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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by titusmichael27(m): 5:04pm On Sep 15, 2020
“The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.” ― Edmund Burke. All that you need to understand is that a bitter fountain can never supply a good water neither does a good fountain gives a bitter water. Any thing evil is evil, and when evil is conceived the result is dead. You have no idea what await your family on the morrow. Tell your dad and caution him to pretend as if nothing happen until he sees them on it. You have to greet the man and show him respect to avoid anything funny. I don't wanna read about you in the hospital here please, so be careful while going through this. May the Spirit of God lead you on this. AMen.

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Chimeluv(f): 5:05pm On Sep 15, 2020
Whether you tell him or not he will eventually find out undecided
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by TGMISKY(m): 5:05pm On Sep 15, 2020
No real proof, so keep shut
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by PrinceGallant: 5:07pm On Sep 15, 2020
linearity:
So, what evidence do you have to report to your Dad now?

All yo u have now is, you met the man one day in your house and he was behaving ‘one kind’ and you stop greeting him and he did not complain and after that, he stop coming to your house....then there is the other heresay from someone else, who observe that they are too close...

Put yourself in your father’s and receiving the above report from a child you have sent to school to at least be educated and become literate, wouldn’t you be disappointed in that child?

You made me laugh.
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Bahamas95(m): 5:08pm On Sep 15, 2020
These Nigerian fathers act funny at times, if you decide to tell him now he might conclude that you are beefing your stepmom.....to make matters worse he can even tell the woman, just know say your fowl don lay cooked egg be dat. Your life will be at stake cos she won't hesitate to get rid of you.

It all depends on the bond with your father, you can decide to report her or not......Just follow your instincts.
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Obasijoe: 5:08pm On Sep 15, 2020
Leave matter for your dad to find out because if you tell him u are a target even now u think u no what is going on u are a target the woman can eliminate u. U have to be careful woman can do anything. Pretend that you don't know anything
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by alizma: 5:09pm On Sep 15, 2020
kramacc:
Hey guys, I have always had my suspicion about her and this said man, he helps my dad during his constructions where she was mostly present.
It all started when i noticed her closeness with this man, I couldn't overlook it but i kept it aside till a relative who stays at home throughout confessed to me that this man is always coming to our home most times as i was not staying at home at that period cos i was in school.

When i came back from school i noticed he was always showing up even at a point i saw him in the house, immediately he saw me i could see he was disoriented and don't know which way he was to go.

Since then I don't greet him and he didn't complain or asked me the reason which i guess he has figured the relative has told me, he then stopped showing at my house

The thing is the relative couldn't tell my dad cos he believes my dad wouldn't believe him, this is the same situation i'm in too.

I like this woman tho even as i know she doesn't really have my best interest at heart, she has kids for my father already.

I really love my father but i hate to be the one to tell him this cos i don't even know how he would react to this.
You made a mistake by given them sign that you are suspecting them. You should have been acting like mumu while working with your neighbor on how to catch them red handed.
You should have been leaving the house intentionally on those days you know the environment will be calm, e.g on market days, then you mount your neighbor as your vigilante who will contact you once there is strong reason to believe they are in the act, then you will just surface from nowhere to catch them

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Ybaby: 5:10pm On Sep 15, 2020
kramacc:
Hey guys, I have always had my suspicion about her and this said man, he helps my dad during his constructions where she was mostly present.
It all started when i noticed her closeness with this man, I couldn't overlook it but i kept it aside till a relative who stays at home throughout confessed to me that this man is always coming to our home most times as i was not staying at home at that period cos i was in school.

When i came back from school i noticed he was always showing up even at a point i saw him in the house, immediately he saw me i could see he was disoriented and don't know which way he was to go.

Since then I don't greet him and he didn't complain or asked me the reason which i guess he has figured the relative has told me, he then stopped showing at my house

The thing is the relative couldn't tell my dad cos he believes my dad wouldn't believe him, this is the same situation i'm in too.

I like this woman tho even as i know she doesn't really have my best interest at heart, she has kids for my father already.

