NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.

NockMedia:

Whenever a lady tries to get violent with you as a guy, the best thing to do is to walk away from the heat of the moment.

repogirl:
No, women should never resort to such brazen manners...However, if one does, kindly do not retaliate.

Even in boxing and wrestling, both fighters are evenly paired... It wouldn't be fair if a stronger one is paired with a weaker one... It's inequal and unfair.

The lady was wrong for what pouring the drink on him and I trust if the guy had not retaliated, he would have received all sympathy from everyone and the girl would have been reprimanded.

That females want to be treated equally does not mean we are no longer females... Physiologically, most men have an advantage physically over most women. When you have such advantage, use it wisely.

And the quest for equality is not of equal strength to men... It's more about opportunities. We are still females, not males.

Even if an elder kid beats up a smaller kid when the smaller one was the one who started it, who who gets all the sympathy? This is not about equality... It's about using one's sense.

NockMedia:

LOL I just see things differently.

NockMedia:

Whenever a lady tries to get violent with you as a guy, the best thing to do is to walk away from the heat of the moment.

NockMedia:

LOL two wrongs don't make a right.

NockMedia:

Sorry bro, I don't know how to argue. I'm a king. And Kings don't argue.

foolbuster:


But its ok for a man to beat a weaker man since they are both grown men, right?

Look at how ridiculous you sound, just because you are female, you are desperately fishing for reasons to justify whats wrong. Common sense out the window.

Don't go and hit a guy ooo and expect everything to be fine with you because you are female. Not every man is stupid enough to have been brainwashed by that feminist nonsense.

MNDY:


And what of the humiliation involved? Do you know that in life, everyone respects himself/herself well enough to avoid humiliation, especially in public. It is very serious that an individual can even be ready to go to jail for protecting his/her ego.

Women under the guise of equality have taken it upon themselves to shame men at every opportunity and most men will not take it.

NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.

NockMedia:

LOL I just see things differently.

engrchykae:
the boy is supposed to be locked up for two months before questioning.
He is a very stupid boy.
For the fact that you like what the guy did shows you are not a gentleman.

daddymummy:


I have observed that men who have difficulties in getting women( as girl friend or just to sleep with) are always the ones who defend women the more.

I have seen that the more you get girls (either as girl friend or just to have sex),the more you will detest them because of what you will discover about them.

It is an irony and I do not blame you.

But i also blame men for how women are treating them.

A woman slaps a man and the man retaliates,

before you know it other males have come to join hand and beat up the man.

Why would'nt women be behaving that way?

They would think 'Let me deal with him and if he retaliates, it is his fellow males that will deal with him'

They know that males are not united,that is why they are doing all those things.

Women are united and no woman will treat her fellow woman unjustly because of a man.

But men are too ashamed to be united.

To males,being united makes them less of a man.

Males are too ashamed to stand up for their right.

That is why every advert that shows demeaning scenes(like someone having smelling mouth) always uses male pictures.

Women writers in newspapers can write terrible things about men and men will be supporting her and encouraging her.

They feel too ashamed to ask such women to stop insulting them.To men,doing so will make them feel less masculine

But if a man writes anything terrible about a woman in any national daily ,women will rise up to call him to order.

And no woman will support/encourage the man.

That is why every thing demeaning is always done to the male gender without thinking twice.


MALE ARE TOO ASHAMED TO HAVE DIGNITY IN ANYTHING THAT INVOLVES WOMEN.

THAT IS THEIR UNDOING.

That is why a woman will not think twice to say that a man must not retaliate when he is victimized by a woman.

She will say it without being ashamed of herself.

How can she be ashamed of saying such, when men are too ashamed to have dignity when they see women?

obowunmi:


You my friend are a MAD person. how can you advocate that a man beat up a woman ? the men should have been gentlemen and given up their seats for the women. Its only polite.

repogirl:
You want to go to jail rather than be humiliated? Smh!

Besides, I don't see anything humiliating in this story. The girl behaved badly, but the guy worsened the situation... I hope fear of humiliation that's not even there, will not make some people commit murder o.

Anyone can try to shame anyone. You have the power to either accept it or not... There's nothing to be ashamed of if you're not doing anything bad or illegal nah. Who ego epp sef?

Infact it is a guy who beats a girl to pulp that should be ashamed. He is an Agbaya.

Oladayo12:
Try that to any lady in the public and see how u gonna be beaten blue black by other guys sef, they will teach you that you don't do such to a lady no matter what she did to you.

purpinkx:


Don't mind them.

And NockMedia is here saying he should have walked away, with juice in his clothes.

And when the same guy meets another woman at the ATM claiming she came before him, he should make way.

And then at the filling station, the supermarket.

Men should always walk away.

Untill women start feeling entitled, every “Good’ man should walk away when a woman start nonsense

Walk:
I won't wait till he slaps her, i'll do it myself. That's really disrespectful to my man. Most girls never respect themselves in public. No girl will disrespect my man.

Samfloxin:

Let her pray I don't have my brothers with me cos we will beat her and her brothers until blood starts oozing out of their noses.

NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.

beauty7:
The truth is that as a lady,I protect males whenever a woman tries to victimize them.

Women do so also.

A woman cannot stand and see a fellow woman causing pain to a man.

She would protect him.

I cannot stand and see a fellow woman victimizing a man.

I will surely feel the need to protect him.

I believe the same thing happens with men:They tend to protect women against men victimization.

In fact,the truth and nothing but the truth is that every body tends to protect the opposite gender against victimization by her/his own gender

I believe most of the organizers in the wedding were males that is why the lady had the upper hand in the fight.

The reverse would have been the case if most people that matter in the wedding were female.

I believe that this desire to protect the opposite gender is unconsciously dedicated to the assumption that the opposite gender is weak.

Forget about the usual stereotyping, women see males as the weaker gender just as every man sees us as a weak gender.

Women recognizes so much weakness in males which males do not know.

just as so many women are always wondering why men say that women are weak.

It is because men easily recognize our weakness which we do not know and we do not even admit that it is a weakness.

Walk:
I won't wait till he slaps her, i'll do it myself. That's really disrespectful to my man. Most girls never respect themselves in public. No girl will disrespect my man.

NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.

traware:

If any of the ladies in the OPs story ever behaves towards me the way the OP described,Insha Allah I shall beat her to death

pocohantas:
And you had to open a new account to tell this your true life story. Impressive.

That said, they are all mad. I won’t be surprised they brought nothing for the couple. This is why miscreants shouldn’t be allowed into some kind places. No matter how well-dressed they are.

thotsofnaij:
[s]The truth is the guys were wrong. If a white woman had left here seat and come back the guys would have respectfully stood up. They won't do that for the ladies here because they see them as black.

WAIT! what i'm saying is the guys should have behaved like gentlemen towards the ladies (who knows what good things would have come out of it). They could have just said I didn't anyone was sitting here and the ladies might have said sorry we didn't leave anything here or that person over there saw us leave for a brief moment.

Slapping the lady is not manliness. You get no points for that. It just shows how lowly we see our women which is what women are fighting against.[/s]