Help me. My gf is pregnant. I promise to make the story fast and short. I met this fine and beautiful girls just a week ago and we feel so contacted very quickly so the point that I ask her out that particular day and she accepted to date me. I love her a lot and she love me too. Telling the truth if I am financial stable right now I would have marry her. I intend to marry her when the time is ready. We are both in out early twenties. Fast forward, On Monday her aunt went to hospital to see a neighbor who is sick and her baby sister is sleeping so we decided to see each other since from her house to mine is just 1 minutes walk. We live very closely here in GRA. So we had a quick sex in my room( because we no do know when we are going to see each other unless talking on phone, she hardly comes out of the house) and I did not use condom coz I see her as my real girl friend and future wife. (Nah here devil enter) So when I am about to cum I pull out and release on my bed. Seriously we did not even last one minutes coz she is in a hurry to go home so as her baby sister will not wake up and start crying. She enjoy it lol but I did not coz that is just first round but I am OK because she is my girl friend.

So when we finish I told her to use the bath room and wash up before rushing home which she did. We keep on talking on phone as usual. So on Thursday and Friday she complained of weakness and serious tiredness join with running stomach which I advised her to put salt inside water and drink to stop the running stomach. (that is what I use to do whenever I have a running stomach I learn that from my late grand mom). So yesterday being Saturday I notice her attitude change due to how she responses to me. (I notice the attitude issue first on Friday night but she apologize saying her body is reacting to something she can not explain but the Saturday morning was worst). Since that morning till night she refuse to pick my calls or reply back my messages. Finally she pick up around 9pm after I keep begging her to pick my calls at least to know the problem with her. She picked and her voice was low and she was crying too that the running stomach pain is too much and that she is seeing an early period (I think she mean blood) instead of 13 or 17 that she usually see her period. She was still crying telling me that she has notice all the signs of being pregnant accept vomiting. (She google the signs) She told me told me she feels vomiting ooo but it is not coming out.

(Now the news that puts me in a thinking mood) she told me that she feels and think she is pregnant. Right now I am confused and she don't know what to do either. I told her to do a manual pregnant test to know if she is truly pregnant she said she don't know how to do that. (me I don't know too just hear they do it at home) She has refused to pick my calls again. Before she hang the call she told me that she don't want to have a baby now either do I. (Her aunt is a retired director on revenue board so if she finds out her trust on her will be gone and she will not train her in school anymore) We do not plan for any of this to happen and this is even our first sex (She is not a virgin ooo either do I) Please help me we can not afford to have a baby now. Just both of us that know about this. Please what should we do now. Is there any drugs that she can take to flush everything out since it is not up to a week.

You are free to insult me and I accept all the blame but please help advise me with the drugs to buy for her. This is the first time I am experiencing this. I don't want my family to find out because if they do I am dead. I beg everyone to help me with a drug to buy for her. I have seen people get helped here. Please doctors in the house help me.

Help and post this to front page I need a serious help medically

Help me. My gf is pregnant. I promise to make the story fast and short. I met this fine and beautiful girls just a week ago and we feel so contacted very quickly so the point that I ask her out that particular day and she accepted to date me. I love her a lot and she love me too. Telling the truth if I am financial stable right now I would have marry her.

Some people just think they can come here and just drop anything for us to hop at.

Can someone just explain the sensibility of the bolded part?

And you still de call her girlfriend



Better bomb de ur head

You promised to make the epistle short

Amotolongbo:
Some people just think they can come here and just drop anything for us to hop at.

Can someone just explain the sensibility of the bolded part?

Sorry about the typographical error. I was typing quick and did not read through before posting. I mean I met her a week ago and we feel very connected not contacted. She accepted to date me when I ask her out. Please the issues now is that she is pregnant. I don't know if you read through. Can you help me with any drug name to buy

pyyxxaro:
And you still de call her girlfriend



Better bomb de ur head

Thank you for the insult what should I cal her. Please if you are not here to help me then get the hell out. Thank you again

In Brazil We Call People Like You MUGUdinho Dos Santos


To Slap You Just dey Hungry me

DaddyRochie1642:
In Brazil We Call People Like You MUGUdinho Dos Santos


To Slap You Just dey Hungry me

Ok sir

Nairand mods at it again.Just look at what I read on this beautiful sunday.I advise you to go for a pregnancy test ASAP before making any stupid decision that might destroy your lives. SAY NO TO UNPROTECTED SEX!

Hmm. This your story get as e be. I don't know about you, but I'm not planning to get married to a lady who meets guys, agrees to date them, and proceed to bang them, all in one week. IMO, she'll likely sleep around after marriage, so marrying her won't even be as rosy as it appears.

Now, to your current misfortune. Y'all had sex on Monday, and she was having symptoms on Thursday . That's quick, tbh.. and to think that she wasn't even a virgin Except hers is a very special case, pregnancy symptoms start coming up at around two weeks into the pregnancy. So, its either she just successfully hung stray pregnancy on your neck(which is more likely) , or you're really a sharp shooter(less than one minute and you've impregnated her ).

In any case, you're a father-to-be at the moment, so congrats . Its difficult to prove that the pregnancy isn't yours. Take responsibility and don't abort the child. "He who brings wood into his house should expect ants to come in with it"

StubbornGENIUS:
Nairand mods at it again.Just look at what I read on this beautiful sunday.I advise you to go for a pregnancy test ASAP before making any stupid decision that might destroy your lives. SAY NO TO UNPROTECTED SEX!

