SirMichael1:
Y̶o̶u̶ ̶k̶n̶o̶w̶ ̶i̶'̶v̶e̶ ̶s̶i̶n̶c̶e̶ ̶t̶o̶l̶d̶ ̶y̶o̶u̶ ̶t̶h̶i̶s̶ ̶b̶e̶f̶o̶r̶e̶.̶ ̶Y̶o̶u̶'̶r̶e̶ ̶u̶s̶e̶l̶e̶s̶s̶,̶ ̶e̶v̶e̶n̶ ̶d̶o̶w̶n̶ ̶t̶o̶ ̶t̶h̶e̶ ̶f̶i̶b̶r̶e̶ ̶o̶f̶ ̶y̶o̶u̶r̶ ̶b̶e̶i̶n̶g̶.̶ ̶A̶n̶d̶ ̶i̶t̶'̶s̶ ̶n̶o̶t̶ ̶h̶e̶r̶ ̶h̶o̶u̶s̶e̶.̶

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barbarian with empty brain. Bush man!!!!

SirMichael1:


T̶h̶a̶n̶k̶ ̶y̶o̶u̶.̶ ̶I̶,̶ ̶a̶ ̶m̶a̶r̶r̶i̶e̶d̶ ̶w̶i̶t̶h̶ ̶a̶ ̶k̶i̶d̶ ̶d̶o̶n̶'̶t̶ ̶h̶a̶v̶e̶ ̶t̶i̶m̶e̶ ̶f̶o̶r̶ ̶a̶d̶u̶l̶t̶s̶ ̶t̶h̶a̶t̶ ̶c̶h̶o̶o̶s̶e̶ ̶t̶o̶ ̶b̶e̶ ̶k̶i̶d̶s̶.̶ ̶M̶a̶y̶b̶e̶ ̶a̶f̶t̶e̶r̶ ̶y̶o̶u̶ ̶d̶r̶o̶p̶ ̶t̶w̶o̶,̶ ̶m̶a̶t̶u̶r̶i̶t̶y̶ ̶i̶s̶ ̶h̶i̶t̶ ̶y̶o̶u̶ ̶i̶n̶s̶t̶a̶n̶t̶l̶y̶.̶

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the woman that married you is very unfortunate. you are
barbaric man who believes woman must be a cook. you should be an hunter. cave is your ideal home. you does not belong to modern society. cave man!!!!

Nooil:


Eeyah, here I thought people who said they can write poem can reason a little. Didn't know I was conversing with an illiterate. My bad.

The apologies should be mine for engaging an 'enlightened' fool. You are claiming independence yet i doubt if you can take your man out on a date. You are just a hypocrite that wants to eat from both sides of her mouth.

ebby9z:

That's what "responsible" guys go through. Guys that are afraid of being seeing as bad.
Let her try it with a street guy na, na him side chics go come make the meals right there in their house and there's nothing she will do.

say Aftican man who is still living in 16th century

SirMichael1:
Thank you. I, a married with a kid don't have time for adults that choose to be kids.

Maybe after you drop two, maturity is hit you instantly.

You dragon, are we in a competition?

Don't let me blow your cover, you tortoise. Remember you are still getting over that heartbreak Ella gave you about three months ago? That one who still gives you sleepless nights?

SIRTee15:


Ok lets get something clear. Cooking in the home is the primary responsibility of the wife.
A woman has no business getting married if she doesn't want to be cooking on regular basis. Such a lady should stay single for life.
I don't understand where all this nonsense is coming from.
because last time I checked, married white women ( u guys are trying too hard to copy) cook for their home, they cook for friends who come visiting and cook for family gathering/reunion.
There are thousands of youtube vlogs dedicated to married white women culinary skills in the kitchen.

Asian, Arab and latin women cook for their families without issues.
It's only in Africa that black women wants to turn modernity on its head with their warped feminist ideology that makes no sense.
I don't even see this as feminism...rather what I can perceive is a lazy but entitled generation trying to avoid responsibility.

It's not by force to marry, stay single if u don't like the responsibility that comes with it.

hunting and farming are also primary responsibilities of men. this is 21st century. we are not living in stone age. some women earn better and work harder than their husbands. they are more busy than their husbands. do you still expect those women to be a 'cook '.
yes, wives should cook for their husbands even for friends but not crowd of married men who like gossiping about their wives.

any man who wants his wife to be a cook should make her an housewife.
even in US, Europe and even Asia, some married women choose part time job so as to focus on home affairs. How many part time jobs do you see in Nigeria.

Men should try to be reasonable with their wives. Any man who maltreats a faithful woman is likely to die lonely with misery unless he is rich.

UyaiIncomparabl:


You dragon, are we in a competition?

Don't let me blow your cover, you tortoise. Remember you are still getting over that heartbreak Ella gave you about three months ago? That one who still gives you sleepless nights?

SirMichael1 is a deranged psychopath

UyaiIncomparabl:


You dragon, are we in a competition?

Don't let me blow your cover, you tortoise. Remember you are still getting over that heartbreak Ella gave you about three months ago? That one who still gives you sleepless nights?

