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Firstorderwizard:
How old are you when you realized that the guys that actually fvcks a girl do not comment on her Facebook photos

This should be made into a meme.

iceybux:
all this just because u are interested in her.. why don't u just come str8 to her than beatin around all this bush u doin like a baby.. be a Man please

Spoiler alert: Jezking wouldn't be getting Sixfeetbelle pussy anytime soon. Check her response, he has already been locked in her friendzone

ubunja:
what are you being hateful for? Were we not having a mature conversation?

You should know them better. She's no different from other members of the pûssy cartel.

No matter how courteous and nice a lady sounds, it doesn't take much for her to switch into bîtch mode to protect the cartel's turf

emmanuelewumi:
You are not a broke boy, keep the dreams alive and never give up

Did i say i was broke, dont put calamity on my head

Skepticus:
You should know them better. She's no different from other members of the pûssy cartel.

No matter how courteous and nice a lady sounds, it doesn't take much for her to switch into bîtch mode to protect the cartel's turf

how right you are. She even surprised me lol.

How are you doing bro?

bigpicture001:
Babe standing and building with a man that is focused is worth it.... Av seen plenty examples that ended very well

And I personally know quite a few that didn't end well.

Rilwayne001:
Sometimes you can't vividly tell a man with an obvious prospects unless you understand what he's working on.

You may translate a struggling student, who's doing bad academically as a man without prospect. For example, if you as a lady, you are academically sound. While battling and doing well in university hurdles you're still passing your professional exams, but your boyfriend on the other hand is compiling carryovers upon carry overs till you eventually graduates and he had to come again next year. To you he might seem like a man without prospects, while actually he's only good at doing other things he's yet to identify aside academics. You might have to dump him because obviously he's not seeming prospective, while actually he only needs insights and support to understand and channel his efforts to what he does best.

Your thread is nice no doubt because it somehow hinted on what the red pill is all about. I believe a man who's prospective enough knows and understand what he's doing. He understands he needs to set himself up first before setting up a family. But sometimes we can't do this alone, we need hands, and that's where a prospective wife materials comes in with her own expertise, advice and support. But these days of internet, 95% of women can't adopt what you laid in the OP and you know that (I'm not even sure you can't too). Most ladies only wants this when they've reached a point where their market value diminishes. But for now when they are hot, they believe men owes them money because they are beautiful. It's a pitiful situation.

The part about a student's academic as a measure for prospects is flawed as I don't believe any relationship built as students lasts. I'm talking about after graduation, a few years down the line. That's when ladies and men wish to settle down. At that point, you can discern who has prospects and who doesn't.

Even if the woman comes in with her own expertise and advice, very few men in the category of men I mentioned will utilise it to grow well. How many men sef even take the advice of ladies in their business? A foolish case of ego trip won't allow them welcome the woman's input.

I've laid out my points and I believe those it was meant for understand it. When a woman wishes to settle and decides to stick with one man and grow with him, she should discern if he's worth sticking with. Simple.

Skepticus:
Ladies dating men with prospects is an oxymoron for most ladies as they themselves lack prospects or the mental capacity to spot one.

Irrespective of who ladies marry, why do you think the average woman is naturally attracted to bums, jerks and assholes.

I'm sure my points will serve as a compass for them to find a man who has prospects.

The average woman being attracted to bums doesn't transcend to her marrying bums, except in cases where finances are the major factor.

Skepticus:
Spoiler alert: Jezking wouldn't be getting Sixfeetbelle pussy anytime soon. Check her response, he has already been locked in her friendzone

You lots disgusts me with your filthy language.

Skepticus:
You should know them better. She's no different from other members of the pûssy cartel.

No matter how courteous and nice a lady sounds, it doesn't take much for her to switch into bîtch mode to protect the cartel's turf

And you are no different from an asslicker who will lick even the manure stuck on his master's boot just to get a pat. Left on your own, you are nothing but a loser.

ubunja:
how right you are. She even surprised me lol.

How are you doing bro?

Why were you surprised? Aren't you the master of women? Why should anything we do ruffle a hair on your skin?

Bunch of hooligans acting all gangster.

Skepticus:
You should know them better. She's no different from other members of the pûssy cartel.

No matter how courteous and nice a lady sounds, it doesn't take much for her to switch into bîtch mode to protect the cartel's turf

Words on marble, that is the way I thought that Ariza was different but it turned out she was worse, good thing she has deactivated her account.

Sixfeetbelle:
Why were you surprised? Aren't you the master of women? Why should anything we do ruffle a hair on your skin?

Bunch of hooligans acting all gangster.

