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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by gideonvincent77: 3:07pm On Jul 26, 2020
Oh so you blame the girls. But if it was girlfriend, you'd defend her. THE WORLD IS BEING DECEIVED >>>>>> WATCH THIS.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XipToDxigPQ
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by vickydevoka(m): 3:07pm On Jul 26, 2020
If u are a lady please never u fight or look for guys trouble in dis states in Nigeria; Lagos (main land), Aba n onitcha ( Dem de naked gals for here if den steal).
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by hashtagged(m): 3:07pm On Jul 26, 2020
Zoie:

Dumbass

Pig

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Nobody: 3:07pm On Jul 26, 2020
NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.
never even if she wants to kill you?
you must be insane

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by vickydevoka(m): 3:08pm On Jul 26, 2020
Iyajelili:
I don't care about stupid gender equality but you're bitter towards women and your write up reeks of hate and disgust to the female gender. You should face the lady that turned you to a bitter soul at OP.
U response also show u hate male gender

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by streamsofjoy(f): 3:09pm On Jul 26, 2020
OP na u cause fight. Since you knew the ladies were the first occupants of the sit, why didn't you let the guys know about it so they can decide whether to act honourably or otherwise ( as they did) you wait make fight start just to bear witness that the lady started the fight whereas you could not bear witness of them being the first occupants of the sit. Are you sure you don't have beef for the girls?

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by nurain150(m): 3:09pm On Jul 26, 2020
I wish the internet has a slapping button some men for choppp slap shocked

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by vickydevoka(m): 3:09pm On Jul 26, 2020
Pimpmaride:


Useless advice.... Girl. Slap u, u wan go police station

Ur second name na mugu
Lol. Police self go cause u
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by TOPCRUISE(m): 3:09pm On Jul 26, 2020
Badhabitmusiq:

Na your kind Dem dey beat wella �
It's my kind that fight like a wounded lion as well angry
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Ategberoson(m): 3:09pm On Jul 26, 2020
internationalman:


A Potential simp..

I slapped my girl back the day she slapped me first... Now imagine what would happen if a total stranger girl slaps me..

The only women I don't touch no matter what are pregnant women and very old women..


you mean your gf hit you with slap? what effrontery ? the day I'm even deflowering my fiancé, she mistakenly hit me, what she get back was hot slap in her bom bom


a stranger lady that attempt to do shit with me then in sch end up being fúcked by me. I'm not a misogynist but I don't see lady as anything

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Cuteamigo1(m): 3:09pm On Jul 26, 2020
traware:

If any of the ladies in the OPs story ever behaves towards me the way the OP described,Insha Allah I shall beat her to death cool
please don't beat anyone to death I beg. Lol
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by TheManOfTheYear: 3:10pm On Jul 26, 2020
Zoie:
Nockmedia, you're not a simp, nor a pvssy. Don't mind those fooollllssss.
Men like you are what this world needs.
No doubt, some ladies are entitled binshes, nevertheless an eye for an eye will make the world blind.
You see how gender-war and feminism has blinded you, that you can't see the truth and judge from a fair point of view.

Shame on you.
Go and reevaluate yourself

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by madridsta007(m): 3:10pm On Jul 26, 2020
30naira:


But ladies can raise their hands on a man?

Basically means that we know that "gender equality" talk is all nonsense.
We know it is all nonsense.

But we have to pretend along. Which is sad.
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by InvertedHammer: 3:11pm On Jul 26, 2020
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Never ever beat a lady.

Whatever the lady gives you, return it back.

One slap begets one slap. One push receives one push. That's all.

/
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by InvertedHammer: 3:12pm On Jul 26, 2020
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Never ever beat a lady.

Whatever the lady gives you first, return it back.

One slap begets one slap. One push receives one push. That's all.

/

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by alexola20(m): 3:12pm On Jul 26, 2020
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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by SPDAZZY(f): 3:13pm On Jul 26, 2020
Wow! Just Wow!!

Has anyone ever considered why one of the ladies returned with a changed attire? What if she was stained or something caused her to go home and change?

How would you feel if you return and someone has taken your seat in a place with few seats and lots of people were outside. Did it not occur to the guys that haven seen lots of people outside, that it wasn't a miracle to find empty chairs?

OP, you too didn't try. Why didn't you avert the plenty talk and subsequent fight by informing the guys that the ladies were there earlier? But you could intervene when the matter was already out of control.

That said, the ladies could have resolved it better and not fight despite their frustration. I believe that the guys would have given up the seats if they originally belonged to someone they know was stronger than them. They obviously felt the ladies were not strong enough to challenge them.

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by mkpologwu(m): 3:13pm On Jul 26, 2020
For me, I won't mind defending any lady (even with my life) as long as she proves she is a lady by allowing people to intervene on her behalf.

On the other hand, I won't also mind fighting a lady aggressively if she proves to be a man by starting aggression, though maturity has taught me to walk away and avoid such shemales like bullet.

