donnie:


All this type of advice. Please my brother, watch and pray. A wife that can cheat on you can kill you.

The men that killed thier wives, have they not ever cheated on their wives ?

Chydo63:
my brother leave story, most women will be loyal and faithful if you're loaded. There is very little you can do if she's sharing the bills with you. The rate of infidelity today amongst married women is alarming. I spoke to some & they all told me they can't forgo their rich exes, because they help them financially whenever oga is broke. And all know the economy of Naija today so, tell me...!

Lies!!!!
The sugar mummies that usually dole out wands of cash to young guys are married to rich husbands yet they cheat.





WOMEN naturally are INSATIABLE

Brachaa:


Lol... Why me?

I haven't heard from him either. I'm suspecting he was banned or something. Can't say for sure.

Ok. Happy Sunday. Are you in church already

the fact that you have kids is the only thing there if not ... I for advice you to free her ..so I would say focus on your kids and also remember NO HUMAN BEING is worth your happiness!

also without knowing you I can guess you are a predictable guy ... daddy daddy good guy guy ....women hate that shit... become unpredictable for a change ..

women are fixers they love to fix things ... give her something to fix... start having female friends ... don't cheat but hang with em ... come home and leave unexpectedly with a " I am coming " cruise and even if she asks where you dey go just keep saying the same shit haha .. it starts to mess with her mind and she go dey try figure you out .. you son give am work be that ......

kai this ogogoro strong oooo 43 %

when where was I ... my brother the lord is your strong.

This is why serious relationship and marriage seems very a tough one for me. I'm a straightforward guy with a thinking mind; I can't play such games. I don't have that time — I mean, instead of focusing my mind on bringing my y interesting ideas to fruition, I would be trying to figure out what she's up to and which act to put up. That'll be a total waste of my grey matter that should be used in creating value.

I didn't come to this world to play women's game. I'm here to add value to the world. Women have made marriage a necessary evil because of the society we live in.

Magun option is the best to put everything to rest. More so the next woman that will come to your life SHALL never repeat such an act . Go ahead and magun her.

lolz

well on serious note , i am yet to see a very successful rich man who has enough time to be stalking and monitoring his wife .

Palema007:
Your foundation was faulty. While dating/courting she got intimate with a guy, you guys settled and got married. Did you make sure she cut off the guy before marrying her?

See, while I try as much as possible to be forgiving, two things I don't take is betrayal and cheating. While I may let go of the former with precautions i cant the latter. Cheats don't change! Let no one tell you otherwise, except the person gives his or her life to Christ sha.

So, you can make valid point in this life? God be praised.

Daughterboard:
Install on her Yoruba Anti-adultery Device (YAAD).

You mean a
M-ake
A-dulteress
G-um
U-nto
N-icely

onatisi:
lolz

well on serious note , i am yet to see a very successful rich man who has enough time to be stalking and monitoring his wife .

I can't like your post enough. Like seriously? Making her the subject of my equation. Too much time.

You and your wife had a problem as married couples and she started seeing another man?

And you say the call it off after both of you resolved your issues?


And you're here telling me that infidelity is what you can't tolerate


...when you have been tolerating INFIDELITY all these while.


Hmm some guys d try oo

Hmmm!
The root cause is to be tackled not the effects, that is to say you are to properly consider this in a larger perspective.
If you do confront her or catch her red-handed, the root cause will still give her room to continue in the alleged extra marital affairs.
However, if you can consider living together with her either in Lagos or your place of work, then the problem is 99% solved.
Staying apart is the cause and being suspicious is the effect.
You have less risky scenario when you live together as family.
My humble advice.

boss, since i got married i have NEVER NEVER LOOKED THROUGH THE PHONE OF My WIFE OR EVEN BOTHERED ANSWERING HER PHONE ,if it rings from now till tomorrow i wont pick it . i am just too damm busy that even 24hours is not enough for me at times. that is why i always laugh when i hear or read about men crying or lamenting about their wives infidelity .

what many men dont understand is , if man is rich ,successful and powerful ,it is the mans wife that will be monitoring him , stalking him and making sure that no other woman snatches away her husband , but when it the other way round then definitely such a man really does have serious problems,
Get busy ,get rich , get successful and see how women will willingly submit themselves to you wholly and totally

studentofTruth:


I can't like your post enough. Like seriously? Making her the subject of my equation. Too much time.

all humans cheat in one way or the other,even u.just do dna and stop sniffing around unless u dont want long and peaceful life

KristaPretty:


Okay o.

Krista you use style wicked in your own wayy o...

That option 3 fit make her commit suicide because of the guilt nw

give her enough nacks that she will be cripple



please can you explain the meaning of this to me?

KristaPretty:


A woman, any problem??

Nice one from you...

