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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by vickydevoka(m): 4:09pm On Jul 18, 2020
Gforce2019:


Your no. 2 points state clearly that there is a trust issue in the marriage. because you said by the guy staying with his brother, he is giving his brother security between the husband and the wife and the wife's sisters....
I doubt if this kind of marriage will last when one party wants to have it all. ...
I believe if the wife's mother-in-law comes to stay with them for a few days, it will be a tug of war.
If na Igbo people marriage en de last pass our Yoruba people own

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Dangrace01: 4:09pm On Jul 18, 2020
akpunda86:
Funny funny i laugh .My friend is not easy.Be strong.I did opposite of your broda but today i regret it.
My wife kid sister came stay with me in lag for almost six months till my kid broda called said is coming.I begged the young girl to sleep in d palor that is a short visit whenever im not around can sleep with my wife.My firm gave me a house in lekki so i prefer them on mainland.the young girl agreed but when my bros came comes like he pays the rent straight to the room.
My stupid broda at night told the girl they can share the bed the girl declined meanwhile i was in island.My wife told her not to leave that is my bro that suppose sleep in palor.she was right but as newly married couples i never experience such.Waahala burst for night i told my wife sis to go next day cos i personally begged her but she said my wife said she stay and go no where.
After that incidence i saw 2/3 bedroom flat na wahala for Lagos i went for a room and palor after my rent expired and that was how visitors stopped for long time visits.

Thinking is over relocating to Enugu God blessed us as we in a bigger place the cycle came back my wife sisters nephew all full house for peace to reign i ignore.
Its womens nature.

My broda just endure for the rooms due to privacy is the ladies first.At the end of the tunnel you will be great.

Another story just like yours my friend leo same as yours was maltreated slept in cushion to the point that madam pours water on cushion.leo endured in lekki.Today the woman and hubby are shadows.Leo is a big boy n mtn as a manager.They eat food today cos of leo that just came to serve and look for work in lagos.

Boy keep your heads up you will be great.
MIND YOU DONT STEAL BUT KEEP A PIGGY ACCOUNT SAVE ENUFF.OPEN AN ACCOUNT DONT COLLECT ANY WITHDRAWSLIP.NO BANK ALERTS.WITH A WOMAN LIKE THAT YOU WILL NOT BE SETTLED BF SETTLEMENT TIME STORY WILL COME.BE SMART.
CHEERS

Nice
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by mechanics(m): 4:09pm On Jul 18, 2020
You didn't do anything wrong by telling him you want to rent a room, since you don't have peace of mind in that house, it's better you leave and let him do his worse since he can't control his wife and her siblings, infact for him to allow his wife bring her two siblings is not right, since they are not doing anything in the house.

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Gforce2019: 4:09pm On Jul 18, 2020
Squillaci:

Does your bro not pay you for managing his shop.

What are you insinuating?/this is a blood brother?. Blood is thicker than water?..when wife departs, the brother will not be ashamed of his own...

The husband is under the influence of his wife jazz. And it is so pitiful for him...
The guys did wrong by slapping those ladies but I think the husband should have come up with a more mature solution instead of even threatened him that he will disown him...
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by authority2006(m): 4:10pm On Jul 18, 2020
the next day I spoke with my brother I told him because I am not wanted in his house I don’t have peace of mind there , I want him to rent a self cont for me closer to the shop so It will be easier for me to get to work he refuse saying when he has a bigger house why would I go and leave alone

Where is the bigger house? That two room apartment is the bigger house? Your brother doesn't care about your emotion and he equally refused to be in charge of his home. Like he's weak or a pusssyy or something

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by BarrElChapo(m): 4:10pm On Jul 18, 2020
You are wise. I doff my hat Madame

veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.

One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!

Hugs.

