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phemmyfour:
For ladies, the more you are out of sight..... the more you are out of their mind.

That's why the first thing a lady do after break up is to avoid you and perhaps those linked to you,
delete your pics, contact even throw away your gifts to fasten the recovery process

Preshieben:
Oron dear..

Ernestforyou:
Ladies moves on easily,infact they can get ten toasters same day you end the relationship but it might takes guys years before you get another girl.

SmartPolician:
I beg to differ

Most decent ladies won't have sex with just any man unless they are always emotionally attached to him. Unlike guys, most ladies, not prostitutes, attach emotions to sex.

As for the guys, they can have it with anything, including goats, rams and mad women without emotions attached.

Why most ladies find it difficult to move on is that they feel devastated when they put in their time, share deep secrets, effort and resources just for the guy to break up with her and leave.

More importantly, ladies that have regards for their bodies are always hard hit whenever a breakup happens because they feel used and dumped. Of course, their private parts are not public toilets that every guy comes to deposit sperm and leaves

On the other hand, a guy can only feel used and dumped if he spent a lot of money in a relationship. More often than not, we use the fact that we had sex with the lady to console ourself if she is the one who walks away.


Truth be told, guys break up with girls more than girls breaking up with guys. Unlike most guys, some ladies will not even be bold enough to tell you that it's over because they are worried about the guy's reaction.

And no matter how much we pretend, a relationship never ends with the two parties being happy about it even if the decision was mutual. One always feel bad: the ladies.

luminouz:
Ehyaaaaa... I have dated two Geminis and I'm telling you,they were a handful. The key to understanding them is just never to obsess over them. Be neutral emotionally when they are hot or cold. They love mystery and get bored with the norm. Just let them know they have your support and even when they behave like ogbanje, be cool.

They are not bad and could be great partners especially when they love you and want to make the relationship work. Their tendency to explore new sexual opportunities,regardless of wherever tends to make other star signs wary of them.

#luminouznuggets#

mariahAngel:
I really do not take all these zodiac stuffs seriously.

spiceadole:
With sex involved...Ladies are more affected.

No sex involved...Its the guy's loss.

You no see my paynt and we break up?
I move on and away immediately(with my shoulders high).

Sweettea9:
Hard to believe
But girls do, I have many reasons to back up my claim!
People assume men cheat more often.. which sometimes is true, especially if the couple already has children, the mother usually has to look after the kids while the man can have a secret mistress or affair. But women also cheat, and one of the reasons why is probably because it's easier for a woman to find any man to have an affair with but for a man, it takes a bit more work depending on several factors (if you don't beleive me, log into a dating app as a woman, you will get bombarded with messages from men).

micolaj:
This is true. A lady once begged to never block her if we should break up

And i finally left her but kept my promise not to block her because opposite of love is not hate, but indifference

mariahAngel:
Why did you block her?