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Ebenezer2O2O:
don't make me follow you cos honestly if I do you'll regret your sorry life.
Don't let your insane zeal for feminism drag you to stupidity.
Ask xendra mira4u rosy247 fountainofyouth floxysmart mizwisdom and the rest of your feminist colleagues how I've humbled them
You've been warned

I hope you're ok mentally.

Chidexter:
Using your logic
If a man goes out to steal and is caught what is done to him? Compare that to a female and see the fundamental, glaring imbalance. No be for our eye news of woman wey go steal for shop twice yet she wasn't killed. Most times women get preferential treatment for everything.

When the actor of pirates of the Caribbean was complaining bout domestic violence no one believed him till his wife dealt with him seriously and he was subsequently rushed to the hospital.

CCTV footage gve her away, I'm pretty sure she also raped him aswell cos no man would align with an opposing devillish female and agree sex without consent.

Condemn everything about rape not just making it a one sided affair.
Because malaria kills more than Lassa fever doesn't make Lassa all d less important

Chief, stealing is a conscious decision made by people (males and females) to execute, knowing fully well what the consequence(s) would be.
I know that there issues where judgment drops heavily on the male gender, but this post (I believe) was quite specific on the issue it intended to address, which is (female) rape.
I quoted the other guy just to respond to his opinion concerning this specific topic, nothing else.
If we start measuring who gets the worst part of every particular issue, we'd end up not achieving anything. Don't let us mix up too many issues all at once.

Fountainofyouth:
I hope you're ok mentally.

He's not at all. Thought I'm the only one that noticed

mira4u:
He's not at all. Thought I'm the only one that noticed

shut up

mira4u:
see person. One that's very careful with his words this time courtesy of mira4u.

Good I made you you have sense las las
I can see you are very careful this time.
Or are you tired of opening Accounts after I made your numerous accounts be banned?

Well still watching to see how long twill last because what is in the blood is hard to change.

shut up

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Ebenezer2O2O:
shut up

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sassysure:
I think we should start by properly educating our children about sex education.
Fathers, please be more active in this. Don't leave all these training to your wives.
Also always listen to your kids body language, make them your friends so they can open up. Beating and shouting scares them. Let them be free around you to tell you what is happening in their lives.

Most importantly, train your kids to be respectful of the opposite sex by example.

I'm hinting more on men here when it comes to child training cos if men are involved and all the way in,no need for house maids. Male children get molested a lot by aunties, house girls and female friends of the families.
The problem is that there is no way to tell this actually happened. E.g., u can take your daughter to the Dr to check on her but your boy, no way. An erect penis is not an invitation to sex.

Even though we may not be there when it happened, we can still get to know if we are the observant and listening type.

I never knew a man can be molested till I entered the university and believe me, the guy who told us what just happened to him got all of us laughing real hard.

Blaming game don't solve anything rather, let's look for ways to curb this.

You're closest to my point. This whole blame game by women will only leave us with more rape cases tomorrow. We need to get pragmatic.

So many underlying issues are promoting rape. Few of these are:

1. In countries like Nigeria, corruption and the possibility to auction justice to bidding offenders is a major one. There have to be reforms to the justice system on rape. Rapists should be publicly humiliated before serving serious jail time to deter other potential rapists.

2. Sexual illiteracy: Society is not educating men on their sexuality. This is so wrong and we're losing the potentials of pure masculinity to this. So many wasted male human resources simply because they weren't taught how to bridle their appetite. Now the general consensus is that men today are less masculine and it's largely because of unbridled libido. Nothing takes away from the productivity and masculinity of men more than unbridled libido. Older men need to look out for our younger generation and teach them mastery of their appetites because if not, men will only grow more barbaric. Our sexual appetite can be bridled and we can have our future in our hands and not women's. Forums can be created for this online.
In worst case scenarios of sexual miseducation, some young boys are actually somehow made to believe that the woman enjoys rape. Damn!. Pleasing a woman sexually and making her happy is a major joy of sex o ye men and no rapist can ever get this.

3. Govt. should restrict porn as well as censorship of all this explicit movies and even social media(Instagram) "slaying". It's reorienting young males, growing their libido and causing them to be less human and productive in life.