I really love my father but i hate to be the one to tell him this cos i don't even know how he would react to this.

Carry your Bible and read the story of Joseph and Potiphar' s wife once a day after 7 days decide if yoh should tell your dad
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Nobody: 5:13pm On Sep 15, 2020
kramacc:
Hey guys, I have always had my suspicion about her and this said man, he helps my dad during his constructions where she was mostly present.
It all started when i noticed her closeness with this man, I couldn't overlook it but i kept it aside till a relative who stays at home throughout confessed to me that this man is always coming to our home most times as i was not staying at home at that period cos i was in school.

When i came back from school i noticed he was always showing up even at a point i saw him in the house, immediately he saw me i could see he was disoriented and don't know which way he was to go.

Since then I don't greet him and he didn't complain or asked me the reason which i guess he has figured the relative has told me, he then stopped showing at my house

The thing is the relative couldn't tell my dad cos he believes my dad wouldn't believe him, this is the same situation i'm in too.

I like this woman tho even as i know she doesn't really have my best interest at heart, she has kids for my father already.

I really love my father but i hate to be the one to tell him this cos i don't even know how he would react to this.

Bette mind your business, it will surprise you that husband can trust their wife more than their own mother sometimes.
Don't even alert the woman except you want to die of poisoning.

Save your life first, your dad is old and would figure it out later, if he is lucky.

Or expose the case anonymously and never get involved. Or better still send an annonymous warning to the intruder

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by henribj(m): 5:13pm On Sep 15, 2020
kramacc:
Hey guys, I have always had my suspicion about her and this said man, he helps my dad during his constructions where she was mostly present.
It all started when i noticed her closeness with this man, I couldn't overlook it but i kept it aside till a relative who stays at home throughout confessed to me that this man is always coming to our home most times as i was not staying at home at that period cos i was in school.

When i came back from school i noticed he was always showing up even at a point i saw him in the house, immediately he saw me i could see he was disoriented and don't know which way he was to go.

Since then I don't greet him and he didn't complain or asked me the reason which i guess he has figured the relative has told me, he then stopped showing at my house

The thing is the relative couldn't tell my dad cos he believes my dad wouldn't believe him, this is the same situation i'm in too.

I like this woman tho even as i know she doesn't really have my best interest at heart, she has kids for my father already.

I really love my father but i hate to be the one to tell him this cos i don't even know how he would react to this.



Hello op,
I will like to believe your family is to some extent financially comfortable, no need to tell your dad anything yet, just set up CCTV cameras in the house, the type of cameras that pick sound as well, make sure they are well concealed to prevent anyone noticing them. Then pretend your going on a vacation or holiday to a friend's house or relatives house for some few days, then let the CCTV do it's work. The result is what you present to your dad, no need for long stories.
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by cray91(m): 5:15pm On Sep 15, 2020
Unless you have a video evidence of them in bed and the man doing the do by thrusting and moving his bombom up and down, don't ever, i repeat don't ever tell your dad about it

thank Me Later!
kramacc:
Hey guys, I have always had my suspicion about her and this said man, he helps my dad during his constructions where she was mostly present.
It all started when i noticed her closeness with this man, I couldn't overlook it but i kept it aside till a relative who stays at home throughout confessed to me that this man is always coming to our home most times as i was not staying at home at that period cos i was in school.

When i came back from school i noticed he was always showing up even at a point i saw him in the house, immediately he saw me i could see he was disoriented and don't know which way he was to go.

Since then I don't greet him and he didn't complain or asked me the reason which i guess he has figured the relative has told me, he then stopped showing at my house

The thing is the relative couldn't tell my dad cos he believes my dad wouldn't believe him, this is the same situation i'm in too.

I like this woman tho even as i know she doesn't really have my best interest at heart, she has kids for my father already.

