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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by pansophist(m): 10:43pm On Sep 09, 2020
The inability to optimize hypergamy due to reduction of smv is a prime reason for sudden need of settling down and faithfulness. Not maturity, and definitely not because of an innate predisposition to be faithful.

#RandomThoughts

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by seguno2: 10:53pm On Sep 09, 2020
pansophist:
The inability to optimize hypergamy due to reduction of smv is a prime reason for sudden need of settling down and faithfulness. Not maturity, and definitely not because of an innate predisposition to be faithful.

#RandomThoughts

I had to google SMV.
Interesting logic.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by pansophist(m): 11:04pm On Sep 09, 2020
In everywhere relationship, there is always a power tussle playing in the background. Women naturally are aware of it, since they are the biological prize. For men, it has to be learnt. To make sure you're on the right track, pursuing a goal that appreciates.

#RandomThoughts

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by pansophist(m): 11:06pm On Sep 09, 2020
Men play to win, women play not to loose. Men play to win by trying to score a woman in her prime even when he is not established himself and women play not to loose by trying to score men far beyond their league (eg celebs via social media).

#RandomThoughts

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by pansophist(m): 11:25pm On Sep 09, 2020
As a man continues to improve himself, he begins to notice that his commitment is not easily given to any woman, that is his power and what he brings to the table. He hoards it tightly, as women generally knows what it worth, and only a deserving woman will be worthy of it.

#RandomThoughts

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by pansophist(m): 11:33pm On Sep 09, 2020
Anytime a man approaches a woman, she automatically in high precision, filter out who is the prize. If it's her, you will be the object of her scorn, the interaction will be devoid of interest, honour, and you'll find yourself pushing to squeeze words from her constructed with shorthand. You'll find yourself compromising to retain her interest, and at the mercy of her consideration.

#RandomThoughts

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by pansophist(m): 11:40pm On Sep 09, 2020
Success building for a man is like biking uphill for years. Its hard climbing for long, but if you arrive at the top, downward acceleration is easily on autopilot. The journey is always hard, and that's why it worth it.

#RandomThoughts

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by 21cents: 11:44pm On Sep 09, 2020
pansophist:
As a man continues to improve himself, he begins to notice that his commitment is not easily given to any woman, that is his power and what he brings to the table. He hoards it tightly, as women generally knows what it worth, and only a deserving woman will be worthy of it.

#RabdomThoughts
This is so on point.
bae is fine and men dey rush her. but she knows I'm way too serious with myself and learning skills to be bothered much about anything that walks in skirt.

I do call her twice a day till she starts misbehaving not picking my calls and never returns it. because of that I reduced the calls to once in 2 days. she had to call me and asked what happened to the frequency of calls from me and my response shocked her- told her I'm too busy to be bothered about any girl and any lady I'm dating should find herself lucky cos my type isn't much out there(looks,- she got nothing on me grin.) cos she knows I can easily find a replacement to appreciate what she's playing with. na since then she get sense o.

Las Las try get like 3 girlfriend and sample the best. e get why! these ladies have numerous boyfriends and they're weighing their options for the best. the only way to keep them on their toes is by forging yourself to be amongst the best while your body language should tell her you're also looking for the best.

these ladies will never give you a chance if you don't tick boxes on their list and they're mean with it without remorse, so no lose guard. imean how girl go dey, she no learn handwork or business and she go wan dey use you wey dey hustle catch cruise? my nigga you deserve better. just dey sample her pussy then go for someone that compliments you.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by pansophist(m): 11:46pm On Sep 09, 2020
When a successful man enter his 30's, something transformative happens. That is, the power dynamic between him and women of his peers begin to change. For the women, they have a short window before their 35 years to have a family, their declining youthfulness do not easily turn heads 360 degrees like before, and the epiphany to be something substantial apart from looks becomes glaring. She have to build her career, find a partner and stabilise her path into the future. For men, he doesn't feel the rush, and it is at his disposal to settle down now or later. It is biological.

#RandomThoughts

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by pansophist(m): 11:51pm On Sep 09, 2020
21cents:
This is so on point.
bae is fine and men dey rush her. but she knows I'm way too serious with myself and learning skills to be bothered much about anything that walks in skirt.