4. We also need to reform female fashion because it fosters the situation. Of course ladies' will never understand that, having never experienced male physiology. And many also say "It's my body" but it's being brought into public space in the sight of all men. Like it or not, ladies' dressing today is contributing to irregular sexual behaviour of men and rape in particular and the annoying part is that it isn't the ladies guilty of this that may suffer. An innocent lady may end up suffering the effluence of the perverted lusts of males created by the general female behaviour. What people don't get is that it's not about the dressing of just the victim. It's actually about the dressing of every lady that feeds the lust of these perverts and building the momentum until one of the ladies falls victim when the pervert is finally fully demented.
People in Nigeria are hardly even seeing anything. Y'all just come down to western societies and behold the sickening nudity everywhere. This should equally be criminalized.

Of course, someone might bring up Islamic societies where rape is rampant but the problem with Islam is I don't think(and I stand to be corrected, no offense) it outrightly outlaws rape under at least under certain circumstances and places no real value or protection on a woman or her body, so rape runs free. In Jewish law however referenced in OP, it was both a crime for a woman to dress provocatively as it was for men to rape a woman. It worked. Rape is minimal there.
A good government should maintain some level of control over female fashion for our males' sakes especially for our little boys' futures.

safarigirl:
You can go to this thread to see what sexual abuse can do to kids:

https://www.nairaland.com/3194624/child-abuse-parental-support

You can visit this thread for sexual abuse on men
https://www.nairaland.com/2534228/neglect-male-child-rape-molestation#37074437

DO NOT DERAIL THIS THREAD Thank You

Since 1973 to 2020, of the thousands of rape cases that have occurred and been reported in Nigeria, only 65 have led to convictions.


This thread is something I have been thinking of since yesterday that I've been reading on the horrible things done to women in this country, but seeing that Genevieve thread and the responses on Nairaland, from the same men that hide and support these rapists amongst them, I am now moved to start the thread.


NIGERIAN MEN, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER.


It is bad enough that most of you are totally ignorant of the ingredients that constitute rape, but the fact that the few educated ones stay silent, thereby encouraging these fiends, is even more disturbing.

WOMEN LIVE IN FEAR OF MEN. Women cannot go out at night, because of fear of being raped. Women cannot walk down a street filled with men, without the fear of being molested, women cannot go into a car filled with men, for fear of being kidnapped or being molested. A woman goes into a room filled with men, and the entire time, she is on edge, looking for other women. Women cannot go to clubs, unless they are in groups, and they still have to look out for eachother. You can not go and have fun, without thinking of worst case scenario as a woman.

Men, CAN YOU RELATE?

CAN YOU RELATE TO LIVING IN PARANOIA FOR MOST OF YOUR LIFE? CAN YOU?

DO YOU FEEL FEAR WHEN YOU WALK INTO A ROOM FULL OF WOMEN? DO YOU SEE A BUS OR CAR FILLED WITH WOMEN AND DECIDE TO WAIT FOR ANOTHER ONE? DO YOU CROSS THE ROAD WHEN YOU SEE A GROUP OF WOMEN AHEAD OF YOU?


There is NO AGE of women that do not feel this fear. You are not too young or too old for a man to rape you. From one day old to 101 years old, rape can meet you anywhere.

At HOME, you are raped
At SCHOOL, rape
At your job, rape
Even In CHURCH, RAPE.

Where is our sanctuary? When does it stop? Does being a woman mean a life of constant fear? Did we choose this? Who trained these men?

WHAT IS WRONG WITH ALL OF YOU?

Then, when women say they live in fear of men, you lot come with the usual trash:

"Not All Men"
"Some of us are good"
And my personal favorite, "Plus your father and brothers"

Is it not fathers and brothers of people, raping others?

How do we know who is and who isn't a rapist?

If a SARS or Police officer stops you on the road as a man, do you know who is dangerous and who isn't? When you call for the END of SARS, do you care which of them is good and who is bad? Why not say "Some SARS officials?" Why not say "Not all Police officers?"


That is what Genevieve and many women mean. Not all men arerapists, but are we supposed to wait and find out who is dangerous?


AS WOMEN, WE LIVE IN CONSTANT FEAR OF MEN.

Rape happens to all genders and either gender can be the aggressor, but if you did a survey today and asked 10 Men and 10 Women, if they had been molested or raped, more women will have faced these things than men.


