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Ifabernard:
people advising to leave masturbation and get a girlfriend are just shit....and total hypocrisy. masturbation is a sin and so is fornication. I'd rather drag mysef in the mud than dragging someone else with me. quote me and let amadioha strike u

You think amadioha is a masturbator like you that does not think with his head but his d*ck? I have quoted you and your amadioha is happy with me, because I just said the truth.

Sufisunni:
Congrats. Bro you didn't see anything. I experienced hell for almost 20yrs!
I never knew there are more benefits of no masturbating than masturbating! Memory loss
Confusion
Social anxiety
Low attractions
Highest order of Anxiety
Depression
Acrophobia, trypaphobia
Hearing voices in my head, certain people don't like me and I don't like them too either. Highly judgemental of people
Thought of hurting myself
Concentration problem
Extreme mood swings
Always tired( fatigue )
Floater eye
A feeling of impeding doom
Sleeping too much
Restlessness
Overeating
Pot belly due to excessive eating
Distancing self from others
Always indoor
Easily get angry
Palpitation of heart at any slightest exertion
Always choosy of people to associate with
Hardly appreciate beauty
Always comparing people's achievement
Low self-esteem
Seeing girls as sex objects
Always critical of everyone and everything
Easily lament over any action
Can't have eye contact
Always lying down
Lateness of doing things and carelessness
Shaking while sleeping
Nervous on seeing some people
Hair loss. Lossing my IQ and thought provoking power due to brain fog
Panic attacks and its associated problems
Unnecessary shyness
Forehead pain perhaps due to anxiety and depression
Back pain
Absolute laziness
Compulsion and obsession problem
A shock passing through my heart once everyday
No desire to do important things in my life
Lossing touch and feeling of reality
Blood pressure
Cattarh
My hands bending while lying down holding something up
Easily falling sick.
Leaving masturbation was the best decision of my life. Avoiding any foods high in glycemic index and junk foods will make you healthier, limitless confidence etc. I can't count the benefits!

So how did you get to stop?

mrniceguy98:
Hello fams
Happy Sunday
I've been a member of this great forum since 2016 or thereabout though I deactivated my first account here.
I'm not a newbie here. I'm saying it cos some people may think I came to chase clout. I'm here to share my story and experience for others to learn

Back to why I created this topic.
Okay, I've been a chronic masturbator and porn lover. I started after my secondary school and being a Virgin then, it was the easiest way to get pleasure. Lemme say this MASTURBATION AND PORNOGRAPHY are destroyers. They will ruin u and turn you to mere shafts... I masturbated for 6solid years This is what masturbation will do to u

1. It'll make it difficult for you to ever fall in love with a woman. Your relationship and sexual life will become nothing to write home about
2. You'll become withdrawn from others. It'll destroy ur social life totally
3. It'll take you far away from God. Very very far
4. You'll start having memory loss.
5. It brings bad luck. Believe this, it's very true. Things won't be going the way u planned, though not true for everyone but majority of masturbators experience this.
6. You see your d*ck. It'll no longer remain the way God gave u. Trust me, you'll start having erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation if u don't stop on time
There are more but I'll stop here.

With time I noticed that I was becoming withdrawn, depressed and always weak, I was having memory loss, I couldn't keep an information for long, I was shy and didn't really fancy women and relationships. I was a shadow of myself. I didn't have friends, I liked being alone.

Honest truth is I tried stopping severally because the negative signs were obvious but I just couldn't stop. The farthest I could go was 1week, I'd start again. It was very frustrating. .. I tried praying, it wasn't working.

Soon, it weren't those anymore, it worsened. I started observing that my dick was becoming dysfunctional. It could no longer attain maximum erection and normally I've a very long d*ck cos I'm very tall but with time I observed that it was drawing back. I was having a very weak and poor erection. It worsened then again, I wasn't having morning erections anymore. I'd wake up with a flaccid d*ck and I'd have to stimulate it before it'd weakly come up and then fall again in seconds. It was disheartening to say the least. I was becoming weak. I was defeated.

