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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by jagorinho: 12:51am On Jul 26, 2020
I do not have problem with those ladies( that is another issue for another day) I have issues with those guys at the party that were sympathetic to those ladies antics, those guys are worse than infidels.

Iwo road, Ibadan in 2014.

I was going to see my uncle when I saw a wheel barrow pusher mistakenly hit a woman waiting for a bus, the guy immediately went to the woman to plead and show remorse and the tension was cooling a bit, then some men around decided to become Captain America on a matter that does not concern them, they started pushing the wheelbarrow pusher, asking him If he was drunk or blind, the next thing I heard was a hot slap on the face of the wheelbarrow pusher.

I looked at his eyes as tears dropped slowly, his dignity was stripped off him, I have not been so infuriated in my life, the guy just coupled his barrow back into shape and left sobbing.

If I had any form of power that day, I would definitely use it on those reckless guys that slapped the barrow pusher.

I do not know why some mad guys just find solace in attacking their fellow gender just to please girls.....anytime I remember the tears on that guy's eyes I just become angry even up till now.

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by luminouz(m): 12:52am On Jul 26, 2020
ademasta:
Hmmm undecided

Just consider yourself fighting with Yusuf Buhari, whether you are right or not, you will be dealt with by strong forces. That's how it plays out usually.

However, women are weaker vessels, no matter what transpires between you both, it will be perceived as if you are intentionally using naked powers on them. They will surely be listened to.

Have you considered great men that were thoroughly dealt with by women? Just because the man has bluntly refused her sex, probably in the office, and the next thing the woman would do is tear her own clothes to project rape. On this, never expect the man to be listened to. Both men and women will gather to condemn him.

The point is, women are stronger. Take it and be a man, or you leave it and be dealt with.

What rubbish is your last line bayi?

We are comparing strengths

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by ademasta(m): 5:42am On Jul 26, 2020
ecstasy357:


Sad reality, yet many men still want to give them more power
Sincerely

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by ademasta(m): 5:43am On Jul 26, 2020
angelfallz:


your reply has no heads or tails. it is built on a false premise.
Just exactly the way you reason
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by ademasta(m): 5:44am On Jul 26, 2020
luminouz:


What rubbish is your last line bayi?

We are comparing strengths
What more rubbish do u want to hear bayi?
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by SweetCunt97(f): 5:51am On Jul 26, 2020
30naira:
Today, I attended a wedding ceremony. At the reception, the couple tried to maintain social distancing inside the reception hall, so there were limited seats. Most of the guests were in the open field outside. I sat behind two ladies, who should be in their mid or late twenties. I wasn't really paying much attention to them.

After a while, they left their seat and went out. After about 5 minutes two guys came, and sat down in the empty seats the ladies left. These guy are obviously in their early twenties.

About 30 minutes later, the two girls came back inside, I noticed that one of them has had a change of cloths. So obviously they went home and returned.

The girls demanded that the guys should leave the seat, because they got there first. It is their seat. As expected the guys bluntly refused. The girls started raising their voice and cursing. No one really cared to listen to them, the boys were busy consuming the drinks on the table.

One of the ladies got frustrated by the indifference of the boys, grabbed a glass of juice from the table and threw the content at the guy's face. The guy in turn opened the entire can, got up and started pouring it on the girl's head, ruining her make up and soaking her weavon.

Next thing we saw, the girl grabbed him by the collar with both hands, tearing at his skin with her nails. Before you could say Jack, the guy started raining down slaps on her face, she fought back too.

Before we could rush down, the girl had a bleeding nose and a red swollen face.

Now this is the part that particular offended me. Everyone that gathered round started heaping insult on the boy for beating up a girl, despite the fact that she initiated physical contact. Some women even went as far as threatening to arrest the boy. The entire narrative changed quickly. Some stupid men even tried to beat up the boys. I stood my ground and insisted that if anybody lays a finger on the boy, I ll see to it that everybody is kicked out of the reception.

It took the intervention of the officiating minister to calm the crowd. Everyone was insisting that he would pay for the girl's medical bills. Funny thing is that the guy had finger marks all over his neck. She was sobbing and attracting sympathy left and right, as if she was not the one barking like an animal moments earlier. In the end, it was the guys that were kicked out, the girls had the seat.

