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Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by Nobody: 6:20pm On Jun 01, 2020
Ishilove:

Rape is a horrible, horrible thing to do to anyone but how anyone with their thinking faculties complete will ask why she went to a church to be alone shows they are deeply and irretrievably rotten.

Ariza, I will like to know if there are cases of male rape where the men get beaten to an inch of their lives or killed during the ordeal.

Google about it then you'll see
Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by Mstick: 6:21pm On Jun 01, 2020
Going by the logic of the wise on this thread, if You're raped then it's fair and wise to become a rapists.

So why aren't women raping men?

What happened to UWA has such a thing Happened to any man in the hands of women before?

All those Women that have been sexually abused how come they're not sexually abusing their kids?

Keep giving yourselves high fives and pats on the back but the reality is on ground and YOU Nigerian men are the ones being disenfranchised not women.

You're still the ones that won't let your wives, daughters and sister go outside at night because YOU know the monster YOU have created.

Hey let's take the ostrich position so we wouldn't hurt the perpetual "babies"

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Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by rationalhuman(m): 6:24pm On Jun 01, 2020
Although figures you are stating are not true, but lets assumes yours 1 per 15 minutes, Now divide that with total population of 1.45 Billions.
Tell me what is the percentage ?

India is not even in topper in the rape cases. thats a narrative built by illiterates who propagate and ignorant buys the crap.
Ever heard in news that Sweden has rape problem??

Here are the sources:

Source 1: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_statistics
Source 2: https://worldpopulationreview.com/countries/rape-statistics-by-country/

Same like when someone says that Nigerians are the Online criminals, then i can prove by facts and valid sources (not cheap blogs) that its actually China and Russia from where most of online criminals comes from.

Mstick:
Says the person trying to undermine the rape culture of women in Nigeria.

Rape in India has been contained?! I guess the rape statistics in India that says a woman in India is raped every 15 minutes even in 2020 is false because you said so.

You come online parroting nonsense, meanwhile the reality on ground is what I would tell you and everyone who say and believe the truth will know.

Almost every Nigerian WOMAN has been sexually assaulted thats what I said and truth is it's only an illogical human being like you that would throw tantrums when you couldn't even get the point.

NIGERIAN women should fix society? Nigerian Women cover up their husbands? Can you please hide you face madam. In the world over women cover up for their spouses so it's not a Nigerian "women" thing.


How do you expect Nigerian women to fix society when we've women like you in that same society?! And it will be fallacy for you to think we only talk online go to court and police station then come back and hang your head in shame.


You are so disgusting woman so disgusting, you claim men a raping women because they were raped and I asked you why aren't women who were raped also raping men?!

The kids in diapers being raped tell me oh sensible on where they're meant to keep their pepper spray you suggested.


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Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by Nobody: 6:27pm On Jun 01, 2020
BigJoe19:
This girl, you too get sense, leave all these emotional women alone, let them keep ranting, let them not tackle the root of the problem. I laugh at their stupidity grin grin


Just Ariza said, not all men who were raped took that part....

I chose not to do so.....

Tackling men and jumping with emotions isn't gonna help
.....
Despite all the numerous threads, none of them has offered solutions to rape...
Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by Mstick: 6:30pm On Jun 01, 2020
Your source is propagated by literates meanwhile mine is from illiterates.


*Claps slowly*

rationalhuman:
Although figures you are stating are not true, but lets assumes yours 1 per 15 minutes, Now divide that with total population of 1.45 Billions.
Tell me what is the percentage ?

India is not even in topper in the rape cases. thats a narrative built by illiterates who propagate and ignorant buys the crap. Ever heard in news that Sweden has rape problem??

Here are the sources:

Source 1: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_statistics
Source 2: https://worldpopulationreview.com/countries/rape-statistics-by-country/


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Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by rationalhuman(m): 6:32pm On Jun 01, 2020
Good, Now just post a screenshot from the same Wiki page source where it says India is rape capital?


Mstick:
Your source is propagated by literates meanwhile mine is from illiterates.


