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I salute you for two things!
- You have the patience and 'mental stability' to read the whole post. Most Nigerians of today cant read more than five liness before they get bored hence their paucity of knowledge and wisdom. You will notice that most posters will avoid such post or even term it rubbish post because they cant make sense of ot, due to their poor mental and intelligence level.
- You also answered each scenario with your own opinion.
It is people like you that we need on nairaland, not all these one-liners that even post before reading a story.

Now, my drift in those hypothetical situations is that for most Women, exept in the case of Aunty Nina, all of them are Rapes and the men should be castrated or Killed! As long as the allegation is against a man, he is "Guilty and alledged", no need for investigation, no need to consider the circumstances involved, no need to see which part each of the accuser and accused played in the sex encounter...

Just Crucify the Man involved, as alleged. This is the position of most Women and their wannabe femminist- Men-haterz.

I am certain that my examples would have shown that there are 'different shades of what we all call Rape' , as we say but l am also certain that Femminist and their wimp-Men supporters would call me a rapist for even trying to draw their attention to such "Shades" but in truth, every Law and Punishment has to be JUST, if such are to stand the test of time.
We cant afford to make Laws based on emotional outburst, hatred and rage against a gender

- Should a married wife have the right to accuse her husband of rape, when all he is doing is keeping to the marriage vows which says "Your body belongs to him and his Body belongs to you"? Can a man rape himself or take by force, what he already owns, figuratively?
Should Women or Men who deny their spouse of sex not be even charged for violating the Oath they took, during Marriage?

But like you observed, in some countries, Huisbands have been jailed for "Rape" of their wife, in thier home and on their matrimonial Bed!...just because the Wife called it rape!!
This is what some Femminist are trying to import into Nigeria. The know that in such countries, Men are at the Mercy of Women because the Men dont even know where to turn to now.
- It is also why marriage is becoming obsolete in those countries and GENDER WAR is on steriods.

What l advocate is a balanced view and laws that are balanced to combat Rape, with stiff punishment to follow established cases, ............... not all these yellings by wannabe feminist, most of whom have underlying, emotional and mental issues deep down in their souls but want to hide under a noble cause like fighting rape, to exact their revenge on the Males of society! They should go for counselling and mental treatment first, so they can be logical in their thinking.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, appreciate.

....Thanks bro. Remain blessed and stay safe.

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She knows what she has said wrong and she knows why, mostly guys, are against her but she is just pretending that she is a Victim of male attack!
Intelligent people dont make "broad, generalising statements" against a country, people, gender or race" before no matter how bad those group of people are, you will always find the good ones among them and by generalising, you have shown your hatred and bias against that group.

And it is even worse when people make mistakes and cant be humble enough to accept it and apologise, instead buffoons like that keep digging themselves deeper in their Poo, while pointing fingers at others!
It is called Blissful Ignorance

I even wonder how some ladies relate with their FATHER, Brothers, Uncles and other males in their family, when you say all men are rapists, does that mean that her father and brothers are also rapist or what?

I wonder o bro. I've corrected her in that perspetive

So many have died because hospitals are more interested in collecting money first... do your job first and hold the victim for further investigation....

FlordFlorez:
No, but the reason why men say such during rape cases is probably cos of d way some women sterotype it as if its only lady thing (im sorry to say u are guity here) & for the fact that females now take it as a weapon against us. Some even use it to hurt guys cos of breakup in the past, like many years ago(ans to Q1). Stigmatization. Female victims are guity of this too, e.g bukola dankolo took her many years(ans to Q2). Nope, atleast not in all cases or persons involved, e.g myself. Its to downplay wrong opinions of feminists that want to use that opportunity to attack male folks(ans to Q3).

men are not the ones being brutally raped and killed ,I could careless if it's a sterotype or not , people's daughters are being senselessly sent to their early graves because of rapists and these rapists are men .


If you are concerned of sterotype ,talk to your brothers to control their penis ,case solved.

