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A Loving God by Nobody: 9:35am On Jul 15, 2020
Well.....


I've been forced to write this and show the world about A LOVING GOD....


Having lived my early life as a Christian, I saw alot of things in the Bible and I was cool with it.....
Now!
It ain't so.

God has been termed with so many great titles because of how we claim to experience him, here I've given him the title of A Loving God....


Christians are being taught that God is loving and omnipotent and all knowing.....


Well, I've come to say..."erase such erroneous fallacy from your mind"......

To those who will say that I've not experienced God that's why I'm saying this....sorry!....

I have experienced him and I'm still experiencing....

I've experienced him watching the videos of Biafran war, I've experienced him seeing a classmate of mine die of bone cancer.... I've experienced him watch my brother die in war and one if his daughters die leaving his fiancee speechless..... I've experienced him watching s classmate of mine die from unexplained illness and his father die leaving his mother alone with two of her children.... I've experienced him watch my aunt die of HIV....I've experienced him watch my aunt die mysteriously...this was a prayer warrior...... I've experienced him watch a friend of mine die from sickle cell...... I keep experiencing him every time I take up my phone and see a new death of a child.......I keep experiencing him every 25 seconds when a child dies in AFRICA.......


Tell me how else I should believe him.....

Years of reading the Bible and praying for those my brothers and sisters in Sudan and Congo and other war zones hasn't helped.......

You get out of an accident you thank God but you forget that a mother somewhere in Africa had her had her child die while sucking her breast....she carried her child not knowing he died........

Somewhere in Africa two siblings had their parents brutally murdered before their own eyes ....days went on they lived on their love and tears, by a week they both emaciated.....
By another week the elder sister holds her emaciated dead brother in her arms.....


Well what else do you need to know that your God doesn't not care about you.....

cry cry

Listening to MAY IT BE BY ENYA and opening nairaland front page only to see a 23 year old girl...... cry cry.


As a father I won't let any harm come to my child neither will I let anyone hurt my child.....and you call me imperfect, but a God who gives no Bleep about you and leaves you to suffering called Loving And Perfect.....please there is nothing like God's ways are not our ways.....



I need reasonable answers and explanations to the pictures below.....






Xmuslim
The Sourcerer
Lord Reed
CAPSLOCKED
Hopefullandlord
Seun

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Re: A Loving God by Nobody: 9:44am On Jul 15, 2020
Maybe this as well.....

Probably you'll say it's the devil who I the cause of pain and sorrows, but who created the devil if not God

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Re: A Loving God by Nobody: 9:45am On Jul 15, 2020
What other like can you use to defend your all loving God.....

These pictures are excerpts from the Biafran war....then when if I bring from other parts of the Africa and then the world...

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Re: A Loving God by hakeem4(m): 9:48am On Jul 15, 2020
There are two scenarios.

1) it’s either god doesn’t exist or
2) he exists and he doesn’t care about us.

The likelihood of option is high, because there’s no evidence for his existence.

I still find it hard to believe that Some humans would think that a particular god has them in mind. Care for them, make a plan for them (stopping their free will), protect them, mind who they sleep with and in what style and at the end of the day, that particular god would punish you for exercising your own free will.

I find this type of idea supercilious.

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Re: A Loving God by Nobody: 9:54am On Jul 15, 2020
hakeem4:
There are two scenarios.

1) it’s either god doesn’t exist or
2) he exists and he doesn’t care about us.

The likelihood of option is high, because there’s no evidence for his existence.

I still find it hard to believe that Some humans would think that a particular god has them in mind. Care for them, make a plan for them (stopping their free will), protect them, mind who they sleep with and in what style and at the end of the day, that particular god would punish you for exercising your own free will.

I find this type of idea supercilious.


It's really sad......


