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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Nobody: 12:01am On Aug 22, 2020*

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:05am On Aug 22, 2020

ExBanker:
I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them.

the world needs more men like you... i hope to be like you when i grow up, lol!
btw: make sure they dont say yes, and then after you pay the rent, they start insulting you again.... consume your prize before you handover the 50K, and accept beforehand that as soon as you will give them the money, you wont fukc either sista again.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Epositive(m): 12:09am On Aug 22, 2020

Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Nobody: 12:16am On Aug 22, 2020*

MrSensor:
Now he wants both of them and if they agree, the mother is next.

Don't mind him

Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by donprinyo(m): 12:17am On Aug 22, 2020

hahaha, bro, this girls go plan you o. Ladies the earlier you started hustling the better o.

Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by AtoningBlood(m): 12:20am On Aug 22, 2020

Exbanker, if this your story is true, please for God's sake, drop the girl's number here for some of us or dm it.

This is rude on women, how come we have become the less previledged among men and you guys rudely insult us? She needs to know her worth, and she deserves someone better not you.

They are angry because you promised them and they have committed 30k on that shop. Stop messing with her creator, stop the pride. Who knows tomorrow?

If you care, please drop her number here.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Ishilove: 12:31am On Aug 22, 2020

UDUJ:
Victorian don come again

Your boyfriend spent 3 million on you in a span of 8 months You guys are not married and he spends 3m in 8 months.

This is the beauty of the Internet. You can build mansions and buy private jets and take vacations to exotic locations online, but always remember to wake up from the dream and face reality. Cheers

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by lilbus511: 12:35am On Aug 22, 2020

emkz:
Bad guy. Did you mean like a 3some with two sisters?

Your story was sweet until you got to the twist which landed on the wrong side. A man I know who bonked two blood sisters has been crippled for 15 years since the act. I am not saying his condition is the result of bonking two sisters, I am just telling you what I observed.

Forget that thing, I know someone that has had sex with Twins, still doing well.

Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by SweetCunt97(f): 12:36am On Aug 22, 2020

ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?

You simply taking advantage of her situation. Buying her affection. You really wicked at heart

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by integritylady(f): 12:37am On Aug 22, 2020

Randy91:
You better Goan Hustle!!!

Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by enirock(m): 12:43am On Aug 22, 2020

If the help you rendered/promised was because you were getting something in return, then know you never helped her rather, everything you did was to pay for the 'smash' u finally smashed and suddenly it dawns on u or you came to the realisation that you conquered/gotten that which you wanted from her hence, you feel your promise could buy the elder sister as a bargain. You may be applauded, and you feel you've gained that which took you to the relationship but remember, nobody forced you to promise. Changing your promise to a condition, speaks volumes...

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by InvertedHammer: 12:44am On Aug 22, 2020

ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?

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You are plotting. They are plotting.

The bigger loser will be you. No sex is worth the landmine you are trying to step on. Don't eat a sumptuous meal presented by a disgruntled friend.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by anonimi: 12:46am On Aug 22, 2020

MJBOLT:
I'm sure you have spent close to 100k on your babe alone in less than 3 months,add her sister so you can spend close to 500k

Una think say sex na everything

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by anonimi: 12:49am On Aug 22, 2020

ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Iykolysis: 12:53am On Aug 22, 2020

ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?

Don't date broke girls, they are a parasites, flee

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by mkoabiola: 12:53am On Aug 22, 2020

Fiction or true life.

Werey

Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by anonimi: 12:54am On Aug 22, 2020

victorian:
Exbanker u are not suppose to be labelled a human being!

So because of 50k u want to fucvkk two sisters for as long as u live!
God punish poverty!

What if u were mistakenly blessed like my boo, who has spent and doled out 3 million naira in a space of 8months of dating me, just splash and say Princess take, and make yourself happy?
And he is still deep in money.

What will u do? Exhume and Fucvkk my dead family resting their graves ?

I wonder the kind of wicked animal uv turned into?

Tell the ladies to contact me for the balance 50k!
What rubbish!

To hell with your miserable 50k!
Tufia!

And how much have you spent on your boo, or you are just a liability who thinks God created an endless boutique shop between her legs for men to deposit money and semen huh

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by CAPSLOCKED: 12:57am On Aug 22, 2020

UDUJ:
Victorian don come again

Your boyfriend spent 3 million on you in a span of 8 months You guys are not married and he spends 3m in 8 months.

YOU PEOPLE ARGUE TOO MUCH. HOW WOULD YOU KNOW HE DIDN'T SPEND ALL THAT MONEY ON HER WHEN YOU WEREN'T IN HER DREAMS WITH HER? undecided

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Ayamfirstson(m): 12:59am On Aug 22, 2020

Brother e no too bad sha but u no play the card well.
As a street nigga wet u wan form, u for don am separate so there two no go know and Las Las wen dem come know wetin u dey use dem do e go still pain dem join.

Since dem wan open new bank account

Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Sniper101(m): 1:00am On Aug 22, 2020

Exactly the kinda condition/treatment most females deserve cheesy

...for choosing to be a pest in every relationship they find themselves in grin

Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by CarlsJaz567(m): 1:01am On Aug 22, 2020

ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?

