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hotwax:
I met her a virgin and she made it clear from unset that she wanted to keep her virginity till wedding date. I agreed with her, afterall, I intended to marry her.

Meanwhile she is a friend to a man at her office. She even introduced him to me as a friend. When she call me on video while at office, I usually see this man at the background. We call him 'your office father'. January 2020, her workplace where she is undergoing internship organized a 'get-together' party in one hotel at Ikeja. Throughout the event, she did not pick my calls till the next day . It was unusual of her. I just told myself, party don enter body be that. She later off her phone.

Sometime in February, we got playful and we were over the edge to the point that I wanted to penetrate. But I quickly controlled my self. Then she started stoking my dck . I watched her with surprized. She noticed and started pulling me towards her telling me to fck her, i refused to continue and sat. I asked with anger, "so you have been having sex". She started crying that she was sorry she kept it a secret from me. She said she was afraid I was going to kill her if I get to know. She said the man I called her office father raped Blahblah. In the party she took 3 bottles of smirnoff and she sat with the man. Late night, when she was going, the man told her he already book a room that she should not go home late at night. She said she was not thinking straight and it was as if the man used juju. She followed him to his room, while she was sleeping the man raped her multiple times overnight.

It was shocking, I was filled with rage. I asked why she did not raise alarm, why not report to the police? To their HR. She said its going to be shame for her, people r going to mock her. How did she get into a hotel room with a married man. The man's job is also at stake. It took me days to take her back, but I couldnt touch her, because she disgusted me. . She noticed begged me. She tried for us to have sex, but i wont just be in the mood.

Although she is a secretive person. She has been battling various STDs. Virginal discharged, candida e.t.c I do see drugs and creams in her bag.
But now she is battling hepatis B. She was admitted at the hospital and incurred huge medical bill which I was involved. I asked if she treated herself after the rape experience, she said a nurse friend treated her. And I asked if she has been seeing many guys. She said it was the only man she ever had sex with.

1 Sexual encountered spiraled to unending STD and sicknesses. Its painful for me because my dream woman just wasted away like that.
I am not even sure she had sex with only one man.

Op.....You be jonzing man if you believe her n take her back
A hoe is a hoe

You're dating a Ho!

Wolgrace:
She invented another lie to cover her lie. How will a man raped her with multiple rounds of consensual sex?

How did she consented to the multiple sex from one man without any defensive reaction in a public hospitable house?

Multiple diseases from one man in just one night?

Until you discovered her lies, they were still friends as office father and office daughter after her rape allegation? The girl is a coded pro striker...

Brother, you are unwise. However, abstain and flee from lust!!

Note: "office father," a new word now added to Nairaland dictionary.

Hahahahahahaa

Office father; I prefer office daddy.

Greensquard:
Do me a favour and gerarahiamen..u bloody simps will never learn,its guys like me that keep fvc.cking ur girls and taking their virgi.ni.ty cos u guys are pathetic ;Dkeep been good guys and let us continue helping u service ur h.oes..the simps never learn..they always feel ohh my case is different hahahaha

ur opinion

hotwax:
I met her a virgin and she made it clear from unset that she wanted to keep her virginity till wedding date. I agreed with her, afterall, I intended to marry her.

Meanwhile she is a friend to a man at her office. She even introduced him to me as a friend. When she call me on video while at office, I usually see this man at the background. We call him 'your office father'. January 2020, her workplace where she is undergoing internship organized a 'get-together' party in one hotel at Ikeja. Throughout the event, she did not pick my calls till the next day . It was unusual of her. I just told myself, party don enter body be that. She later off her phone.

Sometime in February, we got playful and we were over the edge to the point that I wanted to penetrate. But I quickly controlled my self. Then she started stoking my dck . I watched her with surprized. She noticed and started pulling me towards her telling me to fck her, i refused to continue and sat. I asked with anger, "so you have been having sex". She started crying that she was sorry she kept it a secret from me. She said she was afraid I was going to kill her if I get to know. She said the man I called her office father raped Blahblah. In the party she took 3 bottles of smirnoff and she sat with the man. Late night, when she was going, the man told her he already book a room that she should not go home late at night. She said she was not thinking straight and it was as if the man used juju. She followed him to his room, while she was sleeping the man raped her multiple times overnight.

It was shocking, I was filled with rage. I asked why she did not raise alarm, why not report to the police? To their HR. She said its going to be shame for her, people r going to mock her. How did she get into a hotel room with a married man. The man's job is also at stake. It took me days to take her back, but I couldnt touch her, because she disgusted me. . She noticed begged me. She tried for us to have sex, but i wont just be in the mood.

Although she is a secretive person. She has been battling various STDs. Virginal discharged, candida e.t.c I do see drugs and creams in her bag.
But now she is battling hepatis B. She was admitted at the hospital and incurred huge medical bill which I was involved. I asked if she treated herself after the rape experience, she said a nurse friend treated her. And I asked if she has been seeing many guys. She said it was the only man she ever had sex with.

