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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Qunu: 11:33pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
With God you will conquer it. Pray always. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Sirkingsnado: 11:35pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
Its evil |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Mazigabriel(m): 11:36pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
seanwilliam:Just focus your mind in something else or rub small pepper on your dick or force your face into a bucket full of water for some time, the urge would die down |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by LZAA: 11:37pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
Humanoid01:Errr maybe u skipped biology in Secondary school but u must SATISFY those urges for ur body to function normally |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by PotatoSalad(m): 11:39pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
Masturbation is bad but it's ok to fornicate or have premarital sex. Human beings are amazing 5 Likes |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Mazigabriel(m): 11:40pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
bluefilm:the Devil is using you to discourage people willing to quit the act, stop being a tool for the evil spirit |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by PotatoSalad(m): 11:45pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
EMMAUGOH:Ok. That's enough internet for today. I'm out. See people I share this country with 2 Likes |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Danielquavo: 11:45pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
Uyi168:God dey cinema, he de watch you continue 2 Likes |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by IpobAntidote: 11:46pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
[s] madridsta007:[/s] TRASH. |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Sleekmilan01(m): 11:48pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
Abeg no dey talk of not being able to love a woman��� Mine is 10years..tho not everyday like,like twice a week is okay for me |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by PotatoSalad(m): 11:50pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
naijaboy756:A friend of mine na fap lord. Jokes about it even. Dude makes 7 figures every month, owns a really nice house and is doing well. He's 29 btw. I hope that's near success syndrome 8 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by MiddleDimension: 11:50pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
Makavelli25: the first step to stop is to see nothing wrong with it, then you will stop it |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by bigfrancis21: 11:51pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
cfree14: From masturbation to fornication, both are the same thing. 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by bigfrancis21: 11:52pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
TrollKiller: I was going to say this. He sounded like he was very addicted to it and was overdoing it. |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by osazsky(m): 11:53pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
Pls d stupid mod that ban me should reban me o...if not thunder will locate u...nor let me insult ur parents o... I think I am better off without nairaland..in these 4 day ban.2 of my jobs quotation was approved roughly 3m maybe this nairaland is a bad energy .mumu mod 6 Likes |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Froshloaded: 11:53pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
Eulalia:Lol. Nothing much. I'm just here, bored... Wbu |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 11:58pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
Froshloaded: I'm cool. |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by XXXXTENTACION: 11:59pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
Stopfapping:all those things you wrote there are false. If they were true what about mike tyson who masturbates five times a day yet he is one of the strongest and greatest boxer in the world. 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by madridsta007(m): 11:59pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
[s] IpobAntidote:[/s] You seem pained. Your redemption from the evil of Masturbation will soon come. 2 Likes |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Sufisunni: 12:13am On Jul 14, 2020 |
