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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Millennialaku(m): 11:01pm On Jul 13, 2020
OneKinGuy:

Can u link me up with some of the stuffs that helped u?

sure wink https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by laughplanet: 11:02pm On Jul 13, 2020
Ladies and gentlemen, I'm glad that this young man have shared his personal experience and it's a lesson for everyone reading this. Masturbation is evil in the sense that, the more you indulge in the act the farther your separation from God. I'm a mathematician and I can say that over exposure to pornography can slow your mental performance ( my opinion) and if you're seeking help regards how you can stop the act kindly reach me on 07019221196
Thank you.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by God2man2again(m): 11:02pm On Jul 13, 2020
Thank God for your life op.

Continue to pray.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Realiskit(m): 11:02pm On Jul 13, 2020
mrniceguy98:
Hello fams
Happy Sunday
I've been a member of this great forum since 2016 or thereabout though I deactivated my first account here.
I'm not a newbie here. I'm saying it cos some people may think I came to chase clout. I'm here to share my story and experience for others to learn

Back to why I created this topic.
Okay, I've been a chronic masturbator and porn lover. I started after my secondary school and being a Virgin then, it was the easiest way to get pleasure. Lemme say this MASTURBATION AND PORNOGRAPHY are destroyers. They will ruin u and turn you to mere shafts... I masturbated for 6solid years This is what masturbation will do to u

1. It'll make it difficult for you to ever fall in love with a woman. Your relationship and sexual life will become nothing to write home about
2. You'll become withdrawn from others. It'll destroy ur social life totally
3. It'll take you far away from God. Very very far
4. You'll start having memory loss.
5. It brings bad luck. Believe this, it's very true. Things won't be going the way u planned, though not true for everyone but majority of masturbators experience this.
6. You see your d*ck. It'll no longer remain the way God gave u. Trust me, you'll start having erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation if u don't stop on time
There are more but I'll stop here.

With time I noticed that I was becoming withdrawn, depressed and always weak, I was having memory loss, I couldn't keep an information for long, I was shy and didn't really fancy women and relationships. I was a shadow of myself. I didn't have friends, I liked being alone.

Honest truth is I tried stopping severally because the negative signs were obvious but I just couldn't stop. The farthest I could go was 1week, I'd start again. It was very frustrating. .. I tried praying, it wasn't working.

Soon, it weren't those anymore, it worsened. I started observing that my dick was becoming dysfunctional. It could no longer attain maximum erection and normally I've a very long d*ck cos I'm very tall but with time I observed that it was drawing back. I was having a very weak and poor erection. It worsened then again, I wasn't having morning erections anymore. I'd wake up with a flaccid d*ck and I'd have to stimulate it before it'd weakly come up and then fall again in seconds. It was disheartening to say the least. I was becoming weak. I was defeated.

On a fateful (should I even use fateful cos it worked for my favour) morning, after getting up I was with my phone and I saw something very erotic online, the urge came again, I tried to stop it but I couldn't. I masturbated. That masturbation that day nearly ended me. Immediately I was done, it was as if I lost my mind, my head was heavy, it was like men were using hammer on it. I slept for hours and got up but instead of stopping, it worsened. I was dying, my back was aching so painfully, my legs were hurting so badly, I couldn't walk well. My stomach was paining me inside. God!, the experience was tragic. This continued for two good weeks. I couldn't eat well, I was literally dying. I prayed to God to forgive me and give me my health that I wouldn't go back to it. Eventually with time I regained myself. Glory to God, my morning erections are back and my d*ck is becoming normal. I can now have my strong erection though still not completely long but with time.

My experience was horrible and I don't wish it for anyone, even an enemy. I'm happy today that I'm free, its been a long while now and I've not watched porn or masturbated. Thinking about my experience makes me detest it so much now. I've sworn I'll never go back and I believe God will help me.

