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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by luminouz(m): 9:06pm On Jun 14, 2020
Prettyvirginia:



Lolzz. Funny

Lol...have a good one... wink
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Jun 14, 2020
jojothaiv:

grin grin

No worry, with time you will understand.
ok
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by akintunde63: 9:06pm On Jun 14, 2020
iamyemiakins:
Have you ever dated someone who desperately wanted to get married when you were not ready?



How was the experience?
It was a crazy experience! Within three weeks of relationship, she was already sending me pictures of shoes, purses, handbags, headgears, aso ebi, rings ...that she wanted. I was overwhelmed and pressured.

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by luminouz(m): 9:06pm On Jun 14, 2020
Enugupikin:

That's why some of these women aren't respected...they think too shallow..she can't even buy a boiled egg for her man grin grin

Lol...don't be too hard on her....already told her my mind
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by luminouz(m): 9:08pm On Jun 14, 2020
vickydevoka:

I tire oo

She wasn't being real jare!!!

Because that dude really tried. it takes a good woman to do what that dude freely did for 3 years
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by fcdgrand(m): 9:08pm On Jun 14, 2020
one 28+ those years said, some men are asking her hand in marriage, guy: what are you waiting for?, baby: is that what you have to say?, guy: not interested!
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by OriOko88(m): 9:13pm On Jun 14, 2020
ednut1:
In 2017 i met a lady who wanted marriage in 6 months. Told her i had financial commitments as i took a loan to buy land and i missed promotion at work. So money no dey. This was just second date o. She said she will contribute for the wedding and it has to happen next year. She was like i know what i want bla bla. She is still single today. Idiat lady
You for no call her idiot now. She really loved you poor her
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by RIDOO: 9:15pm On Jun 14, 2020
Mine was a different ball game.At a point in my life l had to break off from some boyfriends that are choking me with their too much seriousness when me still they chop d life of my life



Mr Y will give me orders as if he has already paid my bride price(very domineering) May be because he's from a royal family o but l no send. l've not even agreed to have serious relationship with him o.....still a boy friend and already behaving like an husby.That was my 3rd yr in d Uni...l quickly japaa.

Mr N was a lover boy..He claims he loved me to the moon n back.He will always travel to n come looking for me in school...He will always introduce me to Fam n friends at slightest opportunity... He will speak to me on the phone for hours...when he will spoil the whole show dt was when his politician brother called me one day that l should inform my people they are coming for introduction... Me whey l never agree say l wan marry am...Na so l japaa.

Mr T was this Mr perfect stuff he is from a rich home..always want my friends n FAM to like him.He will prostrate flat for my dad like say he don give his daughter hand in marriage to him..He is most desperate for things to move on very fast..but my instinct told me he already has a child which l found out later to me true..That was how l japaa


MrD was on the same campus with me n he was ready to go to any length ..but l don't love him..in fact he has this way of carrying everyone along in my family buy he was the one l had the smallest feelings for.He persuaded me but l was not even ready to date him


So d list goes on and on..ladies too have guys who usually wanted to hook/marry them by fire by force not the other way round alone.

Last bullet.... By the grace of God I'm married now..my hubby was the one who was so desperate to marry... Infact at a point in time l had to run away from him cos he's choking me with too much attention... B4 we finally got married and lo n behold he still love me even till today as if l want to run away.

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Madakiss666(m): 9:16pm On Jun 14, 2020
I'm even in her room right now but we're not in a relationship anymore... just cool!
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Joshmuch: 9:17pm On Jun 14, 2020
francisgodstime:
oga remove that 40s cos my aunty is just 36 a manager at intercontinental distiller with salary over 1million yet husband no gree show
Her problem might be higher taste and ego. It's scientifically and empirically proven that when females attain heights, they puff and eff up, hence Bleep up too. Consequently, Manly men abhor an egalitarian or authoritarian as a wife more so if she's in unteachable and unsubmissive.

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Allshadesfemale: 9:18pm On Jun 14, 2020
it could also be his
AfroKnight:


Chai!

Your first born would have been another man’s child. Shît!!!

This is how men end up raising other people’s kids, only to find out the truth at the embassy.

She stayed in your home, ate your food, collected your money and gifts and still tried to trap you in a marriage with the child of another man.

That was cruel of her.
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by fait10(m): 9:20pm On Jun 14, 2020
RIDOO:
Mine was a different ball game.At a point in my life l had to break off from some boyfriends that are choking me with their too much seriousness when me still they chop d life of my life



Mr Y will give me orders as if he has already paid my bride price(very domineering) May be because he's from a royal family o but l no send. l've not even agreed to have serious relationship with him o.....still a boy friend and already behaving like an husby.That was my 3rd yr in d Uni...l quickly japaa.