If you walk down ANY street and ask MEN, "WHO IS MORE LIKELY TO BE A VICTIM OF RAPE BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN?" YOU, the same men, will admit that WOMEN are more likely to be victims.

Why do you think so?


DON'T BE AN INSENSITIVE TW#T, DON'T TELL US MEN ALSO GET RAPED. THAT IS EQUAL TO WHEN BLACKS ARE PROTESTING THAT BLACK LIVES MATTER, ONLY TO BE TOLD ALL LIVES MATTER.

We are not saying men do not get raped, we are saying, in this moment, the topic is women. STICK TO THE TOPIC

It is convenient, that men will never bring up the abuse of other men, unless women want to talk about women getting abused.


We Are Fighting One Cause At A Time. Do not distract from one cause, or reduce the weight of it, by bringing up your own. THIS IS NOT SUFFERHEAD OLYMPICS. YOU WILL NOT GET A MEDAL FOR BEING THE MOST RAPED GENDER.


Men, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER. REFLECT ON YOURSELVES. YOU KNOW RAPISTS.


That your friend that drugs women when you go out- RAPIST
The one that threatens unwilling women to have sex with him- RAPIST
The jokes about "If she chop my money, I go chop her"- RAPIST
" She spent the night in my house, she dey mad wey I no go smash?"- RAPIST
"Wetin carry her go there?"- RAPIST
" Dress well and you will not ksgfjsozndoxn"- RAPIST.

AS A MAN THINKETH, SO IS HE




It's all fun and games in Nigeria, until you need to travel abroad and someone brings up your Rapey posts from the internet.


DON'T WORRY, YOUR RAPIST FRIEND WILL NOT GO TO JAIL, THE NUMBER OF CONVICTIONS IS ON THEIR SIDE, JUST TELL US, CALL THEM OUT, LET US KNOW AND AVOID THEM. DON'T SIT BY AND ALLOW WOMEN JUMP BLINDLY INTO DANGER.


NIGERIAN MEN, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER


MODIFIED:

We Appreciate All The Sensible Men That Are Standing With Us In These Times. We Appreciate All The Men That Are Not Quick To Pick Offense And Attack Us For Speaking Out. Plenty May Be Useless, But There Will Always Be Those Who Have Sense.

We have so many rape apologists on this forum.

Nawa o

Fountainofyouth:
I hope you're ok mentally.

Please ignore that boy before he tags you a lesbian.

Who's this dumb broad?

Why? And we really want to curb Female rape?

Do you know that most male rapist are psychologically disturb lots,some of whom form their sexual orientations from past molestations by Aunties and Maids ? A molested male child will grow to be a rapist because that was what he was exposed to while growing (although not in all cases) But it is interwoven.

Until we are able to read what goes on in a Rapist mind we may never be able to find solutions. The best we will all do is to scream and rant like what we have been seeing everywhere.

We need to fight RAPE across all genders ! And yes Men get rape too!

After the one you mentioned, what about half naked of girls litter street,

Some intended male rapists were boosted by half nude they see, the rapist carry the scene/picture back to his hood and unleash it to innocent and weak he finds in his vicinity

The rate at which the Moderators reviving old threads lately is quite alarming.

safarigirl:
Since 1973 to 2020, of the thousands of rape cases that have occurred and been reported in Nigeria, only 65 have led to convictions.

Is this really true of Nigeria?

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Why? And we really want to curb Female rape?

Do you know that most male rapist are psychologically disturb lots,some of whom form their sexual orientations from past molestations by Aunties and Maids ? A molested male child will grow to be a rapist because that was what he was exposed to while growing (although not in all cases) But it is interwoven.

Until we are able to read what goes on in a Rapist mind we may never be able to find solutions. The best we will all do is to scream and rant like what we have been seeing everywhere.

We need to fight RAPE across all genders ! And yes Men get rape too!

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I don't really understand why the incessant rape incidence in this country as it now very alarming. I somtimes imagine why a full grown adult will sexually molest a teenage girl talk less of an adult, it is barbaric and i suggest a death sentence on this menace called RAPE.

Balderdash!

Fiscus105:
After the one you mentioned, what about half naked of girls litter street,

Some intended male rapists were boosted by half nude they see, the rapist carry the scene/picture back to his hood and unleash it to innocent and weak he finds in his vicinity

If we all can join hands & work against the promotion of nudity in our society, some of these evil acts would drastically reduce.

