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Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by Lucyspa: 2:39pm On Jun 13, 2020

Tbh, the first thing that attracts me to a guy is tge quality of what he is wearing e. g quality shoe, wristwatch in fact everything.

Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by Bimpe29(m): 3:42pm On Jun 13, 2020

What about his faithfulness?

Kweensavvy:
Intellect, wisdom...ambitious hustler..

And don't think 'hustling' is just all about 'being broke' or looking for bread to eat..

Ambitious hustle is hustling with your brains and specific goals.

It's about not being comfortable with where you are. (Dangote, Otedola, those guys are still hustlers)...

So! ability to maintain an interesting conversation, humour and sound grammar and that's it!

Those 'attract me' enough to start a friendship.

Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by lammylam(f): 4:33pm On Jun 13, 2020

HazardMan:
What if it is a flat one?

Then he will have to make up for it in his sense of humor

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Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by HazardMan(op): 4:52pm On Jun 13, 2020

lammylam:
Then he will have to make up for it in his sense of humor

hmmm

Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by Nobody: 5:05pm On Jun 13, 2020*

From my experience with the categories of women that have fell in love with me all through my life, what attracts women to a man all depends on her age and what she wants at that time.

For younger women, especially teenagers, you just have to be handsome and got swag. At that age, they are all about the vibes of the man and how he make her feel fly, to impress her friends. When the lady is matured, then traits like ambition, confidence, articulation, and the traditional qualities that represent a man are sought after.

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Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by Nobody: 5:24pm On Jun 13, 2020

Ejenavi18:
Physical features like being attractive, proper hygiene, nice smell..
Then, ability to initiate and maintain intelligent conversations.

You forgot to add something it
MONEY

Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Jun 13, 2020

MoodyQueen:
Intelligence, fashion style and height.

You forgot something
MONEY

Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by Nobody: 5:27pm On Jun 13, 2020

luscioustrish:
Personality, vibes, bulge in the middle

Y'all keep forgetting the main thing
MONEY

Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by arthorjnr(m): 5:31pm On Jun 13, 2020

A guy makes a thread for ladies and plenty guys jump on it!!!

Ffs would it kill y'll not to comment and observe first??!!!

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Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by pryme(m): 5:38pm On Jun 13, 2020

MoodyQueen:
Title clearly stated “ladies” but no!

You peasants must masturbate on every thread.

Can't you all take the back seat & allow ladies to express their own views & not what you think?

You now have my attention, let's have your point of view.

Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by pryme(m): 5:39pm On Jun 13, 2020

Kweensavvy:
Intellect, wisdom...ambitious hustler..

And don't think 'hustling' is just all about 'being broke' or looking for bread to eat..

Ambitious hustle is hustling with your brains and specific goals.

It's about not being comfortable with where you are. (Dangote, Otedola, those guys are still hustlers)...

So! ability to maintain an interesting conversation, humour and sound grammar and that's it!

Those 'attract me' enough to start a friendship.

Do we have ladies that can do this in return?

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Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by MRAKBEE(m): 5:45pm On Jun 13, 2020

Olami1919:
I have been with many ladies that your pocket isnt even one of what they want.

But depression didnt allow me to be with any of them then.

Thats very rare. So how are you faring now?

Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jun 13, 2020*

pryme:
Do we have ladies that can do this in return?

Yes, all NL ladies (95%) have those traits you highlighted. It's not hard na.

Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by Nobody: 8:33pm On Jun 13, 2020*

Bimpe29:
What about his faithfulness?

By faithfulness you mean not cheating on me?

Well, the topic only asks for what 'attracts me'. The attraction could be for platonic friendship too.

So for me, the first stage is 'attraction' (what the thread is about)...then platonic friendship bond (at this stage, his faithfulness is none of my business)...then maybe the NEXT STAGE (where I can talk about faithfulness).

So that one sef dey but the thread isnt about that stage.

Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by Nobody: 8:36pm On Jun 13, 2020

Neat and slim grin

Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Jun 13, 2020

Ugaboy:
...just learn to be patient while typing and always take ur time to go through what u typed, it can help reduce us typo error, i do same(too fast and skipping words)...the insults got me strengthen.
Alway remember this...JUST 1 MINUTE PATIENT

Thanks, I guess my fingers are trying to keep up with the pace of my mind (even when I write sometimes)...

It doesn't always happen; depends on what I'm typing/ writing about.

But thanks a lot for the advice!

Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by maximusprime2000: 9:26pm On Jun 13, 2020

Olami1919:
I have been with many ladies that your pocket isnt even one of what they want.

But depression didnt allow me to be with any of them then.

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Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 11:26pm On Jun 13, 2020

Prettyvirginia:
Height and shoe

Shoe WTF?....Now that's a new one. So no show for people like us wey be pam gang?

Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 11:30pm On Jun 13, 2020

Lucyspa:
Tbh, the first thing that attracts me to a guy is tge quality of what he is wearing e. g quality shoe, wristwatch in fact everything.

Na so okpo tey dey start

Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by Lucyspa: 11:32pm On Jun 13, 2020

OLDESTWARRIBOY:
Na so okpo tey dey start

How?

Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 11:32pm On Jun 13, 2020

arthorjnr:
A guy makes a thread for ladies and plenty guys jump on it!!!

Ffs would it kill y'll not to comment and observe first??!!!

But bros you join dem nah

Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 11:36pm On Jun 13, 2020

pryme:
Do we have ladies that can do this in return?

Ejo. Mba. Rara

Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 11:40pm On Jun 13, 2020

Lucyspa:
How?

All the nonsese you wrote there at your first post translates to one word.....

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Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by arthorjnr(m): 11:52pm On Jun 13, 2020

OLDESTWARRIBOY:
But bros you join dem nah

Lol, I knew someone would say this.
But honestly, I had to let it out.

Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by Lucyspa: 12:31am On Jun 14, 2020

OLDESTWARRIBOY:
All the nonsese you wrote there at your first post translates to one word.....

Okay.... I like money ooo.

Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by Westernlove: 1:05am On Jun 14, 2020

lammylam:
First thing
Hair, dress, butt (I like guys with strong butt)

You don't meant It, but It must not be big I guess lol...... grin

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Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by Westernlove: 1:11am On Jun 14, 2020

Lucyspa:
Okay.... I like money ooo.

No worry, You go soon dey Vomit am since you like the taste very well Ole...... grin

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Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 3:16am On Jun 14, 2020

Lucyspa:
Okay.... I like money ooo.

yeah fine... Own it

Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by Bimpe29(m): 11:58am On Jun 14, 2020

Okay

Kweensavvy:
By faithfulness you mean not cheating on me?

Well, the topic only asks for what 'attracts me'. The attraction could be for platonic friendship too.

So for me, the first stage is 'attraction' (what the thread is about)...then platonic friendship bond (at this stage, his faithfulness is none of my business)...then maybe the NEXT STAGE (where I can talk about faithfulness).

So that one sef dey but the thread isnt about that stage.

Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by gfm01: 12:14pm On Jun 14, 2020

luscioustrish:
Personality, vibes, bulge in the middle

hmmmmm bulge in d middle ��

Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by Ugaboy: 1:05pm On Jun 14, 2020

Kweensavvy:
Thanks, I guess my fingers are trying to keep up with the pace of my mind (even when I write sometimes)...

It doesn't always happen; depends on what I'm typing/ writing about.

But thanks a lot for the advice!

ya welcome deary

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Re: Ladies, What's The First Thing You Check Out On A Guy? by Prettyvirginia(f): 1:16pm On Jun 14, 2020

OLDESTWARRIBOY:
Shoe WTF?....Now that's a new one. So no show for people like us wey be pam gang?

Lolz. Don't get it twisted. Most ladies notice your shoe and wristwatch immediately you approach them. Just upgrade yourself

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