Women are chameleon, even in gender equality, and some men na woman nyash, they can support women even when they are wrong. A woman must not drag position with a man, a wise woman knows her place.

30naira:


But ladies can raise their hands on a man?

Can u beat ur wife like that or ur sister beaten in such manner or mother manhandled in such way?
If u have contrary opinion to the above,then shut the fvukup n stop be a bullying.

Opemi93:
I am not in support of what the lady did but in situations like this its better to just walk away, keeping quiet or walking away doesn't make you a coward, so many people are walking but inside they are dead, what if the lady died in the process, the wedding would have bin a disaster and he would have bin living the rest of his life in prison...

Na lie nothing will happen, stop spreading fears... If any lady tries that shit with me i'll kill her and go to jail

NerdyRudeGyal:
The girls were at fault. I'm not going to take their side b/c they're females. They were 100% in the wrong.

1. Them leaving their seats made them available to anyone else, which is what happens in public settings involving seatings. Unless their names were on the chairs, they should've accepted that the seats were no longer theirs once they got up.

2. The physical assault [which is what it is] was started by one of them who threw juice on his face. I don't blame him for retaliating by pouring a can of whatever on her b/c anyone would've done the same thing in that moment. In fact, another dude would've likely hit her after this but he simply did the same thing she did to him, which I'm not going to blame him for at all.

3. The physical assault was further continued by her when she grabbed him and tore his skin w/ her nails, which again, made him retaliate and which I can't blame him for b/c she had gone too far.


Clearly, the girls felt somewhat entitled and Idk why. They were wrong on all three counts.

are you legally inclined

In all, just apply wisdom in dealing with that specie.
They're part of what sweetens the world and they're major contribution to what destroys it.
Just be careful with them.

ademasta:
Hmmm

Just consider yourself fighting with Yusuf Buhari, whether you are right or not, you will be dealt with by strong forces. That's how it plays out usually.

However, women are weaker vessels, no matter what transpires between you both, it will be perceived as if you are intentionally using naked powers on them. They will surely be listened to.

Have you considered great men that were thoroughly dealt with by women? Just because the man has bluntly refused her sex, probably in the office, and the next thing the woman would do is tear her own clothes to project rape. On this, never expect the man to be listened to. Both men and women will gather to condemn him.

The point is, women are stronger. Take it and be a man, or you leave it and be dealt with.

U re a SIMPson bro!!

nurain150:
Those guys Bleep up sha.they should not have exchanged words with them.that would make them look like a fool.stupid gals.
That was how I treated the Bleep up of one pregnant woman.We dey ATM since like 3 hours no show no service others left while others stayed.So this woman from no wh re come dey claim say she dey my front.I agree I even one let am.As the security come talk say make everyone line up.the guy come ask the woman where she dey she continues to talk with pride say na my front she dey .I no talk with her I face the security say e kuku know that have been here since.laz laz I first am withdraw

That is bad, a pregnant woman for that matter. it will take u nothing to allow her withdraw before u. change ur perspective about women, expecially pregnant, elderly and disable ones. respect women abeg and dont u ever raise a hand on any woman no matter what.

TheManOfTheYear:
Awon feminists go avoid this thread like mad

The few ones that manage to comment would be looking for grey areas they can pin to the guy, because they find it hard to admit the ladies were clearly wrong.

Only ìshilove and one other lady commented well.

my joy is that the woman would weigh the cons and pros before hitting a man next time

Nyamuriflathead:



Rightful owner of which seat? The one they brought from home abi?
So you expected everyone to have left the seat unoccupied 30minutes after which they left for home abi? Na people like unna dey join two line for queue, rush enter any one we dey pay quick. Ndiara

Well I don't think there's a hard and fast rule regarding rightfully reserving a seat. Bros abeg na me dey there, and some considerate ones would stand up for you. I have seen that happen again and again.

With that being said, why is it that no one is calling the OP for keeping quiet? At least he ought to mediate when both parties were arguing, shouldn't he? Even if the guys would not listen, he should at least have spoken to them telling them that the ladies were seated there before.

I'm quite sure that guy left happier than the girl. It was the girl's day that got messed up by herself.

nurain150:

You get sense but at the same time lack sense...the day my crush in highschool raised her hands i no ESISTATE TO RESTRAIN.