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by saajus: 4:10pm On Jul 18, 2020
Sometimes you have to if you want peace to reign. It's just for a while, he will leave them soon when his life gets better. At most 4 more years.
He will understand why his brother had to stand by his wife when he get married too. Trust me, op cannot win if he wants to thread gra gra path.

vickydevoka:

Apologizing for something u are right on is de most difficult thing on Earth. Is only easy to apologise wen u knw u are wrong
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by EkoErrands: 4:11pm On Jul 18, 2020
Championxxx:
I am 23 years old guy I ave been staying with my brother in Abuja for the past 8 years , I help him with his shop and his house , everything was fine till he got married his wife carry his two sisters to the house 24 and 19 years old , he said I should leave my room for them I didn’t argue I let them have the room while I am sleeping in the parlour , during lockdown this girl will wake and come to the parlour to watch tv to disturb my sleep , I complained to my brother he said I should keep calm he will speak to his wife which he never does and these girls kept disturbing me meanwhile the older girl stopped but the younger one carry on and I told her to stop disturbing me she has a phone she can press her phone in their room , she insulted me and told me to go and marry I got angry and ask her to leave she said I should do my worst and I landed a thunder slap in her face she held me by my neck screaming when my bro and wife came his wife started hitting me on my back I had to leave the house and went outside to cool down , my brother followed me and said I didn’t do well by hitting his wife sister he said I should go and apologise to his wife and sister , I refuse and asked him why he didn’t stop them when I was complaining bitterly about them but he waited for me to take matter to my own hand now he blamed me he said I should apologise which I did to his wife but not to the girl but that small girl was expecting me to knelt down and beg her , I told her she will wait for eternity.

Since the incidence his wife stopped talking to me , she ordered her sister’s to stop giving me food , the older girl used to dish food for me sometimes when she is not around but I told her to stop because I don’t want her to be in trouble with her sister and I didn’t report to my brother, it’s not a big deal for me I buy foods and eat at work and I only go home to sleep , 2 weeks ago I came home to see my mattress outside in the rain soaking wet , I was confused because it was supposed to be inside the girl room that’s where I keep it and they always bring it for me when is time for me to sleep so how come it was outside in the rain , I asked them they both denied they didn’t take it out and I suspected my brother wife or her youngest sister were the one who did it because they didn’t want me in the house anymore , I told my brother he said I should sleep on the sofa and in the morning I will get a new mattress in his shop but the wife get angry that I will damaged her sofa she wanted me to sleep on the floor with a wrapper but my brother refuse and I slept on the sofa , the next day I spoke with my brother I told him because I am not wanted in his house I don’t have peace of mind there , I want him to rent a self cont for me closer to the shop so It will be easier for me to get to work he refuse saying when he has a bigger house why would I go and leave alone , he said he provide all my needs and the rest the way his wife and sisters are treating me it doesn’t matter that he will never allow me and I told him I want to go back to the village , he said if I leave his house he will disown me and I will not longer be his brother , for 3 days now he stopped talking to me even if I greet him he won’t reply I feel hurt. I love my brother I want to serve him but I don’t want to stay in his house . I don’t know if I did something wrong by asking him to rent a room for me to be living alone? Am confuse please advice me

My brother later in life you will discover the truth. The truth is that it's your brothers wife and her sisters that mean well for your destiny. Their attitude towards you can only bring blessings to you by the time u leave that house, you go buy foam, you go buy fan, later you go buy 2nd hand TV, then later you go buy stove and pots then later you go carry girl friend come house, then later you go even buy car. God is using those women to kick start your destiny.

I love my brother I love my brother....truth is your brother is your number 1 enemy of progress. He wants u to serve him till he no longer needs you. He wont even settle you, you will serve him till shame will start knocking on your door to go and start something for yourself...by then e go late.

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Nairalandmonika: 4:11pm On Jul 18, 2020
AmazingELixir:
lipsrsealed


Op it's your fault....instead of you to be helping yourself out with her 24 year old sister you were busying fumbling around atleast that would have ensured you have one of them on your side...now you've almost lost everything...

You see your life now..
I tire o, how will I be sleeping in the paluor at night, and a girl will come to watch TV that night?
She obviously wants something.

Op dey fûck up.

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Kobicove(m): 4:11pm On Jul 18, 2020
Championxxx:
I am 23 years old guy I ave been staying with my brother in Abuja...

Am confuse please advice me

You should not have slapped the girl, you need to learn to control your anger.

Your brother did wrong by allowing her sister move to his house with two dependants undecided

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by King44(m): 4:11pm On Jul 18, 2020
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veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.