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We really dont know what some of the Officers of these Hospitals are facing, though l must be quick to add that the Staff of most Public Agencies (Hospitals, Civil Servants, Police, etc) have bad Etiquette and respond to the Public with anger.
They should just TRY AND BE NICE to their Customers/Patients.

But on the other hand, we live in a country where the Government, and the most recent one happened about a week ago, Government cuts money off from Education and Health and then transfers it to National Assembly Renovation and buying more Vehicles, right in the middle of a Pandemic.

How can we then not expect the Medical officers to be angry and not perform as expected? Why would we not expect that every Doctor/Nurse in Nigeria wants to go work abroad?
Imagine, the Generator of a Hospital like LUTH is not on Automatic Start and they have to go look for the Operator?
What if an equipment being used in a delicate Surgery needs uninterrupted Power and they cant get diesel to buy? Why are Hospitals like LUTH not on SOLAR POWER and 'Nepa' used as just a backup?

Are Nigerian leaders serious at all or are they from another world or is it just how to loot that they know?
Is it not a Minister for Health that lied to Nigerians about the bringing of Chinese "technicians" into Nigeria, during this Covid-19 Lockdown? Do we how much has exchnged hands for him to be able to put his integrity on the line, just to protect that shady deal about the Chinese Doctors who later changed to technicians, according to our Minister?

Our Doctors and Nurses can only work with what they are provided with, even as we beg them to show a 'human face' when they deal with innocent Patients. The members of the Public are not responsible for these problems and should not be made to suffer for them.
l just hope Covid-19 will help us clear as many of these looters from our country, as is possible.

Quite interesting...of course the govt has failed and now we are living on borrowed lifeline...
But the question is what are the people going to do about it?

The giant in Nigeria lies with the people. But unfortunately ours is are sleeping giants...

A people that cannot demand of the govt a responsible leadership by means of civil disobedience can never get accountability.

But, sadly, an illiterate proletariat doesn't know the govt owes him something, hence no demand is made.
Hardly a hope in sight for this country...I don't see it...

Ladycewhy:
men are not the ones being brutally raped and killed ,I could careless if it's a sterotype or not , people's daughters are being senselessly sent to their early graves because of rapists and these rapists are men .


If you are concerned of sterotype ,talk to your brothers to control their penis ,case solved.

Lolz! I know no rapist, atleast i would've help u talk to them. But i want u to know that male rape victims are being gruesomely killed too in some few cases. Haven't u heard about female cult group members, take turns in raping their male victim to death before? Though, its rare and unannounced or unpopular but it happens in higher institutions.

FlordFlorez:
Lolz! I know no rapist, atleast i would've help u talk to them. But i want u to know that male rape victims are being gruesomely killed too in some few cases. Haven't u heard about female cult group members, take turns in raping their male victim to death before? Though, its rare and unannounced or unpopular but it happens in higher institutions.

ok , when that thread comes up ,I will comment , but for now I will focus on will focus on that plaguing women .

Nawa o. These satanic rapists should be castrated. Also, it's looking more like rape + ritualism joined together because I'm not understanding. God be with the victims.

https://motrendzz..com/

Ladycewhy:
ok , when that thread comes up ,I will comment , but for now I will focus on will focus on that plaguing women .

Ok ma, my female activist or human activist. Good night...

Screaming and Moaning...
But she loves it.

xpool:


I wanted to rebuke that guy, but you now sounding like a real rapist ...

You were ramming her from behind and she won't stop slurping on the Dickk

Jabhunter:
did I rape your mother?
She was screaming more for my dick... Stupid ass

jaxxy:
What’s the fee? Was that the reason she left? What policy does Luth have to support rape victims?

This is the exact question i wanted to ask

Ladycewhy:
men are not the ones being brutally raped and killed ,I could careless if it's a sterotype or not , people's daughters are being senselessly sent to their early graves because of rapists and these rapists are men .


If you are concerned of sterotype ,talk to your brothers to control their penis ,case solved.