Hooligan and gangster are related words, find a better word. Your ranting dey give me joy

ubunja:
if women were unmovable on that point there wouldn't be poverty in the world. Everything has a loophole. Look close enough and you'll find a way.

..

The truth is that, guys with prospects and ambition don't usually have time to be chasing girls around. it's too stressful and time consuming for them.

ubunja:
how right you are. She even surprised me lol.

How are you doing bro?

I'm doing great, Chief.

It's been a while.

I hope you are good.

BigJoe19:
Hooligan and gangster are related words, find a better word. Your ranting dey give me joy

Just poke their fragile ego and watch the fake frame of moral decency and home-training that women claim they possess crash, revealing the demons behind it.

To men, never trust what women say (and also men too). Watch what they do. It says a lot and can save your mental health and life.

When men complain that their women changed into rude nasty hoes after they got married to her, look no further than the comments of the cûnt you quoted on this thread.

Skepticus:
Just poke their fragile ego and watch the fake frame of moral decency and home-training that women claim they possess crash, revealing the demons behind it.

To men, never trust what women say (and also men too). Watch what they do. It says a lot and can save your mental health and life.

When men complain that their women changed into rude nasty hoes after they got married to her, look no further than the comments of the cûnt you quoted on this thread.

I fully know their behaviours just that some are really good in pretending, no one acts more rude than a woman.

Skepticus:
I'm doing great, Chief.

It's been a while.

I hope you are good.

yes it has. With the Corona and shet. It's a hell of a year. Im fine bro.

BigJoe19:
Words on marble, that is the way I thought that Ariza was different but it turned out she was worse, good thing she has deactivated her account.

You will die on top my matter, funny enough I don't even know You exist let alone try to impress you. Dude who are you again?

You don't know me and you keep quoting me, very idiotic human.

one of the rules
don't listen or believe what they said but watch there action,,,,,that shit is really working

Sixfeetbelle:
Let's do this.

Prior to writing this topic, I have been opportuned to view various writeups by other members who advise men not to date broke ladies or actually, ladies with entitlement mentality. And while the sagacious ones will pick the heart of the message and move on, the foolish ones will gather like crows to feast on the carcass, throwing insults and jabs like little boys that were denied treats at a Christmas party, thus picking nothing relevant from the post by the end of the day. I hope they know that It isn't the messenger's fault that comprehension is a difficult trait to acquire for some people.

Due to this behavioural menace, I have decided to tow a different path with my message today. Having said that, I'll like to reiterate for those hard of understanding that: Broke girls are cool to date but once she starts exhibiting entitlement mentality, end the relationship. To the ladies, I'll say this as well: Broke guys are cool to date but once he starts going on and on about prospects and dreams that look like castles in the air, please discard the relationship and move on. Since this thread is purposefully meant for the ladies, I'll give them reasons why I made that statement. Feel free to correct any mistakes you see and I'll rectify them. NB: Only corrections made without insults and/or jab will be considered.

[center]Characteristics of men without prospects[/center]

1) They are day dreamers: Inasmuch as I believe in struggling together with your man through his hard days, I always know human beings are fickle and loyalty isn't always rewarded. That said, some men who claim to be hustling are actually daydreamers who are too proud to work in the mud. They are hardly steady at any job, always dreaming and fantasising about the day they'll become millionaires or own a private jet or a mansion in banana island without actually making grand plans to achieve that. If care is not taken, it's very likely that he has changed jobs more than ten times in the past five years. While it's good to dream, it's best to have laid down plans that will connect your days of humble beginnings to your glorious future.

My take: Ladies, examine his prospects and see the viability of his dreams before making your decision.

2) They are charming: It always beats my imagination when I see visionless men get ladies so effortlessly. Then I realised the reason is because they're smooth talkers, as charming as a snake can be. I can't seem to understand the correlation between a passion for success and a need to swoon the ladies, and I believe that no man who is skillful in one will be that proficient in the other. While other men are hands and feet down in the mud striving to attain their future ambitions, his head and attention is buzzing like an antenna, waiting to pick up the next available lady, thus distracting him from achieving a single goal everytime.

My take: Ladies, take a good look at your relationship and recall how he wooed you. There are exceptions but a woman can always tell.

