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Pierce008:
True gender equality can never exist between a man and woman

Absolutely

30naira:
Today, I attended a wedding ceremony. At the reception, the couple tried to maintain social distancing inside the reception hall, so there were limited seats. Most of the guests were in the open field outside. I sat behind two ladies, who should be in their mid or late twenties. I wasn't really paying much attention to them.

After a while, they left their seat and went out. After about 5 minutes two guys came, and sat down in the empty seats the ladies left. These guy are obviously in their early twenties.

About 30 minutes later, the two girls came back inside, I noticed that one of them has had a change of cloths. So obviously they went home and returned.

The girls demanded that the guys should leave the seat, because they got there first. It is their seat. As expected the guys bluntly refused. The girls started raising their voice and cursing. No one really cared to listen to them, the boys were busy consuming the drinks on the table.

One of the ladies got frustrated by the indifference of the boys, grabbed a glass of juice from the table and threw the content at the guy's face. The guy in turn opened the entire can, got up and started pouring it on the girl's head, ruining her make up and soaking her weavon.

Next thing we saw, the girl grabbed him by the collar with both hands, tearing at his skin with her nails. Before you could say Jack, the guy started raining down slaps on her face, she fought back too.

Before we could rush down, the girl had a bleeding nose and a red swollen face.

Now this is the part that particular offended me. Everyone that gathered round started heaping insult on the boy for beating up a girl, despite the fact that she initiated physical contact. Some women even went as far as threatening to arrest the boy. The entire narrative changed quickly. Some stupid men even tried to beat up the boys. I stood my ground and insisted that if anybody lays a finger on the boy, I ll see to it that everybody is kicked out of the reception.

It took the intervention of the officiating minister to calm the crowd. Everyone was insisting that he would pay for the girl's medical bills. Funny thing is that the guy had finger marks all over his neck. She was sobbing and attracting sympathy left and right, as if she was not the one barking like an animal moments earlier. In the end, it was the guys that were kicked out, the girls had the seat.

I get confused about this gender equality stuff, women want to be treated like men and treated differently at the same time. You can't claim equality only when it suits you. If it were two guys fighting, I'm sure they ll both be kicked out and nobody will spare a thought for the injured, there ll be no sobbing or comforting, it ll just be seen as two people disturbing the peace. But everyone is suddenly acting up to protect an equal specie, who is also the offender, and the females see nothing wrong in this inequality

Do you want equality or not?
Personally I respect and treat everyone equally, but if you initiate physical contact, male or female I will retaliate with the same ferocity.

I am a guy, and this thing has n0thing to do with gender equality. It's just that both parties aren't matured in this situati0n. It's a damn wedding. The minute 0ne party saw the other wanted making a scene out of n0thing, why n0t just walk away? S0me people are just childish sha. What's the fuss over a chair anyway? It's just a chair.

NockMedia:
I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.

shut your mouth.Bleep**g simp

NockMedia:
Whenever a lady tries to get violent with you as a guy, the best thing to do is to walk away from the heat of the moment.

You see things retardedly

To me I think women are meant to be treated with care but this doesn't mean you put all blame on the guy. Both sides needs to be listened to and those guys also ought to prove maturity and allow peace to reign.




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30naira:
Today, I attended a wedding ceremony. At the reception, the couple tried to maintain social distancing inside the reception hall, so there were limited seats. Most of the guests were in the open field outside. I sat behind two ladies, who should be in their mid or late twenties. I wasn't really paying much attention to them.

After a while, they left their seat and went out. After about 5 minutes two guys came, and sat down in the empty seats the ladies left. These guy are obviously in their early twenties.

About 30 minutes later, the two girls came back inside, I noticed that one of them has had a change of cloths. So obviously they went home and returned.

The girls demanded that the guys should leave the seat, because they got there first. It is their seat. As expected the guys bluntly refused. The girls started raising their voice and cursing. No one really cared to listen to them, the boys were busy consuming the drinks on the table.

One of the ladies got frustrated by the indifference of the boys, grabbed a glass of juice from the table and threw the content at the guy's face. The guy in turn opened the entire can, got up and started pouring it on the girl's head, ruining her make up and soaking her weavon.

Next thing we saw, the girl grabbed him by the collar with both hands, tearing at his skin with her nails. Before you could say Jack, the guy started raining down slaps on her face, she fought back too.

Before we could rush down, the girl had a bleeding nose and a red swollen face.

Now this is the part that particular offended me. Everyone that gathered round started heaping insult on the boy for beating up a girl, despite the fact that she initiated physical contact. Some women even went as far as threatening to arrest the boy. The entire narrative changed quickly. Some stupid men even tried to beat up the boys. I stood my ground and insisted that if anybody lays a finger on the boy, I ll see to it that everybody is kicked out of the reception.

