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Re: Update On My Wife & I by Rtk5: 11:43pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:can I talk to you privately pls now on whatsapp? |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:44pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Ishilove: you are right about the above...but if you try to fix it and it ultimately doesnt work, then you must ACCEPT that it is broken and move on. you cant possibly bang your head on concrete hoping for a miracle. 1 Like |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by Rtk5: 11:44pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Ishilove:exactly, pls can we talk privately on WhatsApp? |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by Ishilove: 11:46pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Rtk5:Sure |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by Rtk5: 11:47pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Ishilove:Lemme have your contact & chat you WhatsApp now |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by Ishilove: 11:48pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:Very true, but nowhere has the op indicated that all his efforts have ultimately not worked. So till then, the efforts continua! 2 Likes |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by Ishilove: 11:48pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Rtk5:Send me yours via PM and I will add you. |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:48pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Rtk5: bro, as much as i would love to talk to you privately, i dont give out my private details (never have, never will)...but as there are plenty of intelligent mature people here, post on NL whatever you want to tell me, as we are all here to give our opinion (whether good or bad) and you should listen to everyone's view. it will help you greatly. |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by Rtk5: 11:50pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Ishilove:how does the on work? direct me |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by Ishilove: 11:50pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:He didn't exactly give us the 411 on their issues. He only let us know that she is acting the fool, and he has acted the fool in the past, and they have sacrificed greatly for each other. 1 Like |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by Rtk5: 11:51pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:sorry I was referring to ishilove not you 1 Like |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by davidhobo: 11:52pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Rtk5: If you are really serious, pack her things and parcel them to her . Why do you want her to come back to your house to pick her things, so you will see her one last time.? Do the needful, if you want her gone. However, i must sound a note of caution for you. To get wife no easy, girlfriend plenty. And this one is wife, not girlfriend, better go and resolve your issues. You will be shocked how to get new wife, wey u love go hard you. And as a kid is involved, you may not even understand the rsmifications till children from different mothers start fighting for inheritance while you are alive. Give your self sense o 3 Likes |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:56pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Ishilove: yeah but let us not forget the below... - she left their family home out of her own will - she deprives this man of his family - she deprives this man of his child - no contact whatsoever for a week therefore expecting HIM to go and beg her to come back? |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by Rtk5: 11:59pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:That's it brother, like I've gone after her severally to their family house in the past. This time around I went to work & she just sent me a text that says, I'm going with our son, whenever youvwantvus back come & get us. |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:04am On Aug 15, 2020 |
Rtk5: bro, contact your wife and ASK her to come back home so that you guys can work out the problems that you may have "as a family"... if she refuses, then you can either A) go on your knees and start begging her to come back (as if you sent her away) and accept that from now on, she is in charge and you are her puppet that she can do what she pleases with or B) tell her that since she is not willing to come back, then you will send her belongings back to her... so she can be comfortable wherever she may be. then you accept her decision and move on with your life until the day she gets her sense back, and you guys can sit down and communicate like adults. she is using your family/child as emotional blackmail! 3 Likes |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:08am On Aug 15, 2020 |
Rtk5: what was her reply when you asked her WHY she left?!?! lol, if she wanted to be with you then she wouldnt leave to begin with... so going to get her back wont solve anything. you have to dig deep and solve the MAIN ISSUE 1 Like |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by Rtk5: 12:18am On Aug 15, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:I text her saying "i cant come after you cos i never drove you away, you choose her path & that of your child but she didn't reply. |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:21am On Aug 15, 2020 |
Rtk5: i guess she wants you to go there and beg her to come back home, as if you didnt want her there (from the get go) |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by Rtk5: 12:23am On Aug 15, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:She said she knows I'm not coming after her to take her back. What must have hindered her from calling for a whole week? My neighbors have been asking after her, i just kept on answering with "she traveled". |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by Rtk5: 12:26am On Aug 15, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:Do you think she's still interested in the marriage? I also think shes getting a wrong advice coming from somewhere. |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by Rtk5: 12:31am On Aug 15, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:I also want to ask you two good questions 1. Is it proper to bring a new girlfriend to my house when she hasn't packed her things yet & I'm assuming she has moved on? what do you think it will portray to her, her family & my neighborhood. 2. What do you think is being discussed in her family house |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by NiCurious: 12:47am On Aug 15, 2020 |