1 Sexual encountered spiraled to unending STD and sicknesses. Its painful for me because my dream woman just wasted away like that.
I am not even sure she had sex with only one man.

Ogbeni, what is your question?

Don't thank your stars and jump; keep asking JAMB kwestion.

bukatyne:
Ogbeni, what is your question?

Don't thank your stars and jump; keep asking JAMB kwestion.

I didnt ask any question.

I posted my life story for all to learn.

Do i look like i will insert my dck in that STD pot?

hotwax:
I didnt ask any question.

I posted my life story for all to learn.

Do i look like i will insert my dck in that STD pot?

Oh!

One down, two virgins to go

Could it be you are not destined to marry a virgin at the end?

bukatyne:
Oh!

One down, two virgins to go

Could it be you are not destined to marry a virgin at the end?

calculator

This op story made me remember about a lady that I was chatting because of boredom during total lockdown.
She told me that she was raped by her bestie,although she has given him but still have his number,I just laughed but behaved as if I believed her.
The way women lies nowadays, even the devil is starting to become an apprentice

hotwax:
But now she is battling hepatis B.

Hepatitis B can be transmitted through bodily fluids.

So, if the sweat, mucus etc. of an infected person finds it's way into an uninfected person, the uninfected person can have the virus.


I don't know about the other STDs though, because you didn't mention them.

But I know it is possible to get multiple STDs from the same person.


Most STDs cannot be cured permanently. So, you might want to pass this one, and get another lady.

MrBrownJay1:
4) how did she know he raped her THREE TIMES if she was indeed "sleeping"?!

Op said she said she took 3 bottles of Smirnoff and got raped multiple times.

Op never said she was raped 3 times.

Also, Your point 2, 3 and 5 can be disputed as well, but I won't go into those details.

In short, only point 1 is valid in your entire submission.

bukatyne:
Oh!

One down, two virgins to go

Could it be you are not destined to marry a virgin at the end?

Lol. This your comment made me check OP's history.

Then I found this thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/5915060/currently-dating-3-virgins-it


@OP, which of them is having issues now? Is it the 27 years old one or the 24 years old one or the 21 years old one?

Ayemileto:
Op said [b]she said she took 3 bottles of Smirnoff and got raped multiple times.
Op never said she was raped 3 times.

multiple times/ three times...same thing to me. how could she know how many time she was raped, if indeed asleep?! how does she even know she was raped, if she was asleep?!?!

Also, Your point 2, 3 and 5 can be disputed as well, but I won't go into those details.
In short, only point 1 is valid in your entire submission.

if you cant dispute my points then fair enough, but then you certainly cant dismiss them either. instead, simply say that the only point you "can" dispute is #4... which i stated above.

Ayemileto:
Lol. This your comment made me check OP's history.

Then I found this thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/5915060/currently-dating-3-virgins-it


@OP, which of them is having issues now? Is it the 27 years old one or the 24 years old one or the 21 years old one?

OP come and answer.

hotwax:
calculator

I love mathematics and analyzing data to bring out patterns and resolution of problems.

bukatyne:
Hahahahahahaa

Office father; I prefer office daddy.

Hello nairalanders, this is to humbly inform the general public on this forum that @ bukatyne is now an official signature of "office daddy." You are hereby notified and ordered to address him with his newly official title. Thank you

Congrats official daddy! Cup of cheers. Lambaaaaa!

MrBrownJay1:
multiple times/ three times...same thing to me. how could she know how many time she was raped, if indeed asleep?! how does she even know she was raped, if she was asleep?!?!

Multiple times can be twice, five times, etc. It's not specific. So she doesn't know how many times she was raped.

Also, if she's truly drunk as claimed, then everything will look like a kind of illusion. She'll know someone is having canal knowledge of her but won't be able to do anything to stop it as she will wake up intermittently and sleep back as soon as she wakes.

This is one of the reasons why "consent under the influence of alcohol" is not considered as a valid consent and can be termed rape because the other party is not in the right frame of mind.

MrBrownJay1:
if you cant dispute my points then fair enough, but then you certainly cant dismiss them either. instead, simply say that the only point you "can" dispute is #4... which i stated above.

Apart from 1, every other thing you put up there can be disputed and dismissed.

I don't want to go into details because I don't want to be typing long epistles.

But it's your opinion, you can choose to believe it's valid. But I know quite well it isn't.

Ayemileto:
Multiple times can be twice, five times, etc. It's not specific. So she doesn't know how many times she was raped.

multiple times is more than ONCE, therefore how does she even know the dude raped her more than once, if she was asleep?!

