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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by luminouz(m): 10:24pm On Jul 19, 2020
futurism:


My brother, you sound someone that is too calculative in everything you do. But the downside of such is that you can end up making up things that doesn't exist.

See you were thinking u won't have or make money when you ended it but here you are with an improvement.

I used be like that but I found out that over thinking things can be detrimental to our lives more than we realize it.

Don't over think it. Just do it. Don't go with your friends yet. Call or chat her up and indirectly or playfully ask the questions to find out if she is getting married soon but if you don't know how do that such that it won't be obvious, then find another way to do it.

Or better still meet her one on one, at a private place and trash everything like a man.

No mind OP.

He is an impulsive creature. This made him break up with that fine geh and he is still being impulsive by saying he will go to her house with his friends... Like wtf!!!

So if she is already married or engaged nko? Naso you go visit her with your friends and her guy go package better beating for you.

He sounds like a Gemini to me. Very undecided and prone to mood swings
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by vickydevoka(m): 10:32pm On Jul 19, 2020
luminouz:


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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by luminouz(m): 10:33pm On Jul 19, 2020
vickydevoka:

U suppose know as en de be na.
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I get you sis. wink
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by Nobody: 10:40pm On Jul 19, 2020
holatin:
the introvert one

If you mean that introverts don't move on easily then you are wrong...I am an introvert and I had been in a relationship with a guy for over a year...Loved him like I had never loved anyone...he broke up because he said I wasn't the right girl for him, that I was too into my shell....Fast forward to three months, after the crying and repeated listening to Adele's songs, I was at least over him to the point that when I saw him, I didn't feel rush of sadness... Just seven months after the break up, after I had moved on and I was already considering another relationship, there he was, in my dms, saying he still loved me and he was sorry and stuff...I just simply ignored his messages. The feelings were already dead....

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by mariahAngel(f): 10:47pm On Jul 19, 2020
luminouz:


Very simple...he wants to hurt her too for the hurt he got when she broke up...revenge things

He is weak. His so called love is toxic.

"I know book" grin
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by zimdante(m): 10:59pm On Jul 19, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


grin grin grin

We're telling you that it's not always the case. No be all the guys dey move on faster

grin
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by MrMay8: 11:05pm On Jul 19, 2020
Broke up with my Gf January called her February to reconcile, she said she has moved on . till this moment I miss her dearly I still love her so much don’t know what to do

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by futurism: 11:12pm On Jul 19, 2020
luminouz:


No mind OP.

He is an impulsive creature. This made him break up with that fine geh and he is still being impulsive by saying he will go to her house with his friends... Like wtf!!!

So if she is already married or engaged nko? Naso you go visit her with your friends and her guy go package better beating for you.

He sounds like a Gemini to me. Very undecided and prone to mood swings

Yeah. Over thinking things will not help us.

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by StubbornGENIUS: 11:19pm On Jul 19, 2020
Razzman1:
I got a girl, i love her but shes broke too grin
Shut up!Who asked you
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by Mypeople2(m): 11:38pm On Jul 19, 2020
Babanlagenius:
Honestly I had an experience with a lady I dated for 3 years. We sang together, made love and we thought we would get married but one faithful day I told her I wanted to move on cause I was broke and I needed her to start a new relationship with someone that was willing to satisfy her needs and also ready to get married.

She abused me, cried and begged me to come back that she would wait no matter how long it takes. Albeit, I didn't change my mind.

Few months later, I noticed how I started missing her and always wanting to call her but pride wouldn't allow me. How did she cope without me? How did she forget about me so easily? Is it common for ladies to forget their exes so easily than men?

Please I want to know from you guys cause this is really crux to me.
Well most guys will show you that they have moved on but truly they haven't.It is not easy to move on most especially when the relationship took a long time
However OP you shouldn't have done that .You would have explained it to her, make her see reasons with you to reduce some financial things in the relationship. Please kindly give her a call .It is not easy to see a good woman
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by luminouz(m): 11:47pm On Jul 19, 2020
mariahAngel:


"I know book" grin
wink
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by mcjprof(m): 12:12am On Jul 20, 2020
Hmmm... This story is very relating to me because I'm still going through the trauma at present... She has refused picking my calls or reply chats...
I must say, though we men always be the first to initiate a breakup but it bounces back at us in the hard way while she may never look back..

Yet God knows best...What will be will be.

