Crownstar01:
What year was that? Because 15k in this present regime is so outrageous. It will take a near miracle for someone to survive unless the person is involved in illegalities.

2014
The wife was doing business too

dave4rella:


2014
The wife was doing business too

2014 was okay when the lifeless one hasn't become the President.

Naso e dey start.
After a year of the marriage what we will be hearing is 'I've not eaten since morning and my children are hungry'
Please if you want to marry him go ahead but don't think about bringing any child to this world to suffer. They didn't beg to be born.

dave4rella:


2014
The wife was doing business too

That's 6 years difference. You can't compare that with 2020

proclinician:


You're very very unfortunate. Shouldn't the guy worry about marrying a woman that's too lazy to earn a living? He's even patient enough to calm ur silly nerves with reassuring words left for me, someone like me has nothing absolutely to do with a liability like your ass. Get the fvck off and go find a job. Guy man is earning 25k, what is your ass earning, zero. Yet your biggest worry about your nonexistent future is another persons salary shame on you.

The 6 people that gave you this 'like' are obviously stupid

Moyinoluwa35:
am 25 years and I love my fiance and we are planing to get married next year april but am scared he is earning N25,000 as salary right now but am scared about his income but he keep telling me things will get better, but I don't wanna marry and suffer please as any one been in this show before how did you work it out..

just know that apart from the regular sex u will be getting, marriage is 100% responsibility

SirMichael1:
The 6 people that gave you this 'like' are obviously stupid

Sorry, and you are? A$$hole

Moyinoluwa35:
please if you don't have any reasonable information stay off my post,

Oya aggressive mode don start, typical of Nairaland girls

Moyinoluwa35:
I see how frustrated you are, and beside I told you am currently waiting for my nysc this as stop me from working, the covid19 issue holding me, you guys always claim the alpha but deep down you are broke, humble yourself please

See nonsense broke woman like you dey yarn.

vikkimimi:
[s]Why are most guys on this forum so unfortunate...eh?
She came here for advice and not the trash you all are dishing on here. it's obvious most of you that commented trash are broke and pained that's why simple advice without abuse can't come out from ya'll mouths....if you've got nothing meaningful to say why not shut your mouth, she's obviously not the reason for your frustration.
Why will a guy earning 25k per month want to get married in the first place, abi him no get sense?
Isn't he aware she's waiting for NYSC and currently not working before coming up with such proposal, abi he's blind not to see she's still about to start a life...

Bae please tell oga to remove the thought of marriage from his head first biko, he should use the saved up money to start the business first while you on the other hand can look for something doing first if you can o, because the present day Naija nobody go send you till you serve finish.
Just Keep dating, and prolly you'll be serving then...shine your eyes because tomorrow when e go red for you all of this nairaland guys no go dey there... you guys should build up a little more before talking marriage because ' HAD I KNOWN IS ALWAYS AT LAST'[/s]

Nysc doesn't stop someone from earning money

Moyinoluwa35:
I just graduated am currently doing nothing waiting for my nysc, am really scared what if I accept is marriage, how we gonna feed and pay house rent

You sound like you dependant on him. This your question is funny. So you have no hope of finding a job or learning a skill. Na the guy go everything?


Guys make na use na head o

Moyinoluwa35:
am not a liability, have never for once ask him for money, but am scared of the future, I just graduated and waiting for my nysc

Since you have no ambition ahead of you. Don't marry abi na by force ni. Go and hustle.

proclinician:
You earn zero currently and your situation is not your worries. You're very concerned about the 25k earned about another person and not the zero you earn. Pocohantas is not advising the men fairly.

We don sabi her type. Had it been she has something doing or even earn More. It have been better

Moyinoluwa35:
am 25 years and I love my fiance and we are planing to get married next year april but am scared he is earning N25,000 as salary right now but am scared about his income but he keep telling me things will get better, but I don't wanna marry and suffer please as any one been in this show before how did you work it out..

Moyinoluwa35:
am 25 years and I love my fiance and we are planing to get married next year april but am scared he is earning N25,000 as salary right now but am scared about his income but he keep telling me things will get better, but I don't wanna marry and suffer please as any one been in this show before how did you work it out..

U homebase females make me sick.
So u r 35 & U scared of his income..abi? ..u old cargo. So u looking for young man on nairaland? Sad
Must he pay yor school fees? Must he feed u? Must he buy yor parents car? Must he buy u cloth?
That's y I hate black womens, u gold digger nonnsencse people. U women put so much pressure on a guy he ends up committing suicise. Shame u all for existing!(no oofense)

Moyinoluwa35:
am 25 years and I love my fiance and we are planing to get married next year april but am scared he is earning N25,000 as salary right now but am scared about his income but he keep telling me things will get better, but I don't wanna marry and suffer please as any one been in this show before how did you work it out..

every1 Don talk legit 4 here, ds a new age and shii, 25k won't do jack shii, Wat u all do not premeditate beforehand be say wedding fit dh funded by una parents na d life after the fcking ceremony matters, after the ceremony, una parents go dh out feelers out there make ups born pikin and all tha, na 4 there wahala go start, with 24k income and no possible hope of u getting a job due to corona and all, I'll make una take tinz slow,

Moyinoluwa35:
I just graduated am currently doing nothing waiting for my nysc, am really scared what if I accept is marriage, how we gonna feed and pay house rent

Please don't accept his proposal. Leave him so that he can find a better lady to marry .Since you are a fresh graduate ,just wait for those guys with jeeps and 2021 Benz to come and marry you .To slap you just dey hungry me .You better go and look for work to add to his income

Tango123:


You can sell pure water while waiting for nysc. Get off ur backside and do something

U can be a sales girl

U are sitting doing nothing, waitijg for nysc that may not happen until God knows when. How do u recharge ur phone. Probably ur so called boyfriend. Bleeding him dry already. Tufuakwa

U are a definition of liability

He is doing u a favour by even staying with u as his girlfriend. Get off ur backside and do a business u can take with u anywhere, even to nysc, and in that way u can look after yourself.

I am sorry for ny harsh words. But u need to grow up and be an adult and be able to care for yourself

You are very correct. She saying she doesn't want to suffer and she has nothing doing ..Where is that cane let me flog her buttocks ?

proclinician:
You earn zero currently and your situation is not your worries. You're very concerned about the 25k earned about another person and not the zero you earn. Pocohantas is not advising the men fairly.

Moyinoluwa35:
please if you don't have any reasonable information stay off my post,

moyin have vex

Moyinoluwa35:
am 25 years and I love my fiance and we are planing to get married next year april but am scared he is earning N25,000 as salary right now but am scared about his income but he keep telling me things will get better, but I don't wanna marry and suffer please as any one been in this show before how did you work it out..

Are you still single?