*Claps slowly*

Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by Nobody: 6:34pm On Jun 01, 2020
Ariza:
I know of a case and heard of another where a Guy was gang raped till he FAINTED! Two cases. They could have died. But then you know what my reaction was then? I laughed! Yea.... I laughed and asked what led the man there. And I was told one was a bike man who went to ask for his pay when the lady he took delayed in returning. This thing happen but because the society like I did will laugh at such occurrence most are covered.

Now if you understand what rape victim pass through, you will understand why we have lots of rapist around. The only difference is, Most female rape victims do not have the exact strength to inflict on their counterparts what they went through, a luxury the Males enjoy. See I'm not downplaying Female rape, it's gruesome and not a nice experience.But I just believe we ought to do away with these emotional outbursts we see everywhere when such case happen and seek real solutions. That's my point.



You get too much sense ......

There was this case of an ice cream man who was raped to death by secondary school girls in owerri some years ago ....
But nobody tried to investigate it because it's a man.....

Infact the day I was raped, I fainted.......
Luckily I didn't die......

But due to how the society has put it, men who are raped are said to be lucky to enjoy a free pussy......
I took a big decision of not raping women as revenge cos I really wanted to, but I said no....and I left it..
...
I've been in situations where ladies use their ass to rub on my dick, no one called it molestation......


Until we start to treat it from the root, it will never end...
If you like put all the dangerous punishments....
Just like murder despite the law saying that you'll be killed if you kill someone, people still kill because the root hasn't been dealt with....
Deal with the root cause first....

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Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by rationalhuman(m): 6:39pm On Jun 01, 2020
I know you cant find,

Here is the Screenshot from YOUR WIKI LINK


Mstick:
Your source is propagated by literates meanwhile mine is from illiterates.


*Claps slowly*

Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by CAPSLOCKED: 6:42pm On Jun 01, 2020
safarigirl:


Women will STAND for Women

Women will still STAND for MEN.

LOL THE ONLY THINGS WOMEN WILL STAND FOR ARE MONEY WIGS AND MAKE UP KITS.
LET'S BE REALISTIC FOR JUST TODAY.

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Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by Mstick: 6:43pm On Jun 01, 2020
I will do that when you show me where I called India the rape capital.


rationalhuman:
Good, Now just post a screenshot from the same Wiki page source where it says India is rape capital?


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Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by safarigirl(f): 6:46pm On Jun 01, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


LOL THE ONLY THINGS WOMEN WILL STAND FOR ARE MONEY WIGS AND MAKE UP KITS.
LET'S BE REALISTIC FOR JUST TODAY.

This thread is beyond your comprehension level.

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Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by CAPSLOCKED: 6:48pm On Jun 01, 2020
Ishilove:

Ariza seriously?? He can only be gang raped by a posse of horny_, women if he was force fed burantashi because the physiological make up of men will not allow otherwise.

HAHA.. I SEE WHERE YOU'RE GOING WITH THE COMEDY.
I'M SURE THEY WERE MEN IN WOMEN'S CLOTHING. WOMEN CAN'T RAPE MEN. AIN'T THAT SO, ARIZA?
Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by Mstick: 6:49pm On Jun 01, 2020
This one is also the fault of an aunty right?!

Chai the amount of clownery on this forum sometimes I just find myself looking at my screen and laughing and we wonder why nobody takes activism seriously in this country.

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Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by rationalhuman(m): 6:58pm On Jun 01, 2020
1 rape in 15 minutes?? That is what.
Actually i trigger whenever anykind of false data is shared on nairaland, be it in any thread.

Mstick:
I will do that when you show me where I called India the rape capital.


Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by Mstick: 7:01pm On Jun 01, 2020
Oga if you're triggered go to Google I beg.

Your data is real mine is false can you please leave me alone?

rationalhuman:
1 rape in 15 minutes?? That is what.
Actually i trigger whenever anykind of false data is shared on nairaland, be it in any thread.

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Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by safarigirl(f): 7:04pm On Jun 01, 2020
Mstick:
This one is also the fault of an aunty right?!

Chai the amount of clownery on this forum sometimes I just find myself looking at my screen and laughing and we wonder why nobody takes activism seriously in this country.
maybe na maid do am.