Having said this, there wont be any equality among humans, whether male/male or male/female. It's a warped world. So just be good.
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by rhymz(m): 3:13pm On Jul 26, 2020
NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.
This is some hypocritical nonsense I hear all the time. As long I am not the aggressor, if anybody hits me, whether male or female, I will reciprocate with an even more ferocious violence. There is a lot of hypocrisy both in men and women that expect any man to react like robots without feelings or emotions to violence meted at them. Unless we are not talking about human beings then we can be talking of some perfect reactions but if you as a woman goes to the extent of hitting a man, don't expect him to respond kindly.....stop this bullshit!!!

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Excuses: 3:13pm On Jul 26, 2020
NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.

Calm down young man..the universe has a way of balancing things around...u'll be surprise the day God will give u an opportunity to prove it differently..

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Boss13: 3:13pm On Jul 26, 2020
NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.

I think this logic is ridiculous and its promotion should stop immediately. Once an individual, regardless of gender, puts their hands on another person, it is called assault and that person deserves to defend himself or herself.

Black women are very aggressive and tend to have more testosterone or depict more masculine nature than women from other races. As a man it would be stupid of me to get into a fight with Anthony Joshua or any man I consider strong enough to beat some senses into me. In this respect, it is stupid of women especially black women to engage in a brawl with a man - what do you intend to achieve from fighting a man?

There are numerous ways to resolve conflicts. A more simpler way is to walk away from the conflict. However, black women would never heed to such advice and want to stick it out. If you are courageous enough to fight a man as a woman than NEVER claim to be a victim. What I won't tolerate is men who instigate fights with women - that's a no-no, but if the woman is the instigator, I think the man deserves to defend himself.

Black women should start acting like proper women and lady like and not men in female bodies.

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by April4th(m): 3:14pm On Jul 26, 2020
NockMedia:


Walkaway from any and every potential confrontation with a lady.

Where is Ubunja? Pls come give this fellow the red pill. grin grin grin

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Liposure: 3:14pm On Jul 26, 2020
benicta:
Some ladies are just so rude and always feel so entitled. I read a comment recently on a thread where a guy said a lady embarrassed him by pulling up his shirt thereby exposing the fact that he held up his trousers using a wire. If for say nah the guy do that kind shit to a lady whether by mistake or not, they'll be shouting harassment and attracting sympathy. angry
correct babe
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by TheManOfTheYear: 3:14pm On Jul 26, 2020
Iyajelili:
I don't care about stupid gender equality but you're bitter towards women and your write up reeks of hate and disgust to the female gender. You should face the lady that turned you to a bitter soul at OP.
Funny how feminists like you overlook the ladies' wrongdoing and instead you are looking for a spec in the dust.

Pele. Why don't you judge the main issue instead of worrying about the OP's feelings?

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by mkpologwu(m): 3:15pm On Jul 26, 2020
SPDAZZY:
Wow! Just Wow!!

Has anyone ever considered why one of the ladies returned with a changed attire? What if she was stained or something caused her to go home and change?

How would you feel if you return and someone has taken your seat in a place with few seats and lots of people were outside. Did it not occur to the guys that haven seen lots of people outside, that it wasn't a miracle to find

OP, you too didn't try. Why didn't you avert the plenty talk and subsequent fight by informing the guys that the ladies were there earlier? But you could intervene when the matter was already out of control.

That said, the ladies could have resolved it better and not fight despite their frustration. I believe that the guys would have given up the seats if they originally belonged to someone they know was stronger than them. They obviously felt the ladies were not strong enough to challenge them.


Warped.....

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Nyamuriflathead: 3:15pm On Jul 26, 2020
purpinkx:


Don't mind them.

And NockMedia is here saying he should have walked away, with juice in his clothes.

And when the same guy meets another woman at the ATM claiming she came before him, he should make way.

And then at the filling station, the supermarket.

Men should always walk away.

Untill women start feeling entitled, every “Good’ man should walk away when a woman start nonsense




The phoooool thinks he's on Twitter or Facebook where they worship women like bloody simps, he does not know that most guys have been redpilled on nairaland. The anonymousity on nairaland makes the opinions of nairaland real and unaldulerated ahswear

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by seunayantokun(m): 3:16pm On Jul 26, 2020
Those men and women who supported the ladies failed to put themselves or their sons in the position of the young man. As a mother to the young man, what woman would have been glad to see her son so treated?

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by otokx(m): 3:16pm On Jul 26, 2020
Interesting story, second time gender equality is coming up today.
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by olowolayemoh: 3:17pm On Jul 26, 2020
NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.

Werey ni Bobo yi sha

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by April4th(m): 3:17pm On Jul 26, 2020
InvertedHammer:
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Never ever beat a lady.

Whatever the lady gives you first, return it back.

One slap begets one slap. One push receives one push. That's all.

/

That’s an “eye for am eye”
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by April4th(m): 3:17pm On Jul 26, 2020
InvertedHammer:
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Never ever beat a lady.

Whatever the lady gives you first, return it back.

One slap begets one slap. One push receives one push. That's all.

/

That’s an “eye for an eye”
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by xynerise: 3:17pm On Jul 26, 2020
NockMedia:

Whenever a lady tries to get violent with you as a guy, the best thing to do is to walk away from the heat of the moment.
Easier said than done

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