I get confused about this gender equality stuff, women want to be treated like men and treated differently at the same time. You can't claim equality only when it suits you. If it were two guys fighting, I'm sure they ll both be kicked out and nobody will spare a thought for the injured, there ll be no sobbing or comforting, it ll just be seen as two people disturbing the peace. But everyone is suddenly acting up to protect an equal specie, who is also the offender, and the females see nothing wrong in this inequality

Do you want equality or not?
Personally I respect and treat everyone equally, but if you initiate physical contact, male or female I will retaliate with the same ferocity.
Yea I doubt such equality you dreaming of will ever be ingrained into the society any time soon. Even abroad, women gather sympathy easily than men. There will b no true equality among the gender.... Men are stronger than women.

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by luminouz(m): 6:41am On Jul 26, 2020
ademasta:

What more rubbish do u want to hear bayi?

Shaaararraaap dia
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Gerrard59(m): 6:44am On Jul 26, 2020
Gender equality is a fraudulent concept that says women should have rights but not responsibilities, which in reality makes no sense. I am happy I saw the fraud behind it years back. In the beginning, it sounds good but by ensuring that half of the populace should have rights but not responsibilities, then it is stoopid.

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Anigreat: 6:51am On Jul 26, 2020
NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.


shocked



Stupid comment from a sissy

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by jamalnation(m): 7:57am On Jul 26, 2020
stanliwise:
A small handling isn’t gonna kill the girl. Although it is not easy to know when to stop especially when anger sets in. But last last If I don’t touch her the warning I will give her ehn.
I hate it when women try to act uncivil and expect me to behave civil.
No one has the right to harm anyone especially when such person has not harm anyone.

You said it all bro.

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Nobody: 8:38am On Jul 26, 2020
I blame this generation of our contemporary fathers. If they had learned how to check the excesses in their wives and daughters like their own fathers, and grand fathers did, we wouldn't be in this mess.

They pandered to every wimp and caprices of their women, they had no qualms trading off their son's birthrights for a whiff of the vaginas of girls half their age. In the end all they could contribute to society is raising up entitled, self-centered cùnts as daughters, and degenerate wánkers as sons whose lives and sense of worth is centered around pleasing women. These set of morons, created this misandristic monster laced as feminism that would spell the death of modern society as we know it. Our fellow men, including that fat beta ugly fùcker with greasy fingers sitting beside you right now or on your TV screen IS the problem.

He gave up jobs meant for you, to a vagina. Your inheritance and birthright, went to a vagina. The funds meant for good roads, social amenities, good health care, proper education, etc - he spent it all on a vagina.

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by martowskin1(m): 8:51am On Jul 26, 2020
bigpicture001:


You are a sucker!

He is a simp

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Bennysam: 8:57am On Jul 26, 2020
[quote author=NockMedia post=92096759]
I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.[/quot
I pity some of you that talk nonsense
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Bennysam: 8:57am On Jul 26, 2020
30naira:


But ladies can raise their hands on a man?
Ask the idiot , i get annoyed when some people talk like this

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by engrchykae(m): 9:12am On Jul 26, 2020
30naira:
Today, I attended a wedding ceremony. At the reception, the couple tried to maintain social distancing inside the reception hall, so there were limited seats. Most of the guests were in the open field outside. I sat behind two ladies, who should be in their mid or late twenties. I wasn't really paying much attention to them.

After a while, they left their seat and went out. After about 5 minutes two guys came, and sat down in the empty seats the ladies left. These guy are obviously in their early twenties.

About 30 minutes later, the two girls came back inside, I noticed that one of them has had a change of cloths. So obviously they went home and returned.

The girls demanded that the guys should leave the seat, because they got there first. It is their seat. As expected the guys bluntly refused. The girls started raising their voice and cursing. No one really cared to listen to them, the boys were busy consuming the drinks on the table.

One of the ladies got frustrated by the indifference of the boys, grabbed a glass of juice from the table and threw the content at the guy's face. The guy in turn opened the entire can, got up and started pouring it on the girl's head, ruining her make up and soaking her weavon.

Next thing we saw, the girl grabbed him by the collar with both hands, tearing at his skin with her nails. Before you could say Jack, the guy started raining down slaps on her face, she fought back too.

Before we could rush down, the girl had a bleeding nose and a red swollen face.

Now this is the part that particular offended me. Everyone that gathered round started heaping insult on the boy for beating up a girl, despite the fact that she initiated physical contact. Some women even went as far as threatening to arrest the boy. The entire narrative changed quickly. Some stupid men even tried to beat up the boys. I stood my ground and insisted that if anybody lays a finger on the boy, I ll see to it that everybody is kicked out of the reception.