Mr N was a lover boy..He claims he loved me to the moon n back.He will always travel to n come looking for me in school...He will always introduce me to Fam n friends at slightest opportunity... He will speak to me on the phone for hours...when he will spoil the whole show dt was when his politician brother called me one day that l should inform my people they are coming for introduction... Me whey l never agree say l wan marry am...Na so l japaa.

Mr T was this Mr perfect stuff he is from a rich home..always want my friends n FAM to like him.He will prostrate flat for my dad like say he don give his daughter hand in marriage to him..He is most desperate for things to move on very fast..but my instinct told me he already has a child which l found out later to me true..That was how l japaa


MrD was on the same campus with me n he was ready to go to any length ..but l don't love him..in fact he has this way of carrying everyone along in my family buy he was the one l had the smallest feelings for.He persuaded me but l was not even ready to date him


So d list goes on and on..ladies too have guys who usually wanted to hook/marry them by fire by force not the other way round alone.

Last bullet.... By the grace of God I'm married now..my hubby was the one who was so desperate to marry... Infact at a point in time l had to run away from him cos he's choking me with too much attention... B4 we finally got married and lo n behold he still love me even till today as if l want to run away.

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by fait10(m): 9:22pm On Jun 14, 2020
RIDOO:
Mine was a different ball game.At a point in my life l had to break off from some boyfriends that are choking me with their too much seriousness when me still they chop d life of my life



Mr Y will give me orders as if he has already paid my bride price(very domineering) May be because he's from a royal family o but l no send. l've not even agreed to have serious relationship with him o.....still a boy friend and already behaving like an husby.That was my 3rd yr in d Uni...l quickly japaa.

Mr N was a lover boy..He claims he loved me to the moon n back.He will always travel to n come looking for me in school...He will always introduce me to Fam n friends at slightest opportunity... He will speak to me on the phone for hours...when he will spoil the whole show dt was when his politician brother called me one day that l should inform my people they are coming for introduction... Me whey l never agree say l wan marry am...Na so l japaa.

Mr T was this Mr perfect stuff he is from a rich home..always want my friends n FAM to like him.He will prostrate flat for my dad like say he don give his daughter hand in marriage to him..He is most desperate for things to move on very fast..but my instinct told me he already has a child which l found out later to me true..That was how l japaa


MrD was on the same campus with me n he was ready to go to any length ..but l don't love him..in fact he has this way of carrying everyone along in my family buy he was the one l had the smallest feelings for.He persuaded me but l was not even ready to date him


So d list goes on and on..ladies too have guys who usually wanted to hook/marry them by fire by force not the other way round alone.

Last bullet.... By the grace of God I'm married now..my hubby was the one who was so desperate to marry... Infact at a point in time l had to run away from him cos he's choking me with too much attention... B4 we finally got married and lo n behold he still love me even till today as if l want to run away.

what do u ladies really want self!! to much attention problem!, less attention problem! splits

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Joshmuch: 9:22pm On Jun 14, 2020
SyrusdeHansome:




So who are the ones going to prayer houses 4 marriage? Even classy ladies like Genevieve, Rita Dominic nd their likes are still unmarried. Girls don't be deceived by a guy that pressurizes u 4 marriage because we guys know who we are. I can bet withy degree that most of those guys didn't really want marriage. They wanted to see ur unclothedness. Some guys can do anything just to see a girl's unclothedness. I rest my case.
Miss Adviser. Genevieve has a daughter while Rita Dominic is married to a coded billionaire. Babes, listen to this babe and remain single for life!!!

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Nobody: 9:26pm On Jun 14, 2020
patoski39:
see format,, lol.. Na only God knw how many pm dat babe dn receive by now
� I swear
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by ednut1(m): 9:27pm On Jun 14, 2020
OriOko88:

You for no call her idiot now. She really loved you poor her
loved me on second date. how is that possible
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by zuby4real10(m): 9:29pm On Jun 14, 2020
boyjo:


She was worshipping you because you paid the bills.
How else was she supposed to show her gratefulness?
and how does she worshipping me helps my life. Will she still worship me if I stop caring.?

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by AfroKnight: 9:29pm On Jun 14, 2020
Allshadesfemale:
it could also be his

No.

Such a desperate woman would have told him about the pregnancy and insisted he was the father. She did neither.
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Nobody: 9:30pm On Jun 14, 2020
hustla:


She probably is seeing someone else
bros ,u too dae here!
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by zuby4real10(m): 9:33pm On Jun 14, 2020
SweetCunt97:
You are actually very myopic Mr Man. What if you marry a well to do lady and things goes downhill for her and her family? Did u reason that perhaps you both will get elevated once married?

