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Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by Nigeriabiafra80: 8:55pm On May 31, 2020
Redwater666:
I'm learning so much from him, i was empty but he gave me ideas and encouraged me to start my business which I'm making serious profit from, he's intelligent, business minded and really cool + cute but I'm afraid I'm not even the right one for him because I'm not in his league intellectually, swag etc etc But we've been friends for years...

i can't even ask him for money when I'm dead broke because i don't want to lose this friendship and I'm a hustler, i can hustle for my own self but I'm on the brink of losing this friendship because he has other girls that are finer and have more brighter future taking most of his time/attentions but i knew him first during our 100lvl days and should've dated him when i had a chance but he wasn't this amazing or maybe i was dumb following friends and doing stupid shit because i was ignorant... don't get me wrong lol i have rich guys with expensive cars wooing me dashing me cash gifts etc but this one guy (my friend) is trustworthy, knows how to act, has attitude, knows how to treat women, is very funny, handsome, and very popular at the same time + his circle of friends are out of this world creative people into programming, forex etc... he has never forced himself on me or pressured me for anything instead he shows me pictures of girls he has wooed that are really attractive and i get very bitter and jealous and badmouth them just to discourage him..

i feel really empty and i don't know if I'll be ever truly happy again for making this big mistake... he always says he likes lifting others around him up which is evident on how my life has improved since i knew him even when his friends used to tell him I'm wh0ring (talking to different guys) about in campus he didn't bother but was there for me...

I'm 22 now I'm really attractive but right now I fear he doesn't see me that way (dating material), i can't even seduce him i feel very dirty/inadequate when that thought comes into my mind but I'm running out of options... please nairalanders, how can i win him.. how can i make him love me.. i cooked a delicious meal for him and he said i can really cook.. what should i do... I'm really depressed now.

Please note, it's not about money, I'm willing to do anything for him even if he's broke to the last penny i still love him and will be there till my last blood because he made me believe in myself that I can also be something significant in this world.. now I feel i missed a powerful opportunity... do i still have a chance?

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I prefer you communicate with him jokingly
Don’t go straight to the point as an intelligent guy ,he will code ,always joke with him
Like
What of if we end up together
What of if I marry you instead of you marrying me
What of if I come love you pass my mama
With his response you will code
But if you go straight with him
Boom you have scattered everything
May be when you were busy whoring,he liked at first but gradually loose interest
And as a good intelligent guy ,he did something he could do for anybody for you
Because he did that for
doesn’t mean he won’t do it for anyone again
So don’t get jealous
Try this solution cos
I think I got some things similar with that guy
Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by PUSSYHOE(m): 9:02pm On May 31, 2020
TheRealProphet:
Give the guy pûssy..he go love u cool
Thats the best reply!
Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by lightangel65i(m): 9:26pm On May 31, 2020
Redwater666:
I'm learning so much from him, i was empty but he gave me ideas and encouraged me to start my business which I'm making serious profit from, he's intelligent, business minded and really cool + cute but I'm afraid I'm not even the right one for him because I'm not in his league intellectually, swag etc etc But we've been friends for years...

i can't even ask him for money when I'm dead broke because i don't want to lose this friendship and I'm a hustler, i can hustle for my own self but I'm on the brink of losing this friendship because he has other girls that are finer and have more brighter future taking most of his time/attentions but i knew him first during our 100lvl days and should've dated him when i had a chance but he wasn't this amazing or maybe i was dumb following friends and doing stupid shit because i was ignorant... don't get me wrong lol i have rich guys with expensive cars wooing me dashing me cash gifts etc but this one guy (my friend) is trustworthy, knows how to act, has attitude, knows how to treat women, is very funny, handsome, and very popular at the same time + his circle of friends are out of this world creative people into programming, forex etc... he has never forced himself on me or pressured me for anything instead he shows me pictures of girls he has wooed that are really attractive and i get very bitter and jealous and badmouth them just to discourage him..

i feel really empty and i don't know if I'll be ever truly happy again for making this big mistake... he always says he likes lifting others around him up which is evident on how my life has improved since i knew him even when his friends used to tell him I'm wh0ring (talking to different guys) about in campus he didn't bother but was there for me...

I'm 22 now I'm really attractive but right now I fear he doesn't see me that way (dating material), i can't even seduce him i feel very dirty/inadequate when that thought comes into my mind but I'm running out of options... please nairalanders, how can i win him.. how can i make him love me.. i cooked a delicious meal for him and he said i can really cook.. what should i do... I'm really depressed now.

Please note, it's not about money, I'm willing to do anything for him even if he's broke to the last penny i still love him and will be there till my last blood because he made me believe in myself that I can also be something significant in this world.. now I feel i missed a powerful opportunity... do i still have a chance?

