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Be cautious of what you post or do on Facebook..but some people won't heed to that simple advice..
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As shared by Sapientem @GospelJosiah

HOW FACEBOOK COMMENTS CRASHED A MARRIAGE

Someone in Abuja told of a chilling story about a plight of his niece. She has done her traditional marriage and was about to wed when Facebook crashed the marriage only two weeks to her wedding.����

She was said to be a member of a SINGLES AND MARRIED group on Facebook. Someone made one those silly stupid posts and asked, WILL YOU CHEAT ON YOUR HUSBAND IF OFFERED 10 MILLION NAIRA? The bride to be was among those that replied.
Sapientem

She said that the amount was even too much that she can cheat on her husband if offered only 200K.

Someone that knows her told her to delete that comment because her wedding is coming up and she is already married culturally as an Igbo lady.

Two more people that don't know her joined in begging her to delete the comment since it crossed decency lines. She lashed out at them in anger by saying, WHO HAS MARRIAGE EPP? THERE IS NO GPS IN MY PRIVATE PART.

She later deleted the obscene comments not knowing that one of the relatives, of the groom had screenshot the silly comments and forwarded them to her mother-in -law who is a senior civil servant and Deaconess in Mountain of Fire church.

Hell was let loosed. There was a meeting where the lady was summoned and in tears she said that she was joking. But then she is a also a pentecostal. All pleadings by her and her parents fell on deaf ears as the wedding was suspended indefinitely.

When I called the person who told me the story this morning, he claimed that the groom family had agreed to call off the marriage entirely and will soon go and collect the dowry they paid. The decision of the family may be debated if it was right or an over reaction.

Many of us on social media write anyhow, chat anyhow and post obscene idiotic pictures. Hushpuppi according to Dubai police was monitored through his social media updates for 6 months before they arrested him.

Never flaunt your wealth, your house, your cars, your half naked bodies or your immorality on social media. Think of the implications. In any group that you are a member or your own, be careful of your posts or your comments. Internet never forgets.

I am begging you and begging myself too, be careful. Internet may ruin our lives, relationships and marriages.

He who has ears, let him do so. You're fond of insulting people, especially in groups, be careful, for one day, you may insult your future helper or someone that may interview you in a company.

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Very good decision to cancel the wedding.

Olosho in disguise.

For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.

The things people say on Social Media. Some are not meant and are said to generate some traffic while some are from the depth of their hearts. The husband knows his wife better to know if she has the tendency to do such and that should be the basis of calling off the wedding and not what anyone says.

GboyegaD:
The things people say on Social Media. Some are not meant and are said to generate some traffic while some are from the depth of their hearts. The husband knows his wife better to know if she has the tendency to do such and that should be the basis of calling off the wedding and not what anyone says.

as u think na so u be oh...99.9% of ur thought dey mostly come out from ur mouth & most times u no dey know when u go act on those things way u don already conceive for ur mind.

She only said aloud what 90% of married women would do silently.

Am I missing something?

How did Facebook damage her wedding3?

And will soon go and collect the dowry they paid

Some jokes are very costly.
This is just a painful way to learn the hard way...

Na wedding woman life end?

What has the groom's family got to do with this

Is the groom an imbe.cile?

LIE LIE. DEM SEY. PICS OR....

Fiction! But can also happen in real life, many people on Facebook which is unlike faceless nairaland, would be commenting as if thr is no brain in their skulls, not minding repercussions of their comments

Even outside online stuff, one must know how to comment on any issue bringing out for discussion, one comments are indirectly telling one character and what one can do.

Facebook didn't crash the marriage, she did

Mynd44:
Facebook didn't crash the marriage, she did

Via Facebook. If this story is true. Then it's a good development

Her Life, Her Problem

Obingene:
Very good decision to cancel the wedding.

Olosho in disguise.

Should she have added the "No GPS to her privates?" That was going far.

GboyegaD:
The things people say on Social Media. Some are not meant and are said to generate some traffic while some are from the depth of their hearts. The husband knows his wife better to know if she has the tendency to do such and that should be the basis of calling off the wedding and not what anyone says.

My brother u can never say u know a woman very well because she will just leave u shocked and surprised one day, women are so unpredictable one moment u think u know her very well and the next moment she leaves u in awe... The fact is that there is a tendency for the said lady to cheat after marriage it is said that there is an atom of truth in every rumour be it a joke or not
I rest my case

Chuksdede:
My brother u can never say u know a woman very well because she will just leave u shocked and surprised one day, women are so unpredictable one moment u think u know her very well and the next moment she leaves u in awe... The fact is that there is a tendency for the said lady to cheat after marriage it is said that there is an atom of truth in every rumour be it a joke or not
I rest my case

All these attributes go well for men as well. Men too could be unpredictable.

stuffs4me:
Am I missing something?
How did Facebook damage her wedding3?

abi na she use her hand spoil am..

While cleary it was a joke, it shows level of immaturity, Social Media is a curse, it draws your attention, sells your data and steals your time. Older people only use it to connect, displaying such stupidity is a sign of lack of intelligence, because you should be aware of every statement being made on the platform and it's impact.

Gbos...gba gbos

Facebook lies, you and your relatives belong to a group yet you make such careless comment

"No GPS to my private Part"....



This one off me!!!

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It's only a fool that will take what they read on social media so serious

Chuksdede:
My brother u can never say u know a woman very well because she will just leave u shocked and surprised one day, women are so unpredictable one moment u think u know her very well and the next moment she leaves u in awe... The fact is that there is a tendency for the said lady to cheat after marriage it is said that there is an atom of truth in every rumour be it a joke or not
I rest my case

I disagree with you

The people that have tendency to cheat based on my own experience are those people commenting that they will never cheat no matter the price

Most times, people who talk don't do, na people who no gree talk dey do

She crashed her marriage not Facebook. Did Facebook force her to make stupid comments.

Or maybe Facebook is the new "devil" that always take the blames