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by SmellingAnus(m): 12:21am On Jul 20, 2020
Zoie:

It is not his place to make such a decision. Had it been she told him she can't cope, that she wants to marry and he knows his finances are nowhere near ready, then that's different.
He just presumed that's what she wanted and shattered her heart. A weak man.
in otherwise it's better she dumps him than for him to dump her?
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by Uniquekriss(m): 12:26am On Jul 20, 2020
bond77:

I completely agree with you. some ladies can be very very deceptive. The same way a lady hides her feeling after break up is the same they hide their feelings when a guy starts wooing them from the onset. some ladies would be acting like rebecah, waiting for you to serve them for years like Issac before they acknowledge your feelings. but deep down, they are desperately longing for the guy .some ladies can be very insecure Sha.
you're a pro in this. I love d way u related it to d Bible story

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by sylve11: 12:40am On Jul 20, 2020
Hmmm cool
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by Nobody: 1:40am On Jul 20, 2020
Babanlagenius:
Honestly I had an experience with a lady I dated for 3 years. We sang together, made love and we thought we would get married but one faithful day I told her I wanted to move on cause I was broke and I needed her to start a new relationship with someone that was willing to satisfy her needs and also ready to get married.

She abused me, cried and begged me to come back that she would wait no matter how long it takes. Albeit, I didn't change my mind.

Few months later, I noticed how I started missing her and always wanting to call her but pride wouldn't allow me. How did she cope without me? How did she forget about me so easily? Is it common for ladies to forget their exes so easily than men?

Please I want to know from you guys cause this is really crux to me.
ur mad for what you did to that girl ...see you just lost a future wife to someone else ...
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by MENTORCH(m): 3:16am On Jul 20, 2020
It depends on the individual some people love really hard, and it depends on who loved more.
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by spiceadole: 5:19am On Jul 20, 2020
With sex involved...Ladies are more affected.

No sex involved...Its the guy's loss.

You no see my paynt and we break up?
I move on and away immediately(with my shoulders high).

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by holatin(m): 5:34am On Jul 20, 2020
Aileexa1:

If you mean that introverts don't move on easily then you are wrong...I am an introvert and I had been in a relationship with a guy for over a year...Loved him like I had never loved anyone...he broke up because he said I wasn't the right girl for him, that I was too into my shell....Fast forward to three months, after the crying and repeated listening to Adele's songs, I was at least over him to the point that when I saw him, I didn't feel rush of sadness... Just seven months after the break up, after I had moved on and I was already considering another relationship, there he was, in my dms, saying he still loved me and he was sorry and stuff...I just simply ignored his messages. The feelings were already dead....
that 3 month u are sad, someone else has moved on....that seven month u said u are considering been in another relationship...someone has already has two more failed relationship.....moving on means different thing to us....it's either forgetting that person existence (not having a string of sadness from the breakup) or being in another relationship at the moment. no real introvert jump into another relationship after a failed one....we coil back into our shell, enjoying forceful solitude devoid of any chance of heart get hammered again and soon.....maybe we are different Sha !

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by SmartPolician: 6:11am On Jul 20, 2020
Sweettea9:
Hard to believe
But girls do, I have many reasons to back up my claim!
People assume men cheat more often.. which sometimes is true, especially if the couple already has children, the mother usually has to look after the kids while the man can have a secret mistress or affair. But women also cheat, and one of the reasons why is probably because it's easier for a woman to find any man to have an affair with but for a man, it takes a bit more work depending on several factors (if you don't beleive me, log into a dating app as a woman, you will get bombarded with messages from men).

I beg to differ

Most decent ladies won't have sex with just any man unless they are always emotionally attached to him. Unlike guys, most ladies, not prostitutes, attach emotions to sex.

As for the guys, they can have it with anything, including goats, rams and mad women without emotions attached.

Why most ladies find it difficult to move on is that they feel devastated when they put in their time, share deep secrets, effort and resources just for the guy to break up with her and leave.

More importantly, ladies that have regards for their bodies are always hard hit whenever a breakup happens because they feel used and dumped. Of course, their private parts are not public toilets that every guy comes to deposit sperm and leaves grin

On the other hand, a guy can only feel used and dumped if he spent a lot of money in a relationship. More often than not, we use the fact that we had sex with the lady to console ourself if she is the one who walks away.


Truth be told, guys break up with girls more than girls breaking up with guys. Unlike most guys, some ladies will not even be bold enough to tell you that it's over because they are worried about the guy's reaction.

And no matter how much we pretend, a relationship never ends with the two parties being happy about it even if the decision was mutual. One always feel bad: the ladies.

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by SmartPolician: 6:30am On Jul 20, 2020
tayooluwole:
The biggest mistakes any guy can make is to ever think any lady can not do without them... You see ladies ehn, once they move on,,,they dust their past behind them and never looked back in most cases. Lady is only attached to a guy for just the moment it last and not beyond,,,all other things being equal


This is FALSE

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by frozen70(f): 7:07am On Jul 20, 2020
Babanlagenius:
Honestly I had an experience with a lady I dated for 3 years. We sang together, made love and we thought we would get married but one faithful day I told her I wanted to move on cause I was broke and I needed her to start a new relationship with someone that was willing to satisfy her needs and also ready to get married.