On a fateful (should I even use fateful cos it worked for my favour) morning, after getting up I was with my phone and I saw something very erotic online, the urge came again, I tried to stop it but I couldn't. I masturbated. That masturbation that day nearly ended me. Immediately I was done, it was as if I lost my mind, my head was heavy, it was like men were using hammer on it. I slept for hours and got up but instead of stopping, it worsened. I was dying, my back was aching so painfully, my legs were hurting so badly, I couldn't walk well. My stomach was paining me inside. God!, the experience was tragic. This continued for two good weeks. I couldn't eat well, I was literally dying. I prayed to God to forgive me and give me my health that I wouldn't go back to it. Eventually with time I regained myself. Glory to God, my morning erections are back and my d*ck is becoming normal. I can now have my strong erection though still not completely long but with time.

My experience was horrible and I don't wish it for anyone, even an enemy. I'm happy today that I'm free, its been a long while now and I've not watched porn or masturbated. Thinking about my experience makes me detest it so much now. I've sworn I'll never go back and I believe God will help me.

I learnt the hard way. Please don't learn the hard way, you may not live to tell the tales. MASTURBATION IS A KILLER. RUN FROM IT

Lobatan!

Go to hell with your non useful words cis it's not needed here.

Bluezy13:
1. Is false
2. Is false
3. Is non of my business.
4. Individualistic.
5. Is False
6. Superstitious.

Funjosh:
Yes they do.

societies pre television and print media did not masturbate?

XXXXTENTACION:
all those things you wrote there are false. If they were true what about mike tyson who masturbates five times a day yet he is one of the strongest and greatest boxer in the world.

ok, try masturbating 5 times a day straight for one month then come back and share your testimony

abdulskulboy:
100days lol. I quited masturbation for 2years, my fear for fornication take me back to it. Anyway, I am not addicted, I do it like once a week or 2

stop both sex and masturbation if you are not married

Stopfapping:
ok, try masturbating 5 times a day straight for one month then come back and share your testimony

you have sex 5 times in a day, will it have the same effect?

Sufisunni:
Bro, I finished as one of the best students in my engineering dept too, even got an overseas scholarship for my postgraduate studies. The problem is, I did masturbate and finished with good grades, but as you get older you will know the consequences of masturbation.
On the catarrh issue that you raised, that was because I was loosing too much nutrients from my body - semen, I became so weak; I counld masturbate 5times a day. Do check out for sperm nutritional contents you would know why I got sick easily; I used to visit hospital or clinic perhaps 5 to 6 six times a year, but it has been exactly one since I stopped masturbating and I haven't visited any hospitals, yes! Do you think this was a mere coincidence? I live in one of the most developed countries in the world with perhaps the best health care facilities and health insurance but I haven't found reason to visit any hospitals.

Addiction, mental psychology was your problem then and rehabilitation centers is the solution

I swear am into this mess and i really wanna come out ..... I ready have all these experience and has lost my confidence before God...... I've got to make my mind up

Stopfapping:
ok, try masturbating 5 times a day straight for one month then come back and share your testimony

How can sombody masturbate 5times everyday that is satanic even once everyday is too much.

It is recommended once every three days.

Wonderful

Missy30:
I masturbated today.. Better than hoping on random d..icks

Ohhh and it felt so good

Just like having a tongue on cl.it

MiddleDimension:
societies pre television and print media did not masturbate?

Yes they do, but not as rampant and so common back then to now.

This makes nairaland front page!

It's a crying shame!

LZAA:
Errr maybe u skipped biology in Secondary school but u must SATISFY those urges for ur body to function normally

Which Biology textbook did you read?

Stopfapping:
ok, try masturbating 5 times a day straight for one month then come back and share your testimony

If you have time to masturbate 5 times every day for a month then you have no life to begin with.

Same is true if you had sex with a woman- wife or otherwise- that frequently and for that long.

my friend, you better go to hospital for proper check up, what happened to you had nothing to do with masturbation, go to cardiologist for health evaluation.

kingxsamz:
You wrote those things based on your superstitious beliefs...
Not everyone is a Christian or Muslim.