I really love my father but i hate to be the one to tell him this cos i don't even know how he would react to this.
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by favour32(m): 5:19pm On Sep 15, 2020
Don't tell HIM EXCEPT you can prove it.
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Joshforeal: 5:23pm On Sep 15, 2020
amiibaby:
Mind ur biz
you're amazingly beautiful
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by JeffreyOraz(m): 5:29pm On Sep 15, 2020
Don't you watch movies, find proof like take a picture when you catch both of them kissing and send an anonymous message to your father
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by promzy555(m): 5:31pm On Sep 15, 2020
If is my tradition, by now u are a dead man... For keeping such
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by sonofElElyon: 5:32pm On Sep 15, 2020
his dad's business is his business if he's not a bastard...

DaddyRochie1642:
That's how people get poisoned and Killed for not Minding their BUSINESS grin

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by ORIAYO70(m): 5:37pm On Sep 15, 2020
kramacc:
Hey guys, I have always had my suspicion about her and this said man, he helps my dad during his constructions where she was mostly present.
It all started when i noticed her closeness with this man, I couldn't overlook it but i kept it aside till a relative who stays at home throughout confessed to me that this man is always coming to our home most times as i was not staying at home at that period cos i was in school.




When i came back from school i noticed he was always showing up even at a point i saw him in the house, immediately he saw me i could see he was disoriented and don't know which way he was to go.




Since then I don't greet him and he didn't complain or asked me the reason wh


ich i guess he has figured the relative has told me, he then stopped showing at my house

The thing is the relative couldn't tell my dad cos he believes my dad wouldn't believ

e him, this is the same situation i'm in too.

I like this woman tho even as i know she doesn't really have my best interest at heart, she has kids for my father already.

I really love my father but i hate to be the on


e to tell him this cos i don't even


know how he would react to this.



Play ur mature part...

I was in same shoe about 14trs ago, when my dad work far from home, I don't live in my father's house, but anytime I came around to check my siblings she birthed to my dad...I was see this strange man... I knew they were screwing each other yet I decline telling my dad until he caught her himself... I was vindicating
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Ghostmode2two(m): 5:39pm On Sep 15, 2020
OP just behave yourself and don't become a victim.
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Xandelle: 5:39pm On Sep 15, 2020
linearity:
So, what evidence do you have to report to your Dad now?

All yo u have now is, you met the man one day in your house and he was behaving ‘one kind’ and you stop greeting him and he did not complain and after that, he stop coming to your house....then there is the other heresay from someone else, who observe that they are too close...

Put yourself in your father’s and receiving the above report from a child you have sent to school to at least be educated and become literate, wouldn’t you be disappointed in that child?

No I will not be disappointed in the child. I'll instead ask my wife what another man comes to do in my house when people are gone. You are the one that should be disappointed in yourself.
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Nobody: 5:39pm On Sep 15, 2020
Op, Mind Ur Business. No Go Do Good Wey Go Later Kill U Oo. Just Let Dem Be.
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by GraGra247(m): 5:42pm On Sep 15, 2020
kramacc:
Hey guys, I have always had my suspicion about her and this said man, he helps my dad during his constructions where she was mostly present.
It all started when i noticed her closeness with this man, I couldn't overlook it but i kept it aside till a relative who stays at home throughout confessed to me that this man is always coming to our home most times as i was not staying at home at that period cos i was in school.

When i came back from school i noticed he was always showing up even at a point i saw him in the house, immediately he saw me i could see he was disoriented and don't know which way he was to go.

Since then I don't greet him and he didn't complain or asked me the reason which i guess he has figured the relative has told me, he then stopped showing at my house

The thing is the relative couldn't tell my dad cos he believes my dad wouldn't believe him, this is the same situation i'm in too.

I like this woman tho even as i know she doesn't really have my best interest at heart, she has kids for my father already.

I really love my father but i hate to be the one to tell him this cos i don't even know how he would react to this.

Listen to wisdom. Get an already registered sim card that isn't your own sim. Text your dad anonymously and report the matter to him without giving out that its you. Tell him the name of the man and tell him not to believe you but let him observe with and find out for himself.