Let us pity him, and investigate who raped him. Once we can get him justice, he will stop raping women. All he needs is justice

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Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by rationalhuman(m): 7:07pm On Jun 01, 2020
Okay Bye, Never post a fake Data, if you see mine , report to me as we shouldnt be in false info.
Mstick:
Oga if you're triggered go to Google I beg.

Your data is real mine is false can you please leave me alone?

Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by CAPSLOCKED: 7:07pm On Jun 01, 2020
safarigirl:


This thread is beyond your comprehension level.

AFTER WAILING YOU GO OFFLINE AND REST FOR THE DAY.
IT'S SUCH A HARD JOB WAGING WARS AND PROTESTS ONLINE WHILE NEVER CONTRIBUTING EVEN THE LEAST IN REAL LIFE.

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Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by Nobody: 7:12pm On Jun 01, 2020
Xavfra:




You get too much sense ......

There was this case of an ice cream man who was raped to death by secondary school girls in owerri some years ago ....
But nobody tried to investigate it because it's a man.....

Infact the day I was raped, I fainted.......
Luckily I didn't die......

But due to how the society has put it, men who are raped are said to be lucky to enjoy a free pussy......
I took a big decision of not raping women as revenge cos I really wanted to, but I said no....and I left it..
...
I've been in situations where ladies use their ass to rub on my dick, no one called it molestation......


Until we start to treat it from the root, it will never end...
If you like put all the dangerous punishments....
Just like murder despite the law saying that you'll be killed if you kill someone, people still kill because the root hasn't been dealt with....
Deal with the root cause first....
Thank you for coming out, one would hardly find Men who will. To some ladies here Male Rape doesn't exist, some even downplay it by playing around words yet they attack others for not joining the "pity party" or should I say "wail party" . On the same thread that's a called for justice/Awareness , Rape is also downplayed because it isn't about WOMEN! So Disgusting bunch!

@bolded , you did well. You made good rule over bad. And that is what I've been trying to let these people see, there will always be a struggle between good and evil in a victims mind. And not all have been strong enough to let Good rule. Just like in female victims,some will let it in them and inflict on males unfortunate enough to end up as their husbands in others ways because they aren't strong enough. Sometimes I wonder if Female victims wouldn't rape Men back if they have the strength and are encouraged to explore sexually by society like Men are.

Lol, to them your third point isn't molestation but seduction that you enjoy grin .

I fight for women's rights just as Men but when some set of individuals think it is my duty to turn blind to facts and join their bandwagon,then I will no longer have the choice than to remind them that I'm HUMAN first before being A WOMAN. They can term it to whatever they like.

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Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by Nobody: 7:12pm On Jun 01, 2020
safarigirl:


Have you seen any man, on this thread, so far, that has not supported or defended rape?

For all I know, your own father could also be here, defending rapists. So, until we know who is who, "ALL MEN".


Let's eat on the same plate then....
It means you and your female creations are rapists as well....
Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by Nobody: 7:21pm On Jun 01, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


HAHA.. I SEE WHERE YOU'RE GOING WITH THE COMEDY.
I'M SURE THEY WERE MEN IN WOMEN'S CLOTHING. WOMEN CAN'T RAPE MEN. AIN'T THAT SO, ARI ZA?
grin grin grin

Sometimes it's best to just ignore some things, grin cheesy

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Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by Mstick: 7:23pm On Jun 01, 2020
True, even the clowns posting about male rape if you talk about it they will say you are trying to "simp" men. In this battle on this forum you can't win.


Meanwhile they're men raping young boys and they're not outraged or talking about that just the "maid".

grin

safarigirl:
maybe na maid do am.

Let us pity him, and investigate who raped him. Once we can get him justice, he will stop raping women. All he needs is justice

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Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by Nobody: 7:23pm On Jun 01, 2020
Ariza:
Thank you for coming out, one would hardly find Men who will. To some ladies here Male Rape doesn't exist, some even downplay it by playing around words yet they attack others for not joining the "pity party" or should I say "wail party" . On the same thread that's a called for justice/Awareness , Rape is also downplayed because it isn't about WOMEN! So Disgusting bunch!