You no get brothers? How are you sure they were not the one that raped Uwa and murder her.?

Always wondered about that part of her story. Why would LUTH need the charges dropped? Makes no sense. Is it linked to the peculiarities of the police report that would be generated? Should treatment be suspended until the police allow it or what? Many questions. I suspect the statement was quoted out of context.

oluwamile:
Luth this luth that,sometimes things are way beyond there control,u guys don't know hw police do come to harass us here as regards treating gun victims and sensitive issues like ds rape without getting approval from them,so let us not be quick to judge
Although the management is nothing to write home about
I remember Mr ibu's case,he brought his son for treatment,Drs couldn't attend to his son quickly,so before a Dr could come by,the child was already in coma,wen they took the child to theatre, they needed to operate him,light no dey,we requested for gen to be put on,we didn't see generator man,they said generator man go chop,after sometime he came back,oga put on gen,he said diesel no dey,Mr ibu took it upon himself to get diesel for us nearby,put on gen,by then the child was already struggling to live
The child died,and I felt so sad for Mr ibu,He was still mourning his loss wen a consultant worked in and went to meet ibu and requested for his sons body to be used as pratical for medical students,he was furious and visibly angry,he almost raised down luth that day,luth is stupid no doubt

my God

Openbusiness:
Useless hospital. Always putting money above patient's welfare. Why not treat the girl first? They want money for card first, or no treatment. Lackadaisical devils in human skin. Why are 9ja doctors very heartless set of people, especially those ones working in government hospitals, why?

Yes naw! So when a person walks into the hospital (in this case, sat in the car) and asks for treatment, you'll just say come here... Come and receive treatment.
You won't keep record of when they entered abi. You won't open a file to trace any written record abi?
And the nurse that wants to give an injection will just walk in an inject the wrong person.
When the whole thing turns upside down, you'll open ur mouth and ask for the hospital to show its record. Which record? The same one it didn't keep?

They should just treat. With what? There's a pandemic and there's barely any provision for the doctors to protect themselves yet u still want them to use their money to treat first.

You can see your politicians running to London and back for a simple headache whilst the hospitals are neglected here. You'll not hold those ones. It's the people that work night and day with miserable compensation you'll face.

Rubbish!

If someone should abuse you that you don't have sense now, they'll say why am i being aggressive.

Justbehave:
You no get brothers? How are you sure they were not the one that raped Uwa and murder her.?

my brother is not in this cursed country . So it's definitely your brothers .

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Obviously some stories just don't make sense.
But if you point it out you will quickly be tagged a rape apologist.

Why would LUTH say they should drop charges against the dispatcher? Is the dispatcher the one paying their salary?


This is not to say that the rape incident itself is a lie o.

oga if u cannot read go to school again

bmdmixer:

really? ritualist n terrorist will b placed in what rank?

don't understand did I in any way write that rape should be seen as a criminal act than terrorism or ritualist.
Look read well before jumping into conclusion

Ladycewhy:
Nigerian men ,make una control una penis na which kind perverted breeds of men we come get for this country sef , spits

Have you told ya father this yet, charity begins at home you know!

BabbanBura:


Have told ya father this yet, charity begins at home you know!

Her father is not in this"kussed" country naw, he is in India!

Like there is a country in the world where there is zero incidence of Rape

abdsamad:


Yes naw! So when a person walks into the hospital (in this case, sat in the car) and asks for treatment, you'll just say come here... Come and receive treatment.
You won't keep record of when they entered abi. You won't open a file to trace any written record abi?
And the nurse that wants to give an injection will just walk in an inject the wrong person.
When the whole thing turns upside down, you'll open ur mouth and ask for the hospital to show its record. Which record? The same one it didn't keep?

They should just treat. With what? There's a pandemic and there's barely any provision for the doctors to protect themselves yet u still want them to use their money to treat first.

You can see your politicians running to London and back for a simple headache whilst the hospitals are neglected here. You'll not hold those ones. It's the people that work night and day with miserable compensation you'll face.