Pitifully, everyone wants to dress to kill.

I did not read due to the length. I’m waiting for the abridged version. Okay, if men cease raping or stop other men from doing the same — who then will stop woman on woman, men on men, women on children and women on men rape? Let us not forget that these female advocates are the most violent entities when subordinates are placed under their care.

I almost forgot something, there is a reason rapes can never go away; they are an evolutionary reproductive strategy. Anyone piqued should do a Google search. This is Nairaland so na insults this comment go chop. Be warned beforehand, the report button is my best friend.

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safarigirl:
You can go to this thread to see what sexual abuse can do to kids:

https://www.nairaland.com/3194624/child-abuse-parental-support

You can visit this thread for sexual abuse on men
https://www.nairaland.com/2534228/neglect-male-child-rape-molestation#37074437

DO NOT DERAIL THIS THREAD Thank You

Since 1973 to 2020, of the thousands of rape cases that have occurred and been reported in Nigeria, only 65 have led to convictions.


This thread is something I have been thinking of since yesterday that I've been reading on the horrible things done to women in this country, but seeing that Genevieve thread and the responses on Nairaland, from the same men that hide and support these rapists amongst them, I am now moved to start the thread.


NIGERIAN MEN, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER.


It is bad enough that most of you are totally ignorant of the ingredients that constitute rape, but the fact that the few educated ones stay silent, thereby encouraging these fiends, is even more disturbing.

WOMEN LIVE IN FEAR OF MEN. Women cannot go out at night, because of fear of being raped. Women cannot walk down a street filled with men, without the fear of being molested, women cannot go into a car filled with men, for fear of being kidnapped or being molested. A woman goes into a room filled with men, and the entire time, she is on edge, looking for other women. Women cannot go to clubs, unless they are in groups, and they still have to look out for eachother. You can not go and have fun, without thinking of worst case scenario as a woman.

Men, CAN YOU RELATE?

CAN YOU RELATE TO LIVING IN PARANOIA FOR MOST OF YOUR LIFE? CAN YOU?

DO YOU FEEL FEAR WHEN YOU WALK INTO A ROOM FULL OF WOMEN? DO YOU SEE A BUS OR CAR FILLED WITH WOMEN AND DECIDE TO WAIT FOR ANOTHER ONE? DO YOU CROSS THE ROAD WHEN YOU SEE A GROUP OF WOMEN AHEAD OF YOU?


There is NO AGE of women that do not feel this fear. You are not too young or too old for a man to rape you. From one day old to 101 years old, rape can meet you anywhere.

At HOME, you are raped
At SCHOOL, rape
At your job, rape
Even In CHURCH, RAPE.

Where is our sanctuary? When does it stop? Does being a woman mean a life of constant fear? Did we choose this? Who trained these men?

WHAT IS WRONG WITH ALL OF YOU?

Then, when women say they live in fear of men, you lot come with the usual trash:

"Not All Men"
"Some of us are good"
And my personal favorite, "Plus your father and brothers"

Is it not fathers and brothers of people, raping others?

How do we know who is and who isn't a rapist?

If a SARS or Police officer stops you on the road as a man, do you know who is dangerous and who isn't? When you call for the END of SARS, do you care which of them is good and who is bad? Why not say "Some SARS officials?" Why not say "Not all Police officers?"


That is what Genevieve and many women mean. Not all men arerapists, but are we supposed to wait and find out who is dangerous?


AS WOMEN, WE LIVE IN CONSTANT FEAR OF MEN.

Rape happens to all genders and either gender can be the aggressor, but if you did a survey today and asked 10 Men and 10 Women, if they had been molested or raped, more women will have faced these things than men.


If you walk down ANY street and ask MEN, "WHO IS MORE LIKELY TO BE A VICTIM OF RAPE BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN?" YOU, the same men, will admit that WOMEN are more likely to be victims.

Why do you think so?


DON'T BE AN INSENSITIVE TW#T, DON'T TELL US MEN ALSO GET RAPED. THAT IS EQUAL TO WHEN BLACKS ARE PROTESTING THAT BLACK LIVES MATTER, ONLY TO BE TOLD ALL LIVES MATTER.