I do call her twice a day till she starts misbehaving not picking my calls and never returns it. because of that I reduced the calls to once in 2 days. she had to call me and asked what happened to the frequency of calls from me and my response shocked her- told her I'm too busy to be bothered about any girl and any lady I'm dating should find herself lucky cos my type isn't much out there(looks,- she got nothing on me grin.) cos she knows I can easily find a replacement to appreciate what she's playing with. na since then she get sense o.

Las Las try get like 3 girlfriend and sample the best. e get why! these ladies have numerous boyfriends and they're weighing their options for the best. the only way to keep them on their toes is by forging yourself to be amongst the best while your body language should tell her you're also looking for the best.

these ladies will never give you a chance if you don't tick boxes on their list and they're mean with it without remorse, so no lose guard. imean how girl go dey, she no learn handwork or business and she go wan dey use you wey dey hustle catch cruise? my nigga you deserve better. just dey sample her pussy then go for someone that compliments you.

Your head is correct. Women are like lion, they look for weakness in your defence and if you succumb, they play you well on it without mercy. It baffles me how a man that has skills, can make money will think a woman that only show up with body is the prize.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by pansophist(m): 11:54pm On Sep 09, 2020
There is nothing less valuable than a young man, and there is nothing more valuable than a young woman. A young woman is valued than a young man, but a older man is valued than an older woman.

#RandomThoughts

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kalatium(m): 11:59pm On Sep 09, 2020
pansophist:
There is nothing less valuable than a young man, and there is nothing more valuable than a young woman. Society value young women, and do not value young men. Conversely, society values older men and not older women. Unless she is married and can tap from the status of her partner.

#RandomThoughts
Seconded

A man in his early 20's Experiences the worst years of his life. No job, no enough money, desrespected by ladies, broke shamed and ignored.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by pansophist(m): 12:00am On Sep 10, 2020
If you're a young man below 29 years old, I empathise and feel your pain. Its a really dark place to be.

Youre more likely to be romantically invincible, broke, still live with your parents and trying to make sense with navigating the unpredictability of the new world.

I can only assure you that it will get better from there, and time is your best friend. Its nature's compensation to you. It balances in the end. Just keep toiling.

#RandomThoughts

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by pansophist(m): 12:12am On Sep 10, 2020
Sometime i genuinely feel sorry for the realities of women. At the age of 14, the average human brain is still far from developed and still considered a kid. But it is at that age they start becoming sexually attractive, with tsunamis of attention from men that will most likely impair their ability to mature mentally. Many undergo a stage known medically as being "mentally arrested", living in delusion and seeing reality through the prism of their fantasy.

For it is after the loss of attractiveness, many realise the need to develop a personality and skills, and are faced with the bad decisions they have taken in the past. They begin to become invisible to the same men that worship the ground they walk on, and at that point, they can understand the male perspective. The saddest part is that the invisibility starts too soon, and lasts longer.

#RandomThoughts

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by 21cents: 12:19am On Sep 10, 2020
CHIMAOBICCU:
pls is proper as a Redpill kneeling to propose to a girl
And how can u have a young girl who is still a virgin u intend marrying in future
I would rather have my balls shattered than to kneel for the vagina people. especially If I figure she's not even a virgin, I start seeing her as a used product and not taking her too serious.

If there's one thing I don't compromise about myself- respect and that includes seeing myself as a king. have you ever seen a king kneel for any woman? it's unheard of.

my girl Always kneel Everytime she visits me. i didn't ask her to do that and this doesnt mean I'm dishing too much masculinity but it's just what it is..

long story short, I can never be caught kneeling for a woman. the only women alive I kneel for are my 2 moms.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Miakellz: 2:32am On Sep 10, 2020
21cents:
I would rather have my balls shattered than to kneel for the vagina people. especially If I figure she's not even a virgin, I start seeing her as a used product and not taking her too serious.

