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| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by joyandfaith: 9:43pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Period007:they want to push him out. may be they admitted more than quota |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by golddare: 9:43pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Tell them now, their could be a solution. Also tell your parents to stop announcing your progress or failure to anybody. You can sit for another jamb while in the other departments if you believe in it. |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by izibili44: 9:43pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Guy na advise be dis one othermen: |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by SPOLO(m): 9:44pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
LeeMason:Most universities does that |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by Duru009(m): 9:45pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Don't be in a haste to make decisions, I think there is a room for repeatation of level or course. Do some findings and ask your HOD on what next to do. They can't just throw you out after just failing one course. Do a thorough findings first, then you can tell your parents. |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by Duru009(m): 9:45pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Don't be in a haste to make decisions, I think there is a room for repeatation of level or course. Do some findings and ask your HOD on what next to do. They can't just throw you out after just failing one course. Do a thorough findings first, then you can tell your parents |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by JasonScoolari: 9:45pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Mariangeles:Sometimes, the Truth is Scary. |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by macville2: 9:46pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Period007:you can if it is medicine o, even unizik will ship you to another department asap |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by OYENIYIJK: 9:46pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Oh boy this ain't easy. You gat two option, None is a suicide mission. Fire on anything because every advise here has pros and cons. But with the situation of your parents, Wait for some times even if you will tell them. God is ya strength!!! |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by shiwex: 9:46pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
The earlier the better. The longer it gets, the more difficult it becomes.....Spill it out. |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by CsRockefeller(m): 9:46pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
othermen:57 mentally unstable people liked this piece of trash. |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by dokxavi: 9:47pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Wrong advice. Ebenezer2O2O: |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by Mariangeles(f): 9:48pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
JasonScoolari:Yes, but it is liberating. You have something you want to talk to me about? |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by vikstandon(m): 9:48pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Sorry my brother....Is not an end to life. You failed a course doesn't mean you are a failure is just an opportunity to try again and get better. Switch to Medical Lab Science/Anatomy/Physiotherapy/Physiology...Any course in the College of Medicine. Study till the end of year2 or year3 and target hitting a high C.G.P.A of 4.0. Then approach them for Transfer back to medicine and start from year2 again. 2nd Option is study any of those courses I mentioned earlier to final year...graduate and enter direct entry into that same school; start from year2 or year3 and sit for MBBS Exam. Make sure you pally with your lecturers in College of Medicine... That's with the Department HOD's (current and receiving Dept's) it would make ur transfer easy and acceptance for direct entry easy. Don't be distressed and depressed my guy...Shits happen! Some persons are meant to go through life the rough path...what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger. You are coming out stronger, if you choose not to be discouraged or depressed. I would always be out to help you bro...you could always hook me up. |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by delpee(f): 9:48pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
sagna112:I empathise with you. If this is true, come up with an alternative plan and confide in your parents. For instance, you can take Jamb exam again and apply to another institution if you want to study medicine at all cost. Alternatively, you can change to another course within your current institution...Biochemistry, Microbiology etc. Whatever you plan to do, let your parents know. Pray that God makes it easy for you all. They may hurt for a while but it's better to allow them to deal with it and move on. |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by sulaak(m): 9:48pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Amotolongbo:Good advice, doctors are dying like rat due to COVID-19 pandemic, study microbiology and find a cure for all these yeye viruses. I had a lot of friends that did a first degree in Biochemistry, Microbiology or Physiology and then joined the send year of a medical degree. Many medical students tend to complete a master degree in Physiology after the completion of their MBBS |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by foleskay(m): 9:49pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Amotolongbo:Wow. So you spent about 10yrs in the university. Your parents re God sent |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by MedicH: 9:49pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Period007:se you, there are core courses you dare not bang as a medical student and in year one, bio is one of them. In my school, if you fail one of such, you will not be asked to withdraw immediately but you won't move to the next level. if you repeat a level three times you're kicked out |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by brainfordetails: 9:49pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Amotolongbo:At the end of the tunnel, there's always a light. God bless you richly for this piece of advice. |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by macville2: 9:50pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Monday60655:Not medicine, they will throw you out. |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by dokxavi: 9:50pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Tell them now if you respect them. Their money is being invested on you. GI home now and tell your parents. Don't waste any time. OYENIYIJK: |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by Nobody: 9:50pm On Jun 03, 2020*. Modified: 10:34pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