Like how can people who claim to be intelligent see all these and still trust and pray to him.....it's not sane.......
Re: A Loving God by CAPSLOCKED: 10:53am On Jul 15, 2020
I'VE LIVED CLOSE TO ONE OF THE BIGGEST HOSPITAL IN THIS CITY FOR 15 YEARS. FROM MY DAYS AS A TODDLER I'VE BEEN A FREQUENT USER OF HOSPITALS MYSELF AND NOW I HAVE BUSINESSES RUNNING WITH SOME OF THEM IN TOWN, AND IT'S NEVER A PLEASURE TO BE THERE. I USED TO WANT THIS PERFECT PERSON TO EXIST AS CHRISTIANS PAINT HIM TO BE, JUST SO HE CAN TAKE SOME OF THESE PAINS AWAY. FROM WHAT MY OWN EYES SEE EVERYDAY HUNDREDS GO THROUGH VERY TERRIBLE SITUATIONS. SHOULD I TALK ABOUT THE BURN VICTIMS? OR THE EMERGENCY SIRENS I HEAR AT LEAST 5 TIMES DAILY? OR THE CHILDREN'S WARD?. BUT THE PERFECT LOVING GOD CONTINUES TO LOOK ON WITH APATHY.
A LONG TIME AGO I LEARNED NOT TO WASTE MY TIME WITH DELUSIONS AND ACCEPT LIFE HOW I SEE IT. IF THERE'S A GOD IT CLEARLY DOESN'T CARE ABOUT US, SO WHY SHOULD I CARE ABOUT IT?

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Re: A Loving God by Nobody: 11:02am On Jul 15, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
I'VE LIVED CLOSE TO ONE OF THE BIGGEST HOSPITAL IN THIS CITY FOR 15 YEARS. FROM MY DAYS AS A TODDLER I'VE BEEN A FREQUENT USER OF HOSPITALS MYSELF AND NOW I HAVE BUSINESSES RUNNING WITH SOME OF THEM IN TOWN, AND IT'S NEVER A PLEASURE TO BE THERE. I USED TO WANT THIS PERFECT PERSON TO EXIST AS CHRISTIANS PAINT HIM TO BE, JUST SO HE CAN TAKE SOME OF THESE PAINS AWAY. FROM WHAT MY OWN EYES SEE EVERYDAY HUNDREDS GO THROUGH VERY TERRIBLE SITUATIONS. SHOULD I TALK ABOUT THE BURN VICTIMS? OR THE EMERGENCY SIRENS I HEAR AT LEAST 5 TIMES DAILY? OR THE CHILDREN'S WARD?. BUT THE PERFECT LOVING GOD CONTINUES TO LOOK ON WITH APATHY.
A LONG TIME AGO I LEARNED NOT TO WASTE MY TIME WITH DELUSIONS AND ACCEPT LIFE HOW I SEE IT. IF THERE'S A GOD IT CLEARLY DOESN'T CARE ABOUT US, SO WHY SHOULD I CARE ABOUT IT?

The underlined caused your problem!

What people say about people and what you can do to know better! smiley
Re: A Loving God by Nobody: 11:04am On Jul 15, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
I'VE LIVED CLOSE TO ONE OF THE BIGGEST HOSPITAL IN THIS CITY FOR 15 YEARS. FROM MY DAYS AS A TODDLER I'VE BEEN A FREQUENT USER OF HOSPITALS MYSELF AND NOW I HAVE BUSINESSES RUNNING WITH SOME OF THEM IN TOWN, AND IT'S NEVER A PLEASURE TO BE THERE. I USED TO WANT THIS PERFECT PERSON TO EXIST AS CHRISTIANS PAINT HIM TO BE, JUST SO HE CAN TAKE SOME OF THESE PAINS AWAY. FROM WHAT MY OWN EYES SEE EVERYDAY HUNDREDS GO THROUGH VERY TERRIBLE SITUATIONS. SHOULD I TALK ABOUT THE BURN VICTIMS? OR THE EMERGENCY SIRENS I HEAR AT LEAST 5 TIMES DAILY? OR THE CHILDREN'S WARD?. BUT THE PERFECT LOVING GOD CONTINUES TO LOOK ON WITH APATHY.
A LONG TIME AGO I LEARNED NOT TO WASTE MY TIME WITH DELUSIONS AND ACCEPT LIFE HOW I SEE IT. IF THERE'S A GOD IT CLEARLY DOESN'T CARE ABOUT US, SO WHY SHOULD I CARE ABOUT IT?




