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Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by MissRaine69(f): 6:15pm On Jun 25, 2020
Why should a man pay a woman he is in a relationship with a salary?

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Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by SLAP44: 6:16pm On Jun 25, 2020
See lame question?

Why should a man keep a woman for a relationship sef?

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Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by babajiderachel1: 6:19pm On Jun 25, 2020
shocked

Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by Nobody: 8:20pm On Jun 25, 2020
I'll wait till all the broke single dudes come here and act as if they are all it cheesy


But OP, to be honest. It's irritating grin, but I guess different things for different folks

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Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by Thegamingorca(m): 8:33pm On Jun 25, 2020
When there are more fish to fry?


It's either he has big plans cos he admires some of your genes and generational pedigree, much so that he feels he must have for his own lineage. Say a princess or a heiress or a famous U.S. president 2nd cousin he's afraid of loosing

Or he's generally insecure but leaving you will crush him.

Or worse, he is after kpali in a foreign land

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Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by Sierusvirus(m): 8:38pm On Jun 25, 2020
MissRaine69:
Why should a man pay a woman he is in a relationship with a salary?
Doesn’t make any meaningful sense to me at all to do that.

It’s a No No
Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by Nobody: 8:41pm On Jun 25, 2020
Thegamingorca:
When there are more fish to fry?


It's either he has big plans cos he admires some of your genes and generational pedigree, much so that he feels he must have for his own lineage. Say a princess or a heiress or a famous U.S. president 2nd cousin he's afraid of loosing

Or he's generally insecure but leaving you will crush him.

Or worse, he is after kpali in a foreign land

Ugh, why so negative though grin


Thinking about it now, it's not that bad of an idea. I'll basically be getting money every month for doing absolutely nothing. Literally for just existing grin

He should be damn happy that I exist grin

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Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by Thegamingorca(m): 8:46pm On Jun 25, 2020
fieryy:


Ugh, why so negative though grin


Thinking about it now, it's not that bad of an idea. I'll basically be getting money every month for doing absolutely nothing. Literally for just existing grin

He should be damn happy that I exist grin


Only simps settle for less when there are wider options on Broadway street

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Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by Nobody: 8:52pm On Jun 25, 2020
Thegamingorca:



Only simps settle for less when there are wider options on Broadway street

Oh darling, of course there are many options out there, but think about it. The better, the more expensive grin

Ladies, how much do you charge. I want to know how much to be expecting monthly grin
Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by Thegamingorca(m): 8:57pm On Jun 25, 2020
fieryy:


Oh darling, of course there are many options out there, but think about it. The better, the more expensive grin

Ladies, how much do you charge. I want to know how much to be expecting monthly grin


I don't know what you are planning or intend doing but you might want to wipe that grin off your face.

In some abodes, it's quickly becoming illegal to run this business. Asylum seekers will soon have rights wink
Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by callmeRichie(m): 9:02pm On Jun 25, 2020
Because she has been used tonguegrin
Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by Hathor5(f): 9:02pm On Jun 25, 2020
fieryy:


Ugh, why so negative though grin


Thinking about it now, it's not that bad of an idea. I'll basically be getting money every month for doing absolutely nothing. Literally for just existing grin

He should be damn happy that I exist grin

grin
Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by ibkayee(f): 9:03pm On Jun 25, 2020
How common is it in Nigeria for the question to be phrased like it’s a prevalent issue that needs tackling or something like the average Nigerian husband can even afford it

For the very very very rare ones that can, if anything, I don't see anything unreasonable with giving a full-time housewife a regular 'allowance', 'stipends' etc for upkeep, a working wife/girlfriend not so much however whatever a couple want to do/are comfortable doing with their money is their prerogative
Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by themaestro08(m): 9:09pm On Jun 25, 2020
No reason unless he is a wimp.

This is why being in a relationship with a career lady is great - she works and earn so that makes her basically self-sufficient.
Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by Nobody: 10:41pm On Jun 25, 2020
Hathor5:


grin

Lol, what do you think?

I mean what will his life be without me? grin

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Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by Hathor5(f): 10:43pm On Jun 25, 2020
fieryy:


Lol, what do you think?

I mean what will his life be without me? grin

VERY HONESTLY!

A man should do lots of things to cherish a smart, witty, interesting, outspoken and beautiful lady like you in his life.

And I hope you will find one who you can flow your love to in return. kiss
Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by Nobody: 10:43pm On Jun 25, 2020
Thegamingorca:



I don't know what you are planning or intend doing but you might want to wipe that grin off your face.

In some abodes, it's quickly becoming illegal to run this business. Asylum seekers will soon have rights wink

2 mins of silence for people who don't understand sarcasm grin

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Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by Nobody: 10:44pm On Jun 25, 2020
Hathor5:


VERY HONESTLY!

A man should do lots of things to cherish a smart, witty, interesting, outspoken and beautiful lady like you in his life.

And I hope you will find one who you can flow your love to in return. kiss

Awwww, thank you grin I already have one, but I'm still yet to be getting my monthly allowance. Damn it! grin

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Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by Hathor5(f): 10:45pm On Jun 25, 2020
fieryy:


Awwww, thank you grin I already have one, but I'm still yet to be getting my monthly allowance. Damn it! grin

Me thinks you should tell him ASAP. Time is money. grin
Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by SweetCunt97(f): 10:47pm On Jun 25, 2020
In civilized societies it is called Upkeep Allowance. It's definitely not mandatory but men who feel like so tend to do it so their women will look good and sort out stuffs on their own without having to ask.