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| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by Nobody: 9:50pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Had problem with a course(law) in OAU in 2006, thought of staying in school and join the bad guys, my brother encourage to go home and tell my story. As a the last born of the house, I went home, told my people, the spoken down at me and truely I felt like committing suicide.I really wanted it....honestly the lowest point of my life....I stayed home for 2 years and went back to another school. Today, I have a BA, LLB, M.A and half way to my Dr. I lecture in Top fed school in Lagos. Even my family don't know how I manage to get here. Those in the village still think I manage a shop in Lagos. Bro throw the matter to their face. Failures are the price we pay for learning. You will thank them later for making you strong if at all the react negatively. Cheers |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by Dpaulie(m): 9:50pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Your greatest mistake you might have made was not telling your parents, let them know about it, you said u are brilliant, good, write another utme and move to the other department you are advised to go to, I had so many friends like that who were broken hearted by zoo 101, Oau medical and pharmacy students or graduates can relate, some of them wrote another utme and still made it, some went to department of economics, psychology etc and they are still doing well now.. pls tell your parents and don’t let medicine nonsense wave u down.. common boy, you will make it through |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by JasonScoolari: 9:51pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Mariangeles:Your last message.... You conceal some information over there. It would be nice if you reveal. |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by JohnFrankling(m): 9:54pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Register for JAMB and still choose medicine but tell them, they deserve to know. |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by Dpaulie(m): 9:54pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
macville2:From which school? In OAU, u fail u repeat that level, especially in part one |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by Zoroaster: 9:54pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
nawa o your school brutal In unn you would be Asked to repeat a year. Tell your parents |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by itzzkhaliii(m): 9:55pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
sagna112:I am sorry for your tragedy this seem very trying moment of your time, To be sincere hiding it to them its not an option but considering all that you have said it is really a source of concern revealing this sad incident to them, to me it seems too early to inform them about your tragedy you are just starting and to everyone that will hear about it will think its your fault. But sincerely I can't blame any students for a failure that's beyond his control,I can relate with your tragedy and I felt how bad amd intense it seems the trauma and everything, depression and all sort of things you are passing through. My simple advice those goes like this Firstly you need to be strong and failure sometimes come as a disappointment to us but our creator has a special reason behind it that we can only realize later in life. Dreamers always don't give up,if you hear the stories of must medical students nowadays you will be amazed of the grudges they pass through failure is part of the system you are not just lucky to scale through your level 1. Haven't said that my advice is it's not too late to start again obtain your jamb accept any department they gave you read for your jamb and also continue with the given program,try as much as possible to make your score and also connection since you are already in the system, reapply for that course If you are favoured start afresh you see you will go all through this without them knowing if the thing favoured you you can explain to them that you have to repeat some years that's why you are delayed,As most medical students know that resitting or even repeating is normal to some extent. If it still didn't favour you which might not be my wish after you finish your level 2 by that time you can inform them that you have been withdrawn I sm sure they will believe you have gone a little bit far and the pain to them will be less. Pls pardon my typo errors and the long epistle #Be strong brother it will be well |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by adisabarber(m): 9:55pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
sagna112:Go and tell your father. He might even know someone that can help |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by Nobody: 9:56pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
sagna112::50pm Had problem with a course(law) in OAU in 2006, thought of staying in school and join the bad guys, my brother encourage to go home and tell my story. As a the last born of the house, I went home, told my people, the spoken down at me and truely I felt like committing suicide.I really wanted it....honestly the lowest point of my life....I stayed home for 2 years and went back to another school. Today, I have a BA, LLB, M.A and half way to my Dr. I lecture in Top fed school in Lagos. Even my family don't know how I manage to get here. Those in the village still think I manage a shop in Lagos. Bro throw the matter to their face. Failures are the price we pay for learning. You will thank them later for making you strong if at all the react negatively. Cheers |
| Re: I Have Been Withdrawn From Medical School. I Can't Tell My Parents by daeger: 9:56pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Period007:I am on thesame page with you sir,I don't believe this your story bro....CGPA 4.2 with an F in one course and you are shown the exit? Abeg tell us something we don't know |
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