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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 1:49am On Jul 14, 2020
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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 1:55am On Jul 14, 2020
Is it just me or does masturbation and porn go hand in hand undecided?
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Uckroot: 1:58am On Jul 14, 2020
Stopfapping:
no, you need help, I was in your shoes defending this devilish act until God saved me, I now enjoy all the positive of quitting, within this 100 days, I have 2 job offers both 6 figures after joblessness for 3 years, I have massive confidence to conquer the world, bro, instead of giving excuses, try it and thank me later

Trash.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 1:58am On Jul 14, 2020
This country needs more psychologists. Many posts here about masturbation destroying their lives is mental sickness. They even lie to defend these imaginary stories. Lots of sick fellows. All I see are mentally sick fellows with brain issues. Many well to do and successful humans have healthy sex lives which include masturbation and porn. But here are some insane fellows blaming their misfortunes on masturbation. How sick can some people be. Someone even said masturbation has made him sick and develop different symptoms. Thai one should see a psychiatrist. No where in medical science has masturbation been discovered to be harmful to health. One mumu even said something about dick length. So many sick fellows running amok in this sick country and continent.


These are the future pastors who would rape little children and commit perversions. This is how they all begin by blaming something on masturbation. This how religiously crazy humans begin. And the mod just posted it. No proof, no scientific evidence. No human evidence or tested trials to show that those who madturbate don't succeed when in fact over 90% of men do or have done it. Just weak here and scared for innocent souls

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Uckroot: 2:03am On Jul 14, 2020
Nigerians are so stupid. Masturbation is attracting evil spirits to you while the most powerful men in the world are organ harvesters and child sex patrons and trafficators...
Your Nigerian leaders do tons of rituals involving killing scores of people and rape/molest anything in skirt under their authority,..yet they are your leaders.

In this life, IF YOU INSIST you will be succesful. It’s not by spirit or bullshit. If you keep finding excuses you will never run out of them.
If your theories were true ALL the world leaders and richest men from time immemorial would have been blocked from success.

The world is evil, infact the more evil you are the higher your chances of rubbing shoulders with the big boys.

Stop blaming rubbish for your lack of zeal or commitment.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Zane2point4(m): 2:09am On Jul 14, 2020
mrniceguy98:
Hello fams
Happy Sunday
I've been a member of this great forum since 2016 or thereabout though I deactivated my first account here.
I'm not a newbie here. I'm saying it cos some people may think I came to chase clout. I'm here to share my story and experience for others to learn

Back to why I created this topic.
Okay, I've been a chronic masturbator and porn lover. I started after my secondary school and being a Virgin then, it was the easiest way to get pleasure. Lemme say this MASTURBATION AND PORNOGRAPHY are destroyers. They will ruin u and turn you to mere shafts... I masturbated for 6solid years This is what masturbation will do to u

1. It'll make it difficult for you to ever fall in love with a woman. Your relationship and sexual life will become nothing to write home about
2. You'll become withdrawn from others. It'll destroy ur social life totally
3. It'll take you far away from God. Very very far
4. You'll start having memory loss.
5. It brings bad luck. Believe this, it's very true. Things won't be going the way u planned, though not true for everyone but majority of masturbators experience this.
6. You see your d*ck. It'll no longer remain the way God gave u. Trust me, you'll start having erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation if u don't stop on time
There are more but I'll stop here.

With time I noticed that I was becoming withdrawn, depressed and always weak, I was having memory loss, I couldn't keep an information for long, I was shy and didn't really fancy women and relationships. I was a shadow of myself. I didn't have friends, I liked being alone.

Honest truth is I tried stopping severally because the negative signs were obvious but I just couldn't stop. The farthest I could go was 1week, I'd start again. It was very frustrating. .. I tried praying, it wasn't working.

Soon, it weren't those anymore, it worsened. I started observing that my dick was becoming dysfunctional. It could no longer attain maximum erection and normally I've a very long d*ck cos I'm very tall but with time I observed that it was drawing back. I was having a very weak and poor erection. It worsened then again, I wasn't having morning erections anymore. I'd wake up with a flaccid d*ck and I'd have to stimulate it before it'd weakly come up and then fall again in seconds. It was disheartening to say the least. I was becoming weak. I was defeated.

On a fateful (should I even use fateful cos it worked for my favour) morning, after getting up I was with my phone and I saw something very erotic online, the urge came again, I tried to stop it but I couldn't. I masturbated. That masturbation that day nearly ended me. Immediately I was done, it was as if I lost my mind, my head was heavy, it was like men were using hammer on it. I slept for hours and got up but instead of stopping, it worsened. I was dying, my back was aching so painfully, my legs were hurting so badly, I couldn't walk well. My stomach was paining me inside. God!, the experience was tragic. This continued for two good weeks. I couldn't eat well, I was literally dying. I prayed to God to forgive me and give me my health that I wouldn't go back to it. Eventually with time I regained myself. Glory to God, my morning erections are back and my d*ck is becoming normal. I can now have my strong erection though still not completely long but with time.