The day u try raise a hand on a woman in pubic the day ur face will be disfigure by other men like u b4 locking u up. who does that to ladies in this time and age

30naira:
Today, I attended a wedding ceremony. At the reception, the couple tried to maintain social distancing inside the reception hall, so there were limited seats. Most of the guests were in the open field outside. I sat behind two ladies, who should be in their mid or late twenties. I wasn't really paying much attention to them.

After a while, they left their seat and went out. After about 5 minutes two guys came, and sat down in the empty seats the ladies left. These guy are obviously in their early twenties.

About 30 minutes later, the two girls came back inside, I noticed that one of them has had a change of cloths. So obviously they went home and returned.

The girls demanded that the guys should leave the seat, because they got there first. It is their seat. As expected the guys bluntly refused. The girls started raising their voice and cursing. No one really cared to listen to them, the boys were busy consuming the drinks on the table.

One of the ladies got frustrated by the indifference of the boys, grabbed a glass of juice from the table and threw the content at the guy's face. The guy in turn opened the entire can, got up and started pouring it on the girl's head, ruining her make up and soaking her weavon.

Next thing we saw, the girl grabbed him by the collar with both hands, tearing at his skin with her nails. Before you could say Jack, the guy started raining down slaps on her face, she fought back too.

Before we could rush down, the girl had a bleeding nose and a red swollen face.

Now this is the part that particular offended me. Everyone that gathered round started heaping insult on the boy for beating up a girl, despite the fact that she initiated physical contact. Some women even went as far as threatening to arrest the boy. The entire narrative changed quickly. Some stupid men even tried to beat up the boys. I stood my ground and insisted that if anybody lays a finger on the boy, I ll see to it that everybody is kicked out of the reception.

It took the intervention of the officiating minister to calm the crowd. Everyone was insisting that he would pay for the girl's medical bills. Funny thing is that the guy had finger marks all over his neck. She was sobbing and attracting sympathy left and right, as if she was not the one barking like an animal moments earlier. In the end, it was the guys that were kicked out, the girls had the seat.

I get confused about this gender equality stuff, women want to be treated like men and treated differently at the same time. You can't claim equality only when it suits you. If it were two guys fighting, I'm sure they ll both be kicked out and nobody will spare a thought for the injured, there ll be no sobbing or comforting, it ll just be seen as two people disturbing the peace. But everyone is suddenly acting up to protect an equal specie, who is also the offender, and the females see nothing wrong in this inequality

Do you want equality or not?
Personally I respect and treat everyone equally, but if you initiate physical contact, male or female I will retaliate with the same ferocity.

Everyone have left something vital and concentrated on the boys and girls misbehavior.

Op you were there when the whole thing started. What did you do to douse the tension at the onset or you wanted to see how it would end?

Are you aware that if any of them had committed murder that you would not be spared?

Continue and make una too continue and let op sit one side and be feeling he did well.

That was how I nearly drowned in the river and instead of the mofo I called a friend to help me, he was laughing while I drank the dirty river water.

The world is wicked.

Respect is Reciprocal.. No long cap

gracevile:
no he is a real man imagine if in the heat of the moment he hits her and she dies now story will change. people are walking corpses just try to walk away its hard but its possible

Real men, gentleman, romantic man, responsible man are manipulative terms women use to make bend their principles and become utilities. If she wants to die, let her die we will judge the case in court or out of court. Nonesense

emmyN:
One of the most foolish statements I've come across is, "Never raise your hands on a lady no matter what". How about never raise your hands on any of the gender?

True talk. Gender inequality doesn't affect only ladies. It affects guys as well. Take the issue of rape for instance, no one pays attention to a guy being raped.

NerdyRudeGyal:
The girls were at fault. I'm not going to take their side b/c they're females. They were 100% in the wrong.

1. Them leaving their seats made them available to anyone else, which is what happens in public settings involving seatings. Unless their names were on the chairs, they should've accepted that the seats were no longer theirs once they got up.

2. The physical assault [which is what it is] was started by one of them who threw juice on his face. I don't blame him for retaliating by pouring a can of whatever on her b/c anyone would've done the same thing in that moment. In fact, another dude would've likely hit her after this but he simply did the same thing she did to him, which I'm not going to blame him for at all.

3. The physical assault was further continued by her when she grabbed him and tore his skin w/ her nails, which again, made him retaliate and which I can't blame him for b/c she had gone too far.