I pray you marry a woman who will pay bills but be a thorn to ur flesh and live to regret ur gold diggy decision.
nobody wants to keep a total liability at home in the name of marriage. Na her family own dey even vex me pass. The girl is too responsible and shy to even ask me of money directly, but u see her mum, dad and siblings they wanted turn me to their atm machine.

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by chatinent: 9:34pm On Jun 14, 2020
There is really nothing like desperation; dating was really designed for a marriage course. If you are not ready to get married, don't date.

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by zuby4real10(m): 9:41pm On Jun 14, 2020
luminouz:


Haba...after sponsoring her for three years,he should still get her a job? Do you even know his financial status or even if na businessman e be? What of his own family and other obligations? That dude tried biko. Besides,you didn't answer my question about being in his shoes or na only men suppose help women?
no mind her. Na her type no go fit give man sisi

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Godson201333(m): 9:49pm On Jun 14, 2020
gbengaoyeladun:
Girls ehn....naso this one told me in January that she dream that she will do her wedding this year...I was like not with me...she said is with you nah..and I said OK.....since then ehn.....I ran for my life.

Jesus Christ !!!
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Nobody: 9:54pm On Jun 14, 2020
Mine happened between February to December 2019.
There was this big girl in my church that used to look down on me and my friend prior to early 2018 because were poor ( by her standards anyway). One day she walked up to me after service and was like “because you are working now you find it difficult to say just hello” long story cut short, she got my number and started asking if I had a girlfriend, she wouldn’t be being a side chic and all.
Hmmmmm my people we started dating without toasting ooo, just a week into dating babe started talking about marriage, how she has saved money, her uncle is in the UK and the man even promised me to support our wedding with 3kpounds.
I decided to give her small benefits of doubt only for the babe to start exhibiting some traits I.e hot tempered, domineering, she attempted to kill me with pillow twice cos l picked a lady’s call and serious nagging. There was a day I overheard her telling her aunt that she just want to manage because time was running out. I logged out that day and she got married two months later

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by mirabel9(f): 9:54pm On Jun 14, 2020
That was how a girl nobody used to notice suddenly finds herself flooded with party invitations and zealous male suitors!
After using the magical books of psalms,

www.nairaland.com/5241777/mystical-power-psalms
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by luminouz(m): 9:56pm On Jun 14, 2020
zuby4real10:
no mind her. Na her type no go fit give man sisi

Lol
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by paulolee(m): 10:00pm On Jun 14, 2020
peterangelo:

Aw not release in a girl tin
lolz....u funi o..e takes xo many inch of principles...d key thing is dt u must not be too carried away no matter hw d nunu sweet reach...if u fit control ur emotions during sex, e go easy for u...no matter hw she take ride ur stick jus stay focused and they put ur mind to ready wen u wan cum, if u don de feel am small small, u signal her to pause say u de feel pain for any part of ur body because na lie n as she stop d ridding, u go hold d cum lai say u de hold urine and the cum go return back and u ask her to relax mk u climb and na wen u climb u go fast and increase d pace of ur thrusting mayb during missionary style n wen u don de cum again jus pull out n pour for her body or for ground....dts d little i can say abeg...bt e nids serious principle to master

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by obibob2020(m): 10:08pm On Jun 14, 2020
She bought a ring that i should engage her but i refused.
She trap me to herself whenever i want to cum.
I quickly notice her desperation.
Na i run for my dear life.
She is married now though.
But not happily married according to her.
But that one na her headache.

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by zuby4real10(m): 10:08pm On Jun 14, 2020
dalass:


I don't understand men..
As in, you saw her through school. She reciprocated by being peaceful, submissive etc.. And what did you do

If she returned and dumped your ass, you will say she's a bitch after all you did for her...

Like I don't understand it... She went through school, must have received other peoples proposals but she must have loved you and stuck with you and then you left her high and dry..

Like what do men really want again

Some common sense nor common again sha grin
I did not leave her cos she is poor but cos of over reliance on man with out willing to do anything for herself. She believes it's a man's job to provide everything for her and her family. And more over her parent are very ungrateful. They expect me to cater for their Daughter and for them too. If na ur brother them dey extort like this will u advice him to stay. This is all b4 marriage ooo. What of after marriage.

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Nobody: 10:10pm On Jun 14, 2020

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Nobody: 10:16pm On Jun 14, 2020
CHUPEZ123:
leave that Prettyvirginia Na runz girl she be.... For her department expect you get money to waste... Wise up if you need more of pictures I can send it to u...
Hmmm... I also guessed she likes the attention that she claims not to like because she put her picture in such a vast forum like nairaland

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