Tell him to be careful lest the woman find out and poison him.
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by daddytime(m): 5:45pm On Sep 15, 2020
Chii59:

Guyyyyyyy,,,, cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

Yelsss darl....? grin
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Burruchaga71(m): 5:45pm On Sep 15, 2020
If u like....
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by odimonyei: 5:46pm On Sep 15, 2020
kramacc:
Hey guys, I have always had my suspicion about her and this said man, he helps my dad during his constructions where she was mostly present.
It all started when i noticed her closeness with this man, I couldn't overlook it but i kept it aside till a relative who stays at home throughout confessed to me that this man is always coming to our home most times as i was not staying at home at that period cos i was in school.

When i came back from school i noticed he was always showing up even at a point i saw him in the house, immediately he saw me i could see he was disoriented and don't know which way he was to go.

Since then I don't greet him and he didn't complain or asked me the reason which i guess he has figured the relative has told me, he then stopped showing at my house

The thing is the relative couldn't tell my dad cos he believes my dad wouldn't believe him, this is the same situation i'm in too.

I like this woman tho even as i know she doesn't really have my best interest at heart, she has kids for my father already.

I really love my father but i hate to be the one to tell him this cos i don't even know how he would react to this.
then t then , don't tell him to avoid heart attack.
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by passiveincome01: 5:47pm On Sep 15, 2020
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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by wildikeman(m): 5:47pm On Sep 15, 2020
No need to hang around..use a secret camera and catch her..simple. Then when you have a concrete evidence. Just make up your mind to either report or keep silent. But never. I repeat...NEVER act suspicious or let her know that you know what's going on BTW her and the man
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by samwillyco1(m): 5:51pm On Sep 15, 2020
If you must tell him, have an evidence ( video evidence or photo evidence) if not you are playing with your life.
Secondly, becareful with women of such character, they can kill to cover their evil deed.
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Olatara(f): 5:59pm On Sep 15, 2020
kramacc:
Hey guys, I have always had my suspicion about her and this said man, he helps my dad during his constructions where she was mostly present.
It all started when i noticed her closeness with this man, I couldn't overlook it but i kept it aside till a relative who stays at home throughout confessed to me that this man is always coming to our home most times as i was not staying at home at that period cos i was in school.

When i came back from school i noticed he was always showing up even at a point i saw him in the house, immediately he saw me i could see he was disoriented and don't know which way he was to go.

Since then I don't greet him and he didn't complain or asked me the reason which i guess he has figured the relative has told me, he then stopped showing at my house

The thing is the relative couldn't tell my dad cos he believes my dad wouldn't believe him, this is the same situation i'm in too.

I like this woman tho even as i know she doesn't really have my best interest at heart, she has kids for my father already.

I really love my father but i hate to be the one to tell him this cos i don't even know how he would react to this.
When I was little about 10 years old or so, I caught my step mom cheating on my dad.
I didn't say anything because that woman get medi.
Now if I see her, I go just dey smile. Lol!
God so good, her kids turn out well.
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Olisehinnocent: 5:59pm On Sep 15, 2020
My step mum does the same. My dad ask me if his wife was cheating i told him that I don't know. That she may not be cheating. At the end he find out. They fight for two days and settle. Has it been that i told him, i for hear ram. I go become their enemy. Guy use ur head o. Allow ur dad to findout by himself. Don't put ur life in danger.

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Badonasty(m): 6:01pm On Sep 15, 2020
A friend of mine told me my ex was cheating on me and till now I still have this grudge against the guy....bro just keep your mouth shut
Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by Zarha: 6:01pm On Sep 15, 2020
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Re: Should I Tell My Dad About My Cheating Stepmom? by kunyeo(m): 6:04pm On Sep 15, 2020
Remember Joseph's story in the Bible! One of the scary things that may happen is - Your daddy may not believe you and in that case you have your step mum to contend with and she will totally destroy you.I grew up in a community where there were so much adultery and infidelity and what it has taught me is to learn to keep my mouth shut till date.I am over 50 now!

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