Rubbish!

If someone should abuse you that you don't have sense now, they'll say why am i being aggressive.

You too like aggressive play-play

justli:



Quite interesting...of course the govt has failed and now we are living on borrowed lifeline...
But the question is what are the people going to do about it?

The giant in Nigeria lies with the people. But unfortunately ours is are sleeping giants...

A people that cannot demand of the govt a responsible leadership by means of civil disobedience can never get accountability.

But, sadly, an illiterate proletariat doesn't know the govt owes him something, hence no demand is made.
Hardly a hope in sight for this country...I don't see it...

Most Nigerians are Cowards,
- our thieves prefer to robthe poor people like themselves, Teachers, Nurses, Bricklayers, Office Clerks, while they avoid the stinking Rich people that could provide more profit for their nefarious trade!
- Nigerian protesters will prefer to loot, destroy and burn shops in poor neighbourhoods but will not go near expensive shops in upscale areas
- They will atatck their poor neighbours over nothing but when they see the Politicians that looted thier destiny passing, they will throw their two hands up in the air and salute T'wale Saarh!

But l dont blame them entirely, Nigerian Elites have been very Smart, brutal and forward thiniking!
They have inflicted Unimaginable Poverty on the average Nigerian, to the point that even to protest for a few days, has become a challenge because Hunger will send them back to their place of getting small-small income!

The Protesters in America and Europe will never die of Hunger, even if they protest continously, everyday, for a whole year! Their "food is guarranteed" but Nigerian "Evil and Wicked" leaders has continously impverished their people such that if they dont go out to source for food within just three days of protest, hunger will drive them back to work, not even CoronaVirus can stop them from fending for food.

So, when we blame poor Nigerians that the cant protest like their counterparts elsewhere, we should remember that the issue is out of their hands, only a violent (maybe Military but the current Military has become a joke!) ransacking of Govt can restore and reset Nigeria to glory...and it is a long shot, in my own opinion.

What is this one saying ? How much is registration ? 1.5k. Once you don't Register you are not the hospital patient .And no Doctor is bound by law to see you.abi where will they write the findings after examination ? Sheet of paper? Don't forget this is a legal case.once it's proven that she didn't register then you don't have a case.period

Openbusiness:
Useless hospital. Always putting money above patient's welfare. Why not treat the girl first? They want money for card first, or no treatment. Lackadaisical devils in human skin. Why are 9ja doctors very heartless set of people, especially those ones working in government hospitals, why?

Around 2013
I turned one of their useless ward upside down.....
Because of one stupid beautiful nurse.....

They don't know how to act and talk to patients anyhow...

Nairaland girls don see something to dey masturbate with now, any small argument you don turn rapist or rape apologist

benjazzy009:

oga if u cannot read go to school again

You're the one who is quick to jump into things. Have you read the lady's accusations before LUTH's response. If you did, then you would have understood what I meant.



Abi those 100+ people that liked the comment too can not read

BillKapri96:
Y'all see what have been saying, Why did she leave without taking the allleged victim to see doctors available? Most of these allege rape cases are all big lies. Fear Women, they can do anything, same folks that will knowingly put someone's child on your head.

BTW, on 2nd of June, I joined nairaland

Congratulations

BabbanBura:


Have you told ya father this yet, charity begins at home you know!

I am starting with you so you can go and tell your father and brothers man to man .

I dont really understand what is trending on social media this past week....all is rape..rape.. rape
Can someone one tell me what is going on in this country of ours...where every woman wants to come out and say that I was raped back then in the BC and still go away with it... God help us

Ladycewhy:
I am starting with you so you can go and tell your father and brothers man to man .

No darling, he didnt train you well, go and tell him that Babbanbura said "charity begins at home". Oloriburukutu!

BabbanBura:


No darling, he didnt train you well, go and tell him that Babbanbura said "charity begins at home". Oloriburukutu!

Seems guilty conscience is worrying you ,Mr rapists