Your questions to Mr. Brown Jay: 1. It is not proper to bring a new girlfriend home with your wife's belongings still there. 2. If you want to know what is being discussed, call and find out. The question that nobody has asked, but which I wonder about: what "little issue" caused her to leave? 2 Likes |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by Rtk5: 12:51am On Aug 15, 2020 |
NiCurious:just a little argument & we started keeping malice. That's all. Then what if she doesn't come to pick her things anytime soon? If I return her things myself, they'll have an edge to say I chased her away that's why I want her to come pack by herself so I'll be clean |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by NiCurious: 1:21am On Aug 15, 2020 |
Rtk5: If it was seriously just a little argument, like whose turn it was to shut off the generator, and you both started keeping malice after that...you are both not ready to be married!!! But I wonder how a "small matter" would be enough to make her pack the child and leave the house. If you don't want her back, you can simply call or text her to ask her to pick up her things. That way she will know you don't want her back, and that way you are not packing her things, yourself, and won't be seen to be "chasing her away". But that's hasty. Basically she told you to call her when you have cooled down, and are ready for her to come back. You have yet to call her, though, so I guess you haven't cooled down yet. You seem confused, and don't know what you want...you miss her, but you are also talking about a girlfriend...this is the time that you really need to reflect on yourself; reflect on who you are, both when you are by yourself and when you are in a relationship; what your weaknesses are; what you want from a relationship; and what you can do to work on yourself, so that you can be in a healthy relationship. It takes two to be in a relationship or marriage, but you can only work on yourself. Seems to me you are greatly concerned about what "other people" think, and I'll call that false pride. As I think someone else already said, if your actions are just and honest "before God" first, what other people might think after that, doesn't matter. 3 Likes |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by frozen70(f): 2:50am On Aug 15, 2020 |
Rtk5: From the look of things, tbe love wasn't really there and from onset, instead of the love to grow, it was left unattended and boom, it's fading away Anyway, it does happen You are finding it difficult to move on, just because she has a child for you and not even for love Even if you want to move on and remarry, you still have to inform the family that you are done with her and demand for your bride price, if anything if that was paid But I believe it hasn't gotten to that yet If you want to start bringing a woman to your house because you feels she is also enjoying herself with another man, just pack whatever you think is her belongings to one corner of the house, since seeing them hurts you Let that woman be informed about what is on ground Make sure they don't fight when they meet themselves there since you have not officially separated from her You don't want to yo for her because she has been doing so and this time around you don't care She doesn't want to come back for reasons best known to her This life is supposed to be simple, just follow your heart |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by Ishilove: 7:04am On Aug 15, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:Na so marriage dey be sometimes. Calculated acts of senselessness. That doesn't mean he should jump ship. |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by Deffjam: 7:27am On Aug 15, 2020 |
Rtk5:call her mom and explain......never you apologize. |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by Haywhymido(m): 7:52am On Aug 15, 2020 |
Rtk5:find the oldest man in your wife family that you know you mother in law respects and speak with him. For the mother not to have try to contact you to hear your side as an elderly person speaks much. Dont meet with the mother, they will disgrace you, you will fear. |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by Haywhymido(m): 8:11am On Aug 15, 2020 |
Rtk5:childishness and immaturity of the highest order. she still sees herself as someone in a relationship not marriage. Try your best to reconcile this last time for your son if not for anything and let her know that, that should be the last time this should happen if she wants the marriage to work. Make this known in front of her family and yours possibly. God forbids she try it again send her belongings to her and divorce her and move on. No let any woman who is not your mother give you HBP. |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by Rtk5: 8:57am On Aug 15, 2020 |
Haywhymido:Honestly bro... I really love her but I'm also ready to move on though it isn't going to be easy. |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by Nobody: 9:11am On Aug 15, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:Ishilove is on point. I was initially angry at his wife but then, one has to put aside pride to make love work. Pride is very dangerous. I've seen it destroy things, valuable things. @Op, your wife is giving place to the devil. Do all you can to see how you can fight for your home, before it is too late. Finding love is hard, making it work is harder and sometimes you just got to be a fooll for love. |
Re: Update On My Wife & I by Nobody: 9:16am On Aug 15, 2020 |
Rtk5:1. Are you seriously talking about a girlfriend? Seriously? Thought you said you loved your wife. I know it must be hard, you have needs, but a girlfriend will only complicate issues. 2. Why don't you go and visit, maybe this time around, take your father or uncle or even pastor along with you? 1 Like |
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