It's really pathetic......


Their excuse is that it's God's plan .....he works in mysterious ways...



How still Africans who have suffered so much still hold on to the so called god and delude themselves saying that their faith is strong.....
Re: A Loving God by Nobody: 11:06am On Jul 15, 2020
Xavfra:


It's really sad......

Like how can people who claim to be intelligent see all these and still trust and pray to him.....it's not sane.......

Are you willing to know where intelligence stands or you're only interested in feeding your own preconceived thoughts? smiley

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Re: A Loving God by Nobody: 11:06am On Jul 15, 2020
[quote author=Maximus69 post=91735246][/quote]


undecided
Re: A Loving God by Nobody: 11:20am On Jul 15, 2020
Xavfra:

undecided

What you're seeing and what you're hearing may give you picture of someone but talking personally with this person will answer so many questions that may develop in our inner thoughts.

The real Christians have a mission and they're dedicated to it, so if you pose a threat to their mission or distraction, they'll ignore you in their search for interested ones who sincerely wants to know what is happening! smiley

The questions we help people to find answers!

Who is God?
Where is he?
Does he really exist?
Why does he permit suffering?
These and many more questions will be answered if we are truthfully interested in knowing, but with preconceived judgment there's nothing anyone can do than to leave you alone! smiley

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Re: A Loving God by budaatum: 11:28am On Jul 15, 2020
Maximus69:


What you're seeing and what you're hearing may give you picture of someone but talking personally with this person will answer so many questions that may develop in our inner thoughts.

The real Christians have a mission and they're dedicated to it, so if you pose a threat to their mission or distraction, they'll ignore you in their search for interested ones who sincerely wants to know what is happening! smiley

The questions we help people to find answers!

Who is God?
Where is he?
Does he really exist?
Why does he permit suffering?
These and many more questions will be answered if we are truthfully interested in knowing, but with preconceived judgment there's nothing anyone can do than to leave you alone! smiley
And one that you missed out.

What is God?

I find it rather amusing we ask those other questions without defining what it is we ask about.
Re: A Loving God by Nobody: 11:29am On Jul 15, 2020
In his book (Bible) he made it clear that everyone living has the right to whatever they like but there are things that's going to hurt intelligent beings if care is not taken.
That's why our freedom is relative not absolute!

Though we have the freewill but once there are many other intelligent creatures around us there must be standards to keep things in order.

God is not a bully so when his set of creatures on planet earth decided to reject his standards, he told them what will happen to them and how he's going to salvage the situation.

What we're experiencing today is part of his ongoing process to correct the blunders of our first parents, but as humans with limited knowledge we tend to be in haste to see it all solved within few minutes after all he is the Almighty. We tend to forget so fast his rule of conduct ~ learn from experience

Our first parents chose to learn the hard way instead of trusting his discretion and many around us today follow the mindset of our first parents, the only way out for obedient ones is to keep calm and watch how the all wise God will resolve the issue. He will never destroy anyone hastily but allow others to learn from their examples! smiley
Re: A Loving God by budaatum: 11:35am On Jul 15, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
I USED TO WANT THIS PERFECT PERSON TO EXIST AS CHRISTIANS PAINT HIM TO BE...
So, instead of getting a pot of paint and brush and painting for yourself, you wanted the paintings of others to exist and were disappointed when you could not find it?

Says a lot, I must say. Are you one of those brainwashed individuals who can't paint, I'm tempted to ask, but know I'd get an improper response or an insult.
Re: A Loving God by budaatum: 11:37am On Jul 15, 2020
Xavfra:

How still Africans who have suffered so much still hold on to the so called god and delude themselves saying that their faith is strong.....
Easily, really. You first need to know what their God is, then you might understand why they have faith.
Re: A Loving God by Nobody: 11:54am On Jul 15, 2020
budaatum:

Easily, really. You first need to know what their God is, then you might understand why they have faith.



