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Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by tonjeola(m): 8:22pm On Jun 24, 2020
Marrying your age mate as a man will end up taking 2nd wife in the future, because the lady will look older than the man once they both crossed 45 to 50 years of age. I rest my case

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Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by Gkemz: 8:24pm On Jun 24, 2020
Lack of submissiveness and respect on the part of the woman.
Even my fiance who is 6years younger than me sometimes proves stubborn and unyeilding. How much more if we are age-mates.

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Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by Moneywirer: 8:25pm On Jun 24, 2020
iLegendd:
The word "odd" will make gamblers think it's about money.

Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by Ramos16(m): 8:29pm On Jun 24, 2020
lilmax:
Sometimes the higher her age, the higher her body count

Again a 30 year old woman have many disadvantages

So age mate marriage ain't for me


Disadvantages like what?
Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by adedayoa2(f): 8:29pm On Jun 24, 2020
Most people speaking for it are married and those against it are single. So OP experience actually matters when answering some marital questions. I'm actually married to my age mate and i am his baby for life, i have never for once regretted marrying him. Men that are older actually wanted marrying me too but he was more matured. So age is not maturity.

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Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by banhammy: 8:30pm On Jun 24, 2020
It's not advisable

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Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by Liposure: 8:30pm On Jun 24, 2020
In a society like africa. its very rare. As the man is expected 2 be older
Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by ikorodureporta: 8:33pm On Jun 24, 2020
Why are so many of you saying it's almost impossible?? Do you mean someone cannot marry his/ her childhood friend/ classmate??

I know many classmates that got married... even childhood friends too...

At 25, some of us already graduated with good jobs... what stops you from marrying at this point??

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Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by Tabitha03(f): 8:34pm On Jun 24, 2020
Hmmmmm.....Nigerians and Age sha.... You have to be good for each other. Age ain't nothing but number. Live your life and be happy that's all that matters. We tend to give up good looks for great personality.All this looks will fade. Personality won't fade but will mature and become stronger and more attractive.

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Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by Goddyj(m): 8:35pm On Jun 24, 2020
Abraham was 100 years old. Sarah was 90 years old. If you know, you know!

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Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by Oyinlomobambam(m): 8:37pm On Jun 24, 2020
Olawrites:
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Pls can you open up a little for people like us to learn...I'm in such situation too

90% of ladies out now are feminines come join am with your age mate or circle. How e go be?

Seriously, I was advised not to date my age circle but I insist I love mature ladies.

She might love you so much o but after one or 2kids, them go show you true colour

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Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by Olawrites: 8:41pm On Jun 24, 2020
Oyinlomobambam:


90% of ladies out now are feminines come join am with your age mate or circle. How e go be?

Seriously, I was advised not to date my age circle but I insist I love mature ladies.

She might love you so much o but after one or 2kids, them go show you true colour

Jesus shocked

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Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by Nobody: 8:45pm On Jun 24, 2020
Sezua:


Can you explain what you mean by balance problem?
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Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by phemmyfour: 8:45pm On Jun 24, 2020
Saneesk:
So nairalanders I need your humble opinion on whether there's high chance of marrying someone with the same age as you or even more than you some said it happens but 1 in a million.
lack of respect
She ll age faster than you

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Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by heryourdayji: 8:48pm On Jun 24, 2020
kingmurainah:

How much is it

Whatsapp sir
Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by Drizzy5001(m): 8:49pm On Jun 24, 2020
It's not right to marry a girl that is your age mate, because as u both grow old, she will look more older, and people will think she's your mother , ladies age faster than men. grin

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Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by kherlly(m): 8:51pm On Jun 24, 2020
lilmax:
Sometimes the higher her age, the higher her body count

Again a 30 year old woman have many disadvantages

So age mate marriage ain't for me
what are the disadvantages of a lady age 30?
Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by Nobody: 8:52pm On Jun 24, 2020
darlingtonNYIG:
I married my age mate and I am enjoying it to the fullest. What matters is love and respect.
you are just one of the few exceptional cases we have
Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by Godwin5766(m): 8:54pm On Jun 24, 2020
iLegendd:
The word "odd" will make gamblers think it's about money.
bro...u're a legend in gambling
Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by mrsteel: 8:56pm On Jun 24, 2020
Evaberry:
Not possible
What do u mean not possible?
Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by mrsteel: 8:57pm On Jun 24, 2020
Rozz:
I don't subscribe to marrying your age mate as a lady,there will be a balance problems.
What do u mean by balance problems?
Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by Oyinlomobambam(m): 8:58pm On Jun 24, 2020
Don't marry someone that will pretend to love or respect you just to get ring.