I learnt the hard way. Please don't learn the hard way, you may not live to tell the tales. MASTURBATION IS A KILLER. RUN FROM IT

Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Focus1772: 11:02pm On Jul 13, 2020
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Biodun1929(m): 11:03pm On Jul 13, 2020
justscorchone:
You will be back,we all came back

Lol
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Biodun1929(m): 11:04pm On Jul 13, 2020
MrWTF:
Day by day, nature go lead u carry soap. Dey there

LMAO
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 11:07pm On Jul 13, 2020
Froshloaded:
Eulalia
Be doing amebo there grin

grin grin was just passing. It was my shadow you saw not me o. tongue

Sup?

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Kabir5643(m): 11:07pm On Jul 13, 2020
See as people dey defend masturbation lmao

Soapy Lordzz..

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Kabir5643(m): 11:07pm On Jul 13, 2020
See as people dey defend masturbation lmao

Soapy Lordzz

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by OgunrinolA20(m): 11:08pm On Jul 13, 2020
@ OP you didn't lie at all I've stopped it for a while and went back to it again, but for about three weeks ago now I haven't done it and I wouldn't even go back to it again coz it's a very bad thing to experience....

Thanks @ OP for sharing your ordeal with us...
I pray we that are all suffering from this devilish act get healed from it too...

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 11:08pm On Jul 13, 2020
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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by IpobAntidote: 11:10pm On Jul 13, 2020
Notatribalist:
Are you an agent of satan?Someone said he's having problem and you took it personal, what's your problem Mr man?


Yeah, I'm agent of SATAN on Earth. Do you need a SATAN club membership?
So we should allow him.to mislead others?
Addiction is bad period. If you have an addiction to anything then you are in trouble.
I only let others know thzy addiction is the problem not the masturbating or porn part of his story. Anything that you are addicted to will ruin you. End of story.
Learn to enjoy anything in moderation. Kapiish.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by KingZaddy(m): 11:10pm On Jul 13, 2020
Seriously?

did you actually blame all these on masturbation?


masturbation doesnt cause all that. your being stagnant was your own doing.


can you explain to me why people who fornicate dont suffer same. you got to think again

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by EwuGambia: 11:10pm On Jul 13, 2020
bluefilm:


Before nko?

E be like you too dey the same department?
grin

Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by oderinde151(m): 11:11pm On Jul 13, 2020
Notatribalist:
Of course you can email me.
I've sent a mail to you sir
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Biodun1929(m): 11:11pm On Jul 13, 2020
Lordfranklin:

It is possible bro. I'm a living witness.

Okay. How many months have you gone without it? And how often do you have wetdreams
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 11:13pm On Jul 13, 2020
na wao seems there are lots of teenagers and underteens here since most guys here always complain about having masturbation addiction problems

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by biggy26: 11:14pm On Jul 13, 2020
Bluezy13:
1. Is false 2. Is false 3. Is non of my business. 4. Individualistic. 5. Is False 6. Superstitious.
The tin touch you abi? But all you just said can't change the fact.
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 11:16pm On Jul 13, 2020
Stopfapping:
This is my 100+ days of quitting, the best decision I have ever made. May God grant strength to all those who want to quit
get a girlfriend if u having psychological issues with masturbation.that is if u are of age o cos i dont understand why a full grown hefty man cant talk to a girl but will lock imself inside fapping and having guilty concience over it.Just get a girl and have fun.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 11:18pm On Jul 13, 2020
Ifabernard:
people advising to leave masturbation and get a girlfriend are just shit....and total hypocrisy. masturbation is a sin and so is fornication. I'd rather drag mysef in the mud than dragging someone else with me. quote me and let amadioha strike u
ok just cut off ur prick and enter into seminary and become a reverend father.even priests dey nack these days

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by biggy26: 11:18pm On Jul 13, 2020
GuyWise101:
Another load of rubbish!


Masturbation is never a destiny killer but instead it is a destiny keeper.


Impregenating a girl is more of a destiny killer than masturbation
Forget destiny, it can affect erection. When you need it, it will disappoint you.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by biggy26: 11:21pm On Jul 13, 2020
Missy30:
I masturbated today.. Better than hoping on random d..icks

Ohhh and it felt so good

Just like having a tongue on cl.it
He wasn't talking to your gender, even though it twists differently.
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by donhils: 11:21pm On Jul 13, 2020
Inukwa. All these on top of masturbation..really??
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by deolurexy1(m): 11:24pm On Jul 13, 2020
Humanoid01:
I'll strictly urge anyone not to go into this act. Masturbation is a killer. Masturbation will destroy you, and you may not know that until you decide to take some things about life serious, then you'll consciously experience its effects.

