.

Its not done.

kikero:
If we followed your logic to its logical conclusion, some guys and gurls would end up with over ten spouses of both sex.

Plus, let's be frank, the person you have sex with today, may not be the person you will marry tomorrow...even if you are 'sure'.

Finally, if you can't control yourself before marriage, you won't be able to control yourself after. Temptation dey after marriage well well. Being a virgin is a way of teaching onself self control when married.

Thanks, I never saw it this way.

Here in northern Nigeria its not a scam

Good, we knew the guy was on a loose to carry along people called anywhere belle face, quick to follow a trend because majority followed it and it is satisfying to their selfish desires. It is never a scam and can never be, but who are we to criticize the other, we just have to say the truth, it is left for people to do what they like. Life no be force.

Have you heard the term "sexual compatibility"?

It'll be hard for me to date/court someone I've not had sex with...not to talk of marriage.

Do you know that sexual incompatiblity is a leading cause of infidelity in marriage??

Imagine getting married to someone and finding out they can only have sex three times a week because of a medical condition or that you can't fulfill your sexual fantasies with them..

Pathetic

Marriage is more than sex and virginity las las

Interesting15:
So a guy here recently published a piece claiming no sex before marriage is a scam..

At first, I was thinking he's just one of those loose guys who only justify sexual immorality because they can't be human enough to gain mastery over their bodies, and who can't control themselves and are slaves to their urges.. But I was shocked that this guy was attempting to justify an unholy act like premarital sex, with the Holy Scriptures..

I was like, JESUS, this guy must be stopped!

First of all, if you check the guy's profile, you will discover he is selling sex tools and products. Therefore, he is only trying to pervert people's mind so they could comfortably patronise him. He is aware that the Holy Words of God is a threat to the sales of his immoral sex tools, hence, he is trying to twist the scriptures for his own dirty motives.. If only he knew the danger of what he just did! Don't forget that the devil too is a master at twisting the Bible!

Nevertheless, please discard his claims.. The Word of God stands sure.. Premarital sex is a sin, because it is contrary to God's Will. God's Will is that all sexual experiences should be shared between a married man and his female wife only, in the safe circle of their marriage.

The Bible says in Hebrews 13:4: "Marriage is honorable among all, and (let) the marriage bed (be) undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge"

It means, those that indulged in premarital sex will not only hurt themselves (STDs, unwanted pregnancies, etc), but will attract punishments to themselves (and even the devil will have a chance to afflict them).

God Himself said: "...the sexually immoral...shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death" Revelation 21:8

The guy even claimed that during the time of Mary and Joseph, virginity wasn't highly regarded. That's a lie from the pit of hell! Their society was a very conservative one, and women caught indulging in sexual immorality are usually stoned to death!

The guy also claimed that you can sleep around because "God only sees a clean and a pure heart". Can you imagine! If you wear a clean white dress, won't you avoid anything that can get it stained?

In conclusion, although the world is currently vehemently corrupt (as we are in the last days), I want you to know that there are still many of us (Sons and Daughters of YAHWEH) still obeying Him and living lives of total purity. And guess what? We are happy and blessed. We are enjoying our marriages, and raising godly and responsible children.

God bless your for this awesome intervention.

AllenSpencer:
Its not logical and feasible.

Marry someone have not fvcked? Who does that?

We talking about a life decision here and you canvassing it should not be test runned.

What if I find a fault after marriage? I divorce and repeat same mistake.

Its not done.

Is disobeying God reasonable?

You minding the Pucci entitled males of these days?

To them if you not a Virgin, you no longer have the right to say "No". No wonder many of them run into trouble when they travel out. Savages

I wonder why you haven't checked out this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/5894363/7ickey-bamidele

The truth is, people preaching "NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE " are not even doing what they are preaching.
So who's deceiving who

elpochas:
I think we should learn to respect each other opinoins.we should also know that we have different religions and cultures in this world,which some are in support and some are against sex before marraige.so if sex before marraige is good or bad for you its all boil down to your opinion and the way you see it from your own angle.

My opinion of you is that YOU ARE VERY STUPID! Respect that.

AllenSpencer:
Its not logical and feasible.

Marry someone have not fvcked? Who does that?

We talking about a life decision here and you canvassing it should not be test runned.

What if I find a fault after marriage? I divorce and repeat same mistake.

Its not done.

If you marry for sex, you will have issues in your marriage.