My experience was horrible and I don't wish it for anyone, even an enemy. I'm happy today that I'm free, its been a long while now and I've not watched porn or masturbated. Thinking about my experience makes me detest it so much now. I've sworn I'll never go back and I believe God will help me.

I learnt the hard way. Please don't learn the hard way, you may not live to tell the tales. MASTURBATION IS A KILLER. RUN FROM IT

100% right, don't mind them,
That erectile dysfunction is correct also.
Limp dickk, not even strong and fall immediately.
Dont mind ppl trying to talk you down.

Most men are struggling with this.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by WizzyVine: 2:15am On Jul 14, 2020
I've learnt a lot from this thread. God bless Nairalanders.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Sufisunni: 2:37am On Jul 14, 2020
Etinosa1234:


See as u Jus dey pack lie give ordinary soapy...

So Na masturbation dey give u catarrh grin
if u feel lazy after masturbating... it's as a result of addiction
I have a friend that masturbates very well and his result is one of the best in our dept..So that memory loss nor join

But guy...there is no way that masturbation is the cause of all those things wey u write for there...

Go do checkup...Na HIV dey worry u
Bro, I finished as one of the best students in my engineering dept too, even got an overseas scholarship for my postgraduate studies. The problem is, I did masturbate and finished with good grades, but as you get older you will know the consequences of masturbation.
On the catarrh issue that you raised, that was because I was loosing too much nutrients from my body - semen, this had reduced my body immunity and made me vulnerable to many illnesses, I became so weak; I counld masturbate 5times a day. Do check out for sperm nutritional contents you would know why I got sick easily. I used to visit hospital or clinic perhaps 5 to 6 six times a year, but it has been exactly one year since I stopped masturbating and I haven't visited any hospitals, yes! Do you think this was a mere coincidence? I live in one of the most developed countries in the world with perhaps the best health care facilities and health insurance but I haven't found reason to visit any hospitals.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by yahaya2014(m): 2:41am On Jul 14, 2020
What Abt premature ejaculation. Did you suffer from it? And was it later restored?

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 2:44am On Jul 14, 2020
Sufisunni:
Bro, I finished as one of the best students in my engineering dept too, even got an overseas scholarship for my postgraduate studies. The problem is, I did masturbate and finished with good grades, but as you get older you will know the consequences of masturbation.
On the catarrh issue that you raised, that was because I was loosing too much nutrients from my body - semen, I became so weak; I counld masturbate 5times a day. Do check out for sperm nutritional contents you would know why I got sick easily; I used to visit hospital or clinic perhaps 5 to 6 six times a year, but it has been exactly one since I stopped masturbating and I haven't visited any hospitals, yes! Do you think this was a mere coincidence? I live in one of the most developed countries in the world with perhaps the best health care facilities and health insurance but I haven't found reason to visit any hospitals.

If you say this to any health practitioner, you will be locked up. Lies everywhere. Have sense and stop lying. You will mislead other people. Don't you get it? Nobody cares. But you will likely mislead people. No health practitioner will corroborate all you've said because there's no medical proof. And don't come up with one mumu reason. You are having other issues. Attend to it. See a doctor or psychologist. Or a psychiatrist. Seriously. See someone and stop accusinge masturbation of your problems.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by baba4thegehs: 2:45am On Jul 14, 2020
The people with opposing views... na dem gan gan

Don't allow masturbation ruin your life, although there is range to it, if you get addicted to it, oma mess your life up.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 2:47am On Jul 14, 2020
I read everything that guy said. You have a mental issue. All the symptoms you mentioned are psychological. Fucking see a psychiatrist ASAP before you are ruined. No go dey blame masturbation, something men far greater than you do without any side effects. See a doctor asap.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 2:50am On Jul 14, 2020
baba4thegehs:
The people with opposing views... na dem gan gan

Don't allow masturbation ruin your life, although there is range to it, if you get addicted to it, oma mess your life up.