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Stoo trying to paint it as something good.
You are after his money, if he was broke would you reason him, cause he con get money gold digger. I pray he rejects you brutally, if i knew him i would advise it, no go hustle for your own money,

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Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by kizwid(m): 9:27pm On May 31, 2020
Rozz:
Its not as easy,im struggling with it. You won't understand, it's something that's rooted inside,its difficult.
easy or hard, you will want to do something for change, except you love it being like that

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Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by merieam16(f): 9:40pm On May 31, 2020
Redwater666:
I'm learning so much from him, i was empty but he gave me ideas and encouraged me to start my business which I'm making serious profit from, he's intelligent, business minded and really cool + cute but I'm afraid I'm not even the right one for him because I'm not in his league intellectually, swag etc etc But we've been friends for years...

i can't even ask him for money when I'm dead broke because i don't want to lose this friendship and I'm a hustler, i can hustle for my own self but I'm on the brink of losing this friendship because he has other girls that are finer and have more brighter future taking most of his time/attentions but i knew him first during our 100lvl days and should've dated him when i had a chance but he wasn't this amazing or maybe i was dumb following friends and doing stupid shit because i was ignorant... don't get me wrong lol i have rich guys with expensive cars wooing me dashing me cash gifts etc but this one guy (my friend) is trustworthy, knows how to act, has attitude, knows how to treat women, is very funny, handsome, and very popular at the same time + his circle of friends are out of this world creative people into programming, forex etc... he has never forced himself on me or pressured me for anything instead he shows me pictures of girls he has wooed that are really attractive and i get very bitter and jealous and badmouth them just to discourage him..

i feel really empty and i don't know if I'll be ever truly happy again for making this big mistake... he always says he likes lifting others around him up which is evident on how my life has improved since i knew him even when his friends used to tell him I'm wh0ring (talking to different guys) about in campus he didn't bother but was there for me...

I'm 22 now I'm really attractive but right now I fear he doesn't see me that way (dating material), i can't even seduce him i feel very dirty/inadequate when that thought comes into my mind but I'm running out of options... please nairalanders, how can i win him.. how can i make him love me.. i cooked a delicious meal for him and he said i can really cook.. what should i do... I'm really depressed now.

Please note, it's not about money, I'm willing to do anything for him even if he's broke to the last penny i still love him and will be there till my last blood because he made me believe in myself that I can also be something significant in this world.. now I feel i missed a powerful opportunity... do i still have a chance?

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he has a choleric temperament, go read abt it nd their love language buh actually dey love gifts so i tink u should start frm der
Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by Crunchyg3: 10:19pm On May 31, 2020
Rozz:
isnt this a faceless forum,thats the beauty of it lol. Nothing is wrong with the way I dress.
Yea nothing is wrong, is just that the look can make some guys here have reaction
Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by Nobody: 10:29pm On May 31, 2020
Crunchyg3:

Yea nothing is wrong, is just that the look can make some guys here have reaction
reaction?how?
Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by Genset: 10:34pm On May 31, 2020
Redwater666:
I'm learning so much from him, i was empty but he gave me ideas and encouraged me to start my business which I'm making serious profit from, he's intelligent, business minded and really cool + cute but I'm afraid I'm not even the right one for him because I'm not in his league intellectually, swag etc etc But we've been friends for years...

i can't even ask him for money when I'm dead broke because i don't want to lose this friendship and I'm a hustler, i can hustle for my own self but I'm on the brink of losing this friendship because he has other girls that are finer and have more brighter future taking most of his time/attentions but i knew him first during our 100lvl days and should've dated him when i had a chance but he wasn't this amazing or maybe i was dumb following friends and doing stupid shit because i was ignorant... don't get me wrong lol i have rich guys with expensive cars wooing me dashing me cash gifts etc but this one guy (my friend) is trustworthy, knows how to act, has attitude, knows how to treat women, is very funny, handsome, and very popular at the same time + his circle of friends are out of this world creative people into programming, forex etc... he has never forced himself on me or pressured me for anything instead he shows me pictures of girls he has wooed that are really attractive and i get very bitter and jealous and badmouth them just to discourage him..

i feel really empty and i don't know if I'll be ever truly happy again for making this big mistake... he always says he likes lifting others around him up which is evident on how my life has improved since i knew him even when his friends used to tell him I'm wh0ring (talking to different guys) about in campus he didn't bother but was there for me...

I'm 22 now I'm really attractive but right now I fear he doesn't see me that way (dating material), i can't even seduce him i feel very dirty/inadequate when that thought comes into my mind but I'm running out of options... please nairalanders, how can i win him.. how can i make him love me.. i cooked a delicious meal for him and he said i can really cook.. what should i do... I'm really depressed now.