OP, this is not just harsh, but indicates deep-seated wickedness in your heart. Of course, your girlfriend may not be so much into you, and might just have been plodding on in the relationship due to extreme poverty which you have documented vividly in your write-up.

Unfortunately for the ladies concerned, they may be too hard-pressed to change their status quo, that they may feel they have no choice but to accept your wicked and indecent proposal.

Even though you might have worked hard for your money, all the same, don't feel so entitled to keep demanding sex from females. From the bad news emanating everywhere in Naija almost everyday, one can see clearly that most of us are indeed not better than our rogue leaders! Why can't you assist vulnerable people without attaching ridiculous conditions to it?

Since you cajoled the ladies to spend all their reserved for the down payment of the new shop, and they had hopes that their fortunes would be better in the new location, it is understandable that they become upset when you use flimsy excuses to terminate the previous arrangement with them!

If you have any shred of decency left and you want God's mercy to continue to shower on you, kindly give them the promised 50k and say bye to your girlfriend. Obviously, you do not love nor respect her and her family. Be merciful on people who are already down and do not add insults to their injuries!

May God have mercy on you and your ilks!

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by juniorstar(m): 1:04am On Aug 22, 2020

guy if u have forgiven the younger sis and u still want the relationship to continue do so. but your condition of doing gbas gbos with the elder sis too no make sense. dont attract curse to ur lineage. every guy man know say nkan be. in my view u just wanted to smash dat gal dats why within 2 months u wan find reason opt out.

Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by clintondagogo(m): 1:04am On Aug 22, 2020

Guy, your wiked. people like you can even impregnant their own daughters. your ink drops in smelling and so you are too.
Get out of here. Idiot!
Your assistance to her and her family does not make you God.

Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by foleskay(m): 1:05am On Aug 22, 2020

Zzor:
See the type of men this generation has produced smh

Shatap jor. Dont you see what the generation of female folks like you turning to also?? Almost all girls are now olosho undecided

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by heendrix(m): 1:08am On Aug 22, 2020

Ahumanbeing:
Dirty piece of shit, you can't get a girl to genuinely love you so you use money to buy sex, you promised them 50k and because of that promise they've made a payment of 30k and you're talking about sex?
Useless piece of shit, go n bleep your mum cuz obviously you can't control your dick.
I pity the men who'll come and support you or call you a "man", you're just a whôre and you are a simpleton, aside that you're indecisive and dumb.

My problem here is why hit on ExBanker why didn't you have problem with the girl and her sister huh

Birds of same feathers surely would flock together smh. OP I don't expect you to mind re-tards like this slowpoke here

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Nofcks2give: 1:08am On Aug 22, 2020

ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?

Your condition is irritating, I hope you don't go through with it even if they both accept your offer so you don't end up attracting evil into your life

Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by foleskay(m): 1:10am On Aug 22, 2020

Ahumanbeing:
Dirty piece of shit, you can't get a girl to genuinely love you so you use money to buy sex, you promised them 50k and because of that promise they've made a payment of 30k and you're talking about sex?
Useless piece of shit, go n bleep your mum cuz obviously you can't control your dick.
I pity the men who'll come and support you or call you a "man", you're just a whôre and you are a simpleton, aside that you're indecisive and dumb.

Shut d bleep up. If you can't fvck ur own mom dont ever tell someone to go fvck his mom, that's one of the most derogatory words to say ever. What brought his mom into the matter. Why are u so pained you the belligerent element. Its his money, let him use it as he wants. Elegbe undecided

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by stayclearofme: 1:13am On Aug 22, 2020

SageMK:
Lmao. This is hilarious.
Who's next on your list — their ancestors?

Their mother grin

Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by anonimi: 1:16am On Aug 22, 2020

UDUJ:
Victorian don come again

Your boyfriend spent 3 million on you in a span of 8 months You guys are not married and he spends 3m in 8 months.

This is the beauty of the Internet. You can build mansions and buy private jets and take vacations to exotic locations online, but always remember to wake up from the dream and face reality. Cheers

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by heendrix(m): 1:17am On Aug 22, 2020

Reucy:
Lolzz. And you think is every lady that lives off on the income of a man.

Your headache sha, not mine

CAPSLOCKED let's advice she gets a good phone first having a good camera if 75k is ordinary before we push further

but for now suspend talks with her

Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Nobody: 1:39am On Aug 22, 2020

Op, how old are you?
Anyways, I dont blame you. I blame the girl who's still stuck to a fellow like you.

Its simple. If you dont want her anymore, end the whole thing and stop saying the abominable, its a taboo.

Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by tomdon(m): 1:41am On Aug 22, 2020

Ahumanbeing:
Dirty piece of shit, you can't get a girl to genuinely love you so you use money to buy sex, you promised them 50k and because of that promise they've made a payment of 30k and you're talking about sex?
Useless piece of shit, go n bleep your mum cuz obviously you can't control your dick.
I pity the men who'll come and support you or call you a "man", you're just a whôre and you are a simpleton, aside that you're indecisive and dumb.

You're not a human being. You be goat

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