Don't pay attention to those people trying to justify it with false benefits. The truth is most of them have tried quitting but they failed, so they're trying to look for reasons to make the act look normal, while some are deliberately trying to drag others down with them.


This like what
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by mozele(m): 11:26pm On Jul 13, 2020
Stopfapping:
no, you need help, I was in your shoes defending this devilish act until God saved me, I now enjoy all the positive of quitting, within this 100 days, I have 2 job offers both 6 figures after joblessness for 3 years, I have massive confidence to conquer the world, bro, instead of giving excuses, try it and thank me later

mind sharing how we can also go about getting job offers too?
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by madridsta007(m): 11:28pm On Jul 13, 2020
IpobAntidote:
[[s]quote author=mrniceguy98 post=91641610]Hello fams
Happy Sunday
I've been a member of this great forum since 2016 or thereabout though I deactivated my first account here.
I'm not a newbie here. I'm saying it cos some people may think I came to chase clout. I'm here to share my story and experience for others to learn

Back to why I created this topic.
Okay, I've been a chronic masturbator and porn lover. I started after my secondary school and being a Virgin then, it was the easiest way to get pleasure. Lemme say this MASTURBATION AND PORNOGRAPHY are destroyers. They will ruin u and turn you to mere shafts... I masturbated for 6solid years This is what masturbation will do to u

1. It'll make it difficult for you to ever fall in love with a woman. Your relationship and sexual life will become nothing to write home about
2. You'll become withdrawn from others. It'll destroy ur social life totally
3. It'll take you far away from God. Very very far
4. You'll start having memory loss.
5. It brings bad luck. Believe this, it's very true. Things won't be going the way u planned, though not true for everyone but majority of masturbators experience this.
6. You see your d*ck. It'll no longer remain the way God gave u. Trust me, you'll start having erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation if u don't stop on time
There are more but I'll stop here.

With time I noticed that I was becoming withdrawn, depressed and always weak, I was having memory loss, I couldn't keep an information for long, I was shy and didn't really fancy women and relationships. I was a shadow of myself. I didn't have friends, I liked being alone.

Honest truth is I tried stopping severally because the negative signs were obvious but I just couldn't stop. The farthest I could go was 1week, I'd start again. It was very frustrating. .. I tried praying, it wasn't working.

Soon, it weren't those anymore, it worsened. I started observing that my dick was becoming dysfunctional. It could no longer attain maximum erection and normally I've a very long d*ck cos I'm very tall but with time I observed that it was drawing back. I was having a very weak and poor erection. It worsened then again, I wasn't having morning erections anymore. I'd wake up with a flaccid d*ck and I'd have to stimulate it before it'd weakly come up and then fall again in seconds. It was disheartening to say the least. I was becoming weak. I was defeated.

On a fateful (should I even use fateful cos it worked for my favour) morning, after getting up I was with my phone and I saw something very erotic online, the urge came again, I tried to stop it but I couldn't. I masturbated. That masturbation that day nearly ended me. Immediately I was done, it was as if I lost my mind, my head was heavy, it was like men were using hammer on it. I slept for hours and got up but instead of stopping, it worsened. I was dying, my back was aching so painfully, my legs were hurting so badly, I couldn't walk well. My stomach was paining me inside. God!, the experience was tragic. This continued for two good weeks. I couldn't eat well, I was literally dying. I prayed to God to forgive me and give me my health that I wouldn't go back to it. Eventually with time I regained myself. Glory to God, my morning erections are back and my d*ck is becoming normal. I can now have my strong erection though still not completely long but with time.

My experience was horrible and I don't wish it for anyone, even an enemy. I'm happy today that I'm free, its been a long while now and I've not watched porn or masturbated. Thinking about my experience makes me detest it so much now. I've sworn I'll never go back and I believe God will help me.