One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!

Hugs.
it's hard to be a man

It is even harder when you are living with your married brother

Things would always go wrong, guess who takes the defenceless fall? The young man.

Oga oo this is how it is everywhere, all married woman are the same, even those showing you love from afar.

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Softhands(m): 4:12pm On Jul 18, 2020
Don't touch a woman...but she's free to cuss your father and mother abi? Make Una dey deceive Una self
veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.

One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!

Hugs.

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Retrography(m): 4:12pm On Jul 18, 2020
veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.

One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!

Hugs.

I for one will not support beating any lady or woman. But please it's high time women are educated that not all men can endure the awkward behavior they put up once in a while no matter how patient that man is, because one day, he will snap.
A man should be a robot because of gender equality. Hence the high rate of suicide by men.

The same rights they have is the same rights that he has, or even more.

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Halfamilli: 4:12pm On Jul 18, 2020
Sometimes, I don't do many talks
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by vickydevoka(m): 4:13pm On Jul 18, 2020
vingeophysicist:
Without even hearing the story of the wife I know you are innocent . I have experience this stupidity from my uncles wife when he was alive. The useless woman after noticing we are all grown up and doing well she sent me a friend request. I accepted the friend request and said hello and asked of my uncle children . She didn't respond , I immediately block her . No time for rubbish I'm a busy guy now .
Women are devil incarnate they can separate brothers.
Women na always women. Den no de get shame for money n successful person.
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by showafrica(m): 4:13pm On Jul 18, 2020
veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.

One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!

Hugs.

Only few of you reasons this way.. very rare.

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by solonubinho(m): 4:13pm On Jul 18, 2020
my Guy.

1. You messed up by slapping that brat. You should have ignored.
2. You cannot stop the girls from watching tv in the sitting room because you asleep there. It's not your house. Hence you have to endure.
3. You are 23 years old and working. Go and get yourself an apartment. From this story, your brother's house is probably a two room apartment. It cannot contain all of you so why is he saying he will disown you if you leave? Guy, na man you be o use your head. If your brother disowns you because you do what every responsible man does, guy it means you may need to rethink this relationship. Be a man, hustle on your own, don't let anyone attempt to control your destiny. Shalom.

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Nobody: 4:14pm On Jul 18, 2020
You nailed it
veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.

One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!

Hugs.

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by kasim155: 4:14pm On Jul 18, 2020
veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.

One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!

Hugs.


Trashed.

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Nobody: 4:14pm On Jul 18, 2020
Fhemmmy:


I think it is better we confirm what time of the day the youngman was still sleeping - Remember it was during lockdown and that means he could have been sleeping by noon time.

@nyt
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Taywon: 4:14pm On Jul 18, 2020
veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.

One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!

Hugs.

You need some pills with this ur rubbish advice.... If u dont know what to say just shut up

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Promzyunique(m): 4:14pm On Jul 18, 2020
The best option is to invite your mum... daughter in laws fear them alot

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by ThatFairGuy: 4:15pm On Jul 18, 2020
Dangrace01:


Guy forget!!!!

I'm not married baba but 100% yes. All men must understand that a woman's energy and A man's energy is not the same.

When a man want to manipulate you you see it clearly but a woman's manipulation is different

A woman's manipulation is gentle, patient, gentle persuasion.

You won't even know what you are doing.


There was this case where 3 brothers agreed that they would share a particular piece of land. They all agreed peacefully, the next morning one came out and started shouting that d land would never be shared.

What do you think changed his mind?

A man manipulation - guy do this thing see what you stand to benefit.......

A woman's manipulation- honey I heard that you want to give your brother money its good to help people but remember your children school fees, if you want to help no wahala.

You won't know when you would start telling your brother story.

So what men did in those days is not make sure their wives don't know everything they do
You've convinced me grin.
Your last paragraph IS VERY MUCH ESSENTIAL

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by mark2sunny(m): 4:15pm On Jul 18, 2020
Success comes from the capacity to take pain

This is your training ground

Your reward after serving your brother and getting settled would include knowledge wisdom to live and relate with women.

Don’t cut your training short for the full reward.