Also, if she's truly drunk as claimed, then everything will look like a kind of illusion. She'll know someone is having canal knowledge of her but won't be able to do anything to stop it as she will wake up intermittently and sleep back as soon as she wakes.
This is one of the reasons why "consent under the influence of alcohol" is not considered as a valid consent and can be termed rape because the other party is not in the right frame of mind.

the babe said she was "asleep"... stop assuming unknown fables here.

Apart from 1, every other thing you put up there can be disputed and dismissed.
I don't want to go into details because I don't want to be typing long epistles.
But it's your opinion, you can choose to believe it's valid. But I know quite well it isn't.

... and until you dispute these points, then whatever you believe about these points is irrelevant. that would be as foolish of me to say that your above point are irrelevant but i dont want to go into details, duh!

She is playing on your emotions, i would not be surprised if she was never a virgin at the beginning of your relationship. She made up the lie to cover up,so that on your wedding night you will not complain about the borehole you will meet. .Be smart,and just so you know STD is one of the leading causes of infertility in females.

hotwax:
I met her a virgin and she made it clear from unset that she wanted to keep her virginity till wedding date. I agreed with her, afterall, I intended to marry her.

Meanwhile she is a friend to a man at her office. She even introduced him to me as a friend. When she call me on video while at office, I usually see this man at the background. We call him 'your office father'. January 2020, her workplace where she is undergoing internship organized a 'get-together' party in one hotel at Ikeja. Throughout the event, she did not pick my calls till the next day . It was unusual of her. I just told myself, party don enter body be that. She later off her phone.

Sometime in February, we got playful and we were over the edge to the point that I wanted to penetrate. But I quickly controlled my self. Then she started stoking my dck . I watched her with surprized. She noticed and started pulling me towards her telling me to fck her, i refused to continue and sat. I asked with anger, "so you have been having sex". She started crying that she was sorry she kept it a secret from me. She said she was afraid I was going to kill her if I get to know. She said the man I called her office father raped Blahblah. In the party she took 3 bottles of smirnoff and she sat with the man. Late night, when she was going, the man told her he already book a room that she should not go home late at night. She said she was not thinking straight and it was as if the man used juju. She followed him to his room, while she was sleeping the man raped her multiple times overnight.

It was shocking, I was filled with rage. I asked why she did not raise alarm, why not report to the police? To their HR. She said its going to be shame for her, people r going to mock her. How did she get into a hotel room with a married man. The man's job is also at stake. It took me days to take her back, but I couldnt touch her, because she disgusted me. . She noticed begged me. She tried for us to have sex, but i wont just be in the mood.

Although she is a secretive person. She has been battling various STDs. Virginal discharged, candida e.t.c I do see drugs and creams in her bag.
But now she is battling hepatis B. She was admitted at the hospital and incurred huge medical bill which I was involved. I asked if she treated herself after the rape experience, she said a nurse friend treated her. And I asked if she has been seeing many guys. She said it was the only man she ever had sex with.

1 Sexual encountered spiraled to unending STD and sicknesses. Its painful for me because my dream woman just wasted away like that.
I am not even sure she had sex with only one man.

Dude, wtf are you still doing with that bitch...use your head to think not your heart, mark this word, she will still continue sleeping around with the mindset u will forgive her, even if you marry her, she won't have regards for you. Women deserve iron hand, don't play Mr Nice guy o else u will regret it. Count your losses and dump her sorry asss

This brother mumu sha.see as person dey blow better lamba for you

Lolzzz. Op abeg carry your cross cos plenty matter full ground for now.

hotwax:
Thats too extreme...The deed has been done.

And the victim is protecting her assailant,..wetin be my own.

who know if its a willing sex..or they are even actively dating. I will just make fool of myself.

You don catch the hepatitis B o. She probably touched herself and touched you so, it's possible you got one of em std

hotwax:
The whole thing sound stupid to me too. Thats why i no insert my dck. And I wont...

Best decision bro because the sex she wanna give u is a trap...

Wolgrace:
She invented another lie to cover her lie. How will a man raped her with multiple rounds of consensual sex?

How did she consented to the multiple sex from one man without any defensive reaction in a public hospitable house?

Multiple diseases from one man in just one night?

Until you discovered her lies, they were still friends as office father and office daughter after her rape allegation? The girl is a coded pro striker...

Brother, you are unwise. However, abstain and flee from lust!!

Note: "office father," a new word now added to Nairaland dictionary.

I need an " Office Mother"

Mrlucky81:
I need an " Office Mother"

Hahahaha.. Keep searching

OP, what are you still doing in the relationship?
Relationships should be built on trust and love. If you don't trust her again, let her go or else, you're just wasting your time

This one off me
Office Father? Hmm, nawa oh.. Every day new word is being invented!
Ngwanu, na siddon look I dey

hotwax:
I met her a virgin and she made it clear from unset that she wanted to keep her virginity till wedding date. I agreed with her, afterall, I intended to marry her.