It took the intervention of the officiating minister to calm the crowd. Everyone was insisting that he would pay for the girl's medical bills. Funny thing is that the guy had finger marks all over his neck. She was sobbing and attracting sympathy left and right, as if she was not the one barking like an animal moments earlier. In the end, it was the guys that were kicked out, the girls had the seat.

I get confused about this gender equality stuff, women want to be treated like men and treated differently at the same time. You can't claim equality only when it suits you. If it were two guys fighting, I'm sure they ll both be kicked out and nobody will spare a thought for the injured, there ll be no sobbing or comforting, it ll just be seen as two people disturbing the peace. But everyone is suddenly acting up to protect an equal specie, who is also the offender, and the females see nothing wrong in this inequality

Do you want equality or not?
Personally I respect and treat everyone equally, but if you initiate physical contact, male or female I will retaliate with the same ferocity.

NockMedia:
You're not only at a risk of severely hurting her...

Are women incapable of "severely hurting" men?

I dont support beating a lady. But I support anything done to make ladies (and indeed everyone) understand that actions have consequences. Next time, she will reason her emotions before initiating physical abuse.

Some ladies are just so rude and always feel so entitled. I read a comment recently on a thread where a guy said a lady embarrassed him by pulling up his shirt thereby exposing the fact that he held up his trousers using a wire. If for say nah the guy do that kind shit to a lady whether by mistake or not, they'll be shouting harassment and attracting sympathy.

Shedrack777:
you be woman wrapper aswear

As in ehn. Men need to open their eyes.

NockMedia:
I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.

even when she stood up and poured drink on a men? Life no fair, no matter what no woman should pour me drink o... I go slap slap face o but when there is no physical contact you a free to say anything except insulting my parents

NockMedia:
Whenever a lady tries to get violent with you as a guy, the best thing to do is to walk away from the heat of the moment.

It's unfortunate this is how you think...

traware:
If any of the ladies in the OPs story ever behaves towards me the way the OP described,Insha Allah I shall beat her to death

May Allah not permit these kinds of ladies in our lifes.

Minemrys:
I am a guy, and this thing has n0thing to do with gender equality. It's just that both parties aren't matured in this situati0n. It's a damn wedding. The minute 0ne party saw the other wanted making a scene out of n0thing, why n0t just walk away? S0me people are just childish sha. What's the fuss over a chair anyway? It's just a chair.

If only they had asked politely, the guys might have let them have the seat.

stanliwise:
All said and done there is a bend to this issue o.
When ever in life when one find himself in a condition that is hard to narrate or people will not give you a chance, act wisely.

The guy in narration should have poured drinks on her and physically handle her in a way that don’t cause much injuries(Two solid slaps is enough).
But I see some guys tearing ladies clothes and punching ladies in the mouth and pushing them on the ground.
This attitude always leads to sympathy from onlookers.
So anytime we want to scratch our eye make we scratch am with sense.
Me I don’t support not defending ourselves o but let us do it with sense.

I have been thinking on how to balance the equation & you have balanced it for me!

xperiencelove:
That is women my brother. They claim gender equality when the situation suits them and play the weaker being to gather sympathy when they have messed up. Even house wives are worse.

Gbam!

NockMedia:
I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.

You're a big phooooooool

What I'm still trying to figure out.....


Is HOW it became acceptable for women to hit men with no backlash or consequence

How did we normalise this bad behaviour and see it as "no big deal?"

Na wa

hashtagged:
Pig is the only world that can be used for you

pig

Dumbass

ademasta:
Hmmm

Just consider yourself fighting with Yusuf Buhari, whether you are right or not, you will be dealt with by strong forces. That's how it plays out usually.

However, women are weaker vessels, no matter what transpires between you both, it will be perceived as if you are intentionally using naked powers on them. They will surely be listened to.

Have you considered great men that were thoroughly dealt with by women? Just because the man has bluntly refused her sex, probably in the office, and the next thing the woman would do is tear her own clothes to project rape. On this, never expect the man to be listened to. Both men and women will gather to condemn him.

The point is, women are stronger. Take it and be a man, or you leave it and be dealt with.

SIMPs

Alexaonfleek:
Hmm

lol this matter ehn

NockMedia:
I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.

So as a man allow a lady to raise her hand on you. Tueh! Spits

TOPCRUISE:
As a man allow a lady to raise her hand on you. Tueh! Spits

Na your kind Dem dey beat wella �

internationalman:
A Potential simp..

I slapped my girl back the day she slapped me first... Now imagine what would happen if a total stranger girl slaps me..

The only women I don't touch no matter what are pregnant women and very old women..

Exactly man. I can pardon a pregnant woman or an old woman who slaps me. I will just laugh at them. But any woman outside this,you will regret raising your hand. I hate disrespectful women.