It took the intervention of the officiating minister to calm the crowd. Everyone was insisting that he would pay for the girl's medical bills. Funny thing is that the guy had finger marks all over his neck. She was sobbing and attracting sympathy left and right, as if she was not the one barking like an animal moments earlier. In the end, it was the guys that were kicked out, the girls had the seat.

I get confused about this gender equality stuff, women want to be treated like men and treated differently at the same time. You can't claim equality only when it suits you. If it were two guys fighting, I'm sure they ll both be kicked out and nobody will spare a thought for the injured, there ll be no sobbing or comforting, it ll just be seen as two people disturbing the peace. But everyone is suddenly acting up to protect an equal specie, who is also the offender, and the females see nothing wrong in this inequality

Do you want equality or not?
Personally I respect and treat everyone equally, but if you initiate physical contact, male or female I will retaliate with the same ferocity.
the boy is supposed to be locked up for two months before questioning.
He is a very stupid boy.
For the fact that you like what the guy did shows you are not a gentleman.

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by bettermike: 10:36am On Jul 26, 2020
wwwtortoise:
Gender equality is a sham that will keep staggering so long as principled men keep standing their feet.

As a man never try to fully understand a woman.
Women understand women; yet they hate and envy themselves.

Wow. Deep thoughts.

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Nobody: 11:00am On Jul 26, 2020
Gender equality is a scam in Africa. Simps also another problem that needs to be dealt with.

Lalasticlala this ought to be on fp.

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by iObEy(m): 11:14am On Jul 26, 2020
NockMedia:

Whenever a lady tries to get violent with you as a guy, the best thing to do is to walk away from the heat of the moment.
Whenever the man is trying to get violent, the lady should do the same. Afterall na gender equality Dem call am... undecided

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by seanwilliam(m): 11:18am On Jul 26, 2020
engrchykae:
the boy is supposed to be locked up for two months before questioning.
He is a very stupid boy.
For the fact that you like what the guy did shows you are not a gentleman.
you are very stupid.. idiot!

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by bettermike: 11:35am On Jul 26, 2020
engrchykae:
the boy is supposed to be locked up for two months before questioning.
He is a very stupid boy.
For the fact that you like what the guy did shows you are not a gentleman.

Shame on you sis

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by ekaF(f): 12:57pm On Jul 26, 2020
NockMedia:

C'mon man, it doesn't work that way. We both know that ladies are the weaker sex. You're not only at a risk of severely hurting her but you also stand the chance of getting locked up. Regardless of whoever started the drama.

Dude women are not as weak as you think they are. They give birth so clearly they can handle pain. Infact I've read a scientific article that suggests that women have a higher threshold for pain

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Psalmy2cute(m): 1:36pm On Jul 26, 2020
NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.
you're stupid that's all I have to say..

peace...
no worry your turn dey come.. I will see how well you will hold your hands

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Ishilove: 1:48pm On Jul 26, 2020
NockMedia:

Whenever a lady tries to get violent with you as a guy, the best thing to do is to walk away from the heat of the moment.
Wait until she gives you a blinding slap so you can test your own advice.

There is no excuse for violence regardless of the gender. Why is it okay to assault a person but when that person retaliates people start singing the bullshit mantra 'never lay your hands on a woman'?

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Nobody: 1:55pm On Jul 26, 2020
Nockmedia, you're not a simp, nor a pvssy. Don't mind those fooollllssss.
Men like you are what this world needs.
No doubt, some ladies are entitled binshes, nevertheless an eye for an eye will make the world blind.

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by MrSly(m): 2:23pm On Jul 26, 2020
NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.
State your reason for this submission.
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Ent3rpreneur(m): 2:24pm On Jul 26, 2020
ademasta:
Hmmm undecided

Just consider yourself fighting with Yusuf Buhari, whether you are right or not, you will be dealt with by strong forces. That's how it plays out usually.

However, women are weaker vessels, no matter what transpires between you both, it will be perceived as if you are intentionally using naked powers on them. They will surely be listened to.
.
Homer SIMPson

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by pocohantas(f): 2:25pm On Jul 26, 2020
And you had to open a new account to tell this your true life story. Impressive.

That said, they are all mad. I won’t be surprised they brought nothing for the couple. This is why miscreants shouldn’t be allowed into some kind places. No matter how well-dressed they are.

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