Meanwhile she is a friend to a man at her office. She even introduced him to me as a friend. When she call me on video while at office, I usually see this man at the background. We call him 'your office father'. January 2020, her workplace where she is undergoing internship organized a 'get-together' party in one hotel at Ikeja. Throughout the event, she did not pick my calls till the next day . It was unusual of her. I just told myself, party don enter body be that. She later off her phone.

Sometime in February, we got playful and we were over the edge to the point that I wanted to penetrate. But I quickly controlled my self. Then she started stoking my dck . I watched her with surprized. She noticed and started pulling me towards her telling me to fck her, i refused to continue and sat. I asked with anger, "so you have been having sex". She started crying that she was sorry she kept it a secret from me. She said she was afraid I was going to kill her if I get to know. She said the man I called her office father raped Blahblah. In the party she took 3 bottles of smirnoff and she sat with the man. Late night, when she was going, the man told her he already book a room that she should not go home late at night. She said she was not thinking straight and it was as if the man used juju. She followed him to his room, while she was sleeping the man raped her multiple times overnight.

It was shocking, I was filled with rage. I asked why she did not raise alarm, why not report to the police? To their HR. She said its going to be shame for her, people r going to mock her. How did she get into a hotel room with a married man. The man's job is also at stake. It took me days to take her back, but I couldnt touch her, because she disgusted me. . She noticed begged me. She tried for us to have sex, but i wont just be in the mood.

Although she is a secretive person. She has been battling various STDs. Virginal discharged, candida e.t.c I do see drugs and creams in her bag.
But now she is battling hepatis B. She was admitted at the hospital and incurred huge medical bill which I was involved. I asked if she treated herself after the rape experience, she said a nurse friend treated her. And I asked if she has been seeing many guys. She said it was the only man she ever had sex with.

1 Sexual encountered spiraled to unending STD and sicknesses. Its painful for me because my dream woman just wasted away like that.
I am not even sure she had sex with only one man.

Op nor trust woman, at all, women are himan beigns if a guy jam dem for corner shakara don end, b dat dem go fall be it she is a virgin or not
Bros if you know how we don finsh babe of yahoo boys wen get ride why we wen dey Bleep dem nor get bicycle as dem come our side dem go off their phone till after we finish the do

The truth women cheat as men but men are loud when dey cheat, take out bro, chaii you for disvirgin d babe wen dey chance be dey kaiii u buy drink anoda guy open am

Hope say this one don open ur eye...

Lol.

hotwax:
I met her a virgin and she made it clear from unset that she wanted to keep her virginity till wedding date. I agreed with her, afterall, I intended to marry her.

Meanwhile she is a friend to a man at her office. She even introduced him to me as a friend. When she call me on video while at office, I usually see this man at the background. We call him 'your office father'. January 2020, her workplace where she is undergoing internship organized a 'get-together' party in one hotel at Ikeja. Throughout the event, she did not pick my calls till the next day . It was unusual of her. I just told myself, party don enter body be that. She later off her phone.

Sometime in February, we got playful and we were over the edge to the point that I wanted to penetrate. But I quickly controlled my self. Then she started stoking my dck . I watched her with surprized. She noticed and started pulling me towards her telling me to fck her, i refused to continue and sat. I asked with anger, "so you have been having sex". She started crying that she was sorry she kept it a secret from me. She said she was afraid I was going to kill her if I get to know. She said the man I called her office father raped Blahblah. In the party she took 3 bottles of smirnoff and she sat with the man. Late night, when she was going, the man told her he already book a room that she should not go home late at night. She said she was not thinking straight and it was as if the man used juju. She followed him to his room, while she was sleeping the man raped her multiple times overnight.

It was shocking, I was filled with rage. I asked why she did not raise alarm, why not report to the police? To their HR. She said its going to be shame for her, people r going to mock her. How did she get into a hotel room with a married man. The man's job is also at stake. It took me days to take her back, but I couldnt touch her, because she disgusted me. . She noticed begged me. She tried for us to have sex, but i wont just be in the mood.

Although she is a secretive person. She has been battling various STDs. Virginal discharged, candida e.t.c I do see drugs and creams in her bag.
But now she is battling hepatis B. She was admitted at the hospital and incurred huge medical bill which I was involved. I asked if she treated herself after the rape experience, she said a nurse friend treated her. And I asked if she has been seeing many guys. She said it was the only man she ever had sex with.

1 Sexual encountered spiraled to unending STD and sicknesses. Its painful for me because my dream woman just wasted away like that.
I am not even sure she had sex with only one man.

girls need to come and read this story and learn.
See how easy it is to destroy a promising future because of cheating. If am in your shoe, it will be difficult for me to ever go back to her. Lies from ladies is one thing I find very difficult to handle.
I wish you the best sha