mrniceguy98:Congrats. Bro you didn't see anything. I experienced hell for almost 20yrs! I never knew there are more benefits of no masturbating than masturbating! Memory loss Confusion Social anxiety Low attractions Highest order of Anxiety Depression Acrophobia, trypaphobia Hearing voices in my head, certain people don't like me and I don't like them too either. Highly judgemental of people Thought of hurting myself Concentration problem Extreme mood swings Always tired( fatigue ) Floater eye A feeling of impeding doom Sleeping too much Restlessness Overeating Pot belly due to excessive eating Distancing self from others Always indoor Easily get angry Palpitation of heart at any slightest exertion Always choosy of people to associate with Hardly appreciate beauty Always comparing people's achievement Low self-esteem Seeing girls as sex objects Always critical of everyone and everything Easily lament over any action Can't have eye contact Always lying down Lateness of doing things and carelessness Shaking while sleeping Nervous on seeing some people Hair loss. Lossing my IQ and thought provoking power due to brain fog Panic attacks and its associated problems Unnecessary shyness Forehead pain perhaps due to anxiety and depression Back pain Absolute laziness Compulsion and obsession problem A shock passing through my heart once everyday No desire to do important things in my life Lossing touch and feeling of reality Blood pressure Cattarh My hands bending while lying down holding something up Easily falling sick. Leaving masturbation was the best decision of my life. Avoiding any foods high in glycemic index and junk foods will make you healthier, limitless confidence etc. I can't count the benefits! 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by heendrix(m): 12:19am On Jul 14, 2020 |
mrniceguy98: OMG you best describe me bro I can't help it either God esp that memory loss |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Osobi32(m): 12:22am On Jul 14, 2020 |
cfree14:this is the most sincere advice |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Chris2863(m): 12:23am On Jul 14, 2020 |
What sort of damaged men are here please? Take it or not, masturbation is very bad and it brings stagnation 8 Likes |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by akigbemaru: 12:26am On Jul 14, 2020 |
Masturbation is not a sin, it is the best damn thing after real pussy. 2 Likes |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Etinosa1234: 12:30am On Jul 14, 2020 |
Sufisunni: See as u Jus dey pack lie give ordinary soapy... So Na masturbation dey give u catarrh if u feel lazy after masturbating... it's as a result of addiction I have a friend that masturbates very well and his result is one of the best in our dept..So that memory loss nor join But guy...there is no way that masturbation is the cause of all those things wey u write for there... Go do checkup...Na HIV dey worry u 10 Likes |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Etinosa1234: 12:32am On Jul 14, 2020 |
See as Africans dey blame masturbation as the cause of their misfortune... small malaria...dem go say Na masturbation Even catarrh don turn after effects of masturbation Chai!! 3 Likes |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Etinosa1234: 12:34am On Jul 14, 2020 |
mrniceguy98: Op ... Since when u stop masturbation, u don buy land? u don buy Benz? u get promotion for work? 3 Likes |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by koolaid87: 12:34am On Jul 14, 2020 |
Bro, you're doing God's work with your write up. Im quitting now and all thanks to God for using you to save llives from this demonic force. I'm quitting now for good Time to take my life back Glory be to God ote author=mrniceguy98 post=91641610]Hello fams Happy Sunday I've been a member of this great forum since 2016 or thereabout though I deactivated my first account here. I'm not a newbie here. I'm saying it cos some people may think I came to chase clout. I'm here to share my story and experience for others to learn Back to why I created this topic. Okay, I've been a chronic masturbator and porn lover. I started after my secondary school and being a Virgin then, it was the easiest way to get pleasure. Lemme say this MASTURBATION AND PORNOGRAPHY are destroyers. They will ruin u and turn you to mere shafts... I masturbated for 6solid years This is what masturbation will do to u 1. It'll make it difficult for you to ever fall in love with a woman. Your relationship and sexual life will become nothing to write home about 2. You'll become withdrawn from others. It'll destroy ur social life totally 3. It'll take you far away from God. Very very far 4. You'll start having memory loss. 5. It brings bad luck. Believe this, it's very true. Things won't be going the way u planned, though not true for everyone but majority of masturbators experience this. 6. You see your d*ck. It'll no longer remain the way God gave u. Trust me, you'll start having erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation if u don't stop on time There are more but I'll stop here. With time I noticed that I was becoming withdrawn, depressed and always weak, I was having memory loss, I couldn't keep an information for long, I was shy and didn't really fancy women and relationships. I was a shadow of myself. I didn't have friends, I liked being alone. Honest truth is I tried stopping severally because the negative signs were obvious but I just couldn't stop. The farthest I could go was 1week, I'd start again. It was very frustrating. .. I tried praying, it wasn't