Over 3 months ago? Heartbreak?

Did she lock my heart, tossed the key into a river and cursed me never to love anymore? My heart beats only for my cute daughter. You should see her. You should try getting one out of wedlock if wedlock doesn't do it for you.

joyandfaith:


hunting and farming are also primary responsibilities of men. this is 21st century. we are not living in stone age. some women earn better and work harder than their husbands. they are more busy than their husbands. do you still expect those women to be a 'cook '.
yes, wives should cook for their husbands even for friends but not crowd of married men who like gossiping about their wives.

any man who wants his wife to be a cook should make her an housewife.
even in US, Europe and even Asia, some married women choose part time job so as to focus on home affairs. How many part time jobs do you see in Nigeria.

Men should try to be reasonable with their wives. Any man who maltreats a faithful woman is likely to die lonely with misery unless he is rich.

I can't count the number of times that i've had to send financial assistance to her siblings and parents. Am I their helper? Have I complained about the fact that in 21 centuary, we aren't helpers? If you use you head well, you will turn out useless so just use something else to replace your head.

Sarah20A:
you're just a frustrated simp who was dumped by a girl.

U again!
Anyways did I mention I drive BMW & I leave in rich area of London call pekam & I have moiney.... juss in case u ask or u intarested!

SirMichael1:
Hello Good afternoon Familanders. This is very long, so please bear with me.

I’ll start from the root. Well, in my church, there’s usually a committee for the married men where most times we can proffer solution to the issues or need of the church members and other times organize get together monthly within us (married men) just to foster unity. Since we're like 20, different men host the get together. Therefore, it's spaced out for 1year and 8months.

It all began last Sunday when I was chosen to oversee the next get together which comes up this Sunday after church. When we (my wife and I) got home after church, I told her about it and she immediately asked, “who would do the cooking”? I was taken aback as the question sounded strange. I replied her saying, since she did the cooking the last time, I figured she’d do it this time.

She got angry and said there’s no way she’ll be going through the stress of cooking for 18 to 25 men and that I better know what to do concerning who’s going to handle the cooking. I tried to calm her down and reminded her of how I assisted her in the kitchen by pounding the yams while she made the soup -two soups actually and that I was going to help her this time. Yam is quite expensive so we’re not pounding this time, just Semo.

She remained adamant and said there was no way she would do anything, that the work stressed her so much and she won’t partake in any cooking and that I better go find anyone to do the cooking. Thing is, I understood the fact that the work was stressful for her because she was 5 months pregnant then and it was her first time.

Yesterday at work, I kept pondering about a solution and a thought struck me. I called her from work and asked her, "how about I get one of the women at church to offer you support?". She blatantly refused and still held on to her words.

My mind hasn’t been settled since morning because I got hold of a caterer and she told me that she’ll charge a thousand naira per head, that is approximately 20k. Truth is, the get together came at a wrong time and considering the prices of drinks, the cost of the food stuff, meat, ingredients, etc. I really can’t afford a caterer right now.

I’m at a cross road now. I don’t know what to do because it’s causing a rift between us. I thought of bringing a church member to assist on that day without informing her so she wouldn’t surprise me and leave the house but I fear that if she comes, my wife might not join her in the kitchen and the woman will begin to feel a certain way (thinking of how ungrateful we are). Then again, who will purchase the food items? I’ve just been confused. I really need insights.

Note: I said I'll help her make the swallow, she just needs to make the soup.

Baba be a man and cook the food. She understands the kinda stress she went through cooking for grown men at 5months pregnancy and don't wanna experience it again. Don't force someone to do what they don't like abeg. Imagine pushing such on her just like that! Better go to market and buy the stuffs and have someone assist you... If ur wife can pull it off, you can too... Women no carry any special kitchen skills wey men no fit carry.

SirMichael1:
So me that made the 25 pieces of pounded yams doesn't need healing?

What I'm being made to understand is, for the fact that she brought the last get together this time just made me believe even more that she felt she was doing me a favour and so no more favours.

She was pregnant, you were not. Why am I even still stressing myself over a fake story? I've given my point of view.

The comment, I am reading is very sad
Nigerian women in Nigeria will become 75% baby mama some time to come
If lot of Nigerian women have this mind set
You have a wife who can't cook for few friends of her husband
Thank God I have lot of control over lot of stuff in my life
Shameful
Sad

joyandfaith:


hunting and farming are also primary responsibilities of men. this is 21st century. we are not living in stone age. some women earn better and work harder than their husbands. they are more busy than their husbands. do you still expect those women to be a 'cook '.
yes, wives should cook for their husbands even for friends but not crowd of married men who like gossiping about their wives.

any man who wants his wife to be a cook should make her an housewife.
even in US, Europe and even Asia, some married women choose part time job so as to focus on home affairs. How many part time jobs do you see in Nigeria.

Men should try to be reasonable with their wives. Any man who maltreats a faithful woman is likely to die lonely with misery unless he is rich.

