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Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Mgtowmonk: 12:11am On Aug 11, 2020 |
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Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Abso1uteZero(m): 12:13am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Mgtowmonk: She's definitely going through stuff. Such bile is always accompanied by mental trauma. Hope she finds peace though. Every body deserves that. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 12:16am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Mgtowmonk:Boy, ten thousand of you can never shame me with my story. Bring a better defense 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 12:18am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Abso1uteZero:Lol. Yeah right. You say women are stupid, I only reminded you that the first woman in your life, your mom must have been quite stupid for you to come to such a conclusion. Simple. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by tomzman: 12:20am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Too many kids on NL these days. Seun really needs to start thinking of how to curb this trend. OP, I am a man and I support your sister's decision 100%. A man that wants to marry into his parent's house is not mature enough for marriage and it's not a matter of age. The only exception I may allow is if the man is an only child and the dad is late. Other than that, let the man get out and start a life with his wife. So let your sister maintain her stand and find a way to make sure the guy gets an apartment of his own before she continues with the marriage. 7 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 12:21am On Aug 11, 2020 |
ArticleBeast:Don't mind that frustrated soul. If not for anonymity he and his ilk enjoy. I'm pretty sure he won't dare vomit this nonsense offline. A lot of demented fellows running amok. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Homguy(m): 12:33am On Aug 11, 2020 |
OluwaLina1:Your sister is smart, you should encourage her fiance to get a place too. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Farki: 12:37am On Aug 11, 2020 |
So many dumb men commenting, your sister did the right thing. 4 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Mgtowmonk: 12:39am On Aug 11, 2020 |
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Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ugoosamm(m): 12:40am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Your sister did well jor. She's seeing what all of us isn't seeing. The guy is a mummy's boy and she wield a great influence on the guy that's why she can't go live the mother in law. Next thing they'll turn her to house maid in the name of marriage. I don't know what these people call marriage sef. She has cancel it very good. She should take a walk and leave that mummy's boy... 7 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 12:47am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Mgtowmonk:Long yawn. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Yrey: 12:51am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Mgtowmonk:Favour indeed .Let him just marry the mother 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Yrey: 12:52am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Abso1uteZero:Carry your wife go your mama house you hear 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Yrey: 12:54am On Aug 11, 2020 |
PapaNnamdi:You know if the op family get cash pass the man? Una go just open mouth waaaa 5 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by cooooooks(m): 12:59am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Lol. People be dishing what they can't eat. Show them pepper! If they yab, yab back! Chii59: 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 1:01am On Aug 11, 2020 |
cooooooks:Of course . And the other fo.ol trying to shame me with my Sickle Cell ,is a clown . They're both nincompoops.. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Anoniemos01: 1:03am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Mgtowmonk: How is he doing her favour by marrying her?? 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by seyithug(m): 1:19am On Aug 11, 2020 |
OluwaLina1:Then, he should marry his Mom. Nonsense. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by seyithug(m): 1:23am On Aug 11, 2020 |
OluwaLina1:Yes, your sister is doing the right thing. It makes no sense, to get married and still live with his mother and wife. That's absolute nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Lifecanbeamazin: 1:28am On Aug 11, 2020 |
She made the right call, trust me. Being married for over 20 yrs so I can tell you from my experience that moving in with parents in-law is a recipe for disaster for any newly married couple. As a family, let her know that she can count on you all. Remember, she's the person getting married not y'all. Best of luck to her. 5 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by vickydevoka(m): 1:38am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Aimerosa25:My cousin did desame thing n she's regretting it. Where she wan get rich fyn guy lyk dat again above all cool, jst because of he wants this brothers to stay on de same compound with Dem untill de get a job, she refused |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by EgunMogaji2: 1:40am On Aug 11, 2020 |
OluwaLina1: Yes. And I didn’t have to read your epistle. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Hangulsaram: 1:48am On Aug 11, 2020 |
zed7:This is not about loving your family, is about doing the right thing. She said she would n’t mind Even if it’s face me I slap you apartment and if the mother in-law comes visiting and stays long. Though the later might be lie but she already knew the family she is going into and I think she want to draw the law already. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Sarang(f): 1:50am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Mgtowmonk: Then don’t marry. But quit typing trash. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Splintinterior: 1:51am On Aug 11, 2020 |
hosemujica:what is she convincing the would be husband for? Doesn't he know that when you plan to get married, you should have a house you call your own that you'll take your wife to -Whether rented or built by you? That she called off the wedding should be a motivating factor that will make him go rent a house if he truly loves the woman he wants to get married to. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Kinikini: 1:54am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Think she is right to insist now than later. Living apart from both parents gives the new couple a better foundation. OluwaLina1: 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Splintinterior: 2:02am On Aug 11, 2020 |
[quote author=OluwaLina1 post=92649527]Is My Sister Doing The Right Thing? Please Your Advice Is Needed Advice needed Don't mind my typo errors. My sister cancel her wedding plans all because her husband to~be insists they are going to be living with his mum after the wedding before they will build their own house. Now,my sister said she won't go on with the wedding plans if he didn't rent an appartment, even if it's face-me-i-slap-you room,she will be okay with it,she won't even mind if the mother come to spend days with them. Is my sister doing the right thing? [/quote your sister has done nothing wrong. A man who plans to get married should have a house he plans to take his wife to after the wedding. It's her choice to call off the wedding and she owes nobody any explanation for calling off the wedding. That she called off the wedding should serve as a motivation for the man to go and get a house outside his family home if he actually loves his wife to be. After all, from your explanation, the wife to be isn't asking him to go rent a palace or something extravagant.] |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by cooltola(m): 2:21am On Aug 11, 2020 |
too harsh considering the economy of Nigeria |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by DSHADOWWALKER: 2:33am On Aug 11, 2020 |
sexy74: This is a very dumb point sha 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by juman(m): 2:41am On Aug 11, 2020 |
If the mother is good woman, there is nothing bad living with her for some time. |
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