@bolded , you did well. You made good rule over bad. And that is what I've been trying to let these people see, there will always be a struggle between good and evil in a victims mind. And not all have been strong enough to let Good rule. Just like in female victims,some will let it in them and inflict on males unfortunate enough to end up as their husbands in others ways because they aren't strong enough. Sometimes I wonder if Female victims wouldn't rape Men back if they have the strength and are encouraged to explore sexually by society like Men are.

Lol, to them your third point isn't molestation but seduction that you enjoy grin .

I fight for women's rights just as Men but when some set of individuals think it is my duty to turn blind to facts and join their bandwagon,then I will no longer have the choice than to remind them that I'm HUMAN first being A WOMAN. They can term it to whatever they like.



Thank you.......

I wish they could calm do and read your post very clearly.......

We must learn to handle issues from their causes.......

At times when I'm with ladies, I still have that struggle.....it ain't easy, but when these ladies and some men try to downplay female on male rape, I get angry and ask myself why I didn't revenge.....


If the have rge opportunity, they will do the same....
But since, sometimes they don't have the strength to match their male adult counterparts, they resort to raping young boys.......


By me victim, my rape has justified me if I rape a lady....and that's how some rapists who are victims of rape feel ...

Men need to come out in the open and tell us if they're raped....
Because if you check Google, you'll mostly see stories if women being raped.....

As mothers, they should try to help their children, in this case the male child because they don't know what that male child who has been raped is going through....

Though I've never told anyone, I try to help myself....it happened alot of times .....but that doesn't mean I should allow and support rapists.....


As for the seduction, it is left for them......

It happened to me alot of times, it's their choice to believe or not

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Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by StubbornGENIUS: 7:26pm On Jun 01, 2020
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Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by safarigirl(f): 7:42pm On Jun 01, 2020
Ariza:
Thank you for coming out, one would hardly find Men who will. To some ladies here Male Rape doesn't exist, some even downplay it by playing around words yet they attack others for not joining the "pity party" or should I say "wail party" . On the same thread that's a called for justice/Awareness , Rape is also downplayed because it isn't about WOMEN! So Disgusting bunch!

@bolded , you did well. You made good rule over bad. And that is what I've been trying to let these people see, there will always be a struggle between good and evil in a victims mind. And not all have been strong enough to let Good rule. Just like in female victims,some will let it in them and inflict on males unfortunate enough to end up as their husbands in others ways because they aren't strong enough. Sometimes I wonder if Female victims wouldn't rape Men back if they have the strength and are encouraged to explore sexually by society like Men are.

Lol, to them your third point isn't molestation but seduction that you enjoy grin .

I fight for women's rights just as Men but when some set of individuals think it is my duty to turn blind to facts and join their bandwagon,then I will no longer have the choice than to remind them that I'm HUMAN first being A WOMAN. They can term it to whatever they like.


Fight for these men too. His aunt and maid are the reason he's like this.

If you could comprehend, you would see this thread was a call to men to talk to each other honestly.

The topic of rape is not something men discussed among each other. You have assumed this is a gender war, when it is not.

You say some men are victims, who have they spoken to? How many men have made themselves approachable to their own children to allow for these conversations? Is it women that must do everything? Can't fathers speak to their sons?

I am asking men to speak to each other, because more men have raped both boysand girls, and you are saying women have raped boys.


Women have been advised to speak out, if men can not speak to each other, who will they speak to? Women?

I speak out for ALLGenders, depending on the topic. The recent spate of rape have had females as victims, not men. But you, a woman, has decided that instead of focusing on that topic, you will rather make excuses for the same men. If your daughter is raped, will yousay, "I forgive the rapist, because he was probably abused as a child?"

Do You have children?


May God help you.

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Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by safarigirl(f): 7:42pm On Jun 01, 2020
Xavfra:




Thank you.......

I wish they could calm do and read your post very clearly.......

We must learn to handle issues from their causes.......

At times when I'm with ladies, I still have that struggle.....it ain't easy, but when these ladies and some men try to downplay female on male rape, I get angry and ask myself why I didn't revenge.....


