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Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by sixtusn: 8:23am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Where do you stay? If you start something doing as a job or business and making money, will you still give your Child out for adoption? I don't know how to reach or contact you so you start making a living for yourself and your daughter. Ensure you put your trust in God. Don't do something that you will live to regret. Contact me. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by RosyIsBlessed: 8:23am On Aug 17, 2020 |
milanseedorf: And it's delusional not to weigh the negative sides as well, especially now that the world in general is more on the sides of negativity than the positive sides. How are you sure the home is a stable home? It's this same assumption that made her fall pregnant to that man. The best option is to hand this over to child welfare who will take it up from there than giving that innocent child to someone she's not 100% sure of and I pray the op doesn't follow this your advice because she's the one that will regret it. Either that or she provides details so I and probably others, can assist her to start something sustainable for her daughter and herself. Giving up her child to someone she's not very sure of should never be an option. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Mamahvic(f): 8:23am On Aug 17, 2020 |
I really feel for you. I wished I can help. Pls don't despise the word of Righteousness89. Also locate the human right activist too. Pls house, anyone that can help her go about activists or lawyer that offers pro bono services should help as she.may not know how to go about it. For all those condemning her, saying Jesus was.not there when she spread her legs, May God forgive you. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by ceereelee: 8:24am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Graxie:Sister, the pattern has been set from all eternity. God has given men a will and even Himself will not violated that protocol. He said "come unto me and i will give you rest" so it is left for you to come. I have seen men who were at the verge of committing suicide turn to him and were saved(from the guilt of their past and then eternally) But if you think otherwise then may God help you 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Uniquewise: 8:24am On Aug 17, 2020 |
PAGAN9JA: The fool has said in his heart, "There is No God". Psalm 14.1 "For by your words you are justified, and by your words you are condemned" Matthew 12.37 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by fem12: 8:24am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Please I need a female companion that can be staying with my mom preferably btw 18 -25 years Immediate employment (Location)Ojo Badagry 40k 08136098277 whatsapp only..... 080908457474 call Please kindly apply for this job and explain yourself if they can allow u cme with your daughter.... Also need to be prayerful to break the curse.... |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by UcLloyd: 8:26am On Aug 17, 2020 |
fem12: OP should apply for this |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Openbusiness: 8:30am On Aug 17, 2020 |
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Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Audiodonation: 8:39am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Hello Op@ It's a pity such befell you, but life must still go on. Just as someone said here, "If the foundation is not properly checked; there will be another catastrophy. Please take the pain and break the chain that is getting thicker and longer........... Here is a picture you aren't seeing..... Something happened to your mother. Samething happened to you. Samething I looking at your daughter How are you sure samething didn't happen to your grandmother Just a question. Here is your solution..... Go spiritual Break the family chain/curse Get Financial assistance. Mizflo: |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by olanrewaju99(m): 8:39am On Aug 17, 2020 |
This matter is beyond NGO or CHURCH welfare because that will take time and it will make matter worst. We all can save the lady by donating any amount each of us can afford from there she can rent a room and start a pretty trade. OP post your account details preferably you own bank account, if you don't have one, you can open one cos using relative or close friend account is not an option. Prayer is good but your little financial assistance will go a long way and hopefully change life for better for her. I know we all have our financial challenges but to save the little 5years old girl from adoption our collective assistance is needed.... 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by IamaNigerianGuy(m): 8:39am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Email me |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by JOSH54: 8:39am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Donbigi2:it was not u i wanted to reply but i did it base on mistake. I know u are on her side |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by switosman(m): 8:41am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Pls if you know the details of the father of your daughter, like his name and contact address, even former address Find out about welfare department in your location report the man. Welfare will help that child. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by frankyfranky(m): 8:43am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Don't give up, there's always a road at the end of every road... Option 1 There's nothing wrong in giving up ur baby for adoption, but u must do it legally otherwise u will regret... Option 2 If u are in Delta state I have a place u can stay n be selling things that can feed both of u... *Free Accomodation. *Free sch for ur baby *Cash to start up a small business. If u are interested lemme know. NB.. I reside in the F.C.T but na Delta I get power to do such things for una. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Renegadefrank(m): 8:47am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Never give your child up for adoption. I empathize with you for you've really gone through hard times. Find a new place to work even though it might not be easy. You'd have to try for the sake of your daughter. Since you have it in mind that she wouldn't grow up like you did, do everything possible for her to eat daily but never give her up. You do that and you'll be continuing the crazed cycle of abandonment from your family. Be her Father and Mother and God help you find a suitable job or handwork for both your sakes. I really hope you find good help. Best wishes 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Openbusiness: 8:47am On Aug 17, 2020 |
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Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by GreenDee(f): 8:48am On Aug 17, 2020 |