Tell me more......
Re: A Loving God by Nobody: 11:58am On Jul 15, 2020
Maximus69:


What you're seeing and what you're hearing may give you picture of someone but talking personally with this person will answer so many questions that may develop in our inner thoughts.

The real Christians have a mission and they're dedicated to it, so if you pose a threat to their mission or distraction, they'll ignore you in their search for interested ones who sincerely wants to know what is happening! smiley

The questions we help people to find answers!

Who is God?
Where is he?
Does he really exist?
Why does he permit suffering?
These and many more questions will be answered if we are truthfully interested in knowing, but with preconceived judgment there's nothing anyone can do than to leave you alone! smiley




What's preconceived judgement here.....when he turned his back on them, what do you expect....


God is one being who doesn't care about his creatures....

He lives in his self

Because he cannot do anything
Re: A Loving God by Nobody: 11:59am On Jul 15, 2020
Maximus69:


Are you willing to know where intelligence stands or you're only interested in feeding your own preconceived thoughts? smiley

Tell me more
Re: A Loving God by Nobody: 12:03pm On Jul 15, 2020
Xavfra:


What's preconceived judgement here.....when he turned his back on them, what do you expect....


God is one being who doesn't care about his creatures....

He lives in his self

Because he cannot do anything


The bolded in red is your question.

The bolded in blue provides your answer! smiley
Re: A Loving God by budaatum: 12:05pm On Jul 15, 2020
Xavfra:


Tell me more......
It does not work that way. People have been telling you more all your life yet see the thread you open.

"Seek", it is written, "and you shall find".

The "seek" means, "know the right questions to ask".
Re: A Loving God by Nobody: 12:06pm On Jul 15, 2020
Maximus69:
In his book (Bible) he made it clear that everyone living has the right to whatever they like but there are things that's going to hurt intelligent beings if care is not taken.
That's why our freedom is relative not absolute!

Though we have the freewill but once there are many other intelligent creatures around us there must be standards to keep things in order.

God is not a bully so when his set of creatures on planet earth decided to reject his standards, he told them what will happen to them and how he's going to salvage the situation.

What we're experiencing today is part of his ongoing process to correct the blunders of our first parents, but as humans with limited knowledge we tend to be in haste to see it all solved within few minutes after all he is the Almighty. We tend to forget so fast his rule of conduct ~ learn from experience

Our first parents chose to learn the hard way instead of trusting his discretion and many around us today follow the mindset of our first parents, the only way out for obedient ones is to keep calm and watch how the all wise God will resolve the issue. He will never destroy anyone hastily but allow others to learn from their examples! smiley



This is how you think it is.....


He contradicts himself so much.....


If he doesn't know how to lie, he should ask for help......

Why will he create evil and be surprised by it and kill someone for committing evil....

Isn't that unwise
Re: A Loving God by Nobody: 12:09pm On Jul 15, 2020
budaatum:

So, instead of getting a pot of paint and brush and painting for yourself, you wanted the paintings of others to exist and were disappointed when you could not find it?

Says a lot, I must say. Are you one of those brainwashed individuals who can't paint, I'm tempted to ask, but know I'd get an improper response or an insult.



Whem we paint him as he's people will insult and threaten us....even him says he is who he is....
We are taught to follow the painting of the church leaders which God gave.them, we did and discovered it was wrong.....we painted it ourselves but it was said to be wrong......




Stop cherry picking
Re: A Loving God by Nobody: 12:16pm On Jul 15, 2020
Xavfra:

Tell me more

A powerful King was accused,arrested,arraigned and judged before an audience who never knew him nor seen him in action, the King refused to say a word in defense of himself. But his lawyers began presenting loads of evidence showing the King is innocent of all the accusations.

You are a member of the jury, you can see the city this king built and all the social amenities in it, there wasn't anything needed to complain about his works except for his own citizens who are supposed to be his loyal subjects but stood as his accusers, accusing him of all the atrocities done in every corner of the city.