If the have rge opportunity, they will do the same....
But since, sometimes they don't have the strength to match their male adult counterparts, they resort to raping young boys.......


By me victim, my rape has justified me if I rape a lady....and that's how some rapists who are victims of rape feel ...

Men need to come out in the open and tell us if they're raped....
Because if you check Google, you'll mostly see stories if women being raped.....

As mothers, they should try to help their children, in this case the male child because they don't know what that male child who has been raped is going through....

Though I've never told anyone, I try to help myself....it happened alot of times .....but that doesn't mean I should allow and support rapists.....


As for the seduction, it is left for them......

It happened to me alot of times, it's their choice to believe or not

https://www.nairaland.com/5896514/nigerian-men-also-victims-rape


Post this here.

Why have you never told anyone? Do you think it is healthy? You can't even talk to the men in your life?

It is very unhealthy to carry any sort of pain. If you are too scared of judgment from your loved ones, see a professional.

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Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by Nobody: 7:50pm On Jun 01, 2020
Xavfra:




Thank you.......

I wish they could calm do and read your post very clearly.......

We must learn to handle issues from their causes.......

At times when I'm with ladies, I still have that struggle.....it ain't easy, but when these ladies and some men try to downplay female on male rape, I get angry and ask myself why I didn't revenge.....


If the have rge opportunity, they will do the same....
But since, sometimes they don't have the strength to match their male adult counterparts, they resort to raping young boys.......


By me victim, my rape has justified me if I rape a lady....and that's how some rapists who are victims of rape feel ...

Men need to come out in the open and tell us if they're raped....
Because if you check Google, you'll mostly see stories if women being raped.....

As mothers, they should try to help their children, in this case the male child because they don't know what that male child who has been raped is going through....

Though I've never told anyone, I try to help myself....it happened alot of times .....but that doesn't mean I should allow and support rapists.....


As for the seduction, it is left for them......

It happened to me alot of times, it's their choice to believe or not
Please do find a psychologist or pysco -analyst to help you out on this, I have few I can connect you with if you don't mind. Struggling with what you went through isn't easy and you need help.

In all, thank you for being strong. smiley

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Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by safarigirl(f): 7:53pm On Jun 01, 2020
@Ariza, I did not see you when I created this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/3194624/child-abuse-parental-support

I did not see your boys too. I

I spoke on sexual abuse for all children, irrespective of sex. You think you speak on sexual abuse more than I do? You think I just decided to insult men for nothing?

Post your opinions on that thread too.

Apparently, if someone does not specifically insult men on Nairaland, we will not see you people on the thread.

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Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by Nobody: 7:59pm On Jun 01, 2020
Ariza:
Please do find a psychologist or pysco -analyst to help you out on this, I have few I can connect you with if you don't mind. Struggling with what you went through isn't easy and you need help.

In all, thank you for being strong. smiley


Thank you.......

I would appreciate it if you could get me one.....
Thanks.
Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by safarigirl(f): 8:03pm On Jun 01, 2020
Xavfra:



Thank you.......

I would appreciate it if you could get me one.....
Thanks.

See how useful my thread was to you.

If you had opened something like this to discuss your issues, maybe you could have helped more like you, but Capslock thinks this thread will have no impact.

Even if it is one person, it is an impact. We must not all fight on the streets, some fights must be done with words on this internet.


I have been on this site for 10 years, and I know how many people have told me they were positively impacted by my words. So, when I say things here, I know I am helping someone out there, and that is a very great feeling.


Cc: Ariza

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Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by Nobody: 8:06pm On Jun 01, 2020
Xavfra:



Thank you.......

I would appreciate it if you could get me one.....
Thanks.
Alright I will speak to one now... He's a Man, I hope you are comfortable with that?

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Re: Nigerian Men, Call Yourselves To Order! by safarigirl(f): 8:11pm On Jun 01, 2020
Ariza:
Alright I will speak to one now... He's a Man, I hope you are comfortable with that?

Take It to the PMs

Make sure they are in the same state

Delicate topics are better discussed in person, than on phone.

Good Luck to both of you

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