We are not saying men do not get raped, we are saying, in this moment, the topic is women. STICK TO THE TOPIC

It is convenient, that men will never bring up the abuse of other men, unless women want to talk about women getting abused.


We Are Fighting One Cause At A Time. Do not distract from one cause, or reduce the weight of it, by bringing up your own. THIS IS NOT SUFFERHEAD OLYMPICS. YOU WILL NOT GET A MEDAL FOR BEING THE MOST RAPED GENDER.


Men, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER. REFLECT ON YOURSELVES. YOU KNOW RAPISTS.


That your friend that drugs women when you go out- RAPIST
The one that threatens unwilling women to have sex with him- RAPIST
The jokes about "If she chop my money, I go chop her"- RAPIST
" She spent the night in my house, she dey mad wey I no go smash?"- RAPIST
"Wetin carry her go there?"- RAPIST
" Dress well and you will not ksgfjsozndoxn"- RAPIST.

AS A MAN THINKETH, SO IS HE




It's all fun and games in Nigeria, until you need to travel abroad and someone brings up your Rapey posts from the internet.


DON'T WORRY, YOUR RAPIST FRIEND WILL NOT GO TO JAIL, THE NUMBER OF CONVICTIONS IS ON THEIR SIDE, JUST TELL US, CALL THEM OUT, LET US KNOW AND AVOID THEM. DON'T SIT BY AND ALLOW WOMEN JUMP BLINDLY INTO DANGER.


NIGERIAN MEN, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER


MODIFIED:

We Appreciate All The Sensible Men That Are Standing With Us In These Times. We Appreciate All The Men That Are Not Quick To Pick Offense And Attack Us For Speaking Out. Plenty May Be Useless, But There Will Always Be Those Who Have Sense.

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Charity begins at home not online.
Start by calling your father & brothers to order first.

Here's the truth to all these, unless you all can seat and reason logically and not emotionally,you or rather We may never overcome this societal problem Rape or at least have a reduction in rape cases. Unless you lots go beyond ranting, typing long Epistles on social media or engaging in baseless arguments on Nl (which ends after few days and everyone goes back to their normal lives) We may never head anywhere.

When I saw Vera thread ,I was close to tears.It hurts and no one deserves that. But has that ever changed the fact that such is likely to happen again? It will, and like "We" always do, There will be uproar, we will rant, create threads,type theoritically correct Epistles, celebrities will REACT,Pastors will pray, Offenders would be punished and then we will go back to our normal lives until another case of million cases finds it's way on the internet again then we will have a repetition of the whole process.Please who are we decieving? . Until we understand the roots and address the issue, We may never get anywhere. And since most perpetrators are MEN. Isn't it wise to try to get into the minds of these people then profer solutions rather than issue unrealistic commands Online? Or getting to understand why they do what they do than create gender wars and man hating threads and opinions? I wonder where it has all got us all these years.


The world is bad enough, bad people are everywhere both Men and Women. Getting all emotional and spewing words that only last a moment won't get us ANYWHERE!

Unfortunately, you have deactivated.

This post still needs a worthy mention though.

Ariza/Palema, on this post, you did well.

safarigirl:
You should learn to read, before commenting on a thread. Reading is fundamental.

Take your own advice and read what the girl who quoted is teaching you. Or are you having comprehension issue?

When they say women cannot go out at night, it hits me differently

Like here at 9pm I'm already indoors because of the people on the street these days... I'm a man.

Newsflash... The street is not safe for anyone at night regardless of whether you are a man or woman.

And for women, sexual abuse is something y'all talk more about. Men just don't talk about it.

Generalnomercy:
@op, you've spoken well, However, women, ladies, girls should also respect themselves and be responsible for once.

Insecurity is insecurity everywhere in the world irrespective of male or female involvement.

It's not about the men but about common sense and fallen moral standards.


You will always find girls at the wrong place, in the wrong companies.

You will always finds girls doing what they're not supposed to be doing.

Like the girl's case in Benin, NOTHING, I MEAN NOTHING SHOULD HAVE TAKEN HER TO THAT SHRINE/CHURCH AT THAT UNGODLY HOUR, THE TRUTH BE TOLD.


MY SISTERS, NO MAN WILL EVER RAPE A GIRL IN AN OPEN PLACE, THE GIRL MAY HAVE GONE TO WHERE SHE SHOULD HAVE AVOIDED BEFORE RAPE CAN OCCUR.