Note opposing. Misinformation is dangerous. That's why I'm taking this matter like this. People who don't know much can be mislead. Those are who I'm trying to protect. If you doubt it, see a medical doctor and confirm. None of them will believe these boogaboos

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Notatribalist(m): 2:51am On Jul 14, 2020
oderinde151:
I've sent a mail to you sir
OK I will check
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 2:57am On Jul 14, 2020
This is a link to some honest great men on masturbation. Iron Man sef dey there. Don't let anybody tell you masturbation won't make you great


https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/g12505405/male-celebrity-masturbation-quotes/

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Notatribalist(m): 2:57am On Jul 14, 2020
BlackNeo:


If you say this to any health practitioner, you will be locked up. Lies everywhere. Have sense and stop lying. You will mislead other people. Don't you get it? Nobody cares. But you will likely mislead people. No health practitioner will corroborate all you've said because there's no medical proof. And don't come up with one mumu reason. You are having other issues. Attend to it. See a doctor or psychologist. Or a psychiatrist. Seriously. See someone and stop accusinge masturbation of your problems.
You rather Should be lock up for mis_informing people. To hell with science. Masturbation has many side effects, I am a witness to that.If you knw how I suffer from masturbation you won't be saying all this.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 2:58am On Jul 14, 2020
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 2:59am On Jul 14, 2020
Notatribalist:
You rather Should be lock up for mis_informing people. To hell with science. Masturbation has many side effects, I am a witness to that.If you knw how I suffer from masturbation you won't be saying all this.


See a psychiatrist before it's too late. Your problem is not madtubation. The fact that you call it your problem is a sign of mental disorder. Go to uch now and see a doctor or psychologist!
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Notatribalist(m): 3:02am On Jul 14, 2020
BlackNeo:



See a psychiatrist before it's too late. Your problem is not madtubation. The fact that you call it your problem is a sign of mental disorder. Go to uch now and see a doctor or psychologist!
Go and read question young people ask,volume one by Jehovah's witness, you will understand what masturbation mean.I guess you don't know more than them?In any case continue your masturbation OK?nobody go tell you to stop.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 3:03am On Jul 14, 2020
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 3:05am On Jul 14, 2020
Notatribalist:
Go and read question young people ask,volume one by Jehovah's witness, you will understand what masturbation mean.I guess you don't know more than them?In any case continue your masturbation OK?nobody go tell you to stop.

See a doctor damnit! I pity you. Your problems are gonna get huge if you don't see a psychiatrist. Stop the self denial. You will not be the first to masturbate. Men have mastubated and gone ahead in life to rule the world. See a doctor this guy. Everything will be clear

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 3:06am On Jul 14, 2020
Notatribalist:
Go and read question young people ask,volume one by Jehovah's witness, you will understand what masturbation mean.I guess you don't know more than them?In any case continue your masturbation OK?nobody go tell you to stop.

Religion can never be a strong reason. Let's talk facts. Where's the fact in that? Is that a factual source. I said it that most of you here are just religious crazy fellows trying to seek more converts to your insanity

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Kelvin30286063(m): 3:15am On Jul 14, 2020
Will you shut up. If I tell you how many times masturbation has saved me from cheating on my wife, you will start again. Yeye.... Instead of you to get a good job and have a balanced diet, you are here listing what does not affect masturbation.

My doctor even recommended that I masturbate some months ago. Mtweee.

Continue fooling yourself thinking masturbation is your problem when obviously your problem is more attached to malnutrition.

No one is saying masturbating 5 times ago is good but don't come here and tell us it's all negative and no positive. Go and research about this, Jeff Bezos once said he is a chronic masturbator... He is the richest man in the world right now by the way. Why is he not a wasted being like you?
I have been masturbating since I was 22, I'm 31 now, I have a wonderful life. Have my own company, own car, own house, have a beautiful wife and a baby on the way. My wife is 6 months pregnant now, and we haven't had sex for 6 months cuz doctors advices we shouldn't, if not for masturbation, maybe Satan would have used me. Why hasn't masturbation destroyed me? Infact this days when stupid girls try to seduce me on whatsapp, I masturbate and once I'm done, I get satisfaction and I block them.
If you think I'm lying about my life. DM me and let's meet. I'll show you my life.

Long story short, don't believe in the silly superstition that your failed life in the past is attached to your addiction to servicing yourself. It's rather attached to your inability to know when not to masturbate. Especially when you don't have food at home.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 3:16am On Jul 14, 2020
Sufisunni:
Congrats. Bro you didn't see anything. I experienced hell for almost 20yrs!
I never knew there are more benefits of no masturbating than masturbating! Memory loss
Confusion
Social anxiety
Low attractions
Highest order of Anxiety
Depression
Acrophobia, trypaphobia
Hearing voices in my head, certain people don't like me and I don't like them too either. Highly judgemental of people
Thought of hurting myself
Concentration problem
Extreme mood swings
Always tired( fatigue )
Floater eye
A feeling of impeding doom
Sleeping too much
Restlessness
Overeating
Pot belly due to excessive eating
Distancing self from others
Always indoor
Easily get angry
Palpitation of heart at any slightest exertion
Always choosy of people to associate with
Hardly appreciate beauty
Always comparing people's achievement
Low self-esteem
Seeing girls as sex objects
Always critical of everyone and everything
Easily lament over any action
Can't have eye contact
Always lying down
Lateness of doing things and carelessness
Shaking while sleeping
Nervous on seeing some people
Hair loss. Lossing my IQ and thought provoking power due to brain fog
Panic attacks and its associated problems
Unnecessary shyness
Forehead pain perhaps due to anxiety and depression
Back pain
Absolute laziness
Compulsion and obsession problem
A shock passing through my heart once everyday
No desire to do important things in my life
Lossing touch and feeling of reality
Blood pressure
Cattarh
My hands bending while lying down holding something up
Easily falling sick.
Leaving masturbation was the best decision of my life. Avoiding any foods high in glycemic index and junk foods will make you healthier, limitless confidence etc. I can't count the benefits!