3) They are not loyal: Please, let's not dirty our minds and start imagining a cheating boyfriend, (although he may be one) rather, let's look at his life in general. He's never been in a position where his loyalty in life was tested. He's hardly the first child, thus never been in a position that makes him a core hustler. His siblings are doing much better than him, hence he may very likely live off of their crumbs. He's never had a successful relationship that ended due to health or tribal issues. They either ended due to his refusal to leave a job or his inability to keep one, more so the latter. It can be due to his inability to not avoid everything in skirt or his insecurity of the ladies' success as he'd be a trifle bit jealous of other's success as he can't seem to ever achieve his own. All in all, he's not one to trust to handle being the captain of the ship.

My take: Ladies, analyse him if you can and make your decision. But remember, dreamers who can't get what they want always end up jealous. He won't ever be that CEO he's always telling you about, not with the lackadaisical way he goes about it.

4) They are time wasters: This was supposed to be number one point, but the crows would have had a field day with my post if I did it that way. Anyway, men without prospects are invariably professional time wasters. No surprises there. And while their heart may be with you (they do know how to love greatly), they lack the wherewithal to do right by you in the appropriate time. Generally, they're never in a need to settle down or any of the other societal 'needs' that the rest of the population may desire because they lack the capacity to do so. Please do not confuse their inability to mean apathy. On the contrary, if they had their way, you'd be married to them before you can say Jack Robinson. However, their life will always be driven in whatever direction the wind takes them and when the dust finally settles, they'll find themselves approaching forty, with no reasonable evidence of their hustle in life and no lady by their side. Disclaimer: Not all men in that age gap were without prospects.

My take: Ladies, iron out your situation with him and see if you both can reach a compromise. If he won't accept outside help to start off your married life (highly unadvisable), drop him like hot coal. When he gets to 40, someone young will marry him.

Summary, ladies even as you strive to become independent, strong women, always weigh your options in every relationship you go into. Don't always sit and wait for the man to make his intentions known. Incite him to state his desires and see if they tally with yours. At the end, whoever you choose to date, always think of the future your children will have. Think of the children, sisters.

Thank you.

Very nice writeup.

What do you mean by strong, independent women?

A man that cannot sell his vision to his woman might have a hard time leading the home.

bukatyne:
Very nice writeup.

What do you mean by strong, independent women?

A man that cannot sell his vision to his woman might have a hard time leading the home.

In my own understanding, a strong, independent woman is a lady who has her own money gotten from the sweat and work of her hands. She has her own viable plans for the future. She discerns what prospects to support and which to discard using her intuition and her intelligence

I quite agree with you about a man that cannot sell his vision.

Sixfeetbelle:
Broke, entitled girls are wrong for men to date but broke men without future ambition are good for women to date?

@ the bold, Not everyone is like the calibre of girls you date

what is this one even saying? What do u women have to offer? Nothing but pussy!

Firstorderwizard:
How old are you when you realized that the guys that actually fvcks a girl do not comment on her Facebook photos

lol. I can relate.

my current GF is my cum bucket. beautiful and thick AF! but I never stoop so low to be amongst those showering her praises in her FB posts.

she dared not turn me down when I ask her to come over for some good time. because why would she?

1. I'm handsome and fresh AF more than most guys begging to see her pant on FB.

2. I'm ambitious academically and a hustler. these are some of the qualities most ladies yearn for in a man some of which I know I possess.

3. she knows if she calls it quit, moving on fir me is as easy as chewing rice.

but fact is: I'm just using her to pass time and she doesn't know this yet.

Sixfeetbelle:
Let's do this.

Prior to writing this topic, I have been opportuned to view various writeups by other members who advise men not to date broke ladies or actually, ladies with entitlement mentality. And while the sagacious ones will pick the heart of the message and move on, the foolish ones will gather like crows to feast on the carcass, throwing insults and jabs like little boys that were denied treats at a Christmas party, thus picking nothing relevant from the post by the end of the day. I hope they know that It isn't the messenger's fault that comprehension is a difficult trait to acquire for some people.

Due to this behavioural menace, I have decided to tow a different path with my message today. Having said that, I'll like to reiterate for those hard of understanding that: Broke girls are cool to date but once she starts exhibiting entitlement mentality, end the relationship. To the ladies, I'll say this as well: Broke guys are cool to date but once he starts going on and on about prospects and dreams that look like castles in the air, please discard the relationship and move on. Since this thread is purposefully meant for the ladies, I'll give them reasons why I made that statement. Feel free to correct any mistakes you see and I'll rectify them. NB: Only corrections made without insults and/or jab will be considered.