I learnt the hard way. Please don't learn the hard way, you may not live to tell the tales. MASTURBATION IS A KILLER. RUN FROM IT

[/s]

Bunch of assumptions, half truths and pure LIES.

Many many people have masturbated and watched porn for years and have lived fulfilling lives.
Many have also stayed away from masturbation and porn and still lived shittty lives.

Too much of anything is bad for you, if you are addicted to porn or masturbation to the point of affecting your every day life, then you have a serious problem.
Any addiction that's affecting your every day life will ruin you, whatever it is.

You seem pained.
Must be because of his story hurts you as it reveals your own deficiency. Your own story.
God will help you too.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 11:28pm On Jul 13, 2020
mrniceguy98:
Hello fams
Happy Sunday
I've been a member of this great forum since 2016 or thereabout though I deactivated my first account here.
I'm not a newbie here. I'm saying it cos some people may think I came to chase clout. I'm here to share my story and experience for others to learn

Back to why I created this topic.
Okay, I've been a chronic masturbator and porn lover. I started after my secondary school and being a Virgin then, it was the easiest way to get pleasure. Lemme say this MASTURBATION AND PORNOGRAPHY are destroyers. They will ruin u and turn you to mere shafts... I masturbated for 6solid years This is what masturbation will do to u

1. It'll make it difficult for you to ever fall in love with a woman. Your relationship and sexual life will become nothing to write home about
2. You'll become withdrawn from others. It'll destroy ur social life totally
3. It'll take you far away from God. Very very far
4. You'll start having memory loss.
5. It brings bad luck. Believe this, it's very true. Things won't be going the way u planned, though not true for everyone but majority of masturbators experience this.
6. You see your d*ck. It'll no longer remain the way God gave u. Trust me, you'll start having erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation if u don't stop on time
There are more but I'll stop here.

With time I noticed that I was becoming withdrawn, depressed and always weak, I was having memory loss, I couldn't keep an information for long, I was shy and didn't really fancy women and relationships. I was a shadow of myself. I didn't have friends, I liked being alone.

Honest truth is I tried stopping severally because the negative signs were obvious but I just couldn't stop. The farthest I could go was 1week, I'd start again. It was very frustrating. .. I tried praying, it wasn't working.

Soon, it weren't those anymore, it worsened. I started observing that my dick was becoming dysfunctional. It could no longer attain maximum erection and normally I've a very long d*ck cos I'm very tall but with time I observed that it was drawing back. I was having a very weak and poor erection. It worsened then again, I wasn't having morning erections anymore. I'd wake up with a flaccid d*ck and I'd have to stimulate it before it'd weakly come up and then fall again in seconds. It was disheartening to say the least. I was becoming weak. I was defeated.

On a fateful (should I even use fateful cos it worked for my favour) morning, after getting up I was with my phone and I saw something very erotic online, the urge came again, I tried to stop it but I couldn't. I masturbated. That masturbation that day nearly ended me. Immediately I was done, it was as if I lost my mind, my head was heavy, it was like men were using hammer on it. I slept for hours and got up but instead of stopping, it worsened. I was dying, my back was aching so painfully, my legs were hurting so badly, I couldn't walk well. My stomach was paining me inside. God!, the experience was tragic. This continued for two good weeks. I couldn't eat well, I was literally dying. I prayed to God to forgive me and give me my health that I wouldn't go back to it. Eventually with time I regained myself. Glory to God, my morning erections are back and my d*ck is becoming normal. I can now have my strong erection though still not completely long but with time.

My experience was horrible and I don't wish it for anyone, even an enemy. I'm happy today that I'm free, its been a long while now and I've not watched porn or masturbated. Thinking about my experience makes me detest it so much now. I've sworn I'll never go back and I believe God will help me.

I learnt the hard way. Please don't learn the hard way, you may not live to tell the tales. MASTURBATION IS A KILLER. RUN FROM IT


Your problem is hunger and malnourishment. Go and eat nutritious food.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by LimeLyte: 11:30pm On Jul 13, 2020
Flee masturbation if you are ready to be successful in life. That shit is deadly spirititually, physiologically,physically and mentally.. It is more like a snake eating it's own tail. You won't know the load you are carrying till you decide to lift it off you..

