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Deborah98:
not few, a good number of them, what are you even driving at, that women are beggers or what,I hate seeing ladies like you bash their fellow women,spits... don't quote me again...

VirginDiva:
men also do the same thing, come up with unrealistic standards...
If a guy who has a body count of over 100 has preferances can come out to state that he wants a virgin bride and throws shade at nonvirgins, why can't a broke woman do the same and state that she wan't someone financially capable? Like I stated earlier, people are hypocrites. If you want to marry a virgin, why should a non virgin get mad when you reject her? If a woman wants a man who would cater to her every need, why get mad if you don't qualify?
Her life, her game, her rules. You got yours too.

MrBrownJay1:
Stating your preference isn't the issues, EXPECTNG broke men to not approach you (as if they can read your mind) is the problem here.

Just like you have the right to want only rich men to approach you, broke men have the right to approach whoever they desire... And you shouldn't expect them to stay in their financial lane (while you don't stay in yours)

stanliwise:
I rather remain a priest than marry any woman who nothing but a handbag.
That being said, women of higher classes make life a bit difficult o. I have friend that went such lane o. Money for wedding nor be here o. Ordinary traditional self, the Porscheness ehn fit break person neck.

thebosstrevor1:
was the guy from the same class?

VirginDiva:
my point has been; if you know a woman is materialistic and you can't afford her, the leave her alone. If you didn't know and you get rejected, accept that she has the right to turn you down for such a flimsy thing. No need to rant abusing all women or generalizing 'All women are hoes'. So just have crazy standards. It's their choice and sadly, RIGHT!

Saintmary:
Men have been rejecting women for flat ass and rigidity in bed since 18601859, nobody died.
So, what are we talking about?

MrBrownJay1:
- How can a man know you are materialistic, unless he approaches you?!

- How can you know a man can "afford" you unless he approaches you and you get to know him?

- any woman who values a man solely upon how much money he can offer her is indeed a hoe... And as much as everyone is entitled to their own lifestyle, let's call a spade A SPADE!

ZINIBANKS:
If you're rich you'll attract rich Guy's
If you're poor you'll attract poor Guy's
CASE CLOSED

VirginDiva:
you can't identify a woman who's materialistic? Her dressing, mannerism, you can't figure out if a woman's a slayqueen or not... Really?
you still don't get it! This isn't a 'gold digging' guide for the ladies but and advice for the guys. If you can't afford a particular woman, swallow your pride and let go.
agreed. Hoe or not, it's her life to set whatever standard she chooses and her right to reject guys who don't qualify.
If I want guys 6feet tall, it's my choice. If you're 4feet and you know my preferance, why approach me?

VirginDiva:
In reality however, women attract rich guys by merely looking good.

VirginDiva:
you can't identify a woman who's materialistic? Her dressing, mannerism, you can't figure out if a woman's a slayqueen or not... Really?

you still don't get it! This isn't a 'gold digging' guide for the ladies but and advice for the guys. If you can't afford a particular woman, swallow your pride and let go.

agreed. Hoe or not, it's her life to set whatever standard she chooses and her right to reject guys who don't qualify.
If I want guys 6feet tall, it's my choice. If you're 4feet and you know my preferance, why approach me?

stanliwise:
Work hard by doing genuine work o
Not sending nude images to big boys and posting nude pics on inmessage or Olosho app.

Deborah98:
no it won't....women are independent when it comes to making Money than men.

thebosstrevor1:
what i am talking about is simple

a woman of lower class even though working and earning, shouldn't think of dating a man of higher economic status. unfortunately that is the dream of these type of women, looking for a helper.

Deborah98:
am not reflecting my values on others I still maintain my ground there are good, industrious and independent ladies out there who don't need men to survive please...

VirginDiva:
Sorry. I'm just realistic, okay? Women are perfect. None are interested in what a man can offer. They are all resourceful. People like you hate the truth, accept it. That's the first step of 'change'. 80% of women are materialistic!

Saintmary:
You can only attract your type

stanliwise:
Mtchewww

Saintmary:
Like I said somewhere, you can take a post at every event center to screen each intending bride.
Guys are choosing their own brides logically, but don't want ladies to use their senses when making their own choices.
Nonsense and double standards!

thebosstrevor1:
it is not double standard but the reality is most women choice of men are base not on reality but on fantasy that is why many of them become single for ever, going from churches to mountains and praying for the right one in their old age

If a woman wants a wealthy man then she herself needs to be from a wealthy background, nowadays no man want to save a woman.

For all those ladies looking for rich men to marry because of their expensive taste especially those from poor home, where will they see those men, they dont move in their circle.

Saintmary:
Lazy complainant spotted!

MrBrownJay1:
Being materialistic has nothing to do wth the way you dress, nor is written on your forehead.

The only way a man will know if he is a match with a woman is by approaching her and getting to know her... Unless you expect men to have crystal balls so they can evaluate women without approaching/conversing with them. Many women that may look just like you, have different preferences and wouldn't sell themselves to the highest bidder.... So the only way to know who is who is by approaching women.

Again, will it be written on your forehead that you like guys 6ft tall? Is that what you shout at the top of your lungs (like Agege bread sellers) while you walk down the street?! How would a man know your preferences unless he approaches you?!

thebosstrevor1:
i am not even complaining , i am just saying reality, You can't have your cake and eat it

if you want wealthy man you also have to bring something to the table

The worst thing a man can ever do is trying to liftup a poor girl and her family

VirginDiva:
Make money and stop complaining about an expensive woman's taste. Better still, go for women in your financial category.
My honest opinion!

VirginDiva:
Men yield to their urges, have careless sex as often as they please. Because of their gender, later get married to a virgin.
Women can be dead broke and because of their beauty, get married to a multi_milloniare.
Don't be naive. Life's a game... The wise eat their cake and everyone else's.

konkonbilo:
Typical naija gal mentality. Very lazy sets of ladies.

thebosstrevor1:
funny enough, a virgin prefer an experienced man

How may women do you know personally that have gotten married to a multi millionaires.