Go for younger one

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Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by Nobody: 9:03pm On Jun 24, 2020
San eesk:
So nairalanders I need your humble opinion on whether there's high chance of marrying someone with the same age as you or even more than you some said it happens but 1 in a million.
Have you finally passed jamb well this boy? all you know is to ask is "How to woo a lady?", " How to talk to ladies?" when to get married... Boy go pick up your books and read for post ume, that's if u passed JAMB

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Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by Sezua(m): 9:11pm On Jun 24, 2020
Rozz:
Balance in a relationship is very important and the first step towards creating balance in a relationship is communication(speaking and listening).The whole point of a relationship is to co-create an environment where both people compliment each other.Having a balanced relationship doesn't mean you agree on everything,make room to disagree,try to understand each others point of view and debate with respect.So you really can't achieve this Balance when you are of the same age as your views and experience of life is almost on the same level,but there are few exceptional cases who scaled through this "Balance" but I tell you it wasn't an easy experience for them.Balance becomes an easy thing to achieve with a gap in the age and as the saying goes "age comes along with wisdom".

This explanation looks like pure BS to me.
I don't see how age hinders this so called balance you're talking about.

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Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by BabaRamota1980: 9:24pm On Jun 24, 2020
DominusPrime:
If you intend to get married as early as 25 and below the odds are very slim cos you might not have 'blown' by then and girls at that age tend to prefer more stable men mentally and financially. Not necessarily for marriage though but just to have around to tend to their sexual and financial needs in the name of my boyfriend. But once you as a man hit 30 to 35 and all things being equal you are ok financially it's easier to marry a girl your age.

Bold >>> bad advice!
OP, dont mind this oniranu, at 35 find a 17 or 18yr old to marry. Thats best for you and her.

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Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by Lukdon: 9:28pm On Jun 24, 2020
Saneesk:
So nairalanders I need your humble opinion on whether there's high chance of marrying someone with the same age as you or even more than you some said it happens but 1 in a million.

I got married at the age of 28. My wife and I were born the same year. I am 4months older than my wife.

The only problem we have is that we don't have any problem.

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Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by Nobody: 9:32pm On Jun 24, 2020
BabaRamota1980:


Bold >>> bad advice!
OP, dont mind this oniranu, at 35 find a 17 or 18yr old to marry. Thats best for you and her.
Mumu. If you read the OP's questions well you'd realise he was asking a question. I didn't advice him to marry a woman his age. I simply answered his queston from a realistic point of view. Stop reading with one side of your brain. Ode.
Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by Streetdreamx(m): 9:32pm On Jun 24, 2020
Hammergirl:
What matters is respect for each other and maturity. For me, age is no big deal for me.

my wife and I are age mates, also were classmates in secondary school.

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Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by gentleibraheem(m): 9:37pm On Jun 24, 2020
Not yet ready to settle down, but I feel my age mate or slightly older is the sure bet.
I find younger ladies socially immature and uncivilized with misplaced priorities. They're yet to differentiate between what is relevant and not. They lack the ability to make rational decisions on their own.
This is because I want a partner as a wife and not a servant who will always follow orders

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Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by stchinedu: 9:38pm On Jun 24, 2020
Level of maturity
Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by bizhop01: 9:46pm On Jun 24, 2020
Happiness is not all about marrying your age mate,
For me i wouldn't mind to marry a lady that is 15years older than me our happiness is my concern,
I can't swap my happiness with any societal and cultural conditioning of Africa.

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Re: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by depremore: 9:48pm On Jun 24, 2020
ambient:

And you think the man have low body count the older he gets? Sometimes una just dey type nonsense.

But its true na, you cant compare a 23 years old lady with a a 23 years old guy most times the ladies appears more mature than their age

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