saucecode:
Wetin u and a man you're not in a relationship with want to dey discuss on a daily, motivational quotes?

Liposure:
somehow this feminism of a thing have distorted the mindset of women thereby making them very stubborn

The problem is that the word feminism has been abused. Most of this modern day feminists especially those here on Nigerian social media pages have misunderstood and hijacked the word to now mean Man-hater as against the original meaning which was to fight for the rights of women on the grounds of equality.

CanadaOrBust:


That’s the question being begged.
Las las u r just another girl (notice I didn’t say hoe)
Am I right or am I right

What's your problem?

Las las, you are just a troll. Stay far!

RAGGA40:
I use sense when it comes to love, fell in love thrice but couldn't further it(three women).

you're were never in love bro, the fact you said 3 women means it's not love, you were under attraction and emotional connection!

Kingsbridge:
you're were never in love bro, the fact you said 3 women means it's not love, you were under attraction and emotional connection!

it was just emotional connection

UyaiIncomparabl:


What's your problem?

Las las, you are just a troll. Stay far!

No, seriously, who r u to say a topic is over? Even Seun can’t do that, unless he stamps “thread closed”. U can stop responding instead of saying it’s over

dingbang:
I can smell desperation and I can smell love

Indeed you can.


Desperation doesn't mean rushing you. Infact you will even be the one rushing them for marriage but once you put the ring on her finger, she will unpackage herself, if shout doesn't escape your mouth, let me know why.

pythondance2020:



Lol, so you think just providing and loving a woman is enough to keep her. Just to give you some insight, I sacrificed so many things to please this person which drained me in the process. At the end of I felt like a squeeze orange.
If you really want someone that would truly love you scrap that idea.
I have actually witnessed true love before without spending a dime but even true love sometimes has its unique problems because it can lead to obsession.

it can be quite draining but remember that the hand that gives always remain on top

folake4u:



Lol, good for you.

So I went through vyiur diary, color me saffron, I think you did an amazing job

wintersnow:


So I went through vyiur diary, color me saffron, I think you did an amazing job

Thank you Sir.

placeofallure:


I quite agree with you about the communication aspect. You will have little or nothing to say to each other when you stopped loving yourselves.
I once had a bf, we were good together, so I thought, until I met another. The other one helped to magnify the faults in the former. Like GboyegaD said earlier on this thread, people grow apart sometimes. I guess that was the case with me. As I grew older, my tastes changed. I had new thrills, new passion, new vision which must be fulfilled. So naturally, it was only a matter of time before things capsized between us. He was a good man, principled, cultured, very well behaved and kind and he loved me and provided for me but all of those couldn't keep me.

When our affair eventually went comatose, one of the first things that got affected was communication. Even if I leave my house to go visit him, we'd have nothing to talk about. You could always feel the palpable tension in the air. He knew someone else had my attention. He tried to talk me out but I was already swept off my feet. This my new man is a friend. You don't get tired of friends, you remember them and you smile. They're naughty in a pleasant way. When you marry your friend, you are on a long, jolly, fun ride. I never regretted that decision, never!

While your mind drifted away from him,you never stopped being 'provided for'
Na una way

saucecode:

Bullshitto, if ure not billing dem, are u na investing in their life or dashing dem money? Wat is the friendship dat will exist between u and a man where exchange of favours or sex won't be involved.
Abi is it prayer meetings u and dem will be doing

Mafren, save ur tales. I've rolled wit ur type plenty before. Mrs I don't bill guys bt yu secretly expect dem to do things for u, na una way na. See her talking of recharge cards,now I know ur level sef

Lol, your not wrong. I have met a handful of ladies who will tell you from the get go that they don't bill guys. Then later on they will be secretly and codedly asking u for recharge card and even money.

eazzzy1:


A whole lot. I dated a girl like Nengi when I was in school, every other African guy wanted to be with her, she was pretty but was also high maintenance. Lots of guys bought her gifts for no reason, I then started cheating just to show I could get attention too. We argued all the time, she didn’t even know it was wrong to receive gifts from admirers, till I started giving admirers gifts too.

When we broke up I dated someone less flashy, less make up, no short gown, bum short etc. This one had her own money and she was very reserved. We dated two years never argued for once.

Girls are always looking for ways to call their replacements ugly, some will say why are you dating your mothers mate, your own na Oshiomole. Na only man know wetin he Dey find o, if oshiomole doesn’t give me wahala I will date her. Nengi can kiss my Ahole.

Cc: klass99

Belafonte:


Lol. This is so funny. Sorry bro

Thanks

Nooil:



This topic is not for you. Your spouse has not stopped loving you. She is just guarding herself against further emotional trauma from you. It's good you've repented.

Thanks, am building the trust back seriously because trust has a lot to do with love.

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Klass99:


May I ask, why you stepped out on wifey in the last place?

I'm curious, were you being denied sex at home or were you simply being adventurous and exploring? Or was it a case of chance and opportunity?

What drove you?

It was our reconnection and memories of our past sex life that triggered everything. She was my girl before I married but we disconnected for long.

Back home, wifey settles me well in the other room, but men sometimes are like that.

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Klass99:


Lol , I like how candid you are.