Please note, it's not about money, I'm willing to do anything for him even if he's broke to the last penny i still love him and will be there till my last blood because he made me believe in myself that I can also be something significant in this world.. now I feel i missed a powerful opportunity... do i still have a chance?

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Sis ehn, let me advise you
1. Are you beautiful? If yes, good but if no, try as much as possible to be beautiful. U said u have money, right? Use it to level up by buying good creams for your skin, take care of your facial skin, go for skin treatment, buy good human hair(2 is enough). Buy fashionable clothes that will your body (if u have good legs flaunt it by wearing clothes that will reveal it, if u have good arms and shoulder, buy singlet-like tops, off-shoulders and so on. If u are not so tall, buy little-heel slippers and sandals.

2. Make your self less available to him and reduce the cooking drastically. Anytime he calls for you to come, always make it seem as if u are going on a date with someone and won't be available. That would leave him wondering. In reality, men want what other men want. So, make it seem as if u have streams of men drooling over you. When u finally decide to go to his house, show him pictures of the men that are 'supposedly' after u and ask him about his opinion on them. This might make him jealous if he is beginning to pick interest in you.

3. Invest in good make-up. Nothing much just eyelashes and good brow can change your whole look so far u have a clear skin( Refer back to No. 1).

4. If after all this, guy man still acts uninterested, sis u gotta let that man go. He doesn't like you. NEVER ask that man out. USE YOUR FEMININE CHARM.
Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by Crunchyg3: 10:39pm On May 31, 2020
Rozz:
reaction?how?
The kind of reaction that you are lookingfor that made you post such picture there
Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by Crunchyg3: 10:39pm On May 31, 2020
Rozz:
reaction?how?
Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by ZAWs: 10:39pm On May 31, 2020
I'm running out of options... please nairalanders, how can i win him.. how can i make him love me.. i cooked a delicious meal for him

African girl.
Don't go and do black magic o
It will surely backfire.

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Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by Nobody: 10:44pm On May 31, 2020
Crunchyg3:

The kind of reaction that you are lookingfor that made you post such picture there
I really don't know what you are implying seriously,i just snap and post that's all.
Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by Crunchyg3: 10:56pm On May 31, 2020
Rozz:
I really don't know what you are implying seriously,i just snap and post that's all.
Don't say you don't know what I am implying, because that is the one that will make me angry now, if you don't know what you are doing why did you crop out your face? undecided
Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by bluefilm: 11:03pm On May 31, 2020
Ningen:
This life is just funny. Really. grin

Cooking meals will only get you to his stomach.
And not his HEART.

The truth is; you CAN'T make him love you but you can ignite his romantic interest. So confess.

If you can't tell him how you feel, then it's better you accept and get comfortable in friend—zone.

She's no match for the nigga intellectually.

It gives her a severe depressing feeling plus serious low esteem knowing that she can't attract the nigga intellectually.

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Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by Nobody: 11:13pm On May 31, 2020
Crunchyg3:

Don't say you don't know what I am implying, because that is the one that will make me angry now, if you don't know what you are doing why did you crop out your face? undecided
lol you better leave me alone
Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by Crunchyg3: 11:23pm On May 31, 2020
Rozz:
lol you better leave me alone
Lol, I am a trouble maker "in a sweet way" so I won't leave you alone until you change that picture
Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by Nobody: 11:31pm On May 31, 2020
Crunchyg3:

Lol, I am a trouble maker "in a sweet way" so I won't leave you alone until you change that picture
the next one may unintentionally cause more reaction,so lets leave it like that
Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by jorion(m): 11:34pm On May 31, 2020
Rozz:
the next one may unintentionally cause more reaction,so lets leave it like that

Make i see the picture sef. Hmmmmmm, sister. Jesus is truly in that abode. I am ready to meet my lord

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Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by oluwaleinad(m): 11:34pm On May 31, 2020
The only mistake you shouldn't make is having sex with him without being in a serious relationship, give a trial make it straight with him.

Take that bold step and be ready to accept whatever the outcome be.
Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by Crunchyg3: 11:35pm On May 31, 2020
Rozz:
the next one may unintentionally cause more reaction,so lets leave it like that
The first of everything can actually pass as a coincidence but a second is always intentional. So tell your self the truth. I like truthful people

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Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by Nobody: 11:44pm On May 31, 2020
Crunchyg3:

The first of everything can actually pass as a coincidence but a second is always intentional. So tell your self the truth. I like truthful people
But you have simply refused to accept the truth
Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by BigJoe19: 11:54pm On May 31, 2020
Genset:



Sis ehn, let me advise you
1. Are you beautiful? If yes, good but if no, try as much as possible to be beautiful. U said u have money, right? Use it to level up by buying good creams for your skin, take care of your facial skin, go for skin treatment, buy good human hair(2 is enough). Buy fashionable clothes that will your body (if u have good legs flaunt it by wearing clothes that will reveal it, if u have good arms and shoulder, buy singlet-like tops, off-shoulders and so on. If u are not so tall, buy little-heel slippers and sandals.

