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Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Bloooody(m): 8:59pm On Aug 26, 2020
Ginaz:
Oga go and make money . Leave the poor girl alone and focus on your life. Not like you’re going to get married to her soon . *roll eyes*
Do you have money?
Why are nigerian girls so shameless.

Does your father the local drunkard have money?
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Ginaz(f): 9:25pm On Aug 26, 2020
Bloooody:
Do you have money?
Why are nigerian girls so shameless.

Does your father the local drunkard have money?
Go and make money instead of you to come and behave like a kid throwing tantrum and saying things like a kid. Kid with no sense, local champion. Nigerian girls are not shameless by the way.
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Nobody: 9:30pm On Aug 26, 2020
The girl in question opened a topic here yesterday saying she was confused about what to do because she had feelings for this boy even though she had a boyfriend she didn't love and now the boy is here too with similar kwesion.

Nairaland is truly a global village. grin
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by OluCypher(m): 9:53pm On Aug 26, 2020
Dartilo:
Let me watch
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by nuelyoyo(m): 2:51am On Aug 27, 2020
sweetyme001:
She told you that she has a boyfriend instead of you encouraging her to love her boyfriend. You are thinking of f.ucking her. Same thing guys will do to your girlfriend.
That he decides not to fvck her doesn't mean another man won't fvck his girlfriend. It's a cruel world out there. If any man decides to respect a lady's relationship and not want to get intimate with her, it should be borne out of principle and not by the fear of karma.
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Funkyswagzz(m): 8:15am On Aug 27, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
I THINK YOUR VIRGIN CRUSH HAS TAKEN THIS MATTER TO THE FRONT-PAGE. I'M HIGHLY CONVINCED THE THREAD IS TALKING ABOUT YOU GO TAKE A LOOK.
Lol they are thesame person no doubt
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Nobody: 8:23am On Aug 27, 2020
Cooldude234:
There is this babe I like. Unlike other girls who I just see as sex partners this one is different. She is very intelligent and well mannered. She is the only girl I've ever met that can match me intellectually. When I have conversations with her she actually makes me reevaluate my views. She's very informed and very open minded. I'm also very attracted to her so you can understand how I feel about her.

But the problem is she has a boyfriend. I know I bleeped up in telling her that I'm falling in love with her, which is true. But I shouldn't have gone that far. But I've talked dirty with her many times sha. I've told her all the things I'll want to do to her. But this girl is too guarded and she's a virgin. She dey do like all this church girls sef. But in secret she's has dirty thoughts which she's told me about.

From our conversation it's obvious shes not in love with her boyfriend and probably not even attracted to him that much. She told me she used to be very sexually attracted to me but she has buried the desires. When we talk and I get sexual she tells me to stop because she is getting wet. Last time she saw me she was gushing about how cute I am. But yet she says she doesn't want to get sexual with me because she doesn't want it to affect our friendship.

I'm finding it hard to read this girl's intentions. Although I want to have sex with her, I still value our friendship as well and wouldn't mind taken things a step further with her if the opportunity comes..
This kind boys, the moment they f*ck her they will run. Does sex justifys love? That's one thing we Nigerians Do misinterpret. So unfortunate.
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