Marriage is not meant for you to be happy, it is the ultimate self sacrifice. You don't want to do it, don't do it.

Because the sex you enjoyed when you are young is going to depreiciate as you grow old. What then? Would you throw away old wife and kids for young woman and fun?

Welcome to life. Everything is not enjoyment.

This one must be mad

ItzEminence:
The truth is, people preaching "NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE " are not even doing what they are preaching.
So who's deceiving who

Is that what your parents did?

Mbenny:
it is a pity knowing that you preferred the laws of the world to God's laws

Who told you. What a fellow man like you scripted and you believed.

Somethings are just logical. You dont need to be told if its right or wrong.

This is not a fictional tale like a man walking on water or waking up after 3 days. This is reality staring at you.

Even the Supreme God cant be that mean to make such laws. Make a lifetime decision without testing the waters.

Just add that she is not even allowed to cook. So you taste the food and pvssy on wedding night

TIMELY INTERVENTION

12 There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.
Proverbs 14¹² KJV


23 All things are lawful for me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but all things edify not.
1 Corinthians 10:23-29 (KJV)


14 That we henceforth be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive;

15 But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ:
Ephesians 4:14-15 (KJV)


7 Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.

8 For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.
Galatians 6:7-8 (KJV)


IF YOU CAN'T REMAIN CHASTE, MARRY (NOT FORNICATE)
8 I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, it is good for them if they abide even as I.

9 But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.
1 Corinthians 7:8-9 KJV


BECAUSE THERE IS TIME FOR EVERYTHING
3 To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven.
Ecclesiastes 3¹ (KJV)


If you're a saved soul, the Holy Spirit will lead you into the truth, so that you won't be tossed here and there by every doctrine that could destroy you.

kikero:
If we followed your logic to its logical conclusion, some guys and gurls would end up with over ten spouses of both sex.

Plus, let's be frank, the person you have sex with today, may not be the person you will marry tomorrow...even if you are 'sure'.

Finally, if you can't control yourself before marriage, you won't be able to control yourself after. Temptation dey after marriage well well. Being a virgin is a way of teaching onself self control when married.

They're virgins that still cheat on their spouses after marriage.
Imagine waiting your whole life to have sex with your spouse only to end up with a guy that ejaculates prematurely..or maybe the guy has a small sexual organ
Imagine waiting your whole life to have sex only to end up with a woman with a low sex drive..

You'd be forced to cheat...sexual incompatiblity leads to infidelity

If u want buy cloth u must test am first na..

A girl should never succumb to sex right from puberty until after marriage.

Girls should know that once you go into your husbands house not as a virgin,then surely know that you don't have 100% respect n trust from your husband.

Op are right God bless you, for those ones saying you can't buy a multi million car without testing it, you should be ashame of yourself, a human being created in the image of God, you are comparing with human inventions, may God help una, Sex outside marriage is a manipulation of the devil

Let's settle it once and for all. Like for sex b4 marriage. Share for no sex b4 marriage.

Interesting15:
So a guy here recently published a piece claiming no sex before marriage is a scam..

At first, I was thinking he's just one of those loose guys who only justify sexual immorality because they can't be human enough to gain mastery over their bodies, and who can't control themselves and are slaves to their urges.. But I was shocked that this guy was attempting to justify an unholy act like premarital sex, with the Holy Scriptures..

I was like, JESUS, this guy must be stopped!

First of all, if you check the guy's profile, you will discover he is selling sex tools and products. Therefore, he is only trying to pervert people's mind so they could comfortably patronise him. He is aware that the Holy Words of God is a threat to the sales of his immoral sex tools, hence, he is trying to twist the scriptures for his own dirty motives.. If only he knew the danger of what he just did! Don't forget that the devil too is a master at twisting the Bible!

Nevertheless, please discard his claims.. The Word of God stands sure.. Premarital sex is a sin, because it is contrary to God's Will. God's Will is that all sexual experiences should be shared between a married man and his female wife only, in the safe circle of their marriage.

The Bible says in Hebrews 13:4: "Marriage is honorable among all, and (let) the marriage bed (be) undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge"

It means, those that indulged in premarital sex will not only hurt themselves (STDs, unwanted pregnancies, etc), but will attract punishments to themselves (and even the devil will have a chance to afflict them).

God Himself said: "...the sexually immoral...shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death" Revelation 21:8

The guy even claimed that during the time of Mary and Joseph, virginity wasn't highly regarded. That's a lie from the pit of hell! Their society was a very conservative one, and women caught indulging in sexual immorality are usually stoned to death!

