Klass99:
My classmate's story when we were @ University. I'll call her Nengi because she was just as hot as the BBN housemate (if not hotter sef)

Nengi was dating a working class guy off campus and would often visit him at his crib, she had some of her stuff at his place as well. She visited one weekend and all her stuff were gone (clothing, toiletries, etc) When she asked where her things were, dude said his crib had been broken into and the thieves made away with her things.

Thieves broke in but somehow only her things were missing! This was the first sign that things weren't right but none of us saw, what was to come. Mike did a 360 degree turn afterwards and started dating one of Nengi's close friends and eventually married her. I don't think they did proper marriage rites cos Nengi's friend got pregnant and moved in with Mike (not his real name) I hear they are still living as man and wife, several years later.

Nengi was devastated because she truly loved Mike and wasn't playing games on him, she also had a good character as far as, I could tell. So, I didn't understand the switch he made either. The shocker for me was the friend he went for. Adams Oshiomole will best describe the girl he ended up with.

Mike had proposed to Nengi prior to all this drama and if I remember correctly, he had gone to see her parents about his intentions. Some people say jazz was involved. I didn't know what to think back then or even now, except, fear men

saucecode:

Bullshitto, if ure not billing dem, are u na investing in their life or dashing dem money? Wat is the friendship dat will exist between u and a man where exchange of favours or sex won't be involved.
Abi is it prayer meetings u and dem will be doing

Mafren, save ur tales. I've rolled wit ur type plenty before. Mrs I don't bill guys bt yu secretly expect dem to do things for u, na una way na. See her talking of recharge cards,now I know ur level sef

dingbang:
Marry a woman who loves you more

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Ibknownyou run a charity organization where you pay bills for women. Keep it up.
That's how girls will Bleep and dump you after collecting the little change you have. And then yes u go to your male friends and form hard man to them. I pity your type .

saucecode:

Hehehehehehe,at least we fcked. Dats the idea, not ur type dat expect favours & gifts in the name of friendship without sex. Wetin u and a man you're not in a relationship with want to dey discuss on a daily, motivational quotes?

saucecode:

Hehehehehehe,at least we fcked. Dats the idea, not ur type dat expect favours & gifts in the name of friendship without sex. Wetin u and a man you're not in a relationship with want to dey discuss on a daily, motivational quotes?

culf:
beautiful. God bless your universe for you jo

UyaiIncomparabl:

afilaka:


Believe me,except yoa ready for marriage,this would irritate you as a man. Men love to go after Hard-to-get ladies.

MakaveliTheDon:

You're right.
A man can cheat and still love his wife of girlfriend. Not saying this suit men but that's just the truth..
Once a woman starts cheating she's good has gone.

dingbang:
your opinion doesnt matter sweetheart

CanadaOrBust:


WHO THE F**K ARE YOU??!!

MISSCONGENIALITY:
It's your type that can't hold a conversation with an opposite sex because the only thing you know is sex.

placeofallure:


Why should yours matter if hers won't matter? Just asking.

afilaka:


Believe me,except yoa ready for marriage,this would irritate you as a man. Men love to go after Hard-to-get ladies.

wintersnow:

Except me

MISSCONGENIALITY:
It's very annoying. Me sef I'm tired of meeting or getting to know new makes. They all want sex. I don't take any guy serious these days.

descarado:

It didn't start today. Even the days of our grandmothers.
What u should aspire to do is be ahead of them with second option. If he is somebody u will want as a friend, yeah, u can stir the ship towards that. Everyman that took interest in you both those your close friends had at one point or the other fantasized about bedding you. Some relegate the thought to the back of their brain and maintain friendship pending on when opportunity knocks or just let it be and move on. That some men were outright with that doesn't tag them bad men, your response and actions after determines if he is the serious type, testing type or all weather type.
So don't just stop cos some guys asked for sex first. That's what all of them wanted in the first place. Those that delayed where simply trying to make you soft pedal and to please you. The reason why even after 3 months of dating, once he collects, he is off and start hunting again. Learn the rules of the game and u won't burn. Men are very easy to read and understand. Just that ladies live on some fantasy land.

taiocol:
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PoliticallyInco:


For a husband and wife it becomes difficult as they have to be up in each others faces. One thing that first goes is communication. Especially physical. One of the earliest is facial expression and interest in your presence. Your being there. Once that goes, physical contact goes, then verbal communication goes too then you have two strangers in the house. Marriage is based on Friendship and mutual two way Interest. Once friendship goes, forget interest. Interest becomes one way traffic. At that point the one withdrawing affection is simply using the other person. This is objective and without prejudice to who is guilty or who caused the problem.

dingbang:
dont even take panadol over our matter, else you will loss. uyai and I have an understanding.

judedwriter:


I discovered that to truly love someone of the opposite sex, you must be good platonic (non sexual) friends for at least 1 year!

Dating is a SCAM! The sooner people know, the better for them.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
I've never billed a male friend and I don't intend to. [b]Billing a guy has never been my thing. [/b]Stop thinking like a dickhead baby boy. You have the mentality of all those little boys that go bragging blhow they recharge btheir babe's phone which is something friends do for friends be it male of female. You need to make genuine frineds who really care about you cos you will never understand what friendship is with this your childish B

afilaka:


Believe me,except yoa ready for marriage,this would irritate you as a man. Men love to go after Hard-to-get ladies.

phazotron:


Be living in 18th century. Which man has time for stunts now with everything going on in this world?

Come try am with me u go know what's up.

Pearly255:


AMENNNNNN!!!!!!!

placeofallure:


Yes. I was platonic friends with my husband for several years before we started dating. Now, it's still that same friendship mentality. Back then as friends, we gist about anything and everything, it's still like that. Then, we trek in the neighborhood, even to longer distance so we could have more gist time. Till tomorrow, it's still like that. Then, we used to go to concerts, events etc as friends, it hasn't changed. When we started to date, it's just like doing the obvious - putting the icing on the cake.

The problem is this generation is not as innocent. They just want to explore the explorables beneath the clothes. Little or no thought is given to compatibility. Marry your friend, they'll never listen. Of course what works for 'A' may not necessarily work for 'B' but you have to start from somewhere.

culf:



Thank you dear, God will keep you and bless you more to take good care of her.

judedwriter:


I discovered that to truly love someone of the opposite sex, you must be good platonic (non sexual) friends for at least 1 year!

Dating is a SCAM! The sooner people know, the better for them.

descarado:

It didn't start today. Even the days of our grandmothers.
What u should aspire to do is be ahead of them with second option. If he is somebody u will want as a friend, yeah, u can stir the ship towards that. Everyman that took interest in you both those your close friends had at one point or the other fantasized about bedding you. Some relegate the thought to the back of their brain and maintain friendship pending on when opportunity knocks or just let it be and move on. That some men were outright with that doesn't tag them bad men, your response and actions after determines if he is the serious type, testing type or all weather type.
So don't just stop cos some guys asked for sex first. That's what all of them wanted in the first place. Those that delayed where simply trying to make you soft pedal and to please you. The reason why even after 3 months of dating, once he collects, he is off and start hunting again. Learn the rules of the game