goldenboyofpsy:swears.. and baba even block her too.. chai, trouble plenty for this world oo |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Nobody: 8:50am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Only Jesus can set you free. It's a chain and may go through many generations if care is not taken. All my five sisters except the last born who is still young got children outside wedlock, and this started with my grandmother. I don't know about her ancestors. Not until they repent or their children, the children are likely to go the same way. I didn't follow the same route because I encountered Christ in my secondary school days. Start by giving your life to Jesus and the foundation for a meaningful life will begin. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Bosch10(m): 8:56am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Mizflo:can a creature make war against his/her creator?u can only find solace in God,not man.do what righteousness 89 told u and be at peace with your creator for once.God bless u |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Cyosaro: 9:09am On Aug 17, 2020 |
There’s nothing bad in adoption if done the proper way. Try to know the family. Anyone who maltreats his or her adopted child will regret it but I doubt if they will even do that because that child is hundred percent theirs. I have so many adopted kids in my neighborhood and they are well taken care of even more than those with biological parents. They attend the best schools, travel overseas every year etc. Like I said earlier it all depends on their parents especially if they don’t have any other child or if they are financially stable. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Aghaclem67: 9:11am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Mizflo:There are still good people in Nigeria despite what is happening. There are a lot of childless couples wanting to adopt children they can cater for. You want the best for your daughter and you cannot afford to give her the best. Make enquiries about the woman who wants to adopt her. If she is a good woman, go ahead and allow her to adopt your daughter, if your enquiry says otherwise then forget it and struggle to give her the best you can. If eventually you agree to the adoption ensure you pay them visits once in a will to see how she is faring. However whatever advice you are given here, the final decision and choice is yours and whichever decision you take is right. Wish you well. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Enemyofpeace: 9:13am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Do it and you will forever regret it. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Nobody: 9:13am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Righteousness89: Goodness! Guy, you must be very anal. Is Jesus going to come and adopt her daughter? |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by zivility: 9:17am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Mizflo: It's so unfortunate u think so, you can lose faith in church or religion but not in The Lord Jesus. Your decision to give up you child is ok and I pray you child finds a good home and you find your feet in this life. Amen |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Mires: 9:21am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Mizflo: I will quote you for the second time. Your sense of judgement is so awkward and goes a lot to speak what is happening in your family. Jesus is the only way in addition to my first advise where I mentioned you earlier and gave you detailed steps on how you can turn around your situation. Someone advised you when you spit this, that Job, Joseph, Sarah, Hannah, etc passed through a lot. Yet, with Jesus Christ, they all came out strong. I am one of them,. For the past four years, it has been battle. You won't understand. Friends have deserted me. Family members have all ran away. But one thing is certain. Jesus is still with me. I live in a comfortable abode without any form of illegitimate financial dealings all my life. Eating good meal daily despite that I have not work for the past four years. Above all, I have not begged anyone N1 or come to nairaland to say please help me with N1. I have not gone to any church to begged N1. Neither have I reached out to any pastor or prophet to give me N1 since I have a greater pastor and prophet in Christ Jesus. At least, I can still live comfortably for the next fifteen years. It is all about Jesus Christ. Neighbours are asking where does he get money from? Whenever I overheard it, I tell them, Jesus is the source. He promised me i will never begged all the days of my life. Like someone advised you here when you spit what angered my spirit man, mind your utterances against the holy spirit. Blasphemy against the holy spirit can not be forgiven. Shalom. If you like, take my counsel. A word is enough for the wise. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Nobody: 9:23am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Mizflo: Please ignore those who are telling you, Jesus this, Jesus that. These same people won't go to Jesus if they were in your shoes. Sorry about your situation. Please, if you can help it, don't give your daughter away just yet. The place you're staying at now, seems the woman is a little bit kind. If she'd be kind enough to allow you to keep your daughter with her while you go hustle in the day time. Then you come back in the evening to just sleep or maybe weekends to see your daughter. I think there are agencies that care for women in distress in Nigeria, especially Lagos. Not sure if I know them. I think NAPTIP is one of them. Then, you can post your story on blogs like Instablog9ja on Instagram, and some other social media influencers on Twitter. If the social media can help the woman with the blue eyes and her daughter, then I'm sure your helper is just a few days away. DM people that are popular social media influencers. Be wary about signing your daughter away to someone who might cause her physically and sexually. You see, this world is a strange place and there are people whose sexual fetish is little children. Then there are those who use little kids for rituals. I hope you and your daughter are safe. Try other social media. Twitter and Instagram. Hopefully, you will find good help there. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Hamsco: 9:25am On Aug 17, 2020 |
reach me on hameedlanre2020@gmail.com |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Nobody: 9:26am On Aug 17, 2020 |
frankyfranky: Bro, if you can help settle her in Delta, we can raise transport money for her here to get to Delta. Please PM her, she may not see your post. God bless you. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Nobody: 9:26am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Hamsco: Mizflo |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Chinny024(f): 9:28am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Go to OPM in Port Harcourt. Omega Power Ministry.. Or, Locate him on Facebook, explain your ordeals to him.. I pray God helps you through him. He has helped many with free accommodation, business, food, and education etc.. God should pick my calls, let me help those in need na. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Nobody: 9:28am On Aug 17, 2020 |
frankyfranky: Mizflo |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by chloride6: 9:28am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Ishilove: You sef follow dey recommend nonsense. Which dirty bad foundation be that? Na foundation make her go f.u.ck? Abi who among us no Bleep? She na because she no know where abortion clinic dey? |
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