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Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by UDUJ(m): 2:52pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
OluwaLina1: Your sister is right. They should save up and rent an apartment of their own even if it's a one bedroom apartment. 5 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by REDBUNNY(f): 5:16pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
But why on earth would a man get married and move his wife into his family house, his father's house. Any man who does that is not ready to be married. I can't even imagine living with my parents right now talk more of getting married and living in his own family house with his family. No way. 5 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by sexy74(m): 6:00pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
luxx24:I am serious and mean it even if it’s the other way round . |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by sexy74(m): 6:02pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
chiddyok:When it comes to age am older than you are, I am talking based on wisdom and experience am not a social media bully, troll or warrior. Am married and if you are, am older than you in marriage. He staying with the mother or the mother staying with him is not an issue. If you had said he does not have a trade or does not earn an income that would have been different but staying with the mum not an issue at all. You don’t know what they might have gone through together . I rest my case. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Ishilove: 7:07pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Kai. The word 'simp' has suffered in the hands of Nairaland male users. 9 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Joshmanuel10(m): 10:05pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
This is very simple If he plans on building a house they can get married after he has completed the house Since they love each other they can both come to a simple understanding If she wants to live with him in face me I kill u its a good decision But marriage ain't man mom and wife This isn't india 6 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:06pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Yes she is doing the right thing. Every woman wants to have her own kitchen in her husband's house and not share a kitchen with her mother-in-law. If the groom to be isn't buouyant enough to rent an accommodation what's he doing getting married? And what's your sister doing getting married to a man who can't provide a roof over his own head not to talk of her own? Or is your sister already pregnant for him? When the children start coming are they going to be borrowing to take care of the kids? Trust me, once she moves into her mother-in-law's house, the husband will not leave that house anymore. Your sister will become their housemaid. 12 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:07pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Maybe the fiancés mum is harsh.. For me, peace of mind over any other thing. If staying in the family house won't give her peace, let her call it off. The earlier the better. Let the man get an apartment of his own and come back for her if he really means biz. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:07pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
idahme:Pay wetin? Na only mouth and ultimatum she get. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ojaysam25(m): 10:08pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
J111333:How old are you? 8 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by neeyor88: 10:10pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
sexy74: Are you married? 5 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by GboyegaD(m): 10:10pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
If she thinks that is needed for peace in her marriage, she did the right thing. I don't understand why the man is thinking of marriage and already planning to live with his mom. Whatever his reasons are, it makes no sense except if the mom is giving him a flat in her house. As an aside, I wonder how our generation was raised. If our parents were independent right from when they gained admission, I don't understand why many parents still treat their 30+ old kids as babies. That is no love nor pampering and it is only a way of hiding their failure. 12 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by erico2k2(m): 10:11pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
OluwaLina1:well mayN he does not have the money to rent his own place, this is where ur sis should help out, they should use part of the money for the wedding to rent a room then do registry. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Incandescent(m): 10:11pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Truvel: Broke idiot 5 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Enemyofpeace: 10:11pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Village people finally got your sister. Las las na Shiloh or redeemed camp go settle the matter 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by lacasera14(m): 10:11pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
hosemujica:Which one is depend on a lot of things again. A man still tied to his mother apron strings you want another woman to go and join them depending on which things? She should cancel the wedding over and over and over again. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by frank417: 10:12pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Why would a man with no place of his own even consider marriage? Your sister did right bro. 10 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by femibig(m): 10:13pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
You can criticize the guy or the lady all you want. No one is in their shoes, it's only a matter of compromise. Both should have an understanding and come to a compromise. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:14pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
OluwaLina1: ....For this cause shall a man LEAVE HIS FATHER AND MOTHER ...... 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Tango123: 10:14pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
OluwaLina1: As rrported by your sister? Or where you there when he said it? 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:16pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
J111333: Don't mind these girls. I met one barely less than 3 months she was already giving me signs just because I mentioned my mom. They forget they are women too and they will give birth to sons... You don't want to tolerate your mother in law, but you can marry and sleep with her son, the son she trained with her blood and sweat. 9 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by lereinter(m): 10:17pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Elaborate more . . . What of if your sister husband mother was a Florence ajimobi or Aisha buhari would she still do 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Maxxim: 10:17pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
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Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:18pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
zed7: Abi... It's simple, let her look for another man. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by okonyia(m): 10:18pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Your sister is right, but to cancel her wedding is not really what she have done. Now your sister husband to be should be a man and not a Baby, they should have privecy after wedding, not living with the mother inlaw . I think she should involve their marriage counselor and they will find a solution. I wish her good luck 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by dingbang(m): 10:18pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
I support the Lady. 6 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by benjida: 10:19pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Your sister is 100% correct. If the man plans on moving into his mother's house after marriage, then he's not ready for marriage. Period. 7 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:20pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
UDUJ: The guy no get money. You are a man too, you should understand. How did they manage to take the relationship to marriage level without ironing that out first. Maybe na the girl dey hurry am up sef. After they will say men don't want to marry. |
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