Anyone here should read all these and tell me if this person is not truly mentally sick. Use your senses now. The best help one can give this fellow is to refer him to a good psychiatrist.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 3:23am On Jul 14, 2020
Those who know among us owe it to the less knowledgeable to fight any misinformation because it may well destroy another soul. This is not about defending masturbation, if you don't want to masturbate, abeg don't. But don't lie about it. Don't deceive about it. The consequences can be drastic on an impressionable mind. Imagine someone who needs motivation to succeed now thinking it is masturbation that is the root of his problems. He will now start chasing a dead end

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 3:28am On Jul 14, 2020
Kelvin30286063:
Will you shut up. If I tell you how many times masturbation has saved me from cheating on my wife, you will start again. Yeye.... Instead of you to get a good job and have a balanced diet, you are here listing what does not affect masturbation.

My doctor even recommended that I masturbate some months ago. Mtweee.

Continue fooling yourself thinking masturbation is your problem when obviously your problem is more attached to malnutrition.

No one is saying masturbating 5 times ago is good but don't come here and tell us it's all negative and no positive. Go and research about this, Jeff Bezos once said he is a chronic masturbator... He is the richest man in the world right now by the way. Why is he not a wasted being like you?
I have been masturbating since I was 22, I'm 31 now, I have a wonderful life. Have my own company, own car, own house, have a beautiful wife and a baby on the way. Why hasn't masturbation destroyed me? Infact this days when stupid girls try to seduce me on whatsapp, I masturbate and once I'm done, I get satisfaction and I block them.
If you think I'm lying about my life. DM me and let's meet. I'll show you my life.

Long story short, don't believe in the silly superstition that your failed life in the past is attached to your addiction to servicing yourself. It's rather attached to your inability to know when not to masturbate. Especially when you don't have food at home.


Don't mind him. Just like everything with life without good nutrition it will turn to problem

1) you can't life weights without eating well
2) you can't have sex without eating well
3) you can't study without eating well
4) you can't gain confidence when you are malnourished
5) you can't be healthy if you don't eat well

How then in the holy bleeps will you now masturbate when you are not eating well or you have mental issues without more problem?

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 3:31am On Jul 14, 2020
This is why Nairaland sucks. If it were Quora or Reddit, this post will be deleted and the poster banned for misinformation. You cannot just post anything without proof on these places. Everything has to have a backing. You can't invernt lies and make front page. If what you post has no real factual backing that is verifiable, forget it

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by MiddleDimension: 3:38am On Jul 14, 2020
Sufisunni:
Bro, I finished as one of the best students in my engineering dept too, even got an overseas scholarship for my postgraduate studies. The problem is, I did masturbate and finished with good grades, but as you get older you will know the consequences of masturbation.
On the catarrh issue that you raised, that was because I was loosing too much nutrients from my body - semen, I became so weak; I counld masturbate 5times a day. Do check out for sperm nutritional contents you would know why I got sick easily; I used to visit hospital or clinic perhaps 5 to 6 six times a year, but it has been exactly one since I stopped masturbating and I haven't visited any hospitals, yes! Do you think this was a mere coincidence? I live in one of the most developed countries in the world with perhaps the best health care facilities and health insurance but I haven't found reason to visit any hospitals.

if you had sex five times a day, would you lose nutrients too?

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by whitenoiseng: 3:54am On Jul 14, 2020
Sex has more -Ve impact on you bro , Pick your poison grin
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Funjosh(m): 4:03am On Jul 14, 2020
Nuttella:
Is it just me or does masturbation and porn go hand in hand undecided?


Yes they do.
Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 4:18am On Jul 14, 2020
whitenoiseng:
Sex has more -Ve impact on you bro , Pick your poison grin

Negative impact? Sex? This country is over. With so much ignorance about, this country is not getting anywhere. The pastors and politician will continually tap into hypocrisy and ignorance to enslave y'all.. Even your pastor cums. Just imagine that your holy plaster moaning and groaning. I bet that's difficult to do. Yet he does it and comes to church on Sunday to scream: flee sex. As if sex is the reason why so many criminals are running amok in this country

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 4:20am On Jul 14, 2020
Inyikalum:
does masturbation cause premature ejaculation??

Yes and it can also lead to delayed ejaculation.

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