Wow! Those guys deserve medals.

AfroKnight:
I’m glad more people are beginning to recognise the FEMALE PRIVILEGE these women have always enjoyed in the guise of being the weaker (or fairer) sex.


That guy needs to be applauded for choosing to pour juice on the idîot of a woman instead of landing her a well deserved slap. He waited until she assaulted him before returning the favour.

Anyway, society has been manipulated into expecting simp behaviour from men. I am not surprised that those other male guests were flexing useless muscles because of a stûpid damsel in distress.

One thing is sure.

She would never in her life raise her hand at any man without counting the cost. I still don’t understand why women would harm a man and be surprised or outraged when he retaliates. I mean! It should be expected. There is an equal and opposite reaction for every action.


Women should pick a struggle. Equal responsibilities or the present preferential treatment they enjoy because of chivalry.

That female priviledge is what has eaten deep into the very fabric of our society. A feminine manipulation that has been passed on from generations to make men SIMPs and Pusssys. We need a reawakening, Men need to wake up and realize that we are gods on earth and we can't be fooled any longer.

Oh so you blame the girls. But if it was girlfriend, you'd defend her. THE WORLD IS BEING DECEIVED >>>>>> WATCH THIS.

traware:
If any of the ladies in the OPs story ever behaves towards me the way the OP described,Insha Allah I shall beat her to death

NockMedia:
I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.

Dnt let rain curses on u dis afternoon...

So if a woman hits me, i shuld leave her

Blacckrod:
Walk away from anyone (be it male or female) who tries to pick a fight with you. It is obvious they lack self respect and in my opinion they are the lesser being regardless of the gender

First transgendered to comment.

Check it: Gender: f
Username: m

She deserves whatever she gets! Masculine women don’t know what is waiting for them. It’s no longer business as usual.

But that guy no get chill o for every gbas, she got a resounding gbos!

So many problem we see today are avoidable.
I am not going to side anyone. If only the guys humbly stood up, we won't be discussing this here today.
Also, if we can imbibe this quote in our in our daily activity, the world will be a better place. NEVER MAKE PROMISE WHEN YOU ARE HAPPY, NEVER MAKE DECISION WHEN YOU ARE ANGRY AND PAUSE FOR A SECOND THOUGHT BEFORE TAKING DECISION.

30naira:
Today, I attended a wedding ceremony. At the reception, the couple tried to maintain social distancing inside the reception hall, so there were limited seats. Most of the guests were in the open field outside. I sat behind two ladies, who should be in their mid or late twenties. I wasn't really paying much attention to them.

After a while, they left their seat and went out. After about 5 minutes two guys came, and sat down in the empty seats the ladies left. These guy are obviously in their early twenties.

About 30 minutes later, the two girls came back inside, I noticed that one of them has had a change of cloths. So obviously they went home and returned.

The girls demanded that the guys should leave the seat, because they got there first. It is their seat. As expected the guys bluntly refused. The girls started raising their voice and cursing. No one really cared to listen to them, the boys were busy consuming the drinks on the table.

One of the ladies got frustrated by the indifference of the boys, grabbed a glass of juice from the table and threw the content at the guy's face. The guy in turn opened the entire can, got up and started pouring it on the girl's head, ruining her make up and soaking her weavon.

Next thing we saw, the girl grabbed him by the collar with both hands, tearing at his skin with her nails. Before you could say Jack, the guy started raining down slaps on her face, she fought back too.

Before we could rush down, the girl had a bleeding nose and a red swollen face.

Now this is the part that particular offended me. Everyone that gathered round started heaping insult on the boy for beating up a girl, despite the fact that she initiated physical contact. Some women even went as far as threatening to arrest the boy. The entire narrative changed quickly. Some stupid men even tried to beat up the boys. I stood my ground and insisted that if anybody lays a finger on the boy, I ll see to it that everybody is kicked out of the reception.

It took the intervention of the officiating minister to calm the crowd. Everyone was insisting that he would pay for the girl's medical bills. Funny thing is that the guy had finger marks all over his neck. She was sobbing and attracting sympathy left and right, as if she was not the one barking like an animal moments earlier. In the end, it was the guys that were kicked out, the girls had the seat.

I get confused about this gender equality stuff, women want to be treated like men and treated differently at the same time. You can't claim equality only when it suits you. If it were two guys fighting, I'm sure they ll both be kicked out and nobody will spare a thought for the injured, there ll be no sobbing or comforting, it ll just be seen as two people disturbing the peace. But everyone is suddenly acting up to protect an equal specie, who is also the offender, and the females see nothing wrong in this inequality

Do you want equality or not?
Personally I respect and treat everyone equally, but if you initiate physical contact, male or female I will retaliate with the same ferocity.