God bless you

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by MrSmithy: 4:15pm On Jul 18, 2020
Bro!its really a touching experience but the truth here is uve got to stand ur ground by pushing ur brother to get ur own place or rather u look for other hustle outside ur brother's shop cox the truth be told that such woman will kick against ur settlement if ur time is due. so its practically ure running a wasted race. Start making little personal savings on ur own now and same time also looking for some other hustle to stand on ur own cox ur story tells that ur brother has no say in that house anymore its a clear notation that the wife has more say and stand than ur brother so u better start thinking about ur independency now other wise ull have nothing to stand on soonest

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by supercase1(m): 4:15pm On Jul 18, 2020
veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.

One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!

Hugs.
So you don't hit women then the women should comport themselves to avoid been hit

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by sharpchap: 4:16pm On Jul 18, 2020
Georgekyrian:
OP your wife Brother doesn't want you, is generally with women against in-laws, but bet me your brother is weak and you seems stronger. Stand on your feet and protect your brother, he needs you to get delivered from that evil woman, stop eating her food and be careful not to fight the 3 sisters again, only fight with your mind not hands and I don't advice a man to exchange words with women. Be your brother's secret weapon even without him knowing someday he will understand himself. if you leave that house, that woman will show her true colors which may bring your brother down. It seems you guys are only 2 brothers, if yes don't allow that woman to separate you and you brother, it's possible he wants to be managing your brother's business herself as soon as you are drop off. If they fight you many times and noticed you don't fight back (making them not able to penetrate you) she will get one of her sister to work you love and becareful for this tactics and defeat all. Had it been your Brother is strong, he won't allow 3 adult sister under same roofs with him, 2 is ok but 3 is No no. Please hustle and save up for the impending disaster coming in future
NWA NNA THIS GUY JI OKWU OOOO! THAT WOMAN GO PACK ALL YOUR BROTHER MONEY TO HER FAMILY. YOU HAVE TO BE VERY TACTICAL. NEXT THING DEM GO SAY YOU WAN RAPE SOMEBODY. BE VERY VERY CAREFUL DONT EVER STAY IN THE HOUSE WITH YOUR BROTHER'S WIFE ALONE

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by ifko: 4:16pm On Jul 18, 2020
zedegit:


Well, I think the elder sister is more sensible. Why not be friendly with her?

How long is remaining for you to finish serving your brother?

If its 2 years or less, I would tell you to endure and try and ignore her.

Women can be mischievous but las las you will laugh last.
This s a good advice, get closer to d one more friendly and before u know it your interest in the house will be protected.

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by donvoice(m): 4:17pm On Jul 18, 2020
veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.

One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!

Hugs.

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by showafrica(m): 4:17pm On Jul 18, 2020
TheArchangel:
How old is your brother?
Oga, stand your ground in that house.
Force your brother to rent a house for you by raising serious hell and at the same time appearing meek. Sleep in that room when you come back and if the wife and her sisters talk trash, raise hell. Do not budge one beat. Keep your bags in the shop but sleep in that room to avoid them messing up your things. Take the food from that pot and raise hell while doing it. When your brother comes or is around, pretend like they are accusing you falsely.
Remember self defense, beat the sh!t out of any of the sisters that touch you first. You can plead self-defense later. Do not touch the wife but remember to use your mouth to finish her. .
Do not relent. If they can be there, you can be also. It's either your brother chase you all away or peace or resemblance of it will rain in that house.

The energy he would waste in doing all these is better converted to chopping the girls one by one - story go change automatically. Nonesense and ingredients

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by seguno2: 4:17pm On Jul 18, 2020
veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.

One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!

Hugs.

All this na wash.
The brother is a woman wrapper and he is not obliged to continue staying with him, if the conditions are no longer conducive.

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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Nobody: 4:19pm On Jul 18, 2020
vickydevoka:

Women na always women. Den no de get shame for money n successful person.
And the idiot woman married my late uncle from being a sales girl oo. She is kogi oo. She stopped my uncle from paying my school fees .My late dad was the one that settled my late uncle that was why he was doing everything he did for us .
My only concern now is my uncles children . But the wife thought I have time for drama now . I don't look at her twice self nah wetin dey pain her now .

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