Thanks dear. I have put that to her but there is no where she will leave the house without letting the aunt know where she is going. I intend to buy the drugs then give the gate man to help me give her

skymight:
Thanks dear. I have put that to her but there is no where she will leave the house without letting the aunt know where she is going. I intend to buy the drugs then give the gate man to help me give her

Oga since the sex happened recently, I suggest you find a way to cofirm her status first before risking her life with abortion pills.Apart from pregnancy,there are other causes of missed periods e.g. hormonal imbalance

StubbornGENIUS:
Oga since the sex happened recently, I suggest you find a way to cofirm her status first before risking her life with abortion pills.

OK Sir thank you

If she can fúck you so quickly, she can fúck another guy just as quick. Ensure you're the actual owner of the pregnancy and accept your responsibility.

ValCon888:
If she can fúck you so quickly, she can fúck another guy just as quick. Ensure you're the actual owner of the pregnancy and accept your responsibility.

I have not taught about that. Funny enough this girl is a very shy person bro. I doubt if she Bleep someone else. she never leaves the house. If she is pregnant then I am definitely the owner but I am not ready now bro.

skymight:
I have not taught about that. Funny enough this girl is a very shy person bro. I doubt if she Bleep someone else. she never leaves the house. If she is pregnant then I am definitely the owner but I am not ready now bro.

She's shy, but you asked her out in one week and fúcked her without protection?
It's alright.

You need help for two things.
First that brain that told you you can marry a girl who is in her early 20s needs to be reset. Even you are the same age. So you think at this age you already know what you want in a woman or you think at this age she already thinks she has seen her husband? Broke boy like you who is yet to find his feet? You don't know that once that girl has some freedom she will outgrow you? You are not even her first dick. Maybe not 2nd too and you feel you've seen wife...to me this is even the greater of the 2 problems than the pregnancy.

2nd as for the pregnancy the others here will advice you

ValCon888:

She's shy, but you asked her out in one week and fúcked her without protection?
It's alright.

The truth is that we feel connected to each other. I swear the feelings I have for her seems to be real. she has been the only girl I have date that calls all the time with her card. we can talk for hours. To me she is different, smiles... yes I ask her out and she accepted the next day then I bleep her on our first meeting which is one week of our relationship. All I need right now is if there is any drugs that flushes system because right now if she is truly pregnant as she said then is still blood and has not form anything yet.

Your girlfriend is paranoid.The first symptom of pregnancy is not seeing her period, other symptoms would happen between 6-8 weeks.

Go to chemist, buy pregnancy test kit, let her read and follow the instructions. Usually she pee on it, after a couple of minutes if it shows 1 line she’s not pregnant, if it shows 2 she is pregnant.

Before you buy abortion pills, make sure she carries out the test. 1 week is too early to know.

eazzzy1:
Your girlfriend is paranoid.The first symptom of pregnancy is not seeing her period, other symptoms would happen between 6-8 weeks.

Go to chemist, buy pregnancy test kit, let her read and follow the instructions. Usually she pee on it, after a couple of minutes if it shows 1 line she’s not pregnant, if it shows 2 she is pregnant.

Before you buy abortion pills, make sure she carries out the test. 1 week is too early to know.

Finally I got an answer thanks so much dear God bless you. How much is the pregnancy test kit. I have not been able to sleep sir, I am here because I need a possible solution thank you for this response I feel relieve a little.

The pregnancy test kit is about 60 naira

skymight:
Finally I got an answer thanks so much dear God bless you. How much is the pregnancy test kit. I have not been able to sleep sir, I am here because I need a possible solution thank you for this response I feel relieve a little.

I have never had to buy one myself, but it can’t be up to #2000. You can google ‘pregnancy urine test kit’ to find out how it looks like.

Also if it turns out she’s pregnant, do inform her aunt. The aunt can even take her for safe abortion. If you buy pills and it kills her or affects her adversely you can go to jail for a long time.

DominusPrime:
You need help for two things.
First that brain that told you you can marry a girl who is in her early 20s needs to be reset. Even you are the same age. So you think st this age you already know what you want in a woman or you think at this age she already things she has seen husband? Broke boy like you who is yet to find his feet? You don't know that once that girl has some freedom she will outgrow you? You are not even her first dick. Maybe not 2nd too and you feel you've seen wife...to me this is even the greater of the 2 problems than the pregnancy.

2nd as for the pregnancy the others here will advice you

Thanks for the advise.

Children are a mans heritage, blessed is he that has his quiver filled with them!! Baba , congrats!! Name the child after me abeg!! Some people need this children dearly but can't get one so abeg dont abort oo. Las las , you and the babe go enjoy free , non stop unprotected sex( modern definition of marriage)

I dont think she is pregnant just she is scared probably her first unprotected sex....
Do a test like you have been told and avoid drugs first... But if its true and you are the father... Then you decide to abort the child...
May ur village elders abort ur destiny...
You should not start what you cant finish....

Egungun has entered the express

Young man, can you take place of God? I mean what God supposed to handle, can you handle it? Is better you move on with the mistake. Let mistake build you to become a real man and responsible. Never allow your mistake to lead you into errors again. It has happened and it has happened. God has ways of taking care of his children whenever we fail like this. He will take full control if you allow him. Is not too late to make a right decision. It has happened and it has happened just handover to God's hand and let him take the wheel.

skymight:
Thanks so much for this wonderful advice. Yes I love her. But what kind of future do you think our child is going to have since we can not afford to take care of the child if we did not do anything now that the child has not formed yet. I am about to enter sch and she too. I am not a full grown man yet we are still in our earliest twenties. The mistake has been done and I am confuse right now

Congratulations