If there's one thing I don't compromise about myself- respect and that includes seeing myself as a king. have you ever seen a king kneel for any woman? it's unheard of.

my girl Always kneel Everytime she visits me. i didn't ask her to do that and this doesnt mean I'm dishing too much masculinity but it's just what it is..

long story short, I can never be caught kneeling for a woman. the only women alive I kneel for are my 2 moms.
grin
21cents:
I would rather have my balls shattered than to kneel for the vagina people. especially If I figure she's not even a virgin, I start seeing her as a used product and not taking her too serious.

If there's one thing I don't compromise about myself- respect and that includes seeing myself as a king. have you ever seen a king kneel for any woman? it's unheard of.

my girl Always kneel Everytime she visits me. i didn't ask her to do that and this doesnt mean I'm dishing too much masculinity but it's just what it is..

long story short, I can never be caught kneeling for a woman. the only women alive I kneel for are my 2 moms.
lmfaooo.... wahala wear wig oo. but honestly man, bring your ego down a bit. its way too glaring.

Secondly! I find it really hilarious that a female in this modern age would kneel down for a guy! lmfao, talk about doormat and from the way you explain it, you take so much pride in it that to you it is now an achievement.... Ridiculous!

Lastly! You see a non-virgin female as a used product and yourself as not talk about double standards! unless you want to claim to be a virgin.

Guy, E no bad if you wan be Alpha o but you tryna ridicule d opposite sex in d most ridiculous way ever just to prove that you're something just shows you're not it! lmfao, you still dey learn. I gbadu your first post on this thread but this second one, no just add up.


Real kings don't need to downgrade or drag their subjects down the mud before they prove their self importance or value. Try lower your ego and learn one or two from bros pansophist. Peace!

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by 21cents: 5:54am On Sep 10, 2020
Miakellz:
grin lmfaooo.... wahala wear wig oo. but honestly man, bring your ego down a bit. its way too glaring.

Secondly! I find it really hilarious that a female in this modern age would kneel down for a guy! lmfao, talk about doormat and from the way you explain it, you take so much pride in it that to you it is now an achievement.... Ridiculous!

Lastly! You see a non-virgin female as a used product and yourself as not talk about double standards! unless you want to claim to be a virgin.

Guy, E no bad if you wan be Alpha o but you tryna ridicule d opposite sex in d most ridiculous way ever just to prove that you're something just shows you're not it! lmfao, you still dey learn. I gbadu your first post on this thread but this second one, no just add up.


Real kings don't need to downgrade or drag their subjects down the mud before they prove their self importance or value. Try lower your ego and learn one or two from bros pansophist. Peace!
hmm.. see as I just dey look you grin
lemme just resist the urge to shalaye grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dannnn: 7:31am On Sep 10, 2020
Before you render "unnecessary kindness" to women, always ask yourself this: If it was a man, would I have helped? If your answer is No! Please do not show kindness.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dannnn: 7:40am On Sep 10, 2020
I want to believe most redpillers are open-minded folks, and if you are, please try and read "The Satanic Witch" by Anton Lavey.
The Human Animal has two sides; The ONE it shows to the world and The ONE it carries within itself.
Your interest should be in the one it is hiding from the world(THE OTHER SIDE, THE DARK SIDE).

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 7:55am On Sep 10, 2020
Dannnn:
I want to believe most redpillers are open-minded folks, and if you are, please try and read "The Satanic Witch" by Anton Lavey.
The Human Animal has two sides; The ONE it shows to the world and The ONE it carries within itself.
Your interest should be in the one it is hiding from the world(THE OTHER SIDE, THE DARK SIDE).
Ok
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:27am On Sep 10, 2020
The dreams, goals, ambitions, qualitative pursuits, etc you choose to neglect, chasing women based on your seductive skills, PUA proficiency, game efficacy will haunt you together with the women - with a schadenfreude feeling - at the finishing line.

Women don't deal with losers. Even God place a woman in Eden after a successful creation.

After exhausting your essence on them, they will hang on to another. This is called "branch swinging," a character display mostly observe in monkeys and apes. Be wise! Women want to be seen among winners, and they always wait at the finishing line. Losers disgusts women!

Don't sacrifice long term goals for short term dopamine pleasures. If you must pleasure, follow the Pareto principle: 80/20.