GIRLS USE YOUR COMMON SENSE TO PREVENT RAPE.

GOD SAVE ALL !!!

You don't blame the victim for rape whether man or woman. The entire blame is on the rapist. There's no reason for forcibly penetrating the sexual organs of another person. it's madness, insanity. All mad people should be removed from human civilization. A person should not ever rape another for any reason whatsoever. STOP stop justifying rape. Finding reasons for rape has normalise and cause this evil to continue. Rapist are abnormal. Mad people should be removed from society.

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safarigirl:
You can go to this thread to see what sexual abuse can do to kids:

https://www.nairaland.com/3194624/child-abuse-parental-support

You can visit this thread for sexual abuse on men
https://www.nairaland.com/2534228/neglect-male-child-rape-molestation#37074437

DO NOT DERAIL THIS THREAD Thank You

Since 1973 to 2020, of the thousands of rape cases that have occurred and been reported in Nigeria, only 65 have led to convictions.


This thread is something I have been thinking of since yesterday that I've been reading on the horrible things done to women in this country, but seeing that Genevieve thread and the responses on Nairaland, from the same men that hide and support these rapists amongst them, I am now moved to start the thread.


NIGERIAN MEN, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER.


It is bad enough that most of you are totally ignorant of the ingredients that constitute rape, but the fact that the few educated ones stay silent, thereby encouraging these fiends, is even more disturbing.

WOMEN LIVE IN FEAR OF MEN. Women cannot go out at night, because of fear of being raped. Women cannot walk down a street filled with men, without the fear of being molested, women cannot go into a car filled with men, for fear of being kidnapped or being molested. A woman goes into a room filled with men, and the entire time, she is on edge, looking for other women. Women cannot go to clubs, unless they are in groups, and they still have to look out for eachother. You can not go and have fun, without thinking of worst case scenario as a woman.

Men, CAN YOU RELATE?

CAN YOU RELATE TO LIVING IN PARANOIA FOR MOST OF YOUR LIFE? CAN YOU?

DO YOU FEEL FEAR WHEN YOU WALK INTO A ROOM FULL OF WOMEN? DO YOU SEE A BUS OR CAR FILLED WITH WOMEN AND DECIDE TO WAIT FOR ANOTHER ONE? DO YOU CROSS THE ROAD WHEN YOU SEE A GROUP OF WOMEN AHEAD OF YOU?


There is NO AGE of women that do not feel this fear. You are not too young or too old for a man to rape you. From one day old to 101 years old, rape can meet you anywhere.

At HOME, you are raped
At SCHOOL, rape
At your job, rape
Even In CHURCH, RAPE.

Where is our sanctuary? When does it stop? Does being a woman mean a life of constant fear? Did we choose this? Who trained these men?

WHAT IS WRONG WITH ALL OF YOU?

Then, when women say they live in fear of men, you lot come with the usual trash:

"Not All Men"
"Some of us are good"
And my personal favorite, "Plus your father and brothers"

Is it not fathers and brothers of people, raping others?

How do we know who is and who isn't a rapist?

If a SARS or Police officer stops you on the road as a man, do you know who is dangerous and who isn't? When you call for the END of SARS, do you care which of them is good and who is bad? Why not say "Some SARS officials?" Why not say "Not all Police officers?"


That is what Genevieve and many women mean. Not all men arerapists, but are we supposed to wait and find out who is dangerous?


AS WOMEN, WE LIVE IN CONSTANT FEAR OF MEN.

Rape happens to all genders and either gender can be the aggressor, but if you did a survey today and asked 10 Men and 10 Women, if they had been molested or raped, more women will have faced these things than men.


If you walk down ANY street and ask MEN, "WHO IS MORE LIKELY TO BE A VICTIM OF RAPE BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN?" YOU, the same men, will admit that WOMEN are more likely to be victims.

Why do you think so?


DON'T BE AN INSENSITIVE TW#T, DON'T TELL US MEN ALSO GET RAPED. THAT IS EQUAL TO WHEN BLACKS ARE PROTESTING THAT BLACK LIVES MATTER, ONLY TO BE TOLD ALL LIVES MATTER.