Thanks for understanding

You will all be alright las las. Every married man I know, who has ever been caught cheating, was caught via the texts on his phone. Every single one of them.
Men are not smart at cheating like our women that's why. I had a lot of experience when I was single and had many girlfriends, I thought I was smart but they were smarter.

And it makes me laugh while I wonder how you guys can be so careless. I am single, I live alone but I don't keep texts beyond 24 hours. Texts of financial transactions from my bank, pension managers or other sources, don't even last more than 5 seconds once I'm done reading. It's not that I have anything to hide but once I absorb a message from family, friends or admirers I delete it.
Some text messages are kept for reference purposes and presently I still have text of 5yrs ago and when you go through them sometimes it reminds you some things you've forgotten.

I like starting each day on a clean slate even with my phone, so before I go to sleep each night I wipe my phone clean of my call records, texts and browsing history. It's just a habit of mine and in times when I've lost my phone, I'm sort of glad there are no records on it, while I quickly work to block the line.

Hmmm! Seriously? Does your guy check your phone that you are being this careful?

Klass99:


Lol , I like how candid you are.

You will all be alright las las. Every married man I know, who has ever been caught cheating, was caught via the texts on his phone. Every single one of them.

And it makes me laugh while I wonder how you guys can be so careless. I am single, I live alone but I don't keep texts beyond 24 hours. Texts of financial transactions from my bank, pension managers or other sources, don't even last more than 5 seconds once I'm done reading. It's not that I have anything to hide but once I absorb a message from family, friends or admirers I delete it.

I like starting each day on a clean slate even with my phone, so before I go to sleep each night I wipe my phone clean of my call records, texts and browsing history. It's just a habit of mine and in times when I've lost my phone, I'm sort of glad there are no records on it, while I quickly work to block the line.

No one asked you all these na!!!


Thanks for the 'single' advert though.

staymore:


Hmmm! Seriously? Does your guy check your phone that you are being this careful?

No mind her!!!

Who wipes off her phone after 24 hours for one yeye clean slate, every fuqin day?

She must have a photographic memory.

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Klass99:


Nah, I'm not even in a relationship. It's truly just habit.





Luminouz, I wasn't talking to you nah!

Someone can't even have an honest conversation with another user or make a statement of fact without being trolled or attacked unnecessarily. Or without you implying a negative thing entirely.

Why do you people like being rude for no good reason? I was having a mature engagement with Staymore before you came along o. You can engage in a civil manner too without the rude attitude, but I'll leave you to it.

I was teasing you na...

I'm not being rude. Guess you took it wrongly.

dokyOloye:

While your mind drifted away from him,you never stopped being 'provided for'
Na una way

When you have a small mind, that's when your thoughts get twisted and grossly myopic. You have to condition your mind to think big. Great minds think big. Don't get so worked up about him providing for me, and I still left him. He wasn't the only one providing in the relationship, it was mutual. I didn't mention mine out of being modest. I've always been independent minded. I make my own money.

Just so you know, that you provide for your girlfriend or she does the same to you is not an achievement deserving of a Pulitzer. Just grow up ok?

Luak:
it can be quite draining but remember that the hand that gives always remain on top

hmmm, everything has its exception, even giving can be sometimes detrimental, if done carelessly. I have seen a lot of people, (myself inclusive) get drained from giving.

jeff1607:


I guess you won't understand till a serious misunderstanding comes up.

MEN will always be MEN

I guess you will not understand that some men are rare.
Men go to brothels and pick up wives and live with them HEA.
Men will always be men. But then, There are men and there are still some MEN no matter how rare.

#Icomeinpeace

SweetCunt97:
So why exactly did she marry you? To tick the register of marriage? Quite selfish.

Most likely but i am yet to find out, because once the marriage was done she started giving all sorts of ultimatum on my character which she had already noticed long before getting married, saying things like i get angry too quickly even though she has always known my temprament (which is a calm one actually) or that i am getting too fat. etc (my weight is and has always been same which i am quite aware of since i have had a scale, since the first time we met)

God bless you dear

Pearl543:
Uhmmmm Reading through this thread I have come to a conclusion that most Nigerians don't even know what love is. So a problem comes, instead of finding a way to solve it and making amends... You move on to the next available person and the circle continues that way

If you have anyone really geniue in your life, please hold onto them very tight o. Our generation have lots of fakes.

pythondance2020:




Most likely but i am yet to find out, because once the marriage was done she started giving all sorts of ultimatum on my character which she had already noticed long before getting married, saying things like i get angry too quickly even though she has always known my temprament (which is a calm one actually) or that i am getting too fat. etc (my weight is and has always been same which i am quite aware of since i have had a scale, since the first time we met)

I think sometimes people give in to societal pressure to marry and only to realize that it's simply not what they imagined especially when there's no true love. As long as you are alive, there's hope to love again. Shalom

noriene:
the moment he graduated from whatsaping his ex to now calling her in my presence . im left alone with his little baby now 7 months. some say he was spiritually controlled by ex

omg what were you thinking?
Having a child with him

wavesmediagram:
God bless you dear

God bless you too

Lastmankc:
Even the lady I am dating now, I don't really love her. I have told her several times but she doesn't want to listen.

one day she'll listen then you go on to find the one you love who doesn't love you and she'll keep telling you she doesn't love you and you won't listen till you get a shocker