CanadaOrBust:


U obviously don’t know the mordern definition of concubine - it means same as girlfriend, mistress.
I’m glad u said THEORY. Because in practice, in our country, marriages rarely crash because the man has an outside fling. Of course there are exceptions, and it’s not ideal, but it is the truth

Baloranking:


Full of ignorance indeed, don't be a hypocrite what I wrote is my opinion,feel free to drop yours.

GODPUNISHUNA:


If you want to marry you are free to do so. Most guys have found out it's not what it's cut to be. Most times in all ramifications the man loses.

profilemessages:
To me its seems people don't want to end up in divorce or on any other problems and issues related with marriage any longer.
All that is usually seen are single guys still remaining single for along time.

Or am I dreaming or something

What do you think?

OgogoroFreak:
A friend complained to me saying he is tiered of his marriage. He stated that his wife earns 250k monthly while he earns 300k but even for little things like maggi ₦20 to cook, she comes to him to collect the money. The house rent is on him, feeding, children school fees etc are all on him yet the wife has the effrontery to quarrel with him saying when last did he buy her gifts

okoroemeka:
yes,many marriages last even when the woman or man is cheating,the problems starts when the man or woman will ignore his responsibility and foolishly fall in love with their cheating partner,I have seen many examples of husband's that love their wife and family but has a sexmate for casual or one night stand,such men or women don't have permanent cheating partner but can cheat occasionally when the opportunity to presents itself,for many individuals sex is just a reflex action and any small gesture or action can turn them on,I have seen situations when perfect strangers spontaneously have sex without even knowing their names ,many perfectly normal people don't even attach any big deal to sex,to them it is as natural as going to the toilet or urinating.

cooltola:


CanadaorBust, ok whatever you say. when you get married or if you are planning to get married or if you are married except you do not practice polygamy . please Make sure you get a or even 2 concubines self and let your future wife or wife know and see how far. I prefer to sleep with two eyes closed with no worry

DamZik:


You are right bro. My wife to be cheated on me with a married man for about a year. She confessed and apologized and I forgave her because I was blinded by love but the picture never leave my head. I am disturbed since 2017 that the cheating took place. The picture keeps coming into my mind.

DaRuud:

Back in those days , it's hard to see the bra strap or pant colour of a lady let alone have sex with them but today so many girls are so cheap

Coldie:
The high level of unemployment is killing us.

I know people that poverty has made them begin to look like 17years old boys, u would be seeing them around teenagers and they would be greeting u Sir anything for the boys, but u won't know that they are 35and above.

They don't roll with their mates in females because maybe to them they have nothing to offer yet. They still live in their parents house

Eileene:
It is only on Nairaland that people seem not to want to get married.
The people I know around me are all getting married.

CanadaOrBust:


What’s wrong with being after a rich woman like Linda?? See how u r the one with a stewpid mentality?

Doyou2019:


You're in denial if you believe what you just typed. Take a good look around you and quit burying your head in the sand. You're not a frigging peacock.

michaelpop50:


Them dey, and many dey sleep with their bosses for office and cheat on their husbands. I know many of them that are working but still cheating.

Naija guys when dey their 20s, if you dey advise them, them nor dey hear. I'm in my 30s and i graduated from uni back in 2008. All the girls when graduate then with me when dey work for companies and banks now, all dey sleep around while working.

Unless you go marry ugly shapeless graduate before you fit get peace oh.

Youngpo413:
Those ugly and shapeless are still fuçked black and blue...forget babe matter abeg

Youngpo413:
na only ladies dey carry marriage matter for head.

Eileene:

Yes ladies carry marriage matter for head earlier cos of biological clock but no matter how u try to paint it at the end of the day every male wants to get settled cos if u are not in family gatherings,society, at workplace pple will see u as an irresponsible person.
Do u want to know y cos u are in Africa

Eulalia:


When HE comes, he'll be in a better position to assert that. .

Alfather:
tell me what makes you a wife material , i will marry you.
i am HE to come, believe this.

cooltola:


You can look at the person's character and see how she behaves. You attract what your spirit is. If you want an angel, you have to be an angel first. If you want a hardworking and a hustling woman, then you must be a diligent and good hustler. What if i told you that some women in naija will rather starve than twerk their dignity away for such federal civil service Job. It is up to you attract such women. What if i told you that there are nongovernment jobs, other legit hustle and honest way of earning a living for a woman without doing ashewo , twerking on the gram, snapchat and so on.

stacyadams:
life is simple ..

Me cannot come and marry damaged goods

Youngpo413:
leave her,men can only forgive a cheating partner but can't forget...that alone kills relationship.

holatin:
I don't believe this if u are an angel u attract angel. I ve an uncle and childhood friend who have the best soul in the world....they met the wrong women. who bleeped them up permanently...even me wey dey talk self got into one wey dey dangerous pass covid 19. and am sure I wasn't a devil. and I didn't deserve such lady....na luck dis marriage and relationship dey on. people change. I see it close. pure luck is the only thing that can save good guys

Eulalia:


Are you a born again Christian and a husband material too?

darediamond:

You have already exposed yourself. You are better change before you become member of "leave me, MAN NA MAN" group!

CanadaOrBust:


Only a small group of men like yourselves. Most men can forget. Others couldn’t care less - as long as u don’t give them a disease. Don’t generalize.

kunkelhanspeter:

Like my cousin will always say apart from giving birth no need getting married...Thank God many girls just want to be baby mama

nickvanilla:


This woman is wicked, selfish and unfit for marriage. Marriage is meant to be a union where people COMPLEMENT & COMPLETE each other IN EVERY WAY. All these self-centerdness is what makes people depressed and feel trapped in marriage. Make God keep us from these kind of partners. Tufiakwa!