2. Make your self less available to him and reduce the cooking drastically. Anytime he calls for you to come, always make it seem as if u are going on a date with someone and won't be available. That would leave him wondering. In reality, men want what other men want. So, make it seem as if u have streams of men drooling over you. When u finally decide to go to his house, show him pictures of the men that are 'supposedly' after u and ask him about his opinion on them. This might make him jealous if he is beginning to pick interest in you.

3. Invest in good make-up. Nothing much just eyelashes and good brow can change your whole look so far u have a clear skin( Refer back to No. 1).

4. If after all this, guy man still acts uninterested, sis u gotta let that man go. He doesn't like you. NEVER ask that man out. USE YOUR FEMININE CHARM.
You women always think the world revolves around your bodies, funny advice.

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Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by Crunchyg3: 12:13am On Jun 01, 2020
Rozz:
But you have simply refused to accept the truth
I like two things about you, do you know what they are??
Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by Ifewright(f): 12:40am On Jun 01, 2020
Well, are you the type of Lady he wants??
Don't go about trying to be who you aren't please.
Does he like make-up??.... if no, then reduce it. Sweetheart, 50% of guys don't really like make-up on their babes.
I don't know oo, but I'm typing this from experience.....
Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by DaddyRochie1642: 2:07am On Jun 01, 2020
** Yawns **

Another Hoe Laments grin grin

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Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by ForensikOrder: 2:26am On Jun 01, 2020
Men and women can never be freinds pleb inbthe man either want to have sex with you or your old
Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by ojuu4u(m): 2:50am On Jun 01, 2020
Crunchyg3:

How can you say you are afraid to speak with men but you can comfortably upload such picture of your profile revealing almost all you essential part. I really find it difficult to reconcile you with the things you always say in this forum angry

You forced me to comment, this is one of fiction posts which only needs ,like comment and ultimately front page

she said wen she was in 100 level , she was flirting with guys in company of other olosho called friends.

Having seen her past by himself, I tink the most stupid tin the guy can do is to make Op his future wife. Not even a guy who knows what future entails.

I still call OP a luck girl for her to be getting wise counselling from that guy. I will advice her to maintain friendship if she wants to be close to the guy for long time. The highest she can get from him is sex and after few months of sex,the guy will move on with his life.

Meanwhile in another angle, Op said he used to show her different pictures of GIRLS which he was/is dating, having seen a guy who is dating several girls, why will she want to go for him again? perhaps to make him count more scores!

In future will she be able to cope with our husband instead of my husband?

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Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by mrblessed(m): 6:02am On Jun 01, 2020
He wasn't good enough before and therefore didn't meet your standard, but today, he is a "refined" and "polished" gentleman hence your desire to force yourself on him. Where are those guys with cars? Don't you think a lady stayed with him when you were busy chasing people with cars? Don't you see he has never felt anything for you, probably because of your disposition towards him? If you want to know the truth, leave that young man alone, especially since you rightly feel inadequate before him.

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Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by Nobody: 6:06am On Jun 01, 2020
Crunchyg3:
I like two things about you, do you know what they are??
lol tell me
Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by Shormiey(m): 6:27am On Jun 01, 2020
Galactico4ever:
Since you are the one who friendzoned him during your 100lvl,bae I don't think you have any chance of having a romantic relationship with him.Just maintain your friendship and since you a still young,a lot more guys better than him will surely locate you.
Op should just listen to this ....dude will never date her except God's intervention.
Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by SeniorGee(m): 6:42am On Jun 01, 2020
Fortune, they say, favours the brave. Gather a little more confidence and use your female power to get his attention slowly, one step at a time, when you feel the time is right simply tell him how you feel about him. Since he's smart he'll understand. If you don't try u will spend the rest of your life regretting. If you tried and fail then u have my respect forever. But I pray you succeed.
Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by jorion(m): 6:49am On Jun 01, 2020
SeniorGee:
Fortune, they say, favours the brave. Gather a little more confidence and use your female power to get his attention slowly, one step at a time, when you feel the time is right simply tell him how you feel about him. Since he's smart he'll understand. If you don't try u will spend the rest of your life regretting. If you tried and fail then u have my respect forever. But I pray you succeed.

LOL, sharp guy wey know about her past. Madam, las las, na cry go end am. Just respect yourself and remain friends.

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