Not everyone is delusional either

Stopfapping:
This is my 100+ days of quitting, the best decision I have ever made. May God grant strength to all those who want to quit

MODIFIED : never go on net to get help in quitting masturbation, they will justify this act with stupid benefits even when your body tells you otherwise, always see masturbation as a daily battle you must win, no matter the urge, convince yourself your hands won't get in there

Quit porn first, na d fuel be that. You need jesus without which,all ur personal effort will end suddenly.

SPOLO:
it doesnt affect them much because na guys den do d work...see masturbation fit wreck and shrink dick oo thought not all guys though but trust me masturbation is bad especially when being addicted to it

It's currently happening to me, so I have decided to quit so as not to lose my girlfriend.

Hehehe

Missy30:
I masturbated today.. Better than hoping on random d..icks

Ohhh and it felt so good

Just like having a tongue on cl.it

hope u can stand my own tongue in ur clitty, guess u will love it

Mine since 2017 but i tank God am still alive & healthy

Mazigabriel:
the Devil is using you to discourage people willing to quit the act, stop being a tool for the evil spirit

When God created sexual urge in people, what was he expecting people to do when those urges come up?

Or are you now trying to tell me that it was Satan who created sexual urge in people?

Letzgo:
It's currently happening to me, so I have decided to quit so as not to lose my girlfriend.

pls do as soon as possible

Biodun1929:
Okay. How many months have you gone without it? And how often do you have wetdreams

6 months and still counting.
Wet dream came once.
The benefits far outweighs the importance

almarthins:
Quit porn first, na d fuel be that. You need jesus without which,all ur personal effort will end suddenly.

Paul in the Bible had his own weaknes too, in fact, I once fasted several days because of this, but I ended up breaking my fast with masturbation

Alexgman1:
Mine since 2017 but i tank God am still alive & healthy

You be learner mine was 2009 (even when I was a child and I did not have spermatozoa then) to 2020

cfree14:
3 months without masturbation and I don't think I'm gonna go back to that shit. Best solution to it:
1. Avoid anything porn or erotic completely at the start until you're able to withstand the urge.
2. Get a girlfriend that is readily available

So basically you are saying fornication is better than masturbation?

Stopfapping:
no, you need help, I was in your shoes defending this devilish act until God saved me, I now enjoy all the positive of quitting, within this 100 days, I have 2 job offers both 6 figures after joblessness for 3 years, I have massive confidence to conquer the world, bro, instead of giving excuses, try it and thank me later

Bro stop talking all these talk,you were a chronic mastubator and you where just having the side effects of over mastubating.listen science haven't and are yet to find anything that is a side effect caused by mastubation.u over did your own and you weren't eating well or sleeping well.i mastubate 3 to 4 times a month.u see too much of everything is bad.mastubate once in a while if you don't have a woman or babe and trust me.it will help you to control your urge and not to lust after women.men who lust after women thinks mastubation is bad that's why you hear of lecturers sleeping with students and sexual harrasments and rape all over the place okay.

Superjazz:
Bro stop talking all these talk,you were a chronic mastubator and you where just having the side effects of over mastubating.listen science haven't and are yet to find anything that is a side effect caused by mastubation.u over did your own and you weren't eating well or sleeping well.i mastubate 3 to 4 times a month.u see too much of everything is bad.mastubate once in a while if you don't have a woman or babe and trust me.it will help you to control your urge and not to lust after women.men who lust after women thinks mastubation is bad that's why you hear of lecturers sleeping with students and sexual harrasments and rape all over the place okay.

science also says smoking Marijuana is good for your health.
Before you come up with your theory, give your body a break for 1 month, no masturbation and sex, then come back and tackle me

Makavelli25:
I have always tried to stop. But after 2 months am doing it again
I NEED HELP

Bro nothing is wrong with you as long as it is controlled.it helps keeps your homones in check I do mine twice a month and I am perfectly healthy and smart mentally.dont let all these talks deceive they are just motivational speakers inspired by some over zealous religous freek to put unproved and unnecessary fear into you.even science haven't found any side effect from mastubation they guy said stomach was paining him lol na hunger beat am na him no chop well and him wan service or Bleep so guy nothing dey wrong with you as I said and as long as it's controlled it helps keeps your sexual behaviour and orientation to be balanced.even women mastubate too but you can't hear them speaking about it openly okay