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Mgtowmonk:
person wey be sickle cell
Bros, forget the white bright teeth, that lady has serious health problems.

Alot of these lonely old women hang around nairaland hoping to land one fool wey go save them from menopause.
One lucky old hag successfully tricked a very bright, young and good looking guy on nairaland into marrying her.
Her monicker starts from Rom... I won't mention names
I no wan chop ban

She's definitely going through stuff.

Such bile is always accompanied by mental trauma.

Hope she finds peace though. Every body deserves that.

Mgtowmonk:
person wey be sickle cell
Bros, forget the white bright teeth, that lady has serious health problems.

Alot of these lonely old women hang around nairaland hoping to land one fool wey go save them from menopause.
One lucky old hag successfully tricked a very bright, young and good looking guy on nairaland into marrying her.
Her monicker starts from Rom... I won't mention names
I no wan chop ban

Boy, ten thousand of you can never shame me with my story.
Bring a better defense

Abso1uteZero:


She's definitely going through stuff.

Such bile is always accompanied by mental trauma.

Hope she finds peace though. Every body deserves that.

Lol. Yeah right.
You say women are stupid, I only reminded you that the first woman in your life, your mom must have been quite stupid for you to come to such a conclusion.
Simple.

Too many kids on NL these days. Seun really needs to start thinking of how to curb this trend.

OP, I am a man and I support your sister's decision 100%. A man that wants to marry into his parent's house is not mature enough for marriage and it's not a matter of age. The only exception I may allow is if the man is an only child and the dad is late. Other than that, let the man get out and start a life with his wife.

So let your sister maintain her stand and find a way to make sure the guy gets an apartment of his own before she continues with the marriage.

ArticleBeast:

The truth hurts. I ain't part of any shit red pill or whatever you Nairaland kids deceive yourself with. I say the truth regardless of whether it favors the ladies or dudes. I have sisters and wish them the best. If a girl broke your heart in the past don't take it out on me.

Don't mind that frustrated soul. If not for anonymity he and his ilk enjoy. I'm pretty sure he won't dare vomit this nonsense offline.
A lot of demented fellows running amok.

OluwaLina1:
Is My Sister Doing The Right Thing? Please Your Advice Is Needed

Advice needed
Don't mind my typo errors.

My sister cancel her wedding plans all because her husband to~be insists they are going to be living with his mum after the wedding before they will build their own house.

Now,my sister said she won't go on with the wedding plans if he didn't rent an appartment, even if it's face-me-i-slap-you room,she will be okay with it,she won't even mind if the mother come to spend days with them.

Is my sister doing the right thing?

Your sister is smart, you should encourage her fiance to get a place too.

So many dumb men commenting, your sister did the right thing.

.......

Your sister did well jor. She's seeing what all of us isn't seeing. The guy is a mummy's boy and she wield a great influence on the guy that's why she can't go live the mother in law.
Next thing they'll turn her to house maid in the name of marriage. I don't know what these people call marriage sef.
She has cancel it very good. She should take a walk and leave that mummy's boy...

Mgtowmonk:
So let me get this straight,you're calling me a fool because I exposed tricks some of you menopausal old hags use to hoodwink and tie down young guys

Nah wah for you oo
It nots my fault you old hags can't find a decent man nah

Long yawn.

Mgtowmonk:
can't your sister rent an apartment with her own money?
The guy is doing her a favor by marrying her yet she still dictating how he should live his life

Favour indeed
.Let him just marry the mother

Abso1uteZero:
Husband no easy to find o.

She should weigh her options carefully.

Carry your wife go your mama house you hear

PapaNnamdi:
if I get the guy number,


I for tell am,

to stop calling that your sister or seeing her for 2months,

and see who looses,

marriage favours women only,




he will get an apartment now, and 6months later the woman floods the house with her own family members including OP,
all surviving on the man,


rubbish and hushpuppy

You know if the op family get cash pass the man? Una go just open mouth waaaa

Lol. People be dishing what they can't eat.

Show them pepper! If they yab, yab back!

Chii59:

Lol. Yeah right.
You say women are stupid, I only reminded you that the first woman in your life, your mom must have been quite stupid for you to come to such a conclusion.
Simple.

cooooooks:
Lol. People be dishing what they can't eat.

Show them pepper! If they yab, yab back!

Of course . And the other fo.ol trying to shame me with my Sickle Cell ,is a clown .
They're both nincompoops..

Mgtowmonk:
can't your sister rent an apartment with her own money?
The guy is doing her a favor by marrying her yet she still dictating how he should live his life

How is he doing her favour by marrying her??

OluwaLina1:
Real mummy's boy....He said he can't do without his mum

Then, he should marry his Mom. Nonsense.

OluwaLina1:
Is My Sister Doing The Right Thing? Please Your Advice Is Needed

Advice needed
Don't mind my typo errors.

My sister cancel her wedding plans all because her husband to~be insists they are going to be living with his mum after the wedding before they will build their own house.

Now,my sister said she won't go on with the wedding plans if he didn't rent an appartment, even if it's face-me-i-slap-you room,she will be okay with it,she won't even mind if the mother come to spend days with them.

