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Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by BrownCookie(f): 2:02pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Marriage must be triangular if it must be successful ie God, husband,wife. Let your wife be your best friend & vice versa. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by authority2006(m): 2:04pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
dodelight: No for me. |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by FullBlastLight: 2:05pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
If both partners hv sufficiently buil trust 4 each other, it really won't be a big deal after all! However, don't u ever carelessly place urself in a tempting situation, because it's easier 2 stay outta trouble than 2 gerrout of it! |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by Nobody: 2:05pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Thane: Light is okay in Onike Iwaya, is around Sabo Yaba. At least 22 hours per day when stable and 18 hours when fluctuating. 1 Like |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by Nobody: 2:08pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
In a land where trust is almost non existent how do you expect couples to trust each other 1 Like |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by Nobody: 2:08pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
dodelight:you have just said my mind brother. Exactly the same way I live with my husband, and we understood it very well. We all know our boundaries. One should not be caged in the name of marriage, so far you know your limit. 2 Likes |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by Nobody: 2:08pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Big No |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by Nobody: 2:09pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
No they are not okay. |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by kokomilala(m): 2:11pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Emphatic no.The temptations will be too alluring. A married woman once told me her male friend said he loved her. Can you explain that away? 3 Likes |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by emerged01(m): 2:12pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Though I’m not against it but I believe as one is growing in marriage there is a stage you will get to you won’t have single ones as friends. I believe this is just a matter of time. 1 Like |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by maak400: 2:12pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Digitalstarlite:This your English na wa! |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by ednut1(m): 2:12pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
If both know their boundaries fine. If not hell no. |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by seanwilliam(m): 2:12pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
If you can define the term "friendship " then you will find your answer... Nonsense 2 Likes |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by mac699: 2:13pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
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Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by Damsolad: 2:14pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Thane: |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by gift2xl: 2:14pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Not Good |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by Karlifate: 2:14pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
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Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by mac699: 2:15pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
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Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by Chidex50(m): 2:15pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
dodelight:IT'S WORKING FOR YOU NOW,BUT PLEASE THREAD WITH CAUTION.THAT'S HOW IT STARTS! 5 Likes |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by mcdokwe(m): 2:15pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
paulolee:them having girlfriends can negatively affect your relationship more than a male friend. I had this girl, we were even intimate and the man that married her knew as much, of course he was jealous and wanted her to end it with me but she made it clear she won't do that and stood on her grounds that he should call off the wedding if he was going to make the request again. We are still friends and she knows she's married and set her borders with me (e pain me sha) to the point we had spent nights on various occasions but still respected our new borders. By far the best of friends I've had not minding the gender. I agree that I might not be comfortable with the idea myself, but it depends on who you're with, how trustworthy they're. A woman who hardly kept male friends may still have multiple extramarital affairs even right under your nose without you suspecting it. |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by Karlifate: 2:17pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
seanwilliam:Some people are confusing an acquaintance with a friend. |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by tunize(m): 2:18pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
O.p apart from mayb male colleague at work or family member i know of, friendship with co-worker should end in da office. any other friend wit opposite sex is not allowed she jst better be friend with "Jesus" after all Jesus is opposite sex. Temptation nor know trust if e don happen finish na waitn we dey hear since 1900Ac we go here it was a 'Mistake" is bttr she knows wat comes over her now than not knowing later. 2 Likes |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by Brushstrokes20: 2:19pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
CAPITAL NO!.... end is always disastrous # from experience # a word is enough 1 Like |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by TOPCRUISE(m): 2:20pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Only an unfaithful partner who have slept with people's wives or husband when he or she was single will find something wrong with it. They are insecured |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by TwentyOnePilots(m): 2:20pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
pappilo: That's sad and hurting.... Hope you are good now Bro!? 1 Like |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by Nobody: 2:20pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
mcdokwe:The man is a weakling 4 Likes |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by IamDavid(m): 2:21pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
This is a tricky question to reply but the quick answer is "no". Such behavior/desires to have friends of the opposite sex are borne out of adultery/fornication tendencies. However, where trust is great, and the partners have clean records, it can be allowed with very reasonable boundaries. 2 Likes |
Re: Are Opposite-sex Friendships Okay In Marriage? by Nobody: 2:21pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Friends................okay Close friends.........hell no. 1 Like |
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