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Elxandre(m): 11:31pm On Jul 13, 2020
My question is, did you interview successful people and they told you they don't masturbate?
I'm trying to understand the relationship to the supposed bad luck.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by madridsta007(m): 11:31pm On Jul 13, 2020
mrniceguy98:
Hello fams
Happy Sunday
I've been a member of this great forum since 2016 or thereabout though I deactivated my first account here.
I'm not a newbie here. I'm saying it cos some people may think I came to chase clout. I'm here to share my story and experience for others to learn

Back to why I created this topic.
Okay, I've been a chronic masturbator and porn lover. I started after my secondary school and being a Virgin then, it was the easiest way to get pleasure. Lemme say this MASTURBATION AND PORNOGRAPHY are destroyers. They will ruin u and turn you to mere shafts... I masturbated for 6solid years This is what masturbation will do to u

1. It'll make it difficult for you to ever fall in love with a woman. Your relationship and sexual life will become nothing to write home about
2. You'll become withdrawn from others. It'll destroy ur social life totally
3. It'll take you far away from God. Very very far
4. You'll start having memory loss.
5. It brings bad luck. Believe this, it's very true. Things won't be going the way u planned, though not true for everyone but majority of masturbators experience this.
6. You see your d*ck. It'll no longer remain the way God gave u. Trust me, you'll start having erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation if u don't stop on time
There are more but I'll stop here.

With time I noticed that I was becoming withdrawn, depressed and always weak, I was having memory loss, I couldn't keep an information for long, I was shy and didn't really fancy women and relationships. I was a shadow of myself. I didn't have friends, I liked being alone.

Honest truth is I tried stopping severally because the negative signs were obvious but I just couldn't stop. The farthest I could go was 1week, I'd start again. It was very frustrating. .. I tried praying, it wasn't working.

Soon, it weren't those anymore, it worsened. I started observing that my dick was becoming dysfunctional. It could no longer attain maximum erection and normally I've a very long d*ck cos I'm very tall but with time I observed that it was drawing back. I was having a very weak and poor erection. It worsened then again, I wasn't having morning erections anymore. I'd wake up with a flaccid d*ck and I'd have to stimulate it before it'd weakly come up and then fall again in seconds. It was disheartening to say the least. I was becoming weak. I was defeated.

On a fateful (should I even use fateful cos it worked for my favour) morning, after getting up I was with my phone and I saw something very erotic online, the urge came again, I tried to stop it but I couldn't. I masturbated. That masturbation that day nearly ended me. Immediately I was done, it was as if I lost my mind, my head was heavy, it was like men were using hammer on it. I slept for hours and got up but instead of stopping, it worsened. I was dying, my back was aching so painfully, my legs were hurting so badly, I couldn't walk well. My stomach was paining me inside. God!, the experience was tragic. This continued for two good weeks. I couldn't eat well, I was literally dying. I prayed to God to forgive me and give me my health that I wouldn't go back to it. Eventually with time I regained myself. Glory to God, my morning erections are back and my d*ck is becoming normal. I can now have my strong erection though still not completely long but with time.

My experience was horrible and I don't wish it for anyone, even an enemy. I'm happy today that I'm free, its been a long while now and I've not watched porn or masturbated. Thinking about my experience makes me detest it so much now. I've sworn I'll never go back and I believe God will help me.

I learnt the hard way. Please don't learn the hard way, you may not live to tell the tales. MASTURBATION IS A KILLER. RUN FROM IT


Praise God for this story of salvation.
May you never go back to this evil in Jesus Name. Amen.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by stieyven(m): 11:33pm On Jul 13, 2020
Uyi168:
....
Ecclesiasties 9:10:,
Whatever your hand fineth to do, do it with all thy might.
There u have the Bible verse that supported masturbation.. grin
As the scriptures are inspired by the Holy Spirit, and hence it is written, “ no sin against the Holy Spirit can be forgiven.“ Matthew 12 :31.
If you do not repent from trifling and blaspheming the Holy Spirit, then you can be sure that you stand condemned. Be warned.

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