RPG2020:




Trust kill you there ���

Go and die your die, I no follow you come.
ISI nnama,
Home breaker!

owo8184:
I am a young married man with 2 kids. The marriage is 6yrs now. Due to the situation of the country, we’ve not been staying together. I hustle in a University environment in one of the states in Southwest while she works as a freelance for some organizations in Lagos.

I normally come home (Lagos) on monthly basis. But during this lockdown, I have been in Lagos with my family.

Prior to our marriage, there is this guy she met when we had some misunderstanding. They started a date but later called it off when we settled. She didn’t give me the details but based on what I read on her phone back then, I knew they made out together. The said guy is now in Port Harcourt but I am aware he normally comes to Lagos.

Just today, I heard my wife giving someone a description of where they will meet somewhere in Agege (where she uses as her office). I was curious to know the person. I didn’t ask her because she would find a story to cover up. I found a way to check her phone and saw that her ex - the said guy was the one who called. May I say that we have fought over this guy several times even before and after our marriage. She won’t let this guy be in her past. She’s either calling the guy or the guy is calling her. This time, I chose not to raise my voice but monitor her closely. She left home for work today. I may not be able to give details but every surrounding clue indicates that my wife has a date today. She returned home and I found a way to check her whatsapp but alas she has deleted her chats with the guy.

Just this night again, she received a call from another man asking her when she would come to his office. She once told me that the man was asking her out. In all these, I want to believe my wife is up to something. Infidelity is the last I would accept in this marriage.

Should I confront her with all these observations? Please, I am confused.

See how this story is paining men on this forum.
Same people who proudly and irresponsibly indulge in adultery with no remorse.
They can't swallow a tiny pill of what they serve.
Clowns!


@OP...
My advice to you
1.Find out what you do that makes your wife go out to meet other men.

2.Look into your character and change the bad parts.Be soft spoken,love her and talk to her calmly.

3. Wear clean clothes,change your underwear regularly. Wear good perfumes.Stop wearing Adieu Papa,APC/PDP T-Shirt..

4.Stop checking your wife's phone.
Stay away from her phone.
What you don't know cannot kill you.

5.Use protection, if you must have sex with her.

6.Pray! Pray!! Pray!!!
There is also power in a praying man.
Fast and Pray against strange men that want to destroy your home.
God hates divorce.

7.Hustle and improve your finances.

And most importantly..

8..Watch WAR ROOM(the male version).

Hope this helps.



PS: This is the same advice that women with adulterous husbands are given.
What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

My brother.... a cheating woman is always a cheating woman, are sure the kids are even yours?
Alright, to justify your curiosity, look for a way and catch her in the act. After that, if you really love her, talk things out with her, she may change but she don't, sent her away to continue with her infidelity.

abi ooo, both male and female we all cheat at one time or the other , i doubt if we can find 5% couples who have not cheated on one.
But one thing i have noticed is that when a man cheats on his wife and he is not scared nor afraid of his wife knowing then such woman needs to know she is a total failure , no man will ever want his rich successful wife to know about his extra marital affairs because he wont want to lose her. the same too goes for a woman too, when a woman is not afraid and is careless to let her husband know about her affairs , then such a man should know that he is a failure in one aspect or the other .
Women are the most discreet when it comes to concealing things and if a woman gives a slip up, it isnt carelessness , she intentionally did it . it is obvious from the op story that the woman isnt interested or happy in the marriage , she wants out, if she wants out , just let her go , if you dont want her to go then accept her behavior and move on

josite:
all humans cheat in one way or the other,even u.just do dna and stop sniffing around unless u dont want long and peaceful life

lilyheaven:

Go and die your die, I no follow you come.
ISI nnama,
Home breaker!

You need d!ck not Christ

RPG2020:



You need d!ck not Christ

You de sell d!ck?

onatisi:
boss, since i got married i have NEVER NEVER LOOKED THROUGH THE PHONE OF My WIFE OR EVEN BOTHERED ANSWERING HER PHONE ,if it rings from now till tomorrow i wont pick it . i am just too damm busy that even 24hours is not enough for me at times. that is why i always laugh when i hear or read about men crying or lamenting about their wives infidelity .

what many men dont understand is , if man is rich ,successful and powerful ,it is the mans wife that will be monitoring him , stalking him and making sure that no other woman snatches away her husband , but when it the other way round then definitely such a man really does have serious problems,
Get busy ,get rich , get successful and see how women will willingly submit themselves to you wholly and totally

Yeah bro. That's what some people don't understand.

owo8184:


I

Kindly reply your pm

Get enough and clear evidences first. Then, inform her parents

Don't fight over woman but let her know that u know all she is doing and be a man to move on with ur life

Have I seen Anybody more Senseless than You Today ?.....No......Bring Your Wife Make I lash......Mr Open Relationship

JerryLekki:
Uncle sir, You are in an open marriage. There is nothing wrong with it. Except your notion that you must not accept it. Probably programmed into you.


