PapaNnamdi:
if I get the guy number,


I for tell am,

to stop calling that your sister or seeing her for 2months,

and see who looses,

marriage favours women only,




he will get an apartment now, and 6months later the woman floods the house with her own family members including OP,
all surviving on the man,


rubbish and hushpuppy

lightpurple:

Men plenty everywhere for Nigeria but 80% are complete liabilities and a waste of space. Real men are what’s scarce, and that’s who ladies go for

FredasMumAndI:
She has looked at the situation closely.
She's not against the family, but she sees them living in the family/Mums house for a long time.
1,2,3,4,5,6 years.
No privacy. No allowing the couple just enjoy each others company for the first few years.
Plus your Mum will have other family members coming over, friends etc. Always having people in the house and she having no control over her home.
Also, he doesn't want his Mum to be 'lonely'? This man does not have plan to build his own house yet.
This is not an issue to cancel the wedding over, dialogue is key, renting an apartment is a fair demand, I hope she works and earns income to support the family.

OluwaLina1:
Is My Sister Doing The Right Thing? Please Your Advice Is Needed

Advice needed
Don't mind my typo errors.

My sister cancel her wedding plans all because her husband to~be insists they are going to be living with his mum after the wedding before they will build their own house.

Now,my sister said she won't go on with the wedding plans if he didn't rent an appartment, even if it's face-me-i-slap-you room,she will be okay with it,she won't even mind if the mother come to spend days with them.

Is my sister doing the right thing?

Frenzy01:
Don't mind those people wey dey talk nonsense.. Your sister did the right thing.. What kind of a simp would marry only to be living with his mother, that's very very unnecessary.. If he's not financially buoyant to rent a simple 2 rooms then he shouldn't be talking of marriage at all.
Even the Bible said a man an a woman would both leave their parents house and start a new one by themselves and they 2 will become one

Abso1uteZero:


I said husband.

Read before you type woman.

Mgtowmonk:
no reply that mumu again abeg..
Alot of them don't know that any man that decides to marry a woman in the 21st century is doing her a HUGE favor

Mgtowmonk:
can't your sister rent an apartment with her own money?
The guy is doing her a favor by marrying her yet she still dictating how he should live his life

Frenzy01:
Don't mind those people wey dey talk nonsense.. Your sister did the right thing.. What kind of a simp would marry only to be living with his mother, that's very very unnecessary.. If he's not financially buoyant to rent a simple 2 rooms then he shouldn't be talking of marriage at all.
Even the Bible said a man an a woman would both leave their parents house and start a new one by themselves and they 2 will become one

Mgtowmonk:
can't your sister rent an apartment with her own money?
The guy is doing her a favor by marrying her yet she still dictating how he should live his life

Mgtowmonk:
no reply that mumu again abeg..
Alot of them don't know that any man that decides to marry a woman in the 21st century is doing her a HUGE favor

sexy74:
Your sister never ready marry.
She should try and know the reason why the guy wants it that way and try to reach a compromise.
The guy has known his mother all his life and there might be a strong bond between both of them., she cannot just come and destroy it because he wants to marry her.
That your sister will chase the guys family from him.

Your sister has pride let her keep it to herself .

Mgtowmonk:
can't your sister rent an apartment with her own money?
The guy is doing her a favor by marrying her yet she still dictating how he should live his life

ChristieCrown:


Some of you speak as if a crane ran over your brain cells!

So, getting married as a man means you've done the woman a favour? So your dad did your mum a favour, lest her life would have been in shambles?

Even your sisters' lives are not worth living until a man pity them with marriage?

Were you high while typing that�
smcheeewww

Abso1uteZero:


Women are getting stupider.

It's a shame really.

Chii59:

Like the old hag of your mom who your simp of a father took pity on.

Truvel:
Ur Sister Is A Fool. I Would Advise Dat U Advise Her 2 Accept D Marriage Proposal. She Should Excercise Patience, Otherwise She Would Regret.

Abso1uteZero:


Hopefully, life turns out good for you.

Mgtowmonk:
guy shut up abeg..you think these women will throw you a pity f**k cause you are defending them ?
Quit white knighting !! it makes you look foolish

Mgtowmonk:
guy shut up abeg..you think these women will throw you a pity f**k cause you are defending them ?
Quit white knighting !! it makes you look foolish