The guy also claimed that you can sleep around because "God only sees a clean and a pure heart". Can you imagine! If you wear a clean white dress, won't you avoid anything that can get it stained?

In conclusion, although the world is currently vehemently corrupt (as we are in the last days), I want you to know that there are still many of us (Sons and Daughters of YAHWEH) still obeying Him and living lives of total purity. And guess what? We are happy and blessed. We are enjoying our marriages, and raising godly and responsible children.

Nice thread, the world must be told the plain truth nit heresies

U are on point.. As for me sex bf marriage is wrong spiritually but if want to have sex bf marriage, it is a matter of choice.
I will never encourage it but you are left to make your choice. I am a living example of no sex bf marriage and I hv never regretted my sexual life or that of my partner.

my own is that weda scam o.or not...I had a girl Wu didn't want to have sex with me b4 marriage I agreed but she was fucking three to 4 guys steady....I was so heartbroken wen I found out

kikero:
If you marry for sex, you will have issues in your marriage.

Marriage is not meant for you to be happy, it is the ultimate self sacrifice. You don't want to do it, don't do it.

Because the sex you enjoyed when you are young is going to depreciate as you grow old. What then? Would you throw away old wife and kids for young woman and fun?

Welcome to life. Everything is not enjoyment.

But sex is part of marriage. You must also be sextually compatible which plays a vital role. You cant carpet the fact that sex plays a vital role in marriage and incompatibility has broken many homes. Yes, other vices break homes and sex is part of it.

When you talk about depreciation, what you love cant depreciate. And for you to love, you must love everything which you must discover before marriage.

OutOfTheAshes:
Is that all you have to say?

I've edited my post

Interesting15:
So a guy here recently published a piece claiming no sex before marriage is a scam..

At first, I was thinking he's just one of those loose guys who only justify sexual immorality because they can't be human enough to gain mastery over their bodies, and who can't control themselves and are slaves to their urges.. But I was shocked that this guy was attempting to justify an unholy act like premarital sex, with the Holy Scriptures..

I was like, JESUS, this guy must be stopped!

First of all, if you check the guy's profile, you will discover he is selling sex tools and products. Therefore, he is only trying to pervert people's mind so they could comfortably patronise him. He is aware that the Holy Words of God is a threat to the sales of his immoral sex tools, hence, he is trying to twist the scriptures for his own dirty motives.. If only he knew the danger of what he just did! Don't forget that the devil too is a master at twisting the Bible!

Nevertheless, please discard his claims.. The Word of God stands sure.. Premarital sex is a sin, because it is contrary to God's Will. God's Will is that all sexual experiences should be shared between a married man and his female wife only, in the safe circle of their marriage.

The Bible says in Hebrews 13:4: "Marriage is honorable among all, and (let) the marriage bed (be) undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge"

It means, those that indulged in premarital sex will not only hurt themselves (STDs, unwanted pregnancies, etc), but will attract punishments to themselves (and even the devil will have a chance to afflict them).

God Himself said: "...the sexually immoral...shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death" Revelation 21:8

The guy even claimed that during the time of Mary and Joseph, virginity wasn't highly regarded. That's a lie from the pit of hell! Their society was a very conservative one, and women caught indulging in sexual immorality are usually stoned to death!

The guy also claimed that you can sleep around because "God only sees a clean and a pure heart". Can you imagine! If you wear a clean white dress, won't you avoid anything that can get it stained?

In conclusion, although the world is currently vehemently corrupt (as we are in the last days), I want you to know that there are still many of us (Sons and Daughters of YAHWEH) still obeying Him and living lives of total purity. And guess what? We are happy and blessed. We are enjoying our marriages, and raising godly and responsible children.

for us to understand this whole thing, how do you define marriage?
What is marriage?

According to Oxford
Marriage can be defined as the state of being united to a person of the opposite sex in a CONSENSUAL and contractual relationship.

take note of the word CONSENSUAL.
meaning, it involves the agreement of the two individuals who want to live as husband and wife and not necessarily involving the consents of the family into some kind of marriage ceremony first.

That also implies that if a boyfriend and girlfriend have decided to be committed to their union such that they steak together as if they are married people, then they are legally married until the very day they decide to separate.

And if they have decided to live together like that till death do them apart, then God is aproved of such union.