Tadeknkeepcalm:
Truth is, the pastors ruined your marriage.

You started seeing all these things only when a hungry person came to deliver a message he wasn't sent.


And your story reeks of hypocrisy. In this story, she is a complete villain. But no one is a complete villain

HarunaWest:
See vacuous story.. Very incoherent write up. A poor and shoddy synopsis . Why wouldn't your marriage be in jeopardy.

Twoclans:
It is just a matter of time if you guys do not divorce on paper you will leave under the same room but will still be divorced.

The three pillars of marriage are :

Sex
Communication
Money

If there is a HUGE problem with any of this three it is just a matter of time.

Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered. Is your wife sought it out with her is been ten years remember

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.

Judybash93:


Break it down on how the spirit husband thingy works if you have enough evidence.
Just give points...

Taiwojon:

whatever the situation
please settle it with your wife


GOD HATE DIVORCE

Martinez39s:
Na you sabi. This is my last post to you on this thread. If you like, think the man is a wife beater, na you sabi.

As long as they have done court wedding, they are married. It's up to husband and wife to agree on how the wedding will be. If the wife's family disrespects him, I understand since people can't be faulted for . If the wife disrespects him, it's unjustifiable. Who is forcing the wife to stay in the marriage? Who forced the wife to do court wedding? Doesn't it take two to tango?

I rest my case. I have to sleep.

vickydevoka:

U be illiterate dats y most ladies reason lyk dis. Knowing how to speak or write doesn't. Make u a reasonable person.
How can u be comparing olden days n now, for Chris sake who does dat. In olden days is dere anything lyk gender equality or woman emancipation. Do u knw women are more gainfully employed than men currently? So y are u comparing olden days with now.

vickydevoka:
Dats y I can't marry my galfriend bcus I knw dis kinda thing will come up. Jst ask u describe ur wife na so she be. She behave like sum1 who is possess. Na her beauty de make me stick to her buh lie lie I better remain single

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Truth is, the pastors ruined your marriage.

You started seeing all these things only when a hungry person came to deliver a message he wasn't sent.


And your story reeks of hypocrisy. In this story, she is a complete villain. But no one is a complete villain

mrchineke:


MAY GOD BLESS YOU FOR THIS!!!!

though I know their imaginary God doesn't bloody exist.

annsrealms:


Why not let her go so she can be with someone else, why keep her when you know you can't wife her. you men create problem for yourselves.

LadySarah:
Useless prophecy! What stops the seer from coming to pray at ur house since she won't go.

Take charge of your home. Pray for your family yourself. Sit down and have a heart to heart talk with your wife and you are talking yen yen yen.

Spirit husband my foot.she went against her family to do court marriage alone and she wasn't disrespectful then. Go n pay her bride price, oga.

Mathscum:
Same story again.
Married woman hate sex.

That's the beginning of problem in the family.

Even if you stubborn but she day fvck die, when time to fvck come.
You no go reason her stubborn attitude

vickydevoka:

I de give her sign since na. She knw self jst say she never see person way get money

Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.

Dande55:

Well, aslong as he drops the "head of the home" title and his African ego as the "man of the house " , so he can wash plates, sweep house, mob, serve me food, wash my undies, take care of the babies, cook food for me and all of what that needs to be done. Then, I can consider that. But as long as we are in a traditional marriage, he should take up 100% responsibility in the home.