We are not saying men do not get raped, we are saying, in this moment, the topic is women. STICK TO THE TOPIC

It is convenient, that men will never bring up the abuse of other men, unless women want to talk about women getting abused.


We Are Fighting One Cause At A Time. Do not distract from one cause, or reduce the weight of it, by bringing up your own. THIS IS NOT SUFFERHEAD OLYMPICS. YOU WILL NOT GET A MEDAL FOR BEING THE MOST RAPED GENDER.


Men, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER. REFLECT ON YOURSELVES. YOU KNOW RAPISTS.


That your friend that drugs women when you go out- RAPIST
The one that threatens unwilling women to have sex with him- RAPIST
The jokes about "If she chop my money, I go chop her"- RAPIST
" She spent the night in my house, she dey mad wey I no go smash?"- RAPIST
"Wetin carry her go there?"- RAPIST
" Dress well and you will not ksgfjsozndoxn"- RAPIST.

AS A MAN THINKETH, SO IS HE




It's all fun and games in Nigeria, until you need to travel abroad and someone brings up your Rapey posts from the internet.


DON'T WORRY, YOUR RAPIST FRIEND WILL NOT GO TO JAIL, THE NUMBER OF CONVICTIONS IS ON THEIR SIDE, JUST TELL US, CALL THEM OUT, LET US KNOW AND AVOID THEM. DON'T SIT BY AND ALLOW WOMEN JUMP BLINDLY INTO DANGER.


NIGERIAN MEN, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER


MODIFIED:

We Appreciate All The Sensible Men That Are Standing With Us In These Times. We Appreciate All The Men That Are Not Quick To Pick Offense And Attack Us For Speaking Out. Plenty May Be Useless, But There Will Always Be Those Who Have Sense.

[/s]

safarigirl:
You can go to this thread to see what sexual abuse can do to kids:

https://www.nairaland.com/3194624/child-abuse-parental-support

You can visit this thread for sexual abuse on men
https://www.nairaland.com/2534228/neglect-male-child-rape-molestation#37074437

DO NOT DERAIL THIS THREAD Thank You

Since 1973 to 2020, of the thousands of rape cases that have occurred and been reported in Nigeria, only 65 have led to convictions.


This thread is something I have been thinking of since yesterday that I've been reading on the horrible things done to women in this country, but seeing that Genevieve thread and the responses on Nairaland, from the same men that hide and support these rapists amongst them, I am now moved to start the thread.


NIGERIAN MEN, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER.


It is bad enough that most of you are totally ignorant of the ingredients that constitute rape, but the fact that the few educated ones stay silent, thereby encouraging these fiends, is even more disturbing.

WOMEN LIVE IN FEAR OF MEN. Women cannot go out at night, because of fear of being raped. Women cannot walk down a street filled with men, without the fear of being molested, women cannot go into a car filled with men, for fear of being kidnapped or being molested. A woman goes into a room filled with men, and the entire time, she is on edge, looking for other women. Women cannot go to clubs, unless they are in groups, and they still have to look out for eachother. You can not go and have fun, without thinking of worst case scenario as a woman.

Men, CAN YOU RELATE?

CAN YOU RELATE TO LIVING IN PARANOIA FOR MOST OF YOUR LIFE? CAN YOU?

DO YOU FEEL FEAR WHEN YOU WALK INTO A ROOM FULL OF WOMEN? DO YOU SEE A BUS OR CAR FILLED WITH WOMEN AND DECIDE TO WAIT FOR ANOTHER ONE? DO YOU CROSS THE ROAD WHEN YOU SEE A GROUP OF WOMEN AHEAD OF YOU?


There is NO AGE of women that do not feel this fear. You are not too young or too old for a man to rape you. From one day old to 101 years old, rape can meet you anywhere.

At HOME, you are raped
At SCHOOL, rape
At your job, rape
Even In CHURCH, RAPE.

Where is our sanctuary? When does it stop? Does being a woman mean a life of constant fear? Did we choose this? Who trained these men?

WHAT IS WRONG WITH ALL OF YOU?

Then, when women say they live in fear of men, you lot come with the usual trash:

"Not All Men"
"Some of us are good"
And my personal favorite, "Plus your father and brothers"

Is it not fathers and brothers of people, raping others?

How do we know who is and who isn't a rapist?