[center]Characteristics of men without prospects[/center]

1) They are day dreamers: Inasmuch as I believe in struggling together with your man through his hard days, I always know human beings are fickle and loyalty isn't always rewarded. That said, some men who claim to be hustling are actually daydreamers who are too proud to work in the mud. They are hardly steady at any job, always dreaming and fantasising about the day they'll become millionaires or own a private jet or a mansion in banana island without actually making grand plans to achieve that. If care is not taken, it's very likely that he has changed jobs more than ten times in the past five years. While it's good to dream, it's best to have laid down plans that will connect your days of humble beginnings to your glorious future.

My take: Ladies, examine his prospects and see the viability of his dreams before making your decision.

2) They are charming: It always beats my imagination when I see visionless men get ladies so effortlessly. Then I realised the reason is because they're smooth talkers, as charming as a snake can be. I can't seem to understand the correlation between a passion for success and a need to swoon the ladies, and I believe that no man who is skillful in one will be that proficient in the other. While other men are hands and feet down in the mud striving to attain their future ambitions, his head and attention is buzzing like an antenna, waiting to pick up the next available lady, thus distracting him from achieving a single goal everytime.

My take: Ladies, take a good look at your relationship and recall how he wooed you. There are exceptions but a woman can always tell.

3) They are not loyal: Please, let's not dirty our minds and start imagining a cheating boyfriend, (although he may be one) rather, let's look at his life in general. He's never been in a position where his loyalty in life was tested. He's hardly the first child, thus never been in a position that makes him a core hustler. His siblings are doing much better than him, hence he may very likely live off of their crumbs. He's never had a successful relationship that ended due to health or tribal issues. They either ended due to his refusal to leave a job or his inability to keep one, more so the latter. It can be due to his inability to not avoid everything in skirt or his insecurity of the ladies' success as he'd be a trifle bit jealous of other's success as he can't seem to ever achieve his own. All in all, he's not one to trust to handle being the captain of the ship.

My take: Ladies, analyse him if you can and make your decision. But remember, dreamers who can't get what they want always end up jealous. He won't ever be that CEO he's always telling you about, not with the lackadaisical way he goes about it.

4) They are time wasters: This was supposed to be number one point, but the crows would have had a field day with my post if I did it that way. Anyway, men without prospects are invariably professional time wasters. No surprises there. And while their heart may be with you (they do know how to love greatly), they lack the wherewithal to do right by you in the appropriate time. Generally, they're never in a need to settle down or any of the other societal 'needs' that the rest of the population may desire because they lack the capacity to do so. Please do not confuse their inability to mean apathy. On the contrary, if they had their way, you'd be married to them before you can say Jack Robinson. However, their life will always be driven in whatever direction the wind takes them and when the dust finally settles, they'll find themselves approaching forty, with no reasonable evidence of their hustle in life and no lady by their side. Disclaimer: Not all men in that age gap were without prospects.

My take: Ladies, iron out your situation with him and see if you both can reach a compromise. If he won't accept outside help to start off your married life (highly unadvisable), drop him like hot coal. When he gets to 40, someone young will marry him.

Summary, ladies even as you strive to become independent, strong women, always weigh your options in every relationship you go into. Don't always sit and wait for the man to make his intentions known. Incite him to state his desires and see if they tally with yours. At the end, whoever you choose to date, always think of the future your children will have. Think of the children, sisters.

Thank you.

is a snake charming

Sixfeetbelle:
In my own understanding, a strong, independent woman is a lady who has her own money gotten from the sweat and work of her hands. She has her own viable plans for the future. She discerns what prospects to support and which to discard using her intuition and her intelligence

I quite agree with you about a man that cannot sell his vision.

I must say i really enjoyed my time thru these threads ,@sixfeet you did great for a woman ...
as a realist i won't want to sweet talk you on ... the truth is % of ladies that fit into your definition of strong & independent woman are not even of to 10%, for like 10yrs now av been dating only working class ladies, it baffles me only one out of ten ... acted independent without the entitlement mentality.
No insult intended buh i don't think women generally av the intuition ability maybe intelligence, i think in place of intuition what women have is a receptor .... when a woman meets a guy within 5min she wants to pick a money signal, 90% of our gurls think like mercy ... i just wana sit n be taken care of

John1152:
is a snake charming

Pose this question to Adam and Eve

DeHill:
what is this one even saying? What do u women have to offer? Nothing but pussy!

If you know how you jumped into this confusion you're wallowing in, please take the same manner when you jump out.

Thank you

Sixfeetbelle:
Exactly what I said. It's those that have no future ambition that even have steady girlfriends, like how do they do it?

Because they tell U girls what U girls wants to hear. Men of vision have got no time for nonsense

ifeco4:
Because they tell U girls and do the tells U girls wants to hear. Men of vision have got no time for nonsense

I agree. They're excellent smooth talkers