working. Soon, it weren't those anymore, it worsened. I started observing that my dick was becoming dysfunctional. It could no longer attain maximum erection and normally I've a very long d*ck cos I'm very tall but with time I observed that it was drawing back. I was having a very weak and poor erection. It worsened then again, I wasn't having morning erections anymore. I'd wake up with a flaccid d*ck and I'd have to stimulate it before it'd weakly come up and then fall again in seconds. It was disheartening to say the least. I was becoming weak. I was defeated. On a fateful (should I even use fateful cos it worked for my favour) morning, after getting up I was with my phone and I saw something very erotic online, the urge came again, I tried to stop it but I couldn't. I masturbated. That masturbation that day nearly ended me. Immediately I was done, it was as if I lost my mind, my head was heavy, it was like men were using hammer on it. I slept for hours and got up but instead of stopping, it worsened. I was dying, my back was aching so painfully, my legs were hurting so badly, I couldn't walk well. My stomach was paining me inside. God!, the experience was tragic. This continued for two good weeks. I couldn't eat well, I was literally dying. I prayed to God to forgive me and give me my health that I wouldn't go back to it. Eventually with time I regained myself. Glory to God, my morning erections are back and my d*ck is becoming normal. I can now have my strong erection though still not completely long but with time. My experience was horrible and I don't wish it for anyone, even an enemy. I'm happy today that I'm free, its been a long while now and I've not watched porn or masturbated. Thinking about my experience makes me detest it so much now. I've sworn I'll never go back and I believe God will help me. I learnt the hard way. Please don't learn the hard way, you may not live to tell the tales. MASTURBATION IS A KILLER. RUN FROM IT [/quote] 2 Likes |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by OriOko88(m): 1:02am On Jul 14, 2020 |
Whats good for A might not be good for B. If you think masturbation is bad, then stop it for your own sake, but what I won't condone is trying to force people into believing in your theory of masturbation. My former oga can't do without masturbation, despite having wife and kids at home, and he's doing good financially. I have friends that masturbate, and are doing ok, gainfully employed. What I won't tolerate is addiction, like 6 times daily, haba. A normal masturbation should be once daily just to relief oneself of stress. I masturbates once a day, and I'm still very much active in sex, I fvcked a babe for four hours non stop on Friday, without having any premature ejaculation. So do what's good for you. I dey get get steady erection despite d masturbating, but its once a day. So Mk Una stop all these myopic mentality on masturbation. Oyibo no dey reason am as u Africans see it. 5 Likes |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by SweetDipBenny(m): 1:18am On Jul 14, 2020 |
I can quit if i want to.I jus don't wanna 2 Likes |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 1:34am On Jul 14, 2020 |
This is why this country and Africa will never progress. Here's someone blaming all his misfortunes on masturbation. This is why all the pastors and politicians will continue to bobo you. Just fucking tired of Nigerians. Any Bleep up on their part, they will look for a spiritual excuse. Believe what you want, but don't come here to force it on people's throats. Who ever pushed this to the front page doesnt understand the impact. These kind of posts destroy many things. 1) The developed world sees this and will mock our stupidity. Africa at superstitions again. No wonder nothing works there 2) psychological implications. Someone out there will start believing masturbation is responsible for all his failures. When In fact he has never done anything worthwhile. This post can create more religious mad people with psycho issues The mod shouldn't post something without proof. there's no scientific evidence for this. Why post falsities. You are going to ruin one innocent soul out there and their blood will be on your head 3) sexual crimes. Shame people on masturbation and watch people become more covert on sexual activities. What you do here will lead to more sexual crimes like rape and perversions. Masturbation decreases the risks of all these. A man who just madturbated cannot rape or sleep with a child. It cannot happen 4) STDs. MASTURBATION is very safe way of preventing STDs. Without it, watch all the diseases spike up. If you demonize masturbation, watch more men patronise prostitutes and other forms of desperation. This post is dangerous, remove it ASAP. Whatever you hope to achieve with it will have far greater consequences. Wtf! 8 Likes |
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by IpobAntidote: 1:35am On Jul 14, 2020 |
[s] madridsta007:[/s] The PAIN is in your brain. Deal with it. |
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