Stop your lies
I have spend the last 34 yrs of my life in Canada and US
Asia women cook
Indian women cook
Black America woman cook Yes ( Run her Business working late for Audit and cook next day dinner)
Caribbean women cook

SirMichael1:


I can't count the number of times that i've had to send financial assistance to her siblings and parents. Am I their helper? Have I complained about the fact that in 21 centuary, we aren't helpers? If you use you head well, you will turn out useless so just use something else to replace your head.

I have ask you to reach out to me
There are lot of people here willing to help you cook
and somebody willing to pay for the food
You have a problem-- Your wife is not a considerate person

joyandfaith:


foolish talk from a foolish person

Hello bitch
I guess you are a kid that is fucking very disrespectful
Kid you can talk trash online
You better watch your dam mouth
You need a mother Bleep that will wash it with soap KID

CanadianNaija:


another suicide walking. Pele o.

Guess you are waiting for government money in your government or Ontario housing
Other fool that thinking she is a Canadian
Look at the Caribbean women they cook and clean better than lot of your people YES
Take your time

The men that are not marriage
the comments from 70% of the women here
I feel sorry for lot of the men that are not marriage
Maybe lot of this comments are from kids too

So this clown is even married

I doubt

GoodFaith:

Guess you are waiting for government money in your government or Ontario housing
Other fool that thinking she is a Canadian
Look at the Caribbean women they cook and clean better than lot of your people YES
Take your time

Lol...You’re implying that I’m a refuge?
Ok If your statement were true at least my new government send me.

Can you say the same of yours? Frustrated hungry man/woman.

SirMichael1:


I can't count the number of times that i've had to send financial assistance to her siblings and parents. Am I their helper? Have I complained about the fact that in 21 centuary, we aren't helpers? If you use you head well, you will turn out useless so just use something else to replace your head.

do you have head to use? hopeless womanizer!!!!. you are already cursed. miserable man. you need a guard dog so that you would not commit suicide.

GoodFaith:


Stop your lies
I have spend the last 34 yrs of my life in Canada and US
Asia women cook
Indian women cook
Black America woman cook Yes ( Run her Business working late for Audit and cook next day dinner)
Caribbean women cook

who tell you they don't cook? imbeciile
do they also cook for crowd of hopeless married men who keep gossiping about their wives?
there is different between cooking for family members and crowd of people. women are not slave.

GoodFaith:

Hello bitch
I guess you are a kid that is fucking very disrespectful
Kid you can talk trash online
You better watch your dam mouth
You need a mother Bleep that will wash it with soap KID

see this one. you still have mentality of people living in stone age. see grandpa with dementia. I think you need diaper for your smelling mouth. miserable old man !!!!!!

Nezzjnr:
So this clown is even married
I doubt

Be guided.

GoodFaith:

Guess you are waiting for government money in your government or Ontario housing
Other fool that thinking she is a Canadian
Look at the Caribbean women they cook and clean better than lot of your people YES
Take your time

Lol. Just leave them. Most of these people grew up in a defunct home, a home where everything isn't right, hence their thought process.

SirMichael1:
Be guided.

My friend sharrap

Same you that I know

Attention seeker

ebby9z:

Ojodu Berger ni. Of course what will a female say before

the Ojodu Berger got me

SirMichael1:
Over 3 months ago? Heartbreak?

Did she lock my heart, tossed the key into a river and cursed me never to love anymore? My heart beats only for my cute daughter. You should see her. You should try getting one out of wedlock if wedlock doesn't do it for you.

See the person that people are defending.

If a lady had posted this story, many would have asked to hear from the man first before jumping into conclusions.

I asked what he has done in the past to make the wife refuse because a happy wife won't just turn him down.

His love is for others while the wife is for the house to cook. Let the daughter who his heart only beats for, host his friends

Sarah20A:
you're just a frustrated simp who was dumped by a girl.

Nigerian girls beg me. And I don't have you all time. Team foreign girls like my Nigerian dad.

Sarah20A:
yes your mother was busy cooking to please people that's why she forgot to teach you manners. Useless thing

Uncouth Nigerian witch. Only simps date your likes.

SirMichael1:
Yes. To a beautiful wife with a cute daughter.

Bet you won't see this now from scouting this thread looking for something to feed your propaganda.

ImaIma1:


See the person that people are defending.

If a lady had posted this story, many would have asked to hear from the man first before jumping into conclusions.

I asked what he has done in the past to make the wife refuse because a happy wife won't just turn him down.

His love is for others while the wife is for the house to cook. Let the daughter who his heart only beats for, host his friends

People aren't only defending me but defending the truth. It's just reality anyhow you see it.
I say it again. My heart beats only for my daughter. Go ahead and derive anything you can from that.

joyandfaith:


see this one. you still have mentality of people living in stone age. see grandpa with dementia. I think you need diaper for your smelling mouth. miserable old man !!!!!!

Bitch
I have seeing Europe and North America
Stone age mentality
Yale prof Asian wife cook
I am glad you know, You know I am a grandpa meaning we are not age mate
You knowing we are not age mate and You very disrespectful that
Made it very clear to me you have not be raise right
Lack complete moral values
I sorry for the man that will call you wife