The lawyers were saying "he has guards in all the streets and their is CTV cameras everywhere, but he keeps telling his guards to allow his subjects do whatever each feels is good in his/her own eyes"

Would you hastily judge this King as incapable of handling the situation or try to find out why he chose to be so permissive? smiley
Re: A Loving God by Nobody: 12:17pm On Jul 15, 2020
budaatum:

It does not work that way. People have been telling you more all your life yet see the thread you open.

"Seek", it is written, "and you shall find".

The "seek" means, "know the right questions to ask".



Mmkay......


I've sought and I've seen him......
I mentioned it earlier...check it......


I'm telling people and yet they still believe and trust God......


So how have my questions being wrong by asking about the so called heavenly father I have
....


What way does it then work....

I didn't say i haven't found him.....
Re: A Loving God by Nobody: 12:19pm On Jul 15, 2020
Maximus69:


The bolded in red is your question.

The bolded in blue provides your answer! smiley


Yes....

That's it ....

When you're taught and you go for exam, you're expected to give an answer from what you were taught.....what if it was wrong.....if it's wrong and you know the answer and you, then put it instead of following the crowd.....
Re: A Loving God by Nobody: 12:21pm On Jul 15, 2020
Maximus69:


A powerful King was accused,arrested,arraigned and judged before an audience who never knew him nor seen him in action, the King refused to say a word in defense of himself. But his lawyers began presenting loads of evidence showing the King is innocent of all the accusations.

You are a member of the jury, you can see the city this king built and all the social amenities in it, there wasn't anything needed to complain about his works except for his own citizens who are supposed to be his loyal subjects but stood as his accusers, accusing him of all the atrocities done in every corner of the city.

The lawyers were saying "he has guards in all the streets and their is CTV cameras everywhere, but he keeps telling his guards to allow his subjects do whatever each feels is good in his/her own eyes"

Would you hastily judge this King as incapable of handling the situation or try to find out why he chose to be so permissive? smiley


Nope....


I understand your point sir.....but you've not described God here....

This king doesn't matter out with God.....their characters are totally different.....



A good and almighty God kills his people because of what he created....

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Re: A Loving God by budaatum: 12:23pm On Jul 15, 2020
Xavfra:


We are taught to follow the painting of the church leaders which God gave them.
I can't help but cherrypick.

I must say, you had very bad teachers! Have you bothered to read any of the Gospels? They tell the story of a certain individual who refused to "follow the painting of the church leaders" saying those church leaders must have misunderstood the message God sent or got their message from somewhere else.

"Woe to the hypocrites", he is written to have said. "For you shut the kingdom of heaven in people's faces. For you neither enter yourselves nor allow those who would enter to go in".

Yet, these are the people who's painting you chose to follow? No wonder you were disappointed.

You have not painted your own painting, Xavfra. And even the painting you are painting now is not your's.

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Re: A Loving God by Dtruthspeaker: 12:25pm On Jul 15, 2020
Xavfra:
Well.....
I've been forced to write this and show the world about A LOVING GOD....
Having lived my early life as a Christian, I saw alot of things in the Bible and I was cool with it.....
Now!
It ain't so.
God has been termed with so many great titles because of how we claim to experience him, here I've given him the title of A Loving God....
Christians are being taught that God is loving and omnipotent and all knowing....
Well, I've come to say..."erase such erroneous fallacy from your mind".....
To those who will say that I've not experienced God that's why I'm saying this....sorry!....
I have experienced him and I'm still experiencing....
I've experienced him watching the videos of Biafran war, I've experienced him seeing a classmate of mine die of bone cancer.... I've experienced him watch my brother die in war and one if his daughters die leaving his fiancee speechless..... I've experienced him watching s classmate of mine die from unexplained illness and his father die leaving his mother alone with two of her children.... I've experienced him watch my aunt die of HIV....I've experienced him watch my aunt die mysteriously...this was a prayer warrior...... I've experienced him watch a friend of mine die from sickle cell...... I keep experiencing him every time I take up my phone and see a new death of a child.......I keep experiencing him every 25 seconds when a child dies in AFRICA.......
Tell me how else I should believe him.....
Years of reading the Bible and praying for those my brothers and sisters in Sudan and Congo and other war zones hasn't helped.......