Oya, come and swear that since you married, you have not had something with another person. Especially in that university environment that you claim to hustle. Bros, come off it. There are things bigger than your ego

owo8184:
I am a young married man with 2 kids. The marriage is 6yrs now. Due to the situation of the country, we’ve not been staying together. I hustle in a University environment in one of the states in Southwest while she works as a freelance for some organizations in Lagos.

I normally come home (Lagos) on monthly basis. But during this lockdown, I have been in Lagos with my family.

Prior to our marriage, there is this guy she met when we had some misunderstanding. They started a date but later called it off when we settled. She didn’t give me the details but based on what I read on her phone back then, I knew they made out together. The said guy is now in Port Harcourt but I am aware he normally comes to Lagos.

Just today, I heard my wife giving someone a description of where they will meet somewhere in Agege (where she uses as her office). I was curious to know the person. I didn’t ask her because she would find a story to cover up. I found a way to check her phone and saw that her ex - the said guy was the one who called. May I say that we have fought over this guy several times even before and after our marriage. She won’t let this guy be in her past. She’s either calling the guy or the guy is calling her. This time, I chose not to raise my voice but monitor her closely. She left home for work today. I may not be able to give details but every surrounding clue indicates that my wife has a date today. She returned home and I found a way to check her whatsapp but alas she has deleted her chats with the guy.

Just this night again, she received a call from another man asking her when she would come to his office. She once told me that the man was asking her out. In all these, I want to believe my wife is up to something. Infidelity is the last I would accept in this marriage.

Should I confront her with all these observations? Please, I am confused.

You are very funny! You came to a site full of secondary students and unmarried seeking for advice about your marital life. I think you better look elsewhere. More so, you are working yourself up on your own suspicion and unfounded evidence, is she also motoring you while your are far away? I will advice you to stop checking your wife phone. Your responsibility is to love your wife and provide for the family, leave the rest for God.

Op, call and tell her ( not ask) that you know what she's been up to and any more suspicious moves, you'll call a family meeting and take a decision before she infects you with a disease. Be blunt and stop shaking like a jelly fish.
I support the above 100%. Be decisive before you become a victim

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KristaPretty:
Find a way to catch her red handed, let her know that she has been caught in the act.

Secondly this needs a deep conversation between you both. During your discussion questions like what you are not doing right should be asked from you to her or what you are lacking that she needs you to work on in order to be better. Remember women are easily fooled by words they are told, try to complement her often give her enough nacks that she will be cripple. In general just converse with her heart to heart when there is a good mood in the house or at night.

Finally, please use magun on her so that she and any man she straffs will gum together
This is not a joking matter and infidelity should never be tolerated in Marriage. This is to save you from unnecessary heartaches and diseases!
If she is tired it's better for her to leave so she can do whatever ahe wants without hiding or giving you emotional
torture. she cannot eat her cake and have it!

I gave you options, chose one. Option 3 is fastest. no time.

You better act fast before she is brainwashed like baby fish and conive with her lover to kill you or take your money and render you useless.

Deep conversation huh? This is the very irritating nonsense I hate most.

As a married lady, she knows the dos and don'ts.

What deep conversation? As if the lady did not know that she is committing a sacrilege.

Oga, I advise you to calmly divorce, take custody of your kids and move on.

Let her go and marry those men.

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You gave wonderful options but magun is an evil even though what she is doing is not right.


Plz dont encourage the use of magun for people, it is witchcraft too. Even i, myself wont do such to a cheating wife. I rather divorce her simple and go my way.










quote author=KristaPretty post=93547334]Find a way to catch her red handed, let her know that she has been caught in the act.

Secondly this needs a deep conversation between you both. During your discussion questions like what you are not doing right should be asked from you to her or what you are lacking that she needs you to work on in order to be better. Remember women are easily fooled by words they are told, try to complement her often give her enough nacks that she will be cripple. In general just converse with her heart to heart when there is a good mood in the house or at night.

Finally, please use magun on her so that she and any man she straffs will gum together
This is not a joking matter and infidelity should never be tolerated in Marriage. This is to save you from unnecessary heartaches and diseases!
If she is tired it's better for her to leave so she can do whatever ahe wants without hiding or giving you emotional
torture. she cannot eat her cake and have it!

I gave you options, chose one. Option 3 is fastest. no time.

You better act fast before she is brainwashed like baby fish and conive with her lover to kill you or take your money and render you useless.[/quote]

You should also start cheating so the game will balance up. If she cheat again , you bring your own into the house and lay her on your matrimonial bed and keep knacking. She will then stop.