Aizen123:
Please I need advice. I lost my Dad over 2 months now and he hasn't been buried due to the pandemic. My Uncle's are all in Lagos and can't come back.

So after the lockdown was over we decided to go to the village.. On getting I discovered that his shop was open and all the money going into the first Uncle (first son) account.. So I called my uncle because he told me it was locked and he was saying did he need my permission before to open the shop and i decided to just control myself because i like peace and i decided to go to the house in the village...

On getting there I called my uncle and he told me the keys are with them in Lagos ... That it was waybilled and i said ok and went back with my brother and sister.

Fast forward today... I got a call from someone in the village that my Dad's burial death has been fixed and i was wowed because as the first son i haven't been told yet by my uncle's. So right now i am about acting but i need advice.

Aizen123:
Please I need advice. I lost my Dad over 2 months now and he hasn't been buried due to the pandemic. My Uncle's are all in Lagos and can't come back.

So after the lockdown was over we decided to go to the village.. On getting I discovered that his shop was open and all the money going into the first Uncle (first son) account.. So I called my uncle because he told me it was locked and he was saying did he need my permission before to open the shop and i decided to just control myself because i like peace and i decided to go to the house in the village...

On getting there I called my uncle and he told me the keys are with them in Lagos ... That it was waybilled and i said ok and went back with my brother and sister.

Fast forward today... I got a call from someone in the village that my Dad's burial death has been fixed and i was wowed because as the first son i haven't been told yet by my uncle's. So right now i am about acting but i need advice.

Aizen123:
Please I need advice. I lost my Dad over 2 months now and he hasn't been buried due to the pandemic. My Uncle's are all in Lagos and can't come back.

So after the lockdown was over we decided to go to the village.. On getting I discovered that his shop was open and all the money going into the first Uncle (first son) account.. So I called my uncle because he told me it was locked and he was saying did he need my permission before to open the shop and i decided to just control myself because i like peace and i decided to go to the house in the village...

On getting there I called my uncle and he told me the keys are with them in Lagos ... That it was waybilled and i said ok and went back with my brother and sister.

Fast forward today... I got a call from someone in the village that my Dad's burial death has been fixed and i was wowed because as the first son i haven't been told yet by my uncle's. So right now i am about acting but i need advice.

Carchoice:
The mistake you’ll ever make in life is fighting uncles/aunties over your late fathers property. It’s not a lost battle but it’s a waste of time and resources to me.


Leave them to do their thing. It doesn’t mean you are a weakling or scared but don’t fight over property’s with them. Just don’t do it.

Surprise them on the date of the burial by showing up to pay your last respect or better still you can shun it. Your father is dead already.

Don’t fight over property o!!! If they want to take it by force. Leave it for them and work for your own. You can always do more with the life ahead of you.

Geonigga:
shun one's father's burial? You must have a bad upbringing.

betterpikinn:

I'm sure you're still a kid. Probably a teenager and/or undergraduate...
Life will teach you lessons and experiences When you grow up...

Aizen123:
thanks but still i can't let someone else take my father's sweat... Will surely follow them with wisdom and probably involve village elders if need arises even the youths have told me that they are behind me if it turns out they are planning something evil

patrickmuf:
Do you know the person you quoted? Some of you just chat shit on the internet.

Aizen123:
Please I need advice. I lost my Dad over 2 months now and he hasn't been buried due to the pandemic. My Uncle's are all in Lagos and can't come back.

So after the lockdown was over we decided to go to the village.. On getting I discovered that his shop was open and all the money going into the first Uncle (first son) account.. So I called my uncle because he told me it was locked and he was saying did he need my permission before to open the shop and i decided to just control myself because i like peace and i decided to go to the house in the village...

On getting there I called my uncle and he told me the keys are with them in Lagos ... That it was waybilled and i said ok and went back with my brother and sister.

Fast forward today... I got a call from someone in the village that my Dad's burial death has been fixed and i was wowed because as the first son i haven't been told yet by my uncle's. So right now i am about acting but i need advice.

kingBolton:

The way people just jump and call people kids on a faceless just because of a difference in opinion sha..

Carchoice:
The mistake you’ll ever make in life is fighting uncles/aunties over your late fathers property. It’s not a lost battle but it’s a waste of time and resources to me.


Leave them to do their thing. It doesn’t mean you are a weakling or scared but don’t fight over property’s with them. Just don’t do it.

Surprise them on the date of the burial by showing up to pay your last respect or better still you can shun it. Your father is dead already.

Don’t fight over property o!!! If they want to take it by force. Leave it for them and work for your own. You can always do more with the life ahead of you.

obonujoker:
My advice for you.

If you act or you don't act, they'd still kill you if they want....

Meet a pastor. Meet the elders. Infact you need a pastor if possible to go with you to the village.

Probably they want to do some ritualistic rites to bury along with you dad, so that when they start dealing with you, his spirit won't come and fight them.... Then they will subdue you and make you a slave, and what you are running for, will finally come for you.

Go with a deliverance pastor. Ask for the culture of burial rites in your village...being the first son, you are the one who has the legal rite to bury your dad, not one foolish theiving uncle.

It happened to me. I went with great men of God. I buried my Dad amongst all these. Secured 4 plots of land, and the rites belonging to a first son, when an uncle even told me I should bury my Dad in a room. I was taken to elders, and I asked what was the culture, and it was if the first son of the man...and I was able to speak up and choose where I wanted. Meanwhile the night, was vigil all through....

God be with you bro. Talk to other uncles. Explain this situation to a pastor

Olarewaju89:
If you need your life, pls run ooo or else, they will kill you. I'm taking from experience here. Thanks

dam4sam:


What if he falls into a ditch and die, while running?
A Man will die when it is his time to die and just drinking water will kill him, when his time has come!

Look at Abba Kyari, with all the Power he commands in this country, as the De Facto President, who would beleivev that it is just a tiny, microscopic virus that will choke him to death?
Dont die before your death, do what is right and go forward without fear, if it is not yet your time, no one can kill you.

Carchoice:
The mistake you’ll ever make in life is fighting uncles/aunties over your late fathers property. It’s not a lost battle but it’s a waste of time and resources to me.


Leave them to do their thing. It doesn’t mean you are a weakling or scared but don’t fight over property’s with them. Just don’t do it.

Surprise them on the date of the burial by showing up to pay your last respect or better still you can shun it. Your father is dead already.

Don’t fight over property o!!! If they want to take it by force. Leave it for them and work for your own. You can always do more with the life ahead of you.

Briller:


My dear, apply utmost wisdom. I'm sure your dad prayed you grow up to be greater than him. Whatever he had is nothing compared to what you will become in life. Be careful of betrayal even from the so-called youths and elders.

Something similar happened in my family and I advised my only brother to forfeit the assets. The elders and youths turned around and took sides with our half-brother. It was a very tough decision to forfeit his inheritance but God does not sleep. He proved himself over and over to us. Obviously wanted my brother away from that toxic environment to start overloading him with blessings.

Bottom line, today my brother is alive and well made. He is doing far better than all the oppressors put together. Built 5times what was taken from him and still counting.

If you are. Christian, make Philippians 4:5-7 your watchword.

donbachi:
Go and transfer ur late father's corpse to another mortuary or u go back to that very mortuary u deposited his body,and warn them not to release his corpse to anybody,unless u come in person.as for the shop,buy another key and lock it.while u plan for his burial..do not give room to anger and exchange of words.