Is my sister doing the right thing?

Yes, your sister is doing the right thing. It makes no sense, to get married and still live with his mother and wife. That's absolute nonsense.

She made the right call, trust me. Being married for over 20 yrs so I can tell you from my experience that moving in with parents in-law is a recipe for disaster for any newly married couple.

As a family, let her know that she can count on you all. Remember, she's the person getting married not y'all. Best of luck to her.

Aimerosa25:
She's right,the guy is a mummy's boy

My cousin did desame thing n she's regretting it. Where she wan get rich fyn guy lyk dat again above all cool, jst because of he wants this brothers to stay on de same compound with Dem untill de get a job, she refused

OluwaLina1:
Is My Sister Doing The Right Thing? Please Your Advice Is Needed

Advice needed
Don't mind my typo errors.

My sister cancel her wedding plans all because her husband to~be insists they are going to be living with his mum after the wedding before they will build their own house.

Now,my sister said she won't go on with the wedding plans if he didn't rent an appartment, even if it's face-me-i-slap-you room,she will be okay with it,she won't even mind if the mother come to spend days with them.

Is my sister doing the right thing?

Yes. And I didn’t have to read your epistle.

zed7:
The question should be is the husband going to take the right decision? Your sister has made her choice. Is the man going to be smart enough to let her go without begging her?

You can't love me and not love my family, there's no point. It's not like they are going to stay there forever, probably to save up some money first. No man who doesn't like his independence, it circumstances that makes people take some decisions.

I'm not saying your sister doesn't have a right to her decisions, the man just has to be wise enough to let her go to avoid future problems.

This is not about loving your family, is about doing the right thing. She said she would n’t mind Even if it’s face me I slap you apartment and if the mother in-law comes visiting and stays long. Though the later might be lie but she already knew the family she is going into and I think she want to draw the law already.

Mgtowmonk:
there is nothing you girls offer in that "scam" called marriage that I don't get as a single bachelor.
You girls know deep within your heart's that it's all a ploy to hoodwink young gullible men into paying your bills.
If it was in the past where there wasn't much technology, then I can say marriage benefits a man...but in the 21st century??
It's a huge rip off!!

Then don’t marry.

But quit typing trash.

hosemujica:
It depends on a lot of things. Man and woman should leave their parents house to live together as husband and wife. Anything other than that for a start is a bad foundation.

The way I'm seeing it, the guy is a mummy's boy, as such won't want to leave his mums side, otherwise the best thing to do is to first of all use the funds for the wedding to get himself accommodation before the wedding proper.

She should try and convince him that nothing comes out of a married guy living in his mother's house with his wife, if the mother comes to visit him every once in a while that's manageable but outrightly sharing the same roof is a recipe for disaster. Meanwhile suspension of the wedding while they talk things over is better than outrightly cancelling it.

what is she convincing the would be husband for? Doesn't he know that when you plan to get married, you should have a house you call your own that you'll take your wife to -Whether rented or built by you? That she called off the wedding should be a motivating factor that will make him go rent a house if he truly loves the woman he wants to get married to.

Think she is right to insist now than later. Living apart from both parents gives the new couple a better foundation.

OluwaLina1:
Is My Sister Doing The Right Thing? Please Your Advice Is Needed

Advice needed
Don't mind my typo errors.

My sister cancel her wedding plans all because her husband to~be insists they are going to be living with his mum after the wedding before they will build their own house.

Now,my sister said she won't go on with the wedding plans if he didn't rent an appartment, even if it's face-me-i-slap-you room,she will be okay with it,she won't even mind if the mother come to spend days with them.

Is my sister doing the right thing?

[quote author=OluwaLina1 post=92649527]Is My Sister Doing The Right Thing? Please Your Advice Is Needed

Advice needed
Don't mind my typo errors.

My sister cancel her wedding plans all because her husband to~be insists they are going to be living with his mum after the wedding before they will build their own house.

Now,my sister said she won't go on with the wedding plans if he didn't rent an appartment, even if it's face-me-i-slap-you room,she will be okay with it,she won't even mind if the mother come to spend days with them.

Is my sister doing the right thing? [/quote your sister has done nothing wrong.
A man who plans to get married should have a house he plans to take his wife to after the wedding. It's her choice to call off the wedding and she owes nobody any explanation for calling off the wedding. That she called off the wedding should serve as a motivation for the man to go and get a house outside his family home if he actually loves his wife to be. After all, from your explanation, the wife to be isn't asking him to go rent a palace or something extravagant.]

too harsh considering the economy of Nigeria

sexy74:

When it comes to age am older than you are,
I am talking based on wisdom and experience am not a social media bully, troll or warrior.
Am married and if you are, am older than you in marriage.
He staying with the mother or the mother staying with him is not an issue.
If you had said he does not have a trade or does not earn an income that would have been different but staying with the mum not an issue at all.
You don’t know what they might have gone through together .
I rest my case.

This is a very dumb point sha

If the mother is good woman, there is nothing bad living with her for some time.