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Budline1:
You shouldn't be hurt if you don't play games. My message reflects on girls that play games. Read what he wrote, he explained better.

Ariza:
Then you shouldn't judge who you don't know. And I'm showing you all how you create and circulate hatred, evil and ungratefulness.

You can't fault one gender and vindicate the other if you really want the end of what your supposed message entails. Unless you all are here to gossip as usual and not seek way forward.

Budline1:
Point out where he encouraged hatred, evil and ungratefulness. He has been a good boyfriend to her, even ignored her flaws eventho he knew she was taking advantage of another guy while they date.

He did the right thing by breaking up with her because he wouldn't let himself be manipulated. The girl was the evil one, let's call a spade a spade.

Ariza:
You obviously don't think or comprehend. I'm not one to engage in 1+1 arguments, please find your ilks .

FreeSpirited:
Yes. Maybe..and probably not a barrier to pummel a sweetcunt97 times

SweetCunt97:
To the illiterate.. Yes. So you abuse kindness huh? Or u too big to b shown kindness huh? Retards

Budline1:
It's not your fault. U this ghetto girl be feeling fly on nairaland, you feel you can just throw punches to anyone on here right. I made a mistake by replying your dumb comment in the first place, you clearly lack home training and you have to be very careful of what you say here. Don't let me reason ur case. I won't reply u anymore because I don't roll that way, I'd rather make my moves silently. It's not a threat, it's a warning.

Again, be careful.

mikebabs101:
why are you trying to judge me lol, she was good to me and I was good to her , the sex is mutual and she love sex, the point is she's is too manipulative to be taken serious on the long term , if you read the my story again, I stated I broke up when she tried some game with me , it really has to do with asking me to pay for her house rent in school when I know she has parents. Even if I could afford , I witnessed with my eyes ,how she took a guy that was kind to her for a fool, I won't put myself in such a situation

FreeSpirited:
Yes this sounds like generalization, enough anecdotal evidence is to me enough to generalize this habit of ladies and many guys can confirm this.
When a man decides to relate with a woman based on goodwill and not treating her casually or badly like bad boys, they quickly take it for granted. Why? Some even make it look like they are smarter than you or have certain power over you because you act with charity and generously towards them. Lol.
Many of them probably deserve the meanness they get from guys who maltreat them cos it seems they get certain high and personal self worth from being treated like thrash. I think it's their psychology, though unfortunate. To change this habit, if they can, they have to be intentional and aware of this attitude; cos otherwise, smart men will use it against them by treating them badly and still manipulate them to get their money, sex and respect.
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It's funny even a regular gal u know as slut, who u just decide to relate with kindness cos it costs you nothing, even though u know how guys treat her badly. Yet, she also takes it for granted.
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The truth is many men are intentionally stingy with women cos they know when women percieve them to be kind, they start acting important and misbehaving. So not all men are really stingy, but the attitude of women make many men to restrain their giving towards women. Before you know it, the gal will say he's a Maga. Lol. Imagine calling a Millionaire who only gives you 50k, 100k a Maga. And they think he's a fool. That's the point. Na their problem Sha. Be too kind to a woman, sooner he will take you for granted, even disrespect you.

Omar09:
Oh no... It's not about what you typed. I saw you and just remembered what you typed here yesterday. I still shroud at the thought of it.

Sierusvirus:
Because they don’t appreciate kind men but rather hard and difficult men to deal with them.

Sierusvirus:
Because they don’t appreciate kind men but rather hard and difficult men to deal with them.

SweetCunt97:
What's that?

oluspicy:
Valid points raised.

At the end of the day frustration will make them jump from one prayer house to another, from one mountain to another in search of husband.

mikebabs101:
You are so on point with this observation, imagine taking a millionaire that gave you 50k as maga , just because he decided to be nice, ladies just don't seem to understand what they want. I can relate with this . I use to have a girlfriend back then, although I'm not really into her , I was just in for the sex and being a gentleman, she really likes me cos in reality I cared less, she was invested in the relationship than I did . She was in uni then , she met another guy that bought her a Samsung phone of 75k and even gave 50k for undies business may be some other money which I'm not aware of. The mistake the guy made was giving her those money before getting her to bed. She tagged the guy maga and a fool, her friends even joked about it. She frustrated the guy attempt to have sex with her , she won't go visit him on many occasion while she was giving me the sex free of charge, for her mind , she is smart but I know the guy was only being kind and giving her the money out of abundance, the guy later blocked her when the game became obvious to him, I just pitied the guy. Immediately she gave sign of trying to play game with me , I broke up with her, I outplayed her, she felt used, but I know she deserve it and not the type of girl I can trust , she was just my sex tool for a long time till I got tired of her . Never try too much to impress a girl with money or material things, most of them will take you for granted, its better they know you have the money but let them try to impress you and earn whatever you decide to give, they will worship you that way. The story is real , I did not sugar coat anything, that's just the reality