If a SARS or Police officer stops you on the road as a man, do you know who is dangerous and who isn't? When you call for the END of SARS, do you care which of them is good and who is bad? Why not say "Some SARS officials?" Why not say "Not all Police officers?"


That is what Genevieve and many women mean. Not all men arerapists, but are we supposed to wait and find out who is dangerous?


AS WOMEN, WE LIVE IN CONSTANT FEAR OF MEN.

Rape happens to all genders and either gender can be the aggressor, but if you did a survey today and asked 10 Men and 10 Women, if they had been molested or raped, more women will have faced these things than men.


If you walk down ANY street and ask MEN, "WHO IS MORE LIKELY TO BE A VICTIM OF RAPE BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN?" YOU, the same men, will admit that WOMEN are more likely to be victims.

Why do you think so?


DON'T BE AN INSENSITIVE TW#T, DON'T TELL US MEN ALSO GET RAPED. THAT IS EQUAL TO WHEN BLACKS ARE PROTESTING THAT BLACK LIVES MATTER, ONLY TO BE TOLD ALL LIVES MATTER.

We are not saying men do not get raped, we are saying, in this moment, the topic is women. STICK TO THE TOPIC

It is convenient, that men will never bring up the abuse of other men, unless women want to talk about women getting abused.


We Are Fighting One Cause At A Time. Do not distract from one cause, or reduce the weight of it, by bringing up your own. THIS IS NOT SUFFERHEAD OLYMPICS. YOU WILL NOT GET A MEDAL FOR BEING THE MOST RAPED GENDER.


Men, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER. REFLECT ON YOURSELVES. YOU KNOW RAPISTS.


That your friend that drugs women when you go out- RAPIST
The one that threatens unwilling women to have sex with him- RAPIST
The jokes about "If she chop my money, I go chop her"- RAPIST
" She spent the night in my house, she dey mad wey I no go smash?"- RAPIST
"Wetin carry her go there?"- RAPIST
" Dress well and you will not ksgfjsozndoxn"- RAPIST.

AS A MAN THINKETH, SO IS HE




It's all fun and games in Nigeria, until you need to travel abroad and someone brings up your Rapey posts from the internet.


DON'T WORRY, YOUR RAPIST FRIEND WILL NOT GO TO JAIL, THE NUMBER OF CONVICTIONS IS ON THEIR SIDE, JUST TELL US, CALL THEM OUT, LET US KNOW AND AVOID THEM. DON'T SIT BY AND ALLOW WOMEN JUMP BLINDLY INTO DANGER.


NIGERIAN MEN, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER


MODIFIED:

We Appreciate All The Sensible Men That Are Standing With Us In These Times. We Appreciate All The Men That Are Not Quick To Pick Offense And Attack Us For Speaking Out. Plenty May Be Useless, But There Will Always Be Those Who Have Sense.

It is quite apparent you are a very toxic person and I pity the people around you who have to deal with such a load of negative energy.

There are much better ways of getting your point across without insulting generalizations and outright false statistics that don't make any sense.

65 rape convictions?
Where the hell did you get that? In my few years of practice in Lagos and Ogun State alone, I have seen way more than that.

You need to reassess why you created this thread. Is it for rape victims or to display crass toxic feminism. Sure rape needs to be looked into but if there is a voice for the rape victim, it certainly isn't yours

It is worse that mods pushed this to the front page for traffic when it clearly goes against the same rules they set themselves. That's a lot of double standards.

It’s like pouring water on stone. The rape culture is impermeable. Deeply entrenched. Even those who “mean well” still espouse apologist ideas

At gunpoint? By female cultist? Are you for real? Why do you all have or try to create this impression that women are not capable of hurting a fly? Why?
If it is rape when a woman's drink is laced, why isn't it rape when a guy's drink is?
You sure won't tell me ladies don't use the "I will shout that you want to rape me" threat to blackmail men into getting down with them . What's that?

Sigh...... Am I really reading this right now? You believe a guy can not be raped? Wao!

@ bold:

On point!

First of all, you are the wrongest thread to discuss of rape-
Second of all, Nigeria is worst country for a woman who get raped. They always blame the woman even if she could be the right place and the right time. She could be the most decent woman and most well behaved woman , a woman of virtue who respect herself.
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Many men dey embarrass my gender.

I vote for dismembering is prikilo.