Clearly, the girls felt somewhat entitled and Idk why. They were wrong on all three counts.

Abeg DM me your number or any Avenue to.collect recharge card for the data when you use type this wise words. Glad to see the are still objective and sane people like you.

30naira:


But ladies can raise their hands on a man?

Gender equality is a scam!

Never touch a lady as a man especially here in Nigeria.

NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.

O yeah. Just let her batter you and wait for the ambulance to take what remains of you to the hospital. That's how to treat her like a lady

mariahAngel:


That was what some men thought until they lost their lives.

You've been making sense even before Nigeria got her independence. By the way, tell me the mod that banned your other moniker, let me prepare a hot e-slap I'll send him/her in case Arsenal wins Watford with at least 7 - 0 margin today.

NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.

This is stupid, and moronic

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NockMedia:

Whenever a lady tries to get violent with you as a guy, the best thing to do is to walk away from the heat of the moment.

Not only are you a simp. But a cowardly one at that.

People like you are the reason women now feel they can do anything and get away with it.

I keep saying it, women have shot themselves in the foot with the feminist movement.

You guys want equality right?

Be our guest!

I think everyone regardless of gender should avoid starting or getting into a fight unnecessarily.

What if the guy was one crazy cultist who walks away only to go and arrange a more violent attack against the lady as payback.

We have seen all sorts of news of violence against people (women inclusive) and wondering what on earth could have motivated such inhuman acts.

The moral here is: let everyone be cautious with outbursts of anger as you may never really know what the other party may be capable of.

It is not everyone that takes an embarrassment lightly.

Worst of all- it is not everyone that forgives easily!

nexta007:
Frankly, I don't support violence of any kind. I don't also condone taking advantage of one's gender (particularly being female) to win cheap points and sympathy. If your narrative is true, then it's unfortunate. All this feminism rubbish with the advent of social media and a collapsing foundation of true Value, I don't see a way out yet. Our parents have failed woefully. If our parents'focused more on raising balanced kids who knw their place and worth and are disciplined, we won't have such issues. Well, let the gentleman always be it. Seek ways to ward off such ladies without a physical confrontation.

pocohantas:
And you had to open a new account to tell this your true life story. Impressive.

That said, they are all mad. I won’t be surprised they brought nothing for the couple. This is why miscreants shouldn’t be allowed into some kind places. No matter how well-dressed they are.

Condemn those women or shut the fvck up.

CorGier:
I blame this generation of our contemporary fathers. If they had learned how to check the excesses in their wives and daughters like their own fathers, and grand fathers did, we wouldn't be in this mess.

They pandered to every wimp and caprices of their women, they had no qualms trading off their son's birthrights for a whiff of the vaginas of girls half their age. In the end all they could contribute to society is raising up entitled, self-centered cùnts as daughters, and degenerate wánkers as sons whose lives and sense of worth is centered around pleasing women. These set of morons, created this misandristic monster laced as feminism that would spell the death of modern society as we know it. Our fellow men, including that fat beta ugly fùcker with greasy fingers sitting beside you right now or on your TV screen IS the problem.

He gave up jobs meant for you, to a vagina. Your inheritance and birthright, went to a vagina. The funds meant for good roads, social amenities, good health care, proper education, etc - he spent it all on a vagina.

.. Hilarious

NockMedia:

Sorry bro, I don't know how to argue. I'm a queen. And queens don't argue

Fixed that for you, pussy-ass Simp!

It's either you're a female pretending to be a male online or you're just a brainless mangina with broken balls

Oladayo12:
The guy is wrong, nothing i reapeat nothing whatsoever warrant you to raise a hand on a woman. if you do such to your wife then let it end at the four corner of your house

Mr Man keep quiet.. men like you are the ones who embolden women to assault guys in public. I don't derive pleasure from assaulting women, but u just can't afford to give these women hints that such abysmal behavior wouldn't attract any purnishment because women would abuse it.
My gf once asked me what I would do if she slaps me, I told her bluntly that I'll kill her. Now tell me, will she even want to attempt raising her hands any day on me or any guy? Why because she knows there are grave consequences that comes with such brazzen display of defiance and stupidity. Even if you won't touch her, you don't go about saying "ill just walk away". Otherwise she'll kill u someday, believing nothing will happen... You need some redpillz ASAP

NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.

the thing is he's not a man. He's a boy