She abused me, cried and begged me to come back that she would wait no matter how long it takes. Albeit, I didn't change my mind.

Few months later, I noticed how I started missing her and always wanting to call her but pride wouldn't allow me. How did she cope without me? How did she forget about me so easily? Is it common for ladies to forget their exes so easily than men?

Please I want to know from you guys cause this is really crux to me.

Those who are truly in love doesn't move on automatically, you must go through the pains of hurt and broken heart

Those who doesn't love sincerely and from the dept of their hearts, always have a back up relationship in case it happens

They just switch over immediately

As it affects the man so it affects the woman

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by Nackzy: 7:14am On Jul 20, 2020
tayooluwole:
The biggest mistakes any guy can make is to ever think any lady can not do without them... You see ladies ehn, once they move on,,,they dust their past behind them and never looked back in most cases. Lady is only attached to a guy for just the moment it last and not beyond,,,all other things being equal
you're wiser than Solomon in the bible, drink n take whatever u want at KFC the bill is on me, u get sense
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by PaulH07: 7:21am On Jul 20, 2020
Whoever cared less...
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by sigiyaya(m): 8:32am On Jul 20, 2020
teejaymiquel:
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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by Nobody: 9:24am On Jul 20, 2020
Babanlagenius:
She was more emotionally attached to me. As in she used to call me more than I did. She didn't sleep without talking to me and more often than not she would ask me to send her voice notes on WhatsApp even after our convno before going to bed. I felt the love within and without. She showed me so much love and made me to have extra focus in live because she was in full support of everything I was doing.

She saved money from work to buy me gifts. She was down to earth. She always give guys my number when they asked for hers. I was only bothered that she was 26years and just maybe the pressure of getting married was there. I sensed her mood swings expecially on Saturdays. I left her way back in 2019 because I couldn't secure a job for myself and needed to give her a better life by giving some other guy a chance to get married to her quickly.

Speaking of beauty, she is the most beautiful lady I have ever dated. As a matter of fact the first thing I asked her on our first date was

DON'T YOU THINK YOU ARE TOO MUCH FOR ME?

Now that I am stable to an extent all I could think of is this lady. I just don't know how she managed to forget about me. I'm even afraid of contacting her cause I don't want to hear that someone else is presently [b]digging that hol[/b]e and probably about to get married as well.


You must be a disgusting impulsive piece of cow dung, in all of your woman this is what u summed her up to be, a hole u hope another man ain't digging ,its fools like you that make women call us men scum ,for ur sake I hope a man with a arm sized lamba is "digging your girls hole" properly I cant stand guys like u ,I'm disgusted ,imagine someone describes ur mom or ur sister like that , arrgggg am so angry

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by Benalfa(m): 9:37am On Jul 20, 2020
holatin:
that 3 month u are sad, someone else has moved on....that seven month u said u are considering been in another relationship...someone has already has two more failed relationship.....moving on means different thing to us....it's either forgetting that person existence (not having a string of sadness from the breakup) or being in another relationship at the moment. no real introvert jump into another relationship after a failed one....we coil back into our shell, enjoying forceful solitude devoid of any chance of heart get hammered again and soon.....maybe we are different Sha !
bro that's an intovert without much activities
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by dom80: 10:19am On Jul 20, 2020
moving on is hard for both gender especially the one that is more committed in the relationship. some guys or girls may move on to the next person and the person may not possess the attribute their exs got.

my ex gf who broke up with me 3yrs ago and got married 2yrs later decided to ring my number some days ago. I was surprise because she was the least person I expected to call me. she told me she miss me and that she still has feelings for me...

most time, nobody move on.. the feelings is all there.

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by vickydevoka(m): 11:04am On Jul 20, 2020
luminouz:


I get you sis. wink
I be man
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by luminouz(m): 11:22am On Jul 20, 2020
vickydevoka:

I be man
. shocked shocked shocked
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by luminouz(m): 11:23am On Jul 20, 2020
dom80:
moving on is hard for both gender especially the one that is more committed in the relationship. some guys or girls may move on to the next person and the person may not possess the attribute their exs got.

my ex gf who broke up with me 3yrs ago and got married 2yrs later decided to ring my number some days ago. I was surprise because she was the least person I expected to call me. she told me she miss me and that she still has feelings for me...

most time, nobody move on.. the feelings is all there.
Why she break up in the first place?

Besides, her partner lacked in one aspect,thats why she called you back. You think if she is happy with him,she will call you?
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by flyingpig: 11:31am On Jul 20, 2020
luminouz:


No mind OP.

He is an impulsive creature. This made him break up with that fine geh and he is still being impulsive by saying he will go to her house with his friends... Like wtf!!!

So if she is already married or engaged nko? Naso you go visit her with your friends and her guy go package better beating for you.

He sounds like a Gemini to me. Very undecided and prone to mood swings sad
sad

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