To a man, women and pleasures are complements. Protect your integrity and reputation with all diligence. And always strive to be a winner; winning not for the sake of women but for the building of men and promotion of civilization.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dannnn: 8:43am On Sep 10, 2020
Don't treat people as you want to be treated, treat them as they treat you!

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dannnn: 9:00am On Sep 10, 2020
Women are like electrical wires carrying currents, if you don't know the right wire to touch and the right protection to use; family.... e go SHOCK YOU WELLA WELLA...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by glimpse33(m): 9:37am On Sep 10, 2020
Skepticus:


Its good you are offering to help but it's deeper than just reading red pill literature. He must have had a background knowledge of the red pill hanging around here. He'll need to do much more than reading to cure the "chaser" mentality. I've seen young men learn about the red pill, a little bit of game. Without frame, still thirsty and desperate, they rush into chasing women till they end up simping and embarrassing themselves before women worse than they did before learning the red pill.

In my opinion, I would suggest it to guys who have the mentality of the bolded, that they go their "own way" for a while to rid themselves of the chaser/thirst/desperate element, improving on other part of their lives, to build confidence, becoming the prize before getting back into the dating/gaming scene. It's quite difficult as you are re-programming your mind. It's like detoxification. I've seen it work.

MGTOW is the new movement!

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 10:24am On Sep 10, 2020
This is the conspiracy against simps. Simps and betas will still argue foolishly.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 10:41am On Sep 10, 2020
Hypergamy! Hypergamy!! Hypergamy!!!

They want to eat their cake and have it back using the "sex or body counts" double standard. They fail to know that the value of a woman depletes as her notch counts increases.

Hahahahahaha.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by COOL10(m): 11:46am On Sep 10, 2020
Skepticus:


Its good you are offering to help but it's deeper than just reading red pill literature. He must have had a background knowledge of the red pill hanging around here. He'll need to do much more than reading to cure the "chaser" mentality. I've seen young men learn about the red pill, a little bit of game. Without frame, still thirsty and desperate, they rush into chasing women till they end up simping and embarrassing themselves before women worse than they did before learning the red pill.

In my opinion, I would suggest it to guys who have the mentality of the bolded, that they go their "own way" for a while to rid themselves of the chaser/thirst/desperate element, improving on other part of their lives, to build confidence, becoming the prize before getting back into the dating/gaming scene. It's quite difficult as you are re-programming your mind. It's like detoxification. I've seen it work.
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MGTOW teachings have given me a deeper understanding of women and human nature as a whole compared to the first time I heard of the red pill. There're still times I find myself wanting to simp but I have much better control now. I thirst for more everyday. The deeper/darker,the better smiley

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Regex: 12:09pm On Sep 10, 2020
CaveAdullam:
Hypergamy! Hypergamy!! Hypergamy!!!

They want to eat their cake and have it back using the "sex or body counts" double standard. They fail to know that the value of a woman depletes as her notch counts increases.

Hahahahahaha.

I just read the whole thing. And I realized my ex just kept me for when she's tired with her fuvk buddies and the person she wanted to be with disappointed.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by COOL10(m): 12:20pm On Sep 10, 2020
anastasius:

I used to be a male feminist. I've learnt the hard way. Naija women are leeches
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'Male' and 'feminist', two words that should never be placed side by side.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by COOL10(m): 1:01pm On Sep 10, 2020
CaveAdullam:
This is the conspiracy against simps. Simps and betas will still argue foolishly.

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It's funny how their justification lies in what they're originally predisposed to,yet they so shamelessly project their manipulative tendencies to men just to avoid feeling guilty.

Madness angry

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by olaboy1: 10:37pm On Sep 10, 2020
I live in the most feminist nation on earth and yet many of the so called feminist women are taking several years of sick leave from work due to stress related problems, so much for “we are strong and independent women”.

Women need to match their words with actions if they want anyone to take them serious.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by geedot: 11:23pm On Sep 10, 2020
A lady told a friend of mine she can't date him because he's not a practising christian. Lol, But this same lady is telling me[with a muslim name], that religion doesn't really matter compared to the affection between the two individuals.

Pansophist & Ubunja et al. were probably right here. She chose me[sent me request on facebook].
Moral of the short story: A lady that makes excuses is a lady that doesn't deserve your time!!!

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