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Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by Nobody: 10:50pm On Jun 25, 2020
Hathor5:


Me thinks you should tell him ASAP. Time is money. grin

Lmaooo, we definitely are going to talk about this. Sis is now 'woke'. I've been sleeping for way too long, I should be rolling in money by now. My smile alone is worth 1000€, let's not even talk about my presence yet grin

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Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:51pm On Jun 25, 2020
It's ok to give one's wife an allowance, especially if she doesn't work.

You could also give your girlfriend some upkeep money, if you can afford it and you feel she deserves it.

Prostitutes and escorts are expensive, so a little upkeep for a girlfriend might be better value for money.
Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by Nobody: 10:52pm On Jun 25, 2020
I wonder oooo, salary for what exactly?

You hear them say "I give her 20k monthly for feeding allowance" . Na you born am?

For Girlfriend to me it doesn't make sense. For Wife: To each his own.

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Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by Hathor5(f): 10:54pm On Jun 25, 2020
fieryy:


Lmaooo, we definitely are going to talk about this. Sis is now 'woke'. I've been sleeping for way too long, I should be rolling in money by now. My smile alone is worth 1000€, let's not even talk about my presence yet grin

Don't forget to charge him for giving him the pleasure to take you out on a date he will pay for. Collect the money before you go on the date and then let him pay for the food, the cinema tickets, the ice-cream, the drinks. The date becomes more expensive if he also expects you talk. cheesy

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Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by Nobody: 10:56pm On Jun 25, 2020
Hathor5:


Don't forget to charge him for giving him the pleasure to take you out on a date he will pay for. Collect the money before you go on the date and then let him pay for the food, the cinema tickets, the ice-cream, the drinks. The date becomes more expensive if he also expects you talk. cheesy

I like this grin My angelic voice should only be heard by those I consider worthy enough grin grin grin
Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by Thegamingorca(m): 10:56pm On Jun 25, 2020
fieryy:


2 mins of silence for people who don't understand sarcasm grin



Oh fiery, Ever wondered if perhaps you keep failing to take the hint?










grin Your moniker has been on this page for an hour plus, wondering or maybe sleeping at my meaning.
But the stage is already set, fiery! You are just not taking the bait or where lost along the way in the discus.
Damn and it just breaks my heart to see the train of thought stopped in it's track already lol! You never see these things through. grin
Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by Nobody: 11:02pm On Jun 25, 2020
Thegamingorca:




Oh fiery, Ever wondered if perhaps you keep failing to take the hint?










grin Your moniker has been on this page for an hour plus, wondering or maybe sleeping at my meaning.
But the stage is already set, fiery! You are just not taking the bait or where lost along the way in the discus.
Damn and it just breaks my heart to see the train of thought stopped in it's track already lol! You never see these things through. grin

Oh darling, it was very much understood

'Or worse, he is after kpali in a foreign land'
'Asylum seekers will soon have rights'

I just know you have issues, especially based on the thread where I first encountered your moniker.

It might just break your heart that I 'm not going to entertain it. I'm too much of in a good mood, maybe some other day grin
Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by Nobody: 11:14pm On Jun 25, 2020
they call it maintanance fee not salary cheesy
Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by Thegamingorca(m): 11:19pm On Jun 25, 2020
fieryy:


Oh darling, it was very much understood

'Or worse, he is after kpali in a foreign land'
'Asylum seekers will soon have rights'

I just know you have issues, especially based on the thread where I first encountered your moniker.

It might just break your heart that I 'm not going to entertain it. I'm too much of in a good mood, maybe some other day grin




Lmao! Issues...baby no please, don't step on what's left of the sliver of glass remnants on the floor of my already shattered heart. cheesy

Back then, I was waging a one man war on the entire thread for purely comic relief. I'm not at all what you think of me, infact, most of your friends will vouch for me. Offline too. Well except for those who haven't witnessed that bit. grin

I really dont like the fact that this persona has festered and lingered in your mind till now, vilifying the entirety of my moniker's being. Fierry, it doesn't always end so salty with me grin
Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by Nobody: 11:28pm On Jun 25, 2020
Thegamingorca:




Lmao! Issues...baby no please, don't step on what's left of the sliver of glass remnants on the floor of my already shattered heart. cheesy

Back then, I was waging a one man war on the entire thread for purely comic relief. I'm not at all what you think of me, infact, most of your friends will vouch for me. Offline too. Well except for those who haven't witnessed that bit. grin

I really dont like the fact that this persona has festered and lingered in your mind till now, vilifying the entirety of my moniker's being. Fierry, it doesn't always end so salty with me grin

Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by Thegamingorca(m): 11:39pm On Jun 25, 2020
smiley

Oh fierry, I'm not a monster. Dont be so uptight around me.

A troll doesn't have only rocks and boulders for organs.
Re: Paying A Wife Or Girlfriend Salary by duchaB(m): 12:12am On Jun 26, 2020
MissRaine69:
Why should a man pay a woman he is in a relationship with a salary?

Dija, you don go vacation come back..
Na this matter u carry land bah!
We don miss you, u dey do like Rentaghost!!

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