You get out of an accident you thank God but you forget that a mother somewhere in Africa had her had her child die while sucking her breast....she carried her child not knowing he died........
Somewhere in Africa two siblings had their parents brutally murdered before their own eyes ....days went on they lived on their love and tears, by a week they both emaciated.....
By another week the elder sister holds her emaciated dead brother in her arms.....
Well what else do you need to know that your God doesn't not care about you.....
cry cry
Listening to MAY IT BE BY ENYA and opening nairaland front page only to see a 23 year old girl...... cry cry.
As a father I won't let any harm come to my child neither will I let anyone hurt my child.....and you call me imperfect, but a God who gives no Bleep about you and leaves you to suffering called Loving And Perfect.....please there is nothing like God's ways are not our ways.....
I need reasonable answers and explanations to the pictures below.....
Xmuslim
The Sourcerer
Lord Reed
CAPSLOCKED
Hopefullandlord
Seun

grin
I will always laugh at you guys and your great Stupidity. Why? because You are the Architect, Contractor and Builder of All Your Tales of Woes.

A Father said my son, have my car, go to the party with your friends, Drive Reasonably, in your stupid joy and freedom, you oversped and crashed the car, killed your friends with you and you returned home with your deformed mangled body.

Because of that error, no woman shall willingly marry you neither can you have children, No one would willingly employ your grotesque self.

I Verily say unto you, you are the Cause of All Your Misfortunes, and You have Eaten The Fruits of Your Disobedience.

Blame your Father all you want, it is you who shall continue eating of the consequences of your foolishness forever.

The rest of His Children who He also gave cars to have Returned Soundly to Live and Lead Reproductive Lives, While you Lament and Gnash Your Teeth, Blaming Everything in Heaven and on Earth.
Re: A Loving God by budaatum: 12:27pm On Jul 15, 2020
Xavfra:




Mmkay......


I've sought and I've seen him......
I mentioned it earlier...check it......


I'm telling people and yet they still believe and trust God......


So how have my questions being wrong by asking about the so called heavenly father I have
....


What way does it then work....

I didn't say i haven't found him.....
What you sought was what you were told to seek, and on not finding it, you stopped and assumed there was nothing there.

I am suggesting to you that you have not sought at all or at least not enough nor for the right thing because it is very obvious that you have not seen.
Re: A Loving God by Nobody: 12:29pm On Jul 15, 2020
budaatum:

What you sought was what you were told to seek, and on not finding it, you stopped and assumed there was nothing there.

I am suggesting to you that you have not sought at all or at least not enough nor for the right thing because it is very obvious that you have not seen.




What was I meant to seek

...


And I've been ruling myself
Re: A Loving God by Nobody: 12:32pm On Jul 15, 2020
Dtruthspeaker:


grin
I will always laugh at you guys and your great Stupidity. Why? because You are the Architect, Contractor and Builder of All Your Tales of Woes.

A Father said my son, have my car, go to the party with your friends, Drive Reasonably, in your stupid joy and freedom, you oversped and crashed the car, killed your friends with you and you returned home with your deformed mangled body.

Because of that error, no woman shall willingly marry you neither can you have children, No one would willingly employ your grotesque self.

I Verily say unto you, you are the Cause of All Your Misfortunes, and You have Eaten The Fruits of Your Disobedience.

Blame your Father all you want, it is you who shall continue eating of the consequences of your foolishness forever.

The rest of His Children who He also gave cars to have Returned Soundly to Live and Lead Reproductive Lives, While you Lament and Gnash Your Teeth, Blaming Everything in Heaven and on Earth.



You're part of the reasons I enjoy talking with theists.....

You guys lack simple human empathy and common sense.....

Go back and read what I wrote before I reply you as I should
Re: A Loving God by budaatum: 12:32pm On Jul 15, 2020
Xavfra:
And I've been ruling myself
You really haven't. Though you'd argue you have.

Xavfra:
What was I meant to seek
That would depend on what